Have you ever fallen in love with a WG?

[Doc Holliday]

I really am quite confused....

You said on another thread that
Twenty years ago I visited Jakarta in Indonesia. At the time it was 100,000 rupiah or ten pounds, two rounds, one hour.

But in this post it's the
This WG has helped me to understand my body more and understand what it likes. First time in 40 years.

But you also fell for a wg in 2015 (you don't learn easily) cos you then say What was I thinking? No way a 18 year old will fall for a 30 year old.

So if you were 30 in 2015 you were in Indonesia in 2000 aged 15, wow you had an early start with wg's as well as a job, I'm assuming you had a job over there as your ex colleagues are the ones who send you videos they take of wgs without their consent.
However your now understanding after 40 years what your body likes, you age fast too as you should be no more that 37 by your 2015 age unless of course all of this is a load of bollocks.

If you are going to tell stories for likes and attention get your ducks in a row

Miss Marple lives 

They always come unstuck with the detail

[Stevelondon]

If you ever do fall in love with a hooker, the best way to snap out of it is to remember that most of us on UKP have probably either come in her mouth, or at the very least she has sucked our cocks with a smile on her face telling us how special we are and how she enjoys our cock.

My point is that, if you think you have a connection, then you don't. It's an act on her part to make money because at the end of the day that's all they want.

😂😂😂.   I always find it amusing when blokes think down on SP’s because of the work they do. Always forgetting we the punter have been where other punters have been. 😂

Me…….. no never fallen in love but have made friends with several over the years. They are after all. Just the same as you and me.
Mate of mine married a SP. More convenience though than love. She left him for another and lives more than happily quite well off.

[IAmNotFamous]

Still means you have an active part in covertly filming service providers and that makes you very dodgy.

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Not really. I never asked for it. And is it in my gift to tell friends off publicly?

[IAmNotFamous]

I really am quite confused....

You said on another thread that
Twenty years ago I visited Jakarta in Indonesia. At the time it was 100,000 rupiah or ten pounds, two rounds, one hour.

But in this post it's the
This WG has helped me to understand my body more and understand what it likes. First time in 40 years.

But you also fell for a wg in 2015 (you don't learn easily) cos you then say What was I thinking? No way a 18 year old will fall for a 30 year old.

So if you were 30 in 2015 you were in Indonesia in 2000 aged 15, wow you had an early start with wg's as well as a job, I'm assuming you had a job over there as your ex colleagues are the ones who send you videos they take of wgs without their consent.
However your now understanding after 40 years what your body likes, you age fast too as you should be no more that 37 by your 2015 age unless of course all of this is a load of bollocks.

If you are going to tell stories for likes and attention get your ducks in a row

I wonder how many users tell the full truth on this forum? The only untruth I have made is with age.

[IAmNotFamous]

Why am I being picked on?

Please close my account and refund money. Thaks

[daviemac]

Not really. I never asked for it. And is it in my gift to tell friends off publicly?

the more you post the more dodgy you look, you are backtracking now because you didn't get the reaction you were expecting and I don't believe for one minute that you don't share your own videos with your mates.

It looks to me like you are another one who has the totally wrong idea about this site and thinks things like covertly filming bookings and sharing the video is acceptable, it isn't.

[chatbite]

I wonder how many users tell the full truth on this forum? The only untruth I have made is with age.

The irony of admitting you're a liar and then expecting people to take your word that you only lie about some parts of your story is quite palpable. Why lie at all? Just be accurate with what you say and leave out the parts that are bullshit. It's not rocket science.

Please close my account and refund money. Thaks

I suspect asking for the manager wont get you very far...

[IAmNotFamous]

Say what you want to say about me.

Life’s to short.

Happy punting.

[daviemac]

I always recommend new members have a good look around the site and get a feel of what the place is all about, see what's acceptable and what isn't.

[IAmNotFamous]

I always recommend new members have a good look around the site and get a feel of what the place is all about, see what's acceptable and what isn't.

But I’ve been accused of doing something (covertly taping encounters) that I have never ever done in my life.

I’ve already admitted to viewing material other people have made. If that makes me guilty, then hands up I’m guilty.

At the end of the day, I’m on this forum just to see what’s out there in terms of services.

We are all here for the same thing.

I’m on this forum to share my experience - granted checking other threads might prevent repeated threads.

Yet I’m being picked apart for lying about my age (who doesn’t?) when all I want to do is share and read other people’s experience in an industry we all share a common interest in 👍🏼

[lillythesavage]

Agreed, good post.  Even if your personal experience with WGs is that they are heartless money grabbing machines that remains only your experience of that small number.  In any case if you enter each interaction with that mindset then it is self fulfilling, that is what you will see.

Of course it is wise to be cautious as many WGs are happy to take what they can - but in my view there are a number of genuinely good women out there working in the sector.  Certainly one or two I have met that if my circumstances were different I would open to getting to know better!  (A feeling that I suspect would not have been reciprocated!)

Just another stating their own misery on a thread  .

You are dealing with human beings, so you never know if it would be reciprocated unless you ask  .

It takes all sorts to make the world go round, some have no problem sharing and some cannot handle it at all. 

