No, you've given me too much money!

[catweazle]

Twice in recent weeks I have given a masseuse  more cash than she asked for, in payment for the extra service ( once intentionally   she was  brilliant and I felt a bit flush anyway, once by accident, in the dim lighting I though a £20 was a £10).
Both times the girl has said I'd given too much and gave me back the extra.

Never happened to me before, I'd always thought that they'd just keep it, so a welcome change to usual transactions.

[Hobbit]

So what's your point? Are you saying they deserve an MBE?

[mr.bluesky]

So what's your point? Are you saying they deserve an MBE?

I think he is merely pointing out that there are decent honest service providers about. It could have been easy for her to pocket the extra cash and not say anything.  I had this once with one of my regular fbsm service providers.  Thought I gave her £40 but two £20 notes must have stuck together and paid her £60 by mistake. She texted me on my way home and told me I overpaid. She knocked it off the price of my next booking. Good to see there are some honest people left in the world  We are often quick enough to criticise poor service providers so we should give praise to the good honest ones

[catweazle]

I think he is merely pointing out that there are decent honest service providers about. It could have been easy for her to pocket the extra cash and not say anything. 

Exactly this.  I also didn't make it clear that it was two different SPs  at different establishments.

[MissWolf]

I've also refunded where too much was given and given a portion of the fee back if the booking has shortened due to an early pop when hes sure hes done or because of a call that's resulted in my client having to skidaddle.

I'm not blowing my own trumpet what I'm saying is its not as uncommon as you think, in my opinion it's nice to be nice, I'd rather refund 40 quid or point out they have overpaid byb10 or 20 and be gifted with a return visit that pocket the extra 10 or 20 quid, it's a case of thinking of the bigger picture and thinking long term.

[akauya]

So what's your point? Are you saying they deserve an MBE?

Maybe that some SPs are not the "money grabbing whores" the punters-that-hate-having-to-pay-for-sex keep bleeting on about. 

[Hobbit]

Maybe that some SPs are not the "money grabbing whores" the punters-that-hate-having-to-pay-for-sex keep bleeting on about.

It's not just that. It's also a business strategy. For example, if a customer pays you too much inadvertently and you don't tell them then afterward that customer may not return for that reason even though it was his mistake. On the other hand, if you straightaway say to the customer that they have paid too much and give back some of the money then they would appreciate that more and it would leave a positive impression, opening the door to the possibility of a return.

[RandomGuy99]

Just because it's escorting doesn't mean that normal business practices don't apply. It's always best to he honest with people. It builds an element of trust and encourages you to return or recommend.

I've sometimes had escorts give me money back if they felt they'd rushed me or done something to adversely affect the booking e.g. forget to do something at a crucial point. I told them they didn't have to, but they insisted, so I took it.   I appreciated their honesty.

[mr.bluesky]

I've also refunded where too much was given and given a portion of the fee back if the booking has shortened due to an early pop when hes sure hes done or because of a call that's resulted in my client having to skidaddle.

I'm not blowing my own trumpet what I'm saying is its not as uncommon as you think, in my opinion it's nice to be nice, I'd rather refund 40 quid or point out they have overpaid byb10 or 20 and be gifted with a return visit that pocket the extra 10 or 20 quid, it's a case of thinking of the bigger picture and thinking long term.

  exactly

[MissWolf]

This is why I and many others always count the money, in  the room and in front of the client.

I found this awkward initially but now it's second nature and if it's done in a nice way there shouldn't be an issue

I'm sure most guys would prefer that than an escort coming back from stashing the cash to declare you were short 20 quid, the element of doubt is always there then as most of you check the fee several times before going in.

[anonyorks]

I had a 45 minute booking once and I had cum after about 25 mins and then when I'd got out of the shower she gave me the difference between 45 and 30 mins back.

[Stevelondon]

Happened a couple times.
Once the SP handed me back the extra I’d given when she walked back into the room.

Another time I checked my wallet in the pub post punt and realised I’d handed over £20 too much.
I messaged the SP but she insisted I hadn’t overpaid.
My loss and hers. I knew I was right so never went back.

Also left a rather expensive watch at one girls place. She very kindly held onto it until I returned to pick it up a week or so later.

Just like there are good and punters. There will be……..

[Strawberry]

This does happen and as Miss Wolf says an upfront money check can reveal over (as well as underpayment), which can then be advised and rectified.

[daviemac]

This does happen and as Miss Wolf says an upfront money check can reveal over (as well as underpayment), which can then be advised and rectified.

I can't understand why a punter would be concerned if the SP counts the money in front of him, if I go to the supermarket and pay in cash for my shopping they don't just put it to one side to count later, they check the amount before it goes in the till. Same as any other cash transaction. 

Must be like those who put the money in an envelope, is it to disguise the fact it's paying for sex with cash?   

[RandomGuy99]

I can't understand why a punter would be concerned if the SP counts the money in front of him, if I go to the supermarket and pay in cash for my shopping they don't just put it to one side to count later, they check the amount before it goes in the till. Same as any other cash transaction. 

I agree, I prefer them to take it and count it upfront as I want them to be happy they've got the correct payment before the service begins.

[southcoastpunter]

Maybe that some SPs are not the "money grabbing whores" the punters-that-hate-having-to-pay-for-sex keep bleeting on about.

all the above comments are true - but also what akauya says - sometimes you can't help but think that some guys on here (luckily not the majority)  come across as thinking that all WG's (and SB's) are just money grabbing, liars and cheats and its nice to point out that maybe a few are but not all, and not imo the majority!

[sparkus]

I accidentally gave four 20s for an agreed 60 quid punt recently and she gave me the fourth back. Afterwards she said it'd be dumb on her part to keep it as I'd realise what I'd done later and probably hold it against her and not return.

The ultimate was when I went to a massage shop with part of the extras fee in 2 and 1 quid coins (inept change from a 20 in shop visited beforehand). She went spare and started throwing it at me (yes, it was Kelly) but also threw some of her own money at me in the process, calling me all the names under the sun. So I not only didn't end up paying her (that once) but left with about 15 quid extra.

[l4at]

WGs are just like everyone else I find…some are decent, some are out to scam you.

I remember years ago thinking I had lost my wallet in one of the soho walk ups (10 little Newport street I think). I’d left the flat and instantly ran the bell to see if I could retrieve it. The girl turned the flat over helping me to find my wallet. Turns out I stupidly had put it in a pocket in my bag which I rarely use.

I’m usually on my guard when punting, but on the whole I’m sure there are WGs who are honest.

[happyinn]

Sometimes it can be the poor English of the girl that causes the misunderstandings

[Milfman1112]

I have had overpayment returned and also money given back if a booking has finished early, they are human (despite what a minority think),
Most i am sure are honest, though there are probably some that are less honest, just like there are honest punters and there will be less honest punters.

[Bdk78]

I tried adding a tip to a Chinese SP for outstanding performance a few years ago , only for her to refuse and hand it back to me. I was shocked. Maybe the connection I felt during the punt wasn't faked after all