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Author Topic: Married punters?  (Read 3670 times)

Offline jgillis

I thinking about taking the plunge. I love my wife but really wanna try it once at least. Maybe even spice up our stale love life.

Any married punters here? Can you successfully keep it separate from you home life? How does it overlap for people?
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Offline xerxes69

I've found not telling anyone a useful tactic

Online Jimmyredcab



Any married punters here?



 :D :lol: :D :lol: :D :lol:

Try reading through previous posts, you will see the paranoia regarding punting phones and where to hide them.   

I Found it easy as i HATED MY BITCH WIFE lol. But now i am divorced it doesnt matter!

Offline smiths



 :D :lol: :D :lol: :D :lol:

Try reading through previous posts, you will see the paranoia regarding punting phones and where to hide them.   

Its not paranoia, its making sure a punter with a partner doesnt get caught out by her. Again posting something you havent a clue about. :rolleyes:

Offline a10

I've found not telling anyone a useful tactic

 :thumbsup:  :sarcastic:

Discretion cuts both ways

Offline sam55

I thinking about taking the plunge. I love my wife but really wanna try it once at least. Maybe even spice up our stale love life.

Any married punters here? Can you successfully keep it separate from you home life? How does it overlap for people?

I wouldn't tell the missus - not at first anyway.  :rolleyes:

Offline sam55

Its not paranoia, its making sure a punter with a partner doesnt get caught out by her. Again posting something you havent a clue about. :rolleyes:

True
It's only paranoia in the same way as wearing a seat belt or crash helmet or having house insurance or making sure the electricity is off when you rewire a socket - it's self preservation!

Offline doc14

I wouldn't tell the missus - not at first anyway.  :rolleyes:

What not even on the honeymoon? (then hold on and enjoy the  :wacko:ride)

Online Jimmyredcab

True
It's only paranoia in the same way as wearing a seat belt or crash helmet or having house insurance or making sure the electricity is off when you rewire a socket - it's self preservation!

How about not punting if you love your wife/partner.     :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Offline doc14

Yes married, been punting for 14 years married for 7. Obviously never mentioned it to the OH.

I thinking about taking the plunge. I love my wife but really wanna try it once at least.

Once you step over the line there is no going back. Punting rarely happens just once, ask anyone here  :hi:

In my case, I started punting because my wife had lost all interest in sex.  Once she actually told me that I should "look elsewhere" for it... and I did.  Though I can't just assume that she really would be OK with that, it's best never to make that assumption, just keep it secret.

In any case, there's absolutely no way that she would approve of me paying for it!  We are not exactly wealthy.  But she never comments about the fact that I've stopped pestering her for sex, she probably assumes I'm shagging some bored housewife.

It's not too difficult to keep it separate from your "real" life.  Use a false name, and an unregistered or secondhand mobile phone (or simcard), and obviously never invite an escort to your own house even if you know your wife will be away (search for those who offer "incalls" at their own premises, or hotels they have booked).  Evenings and weekends are likely to be problematic for you, but you can use annual leave to book escorts at times when you're supposed to be at work, or after work on a weekday when you're "working late".

Offline The happy one

First don't put where you live. Same town unless a large place

Second and this is a biggie. Don't punt with some one you know

Decide what you are looking for

Age
Looks
Services

I started by looking for a girl in low 20s blonde slim and would do anal

Two guesses what my wife looks like and enjoys
Thought I would go a couple of times get it out my system

9 years later and more cash than I care to think about i am trying to sort out three more punts before wife comes back from holiday

IT IS NEVER A ONE OFF.
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Offline Toshiba



It will never be a one off mate

Its fairly easy to hide from the wife easier thsn an affair but beware, nasty bugs can be caught and think twice( which you wont) about the fall out if you were to "catch" something

Getting a sti is fairly rare if you cover up but never get complacent

Seems like you are ready to go so if its what you want be careful and choose wisely




Offline CBPaul

1. Get a punting phone - loads of threads on them here.
2. Don't punt on your own doorstep.
3. Don't go straight home after a punt if your OH is going to be there.
4. Have an excuse for being out of area, away from work or whatever.
5. Drive and park carefully, don't pick up tickets.
6. Be careful of unusual smells from shower gels, massage oils etc.
7. Get your punting cash together, be careful if you have joint ban accounts.
8. If you're prone to being as guilty as a puppy sitting next to a pile of poo this probably isn't for you.
9. Unless you see a bad one it is unlikely to be a one off.
10. Punting doesn't mean you don't love your wife / OH, you have to be pretty much guilt free though. 

