Sorry I’ve been quiet on this. I appreciate everyone’s feedback. Firstly, it was not my intention to start a thread for it to flare up. Given the atmosphere within this thread, I took a step back. Secondly, I appreciate all of the supportive comments I received from within the thread and privately. Thirdly, I know that I may not be popular with some members. My beginning here did not start well. I held my hand up and apologised for any offence caused. I’m from the school of thought where if a person apologises that everyone moves on. I understand some members may not accept that apology. For that I ask if you can forgive me for my past errors. I’ve learnt from that and following the rules. I’ve lost count, think I’m on number four, I know I may have breached the rules for preferring to hear from SPs. Sorry. Finally, was this a fantasy playing out. This is why I started a thread, I wanted to see other people’s views. If I’m their view it was a fantasy playing out, I take that. Maybe it was. Im not good at assessing my own self and rely on others to do that. And I appreciate that 100%.
With that aside. This is what happened. The SP asked me (finally - I didn’t have the balls to ask) But asked that I be patient as they are going through a divorce, moving out, and to wait until they move out (not sure why I switched pronouns but am at work so in work mode but is a she) and found a place of their own. Looking at next week. I said I was happy to wait.
That’s where we are.
Again, thanks for the responses. I am sorry if I offended it was unintentional.
If truth be told, I felt better mentally after starting the thread and my thoughts were more clearer.
In real life, I’m good as giving advice and support to people. I aim to transfer that to this forum. It’s a good skill to have but sometimes I can’t do it for myself. Hence the reaching out.
Sorry for the long post. Thanks for bearing with me 👍🏼
Happy punting but don’t forget…Christmas is round the corner 👍🏼