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Author Topic: Anyone else had this?  (Read 4587 times)

Offline punk

your AW and ukpunting uses same profile avatar :scare:, not good idea.

Offline ATMIV

I think I would probably email her back and thank her for her offer.

Explain that you enjoyed her company but didn't hit it off physically but rather than receive a refund try another visit.

Maybe the honesty of your feedback has been a shock to her and her offer is genuine - if so I reckon you'll end up having a great punt with her next time.

I think most Escorts worth their salt follow this website - makes professional sense to if they care about their reputation.

Sending her a pm suggesting another try will give you an insight into whether she takes all feedback seriously - scrutinise the tone of her reply and take it from there mate
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Offline Harribbo

I think I would probably email her back and thank her for her offer.

Explain that you enjoyed her company but didn't hit it off physically but rather than receive a refund try another visit.

Maybe the honesty of your feedback has been a shock to her and her offer is genuine - if so I reckon you'll end up having a great punt with her next time.

I think most Escorts worth their salt follow this website - makes professional sense to if they care about their reputation.

Sending her a pm suggesting another try will give you an insight into whether she takes all feedback seriously - scrutinise the tone of her reply and take it from there mate

I did reply back already with a polite message declining her off the offer, but I shal not see her again whether it was good or not. Unless she was a plan b. Don't like seeing the same girl more than once as I want to try and get through everyone lol.

Offline Harribbo

your AW and ukpunting uses same profile avatar :scare:, not good idea.

Never knew I had an aw Avitar lol.


Offline Harribbo

:D user name.  :scare:

Ahh I'm not fussed about that, they can know who I am! Lol.

Dude seriously, dont consider meeting or communicating again with her - even if shes genuine, risk is too high that she isn't. The normal rules of law that keep businesses straight dont apply to this game and ultimately you've only lost 50 quid - Im sure most on here,  including me, would say we have lost more on bad punts then that.  You did right to decline,  Sir

I've had a look at her profile and the feedback you left her and her other feedback. In my opinion she seems a genuine nice girl. If you didn't click sexually there's no point in going back for a freebie. If you really want to make a point you could meet her on her own in a public place (taking sensible safety precautions) and get your refund. On the other hand my opinion is to walk away and draw a line under it.

Offline Dani

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Its probably genuine however her reasons are surely not.   She gives you a refund and then hopes you post about it her so your negative then becomes a positive review.  What about all the guys that are not on forums that book by phone that also get a neutral or negative booking.  I bet she doesn't offer them their money back as they don't post reviews on here.

If she was genuinely sorry and she knew the booking was awkward and she felt bad about it why did she not offer a full or partial refund at the time?
It is much better to end a booking that is not going well and offer some money back if the awkwardness is down to him and all of it if it is down to her. 
Not offering at the time meant she didn't care how bad you felt on leaving.  She only felt bad when she saw your review here and realised it may affect her income a little. 

Apologies and/or refunds after a neutral or negative review are a bit late in my book.  Why not give them at the time if you know things are nto going well.   Like she admitted she knew the booking was not going well at the time so she should have made amends then

Offline Harribbo

Its probably genuine however her reasons are surely not.   She gives you a refund and then hopes you post about it her so your negative then becomes a positive review.  What about all the guys that are not on forums that book by phone that also get a neutral or negative booking.  I bet she doesn't offer them their money back as they don't post reviews on here.

If she was genuinely sorry and she knew the booking was awkward and she felt bad about it why did she not offer a full or partial refund at the time?
It is much better to end a booking that is not going well and offer some money back if the awkwardness is down to him and all of it if it is down to her. 
Not offering at the time meant she didn't care how bad you felt on leaving.  She only felt bad when she saw your review here and realised it may affect her income a little. 

Apologies and/or refunds after a neutral or negative review are a bit late in my book.  Why not give them at the time if you know things are nto going well.   Like she admitted she knew the booking was not going well at the time so she should have made amends then

I think you may of just hit the nail on the head.

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I think most Escorts worth their salt follow this website - makes professional sense to if they care about their reputation.


I was surprised to read this comment by ATMIV, which suggests that the Reviews are available to view by non-members.  I must confess that I had been under the impression that (as with most sites of this nature) the Reviews and the Forum were purely the views and opinions of members for the benefit of other members, and only available to members.  Am I wrong in this assumption, and if I am just how much of the content of the site is available to non-members?

I must confess that I had been under the impression that (as with most sites of this nature) the Reviews and the Forum were purely the views and opinions of members for the benefit of other members, and only available to members.  Am I wrong in this assumption, and if I am just how much of the content of the site is available to non-members?

I think only the Off Topic forum is members only. I think the rest is visible to the whole world.

Offline Malvolio

Only the off-topic section and AdultWork Guide are exclusively available to members.

Offline SirFrank

Fuck that for a game of soldiers. You can never be too paranoid in this game
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Offline ATMIV

From what I have seen punters and escorts alike can be members of this site. So long as no UKP rules are breached that doesn't cause a problem with the administrators. And as a member either punter or escort you can pm each other.