Offline shagbambi


It will never be a one off mate

Could not agree more.  Once you start you never stop. Think carefully before you start.  Some guys struggle with the guilt, before you factor in cost and the risk of bringing home an STD.  It depends on your make up and only you will know the answer to that.

Offline Dodo

How about not punting if you love your wife/partner.     :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
Raises the question.......can you punt and love your wife !!
Banning reason: Making false claims against moderation

Offline Taggart

1. Get a punting phone - loads of threads on them here.
2. Don't punt on your own doorstep.
3. Don't go straight home after a punt if your OH is going to be there.
4. Have an excuse for being out of area, away from work or whatever.
5. Drive and park carefully, don't pick up tickets.
6. Be careful of unusual smells from shower gels, massage oils etc.
7. Get your punting cash together, be careful if you have joint ban accounts.
8. If you're prone to being as guilty as a puppy sitting next to a pile of poo this probably isn't for you.
9. Unless you see a bad one it is unlikely to be a one off.
10. Punting doesn't mean you don't love your wife / OH, you have to be pretty much guilt free though.

Good list.

May I add displaying unusual behaviour, like being moody (guilt), or a sudden change in appearance/personal hygiene, being helpful and doing chores (creates suspicion), not using a sat nav for directions unless you can delete history, tell tale mark in undies (sorry!), and most importantly, having a plausible excuse for your 'absence'.

Mrs T works 10 till 4, which makes my window of opportunity less risky, as I am out and about seeing clients in the day.

Offline Dodo

1. Get a punting phone - loads of threads on them here.
2. Don't punt on your own doorstep.
3. Don't go straight home after a punt if your OH is going to be there.
4. Have an excuse for being out of area, away from work or whatever.
5. Drive and park carefully, don't pick up tickets.
6. Be careful of unusual smells from shower gels, massage oils etc.
7. Get your punting cash together, be careful if you have joint ban accounts.
8. If you're prone to being as guilty as a puppy sitting next to a pile of poo this probably isn't for you.
9. Unless you see a bad one it is unlikely to be a one off.
10. Punting doesn't mean you don't love your wife / OH, you have to be pretty much guilt free though.

Plus......
11. watch what you do with your parking receipts
12. think about where you use cash machines or shop if the OH has access to your bank statements
13. I am not 100% sold on the punting phone. I tried it and it just raised suspicion ..... Yes, I know should keep it well hidden but that is a risk in itself.
« Last Edit: August 18, 2014, 11:26:14 AM by Aspley »
Banning reason: Making false claims against moderation

re: #13 not sure on the punting phone.

have a legitimate reason for a second phone. I have carried a second phone for years, company issue. What OH doesn't know is all work calls are auto-forwarded to my personal phone and I can swap in a punting sim if necessary.

Offline smiths

re: #13 not sure on the punting phone.

have a legitimate reason for a second phone. I have carried a second phone for years, company issue. What OH doesn't know is all work calls are auto-forwarded to my personal phone and I can swap in a punting sim if necessary.

Exactly, just use a punting sim for those who feel they cant hide a second phone.

Offline smiths

Raises the question.......can you punt and love your wife !!

Yes troll, i can punt and still love my partner. I punt for sex and have a relationship for everything else.

Offline smiths

How about not punting if you love your wife/partner.     :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

You posted very similar to this recently. Whether a punter chooses to cheat on his wife/partner is up to him. IF he chooses to like me its then a case of ensuring i am not caught out which what you see as paranoia is being ultra careful to me and never getting complacent.

I have always punting whether in a relationship or not and being selfish want my cake and to eat it. I want and desire a variety of women to fuck so punting offers ME the easiest way of getting that.


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