This is a punters website but it cannot stop an escort following or making coo meant - which is quite right provided the escort member is legit -  and not touting - their input is most useful and valuable
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Offline Daffodil

I'd go and collect the cash. Public place and all that. I don't think the risks are too great.

At least then we know one way or the other, rather than all this speculation. If she is genuine you could argue this thread has made her look much worse, will people insinuating this and that.

Offline suziesex

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I am an independent and this was/still is a genuine offer. I naively didn't see how it could be construed as an attempt to screw Harribo over, or steal money from him or worse, but please be assured that absolutely wasn't/isn't my intention!

Yes, reading his neutral review here did prompt me to get in touch and offer him a refund. And, yes I realise that I should have done this at the time of the booking. As  has already been stated, the booking felt a bit awkward and while I did try my best to make it a better experience, I should have spoken about it to Harribo at the time, been more direct and offered him a refund. Reading his review about it it on here in detail did make me feel uncomfortable because I knew I hadn't dealt with it in the right way, which is why I got in touch with him. I can understand how it can be interpreted as being cynical, but I certainly wasn't expecting Harribo to comment about it on here. The way I see it, I am providing a service and someone wasn't happy with said service, so I am trying to put it right, albeit a bit late. 


Well that's put the cat amongst the pigeons! We can all go for round 2 comments.. lol!

I must say that if I were offered a refund on all my punts that were less than perfect I would be a rich man again !
« Last Edit: August 21, 2014, 11:59:12 AM by tantric talents »

Offline Harribbo

Well that's put the cat amongst the pigeons! We can all go for round 2 comments.. lol!

I must say that if I were offered a refund on all my punts that were less than perfect I would be a rich man again !

Sure has lol. :lol:

Offline punk

I am an independent and this was/still is a genuine offer. I naively didn't see how it could be construed as an attempt to screw Harribo over, or steal money from him or worse, but please be assured that absolutely wasn't/isn't my intention!

Yes, reading his neutral review here did prompt me to get in touch and offer him a refund. And, yes I realise that I should have done this at the time of the booking. As  has already been stated, the booking felt a bit awkward and while I did try my best to make it a better experience, I should have spoken about it to Harribo at the time, been more direct and offered him a refund. Reading his review about it it on here in detail did make me feel uncomfortable because I knew I hadn't dealt with it in the right way, which is why I got in touch with him. I can understand how it can be interpreted as being cynical, but I certainly wasn't expecting Harribo to comment about it on here. The way I see it, I am providing a service and someone wasn't happy with said service, so I am trying to put it right, albeit a bit late.

thanks for the clear up, if every wg seemed to be as honest as you, than life would be much easier.

Its probably genuine however her reasons are surely not.   She gives you a refund and then hopes you post about it her so your negative then becomes a positive review.  What about all the guys that are not on forums that book by phone that also get a neutral or negative booking.  I bet she doesn't offer them their money back as they don't post reviews on here.

If she was genuinely sorry and she knew the booking was awkward and she felt bad about it why did she not offer a full or partial refund at the time?
It is much better to end a booking that is not going well and offer some money back if the awkwardness is down to him and all of it if it is down to her. 
Not offering at the time meant she didn't care how bad you felt on leaving.  She only felt bad when she saw your review here and realised it may affect her income a little. 

Apologies and/or refunds after a neutral or negative review are a bit late in my book.  Why not give them at the time if you know things are nto going well.   Like she admitted she knew the booking was not going well at the time so she should have made amends then

You are assuming a lot about someone you don't know and a situation you weren't present at. Too much black and white thinking to be a useful post imo.

Offline seeker

It's only £50 put it down to experience. ...And move on .

Offline punk

I am an independent and this was/still is a genuine offer. I naively didn't see how it could be construed as an attempt to screw Harribo over, or steal money from him or worse, but please be assured that absolutely wasn't/isn't my intention!

Yes, reading his neutral review here did prompt me to get in touch and offer him a refund. And, yes I realise that I should have done this at the time of the booking. As  has already been stated, the booking felt a bit awkward and while I did try my best to make it a better experience, I should have spoken about it to Harribo at the time, been more direct and offered him a refund. Reading his review about it it on here in detail did make me feel uncomfortable because I knew I hadn't dealt with it in the right way, which is why I got in touch with him. I can understand how it can be interpreted as being cynical, but I certainly wasn't expecting Harribo to comment about it on here. The way I see it, I am providing a service and someone wasn't happy with said service, so I am trying to put it right, albeit a bit late.

one question, why did you decide on this course of action? After the review was posted?

she does seem genuine - if you read AW she even disputes one of the Positive Feedbacks!!!

Offline SirFrank

she does seem genuine - if you read AW she even disputes one of the Positive Feedbacks!!!

Yes have to agree.  I'm even more surprised to see that harribo has two positive feedbacks! I imagined to see feedback like 'he spent the entire meet talking in tongues'. In fairness sometimes there's no chemistry and that can often be a two way thing. Sometimes it just doesn't click. I tend to only leave reviews if I've had a good or bad experience. If it was so so I wouldn't leave any feedback at all. If this particular punt had happened to me, especially given the apparent subsequent effort to rectify the situation, I'd write the money off and move on
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