[Hobbit]

Well that is a great generalisation  , there are posts in this short thread that say you are wrong.

In your mind selling sex stops someone being a human being with feelings and emotions and money takes over their life, in every case? 

You have no idea how the mind works of any individual, punter or hooker, why they do what they do and can only speak for yourself.

Where did I say they were not human or had no feelings? You, sir, are creating a concoction and I would suggest you take up chemistry or become a chef.

If you read clearly what I said then you will see that I did not say that. What you are doing is projecting.

[daviemac]

But I’ve been accused of doing something (covertly taping encounters) that I have never ever done in my life.

I’ve already admitted to viewing material other people have made. If that makes me guilty, then hands up I’m guilty.

At the end of the day, I’m on this forum just to see what’s out there in terms of services.

We are all here for the same thing.

I’m on this forum to share my experience - granted checking other threads might prevent repeated threads.

Yet I’m being picked apart for lying about my age (who doesn’t?) when all I want to do is share and read other people’s experience in an industry we all share a common interest in 👍🏼

Please do not send me personal messages, whatever I do as a moderator on this forum is done on the threads openly for all members to see, with the exception of queries regarding rules etc, I do not deal with anything 'behind closed doors'.

[southcoastpunter]

Where did I say they were not human or had no feelings? You, sir, are creating a concoction and I would suggest you take up chemistry or become a chef.

If you read clearly what I said then you will see that I did not say that. What you are doing is projecting.

what you did say Hobbitt is very clear -

My point is that, if you think you have a connection, then you don't. It's an act on her part to make money because at the end of the day that's all they want.

a very sweeping generalisation of WG's. Many, perhaps most may fit your description but not all. Personally i have never fallen in love or had "feeling" for a WG but i did lose a regular about 6 or so years ago because she fell in love with a client, gave up and married him. So it can happen - as some others have also experienced.

[king tarzan]

Just lust thrust payment option ticked 👊👊👊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊👊👊👊🥊🥊🥊


Other than that fools love

[Whiteknight]

I have a slight confession to make. I think I have fallen for one because I can’t stop thinking about this person. And I keep replaying our encounters in my head. They were signs from our encounters that it’s a different service to other customers.

Been seeing this person straight five times and haven’t seen any other WG (effectively I’ve made myself exclusive). Each visit we do different things and experiment. No longer the sex of getting it out of the system but more what she and I wants.

Problem is I live in London (90 minutes by train) and the person I’ve been seeing lives in Brighton. But this WG has opened my eyes to a whole new world. This WG has helped me to understand my body more and understand what it likes. First time in 40 years.

I know it can’t go on. So have lied by saying I won’t be around for the next five weeks owing to travelling abroad. Knowing me, I can see myself returning in five weeks time.

Sad I know, but I’ve googled emotional attachment syndrome and I tick the boxes. I struggle to focus at work thinking about this person. I also struggle to sleep because I keep replaying the encounters.

I have it bad lol. Help me out guys. I’m thinking of seeing a therapist to see if they can offer advice.

Oh so you have fallen for a WG because she provided extremely good services and made you feel very special.

What makes you think that you are receiving different services to other customers????

Did she provide services not listed on her profile, like BB, CIM and Swallow?

Has she been messaging you regularly after a booking?

Stop seeing her, take a break and see other escorts if you must.

[Hobbit]

what you did say Hobbitt is very clear -


a very sweeping generalisation of WG's. Many, perhaps most may fit your description but not all. Personally i have never fallen in love or had "feeling" for a WG but i did lose a regular about 6 or so years ago because she fell in love with a client, gave up and married him. So it can happen - as some others have also experienced.

Certainly, not all, and I didn't say all. But a lot definitely! I personally would never fall for a hooker as I don't find them to be marriage material.

[Stevelondon]

Certainly, not all, and I didn't say all. But a lot definitely! I personally would never fall for a hooker as I don't find them to be marriage material.

OMG…….. are there women out there who are marriage material. 😂. If so…… what is it exactly. ?

Who was it sang that song lyric,
“What’s love gotta do with it” 😂

Cheers Hobbit. Cheered me up no end. 👍🏻

[Stevelondon]

Why am I being picked on?

Please close my account and refund money. Thaks

Don’t be a big girls blouse. Your not being picked on. Your being given advise by people in the know and spoken too like an adult by everyone else.
If you stay then get used to the place and it will reward you no end.

[Hobbit]

OMG…….. are there women out there who are marriage material. 😂. If so…… what is it exactly. ?

Who was it sang that song lyric,
“What’s love gotta do with it” 😂

Cheers Hobbit. Cheered me up no end. 👍🏻

Exactly for once I agree with you. Marriage material women are few and far between.

[tynetunnel]

I wonder how many users tell the full truth on this forum? The only untruth I have made is with age.

This also may be and of itself, an untruth 

[JD1]

Love no, EAS yes.

Got attached and had a very inappropriate relationship with the first SP I saw, fucked up my life.

I don’t do feelings anymore for professional or civilians.

Onwards and upwards.

[Stevelondon]

Exactly for once I agree with you. Marriage material women are few and far between.

YOU agree with me. !!!!

Oh fuck. Just when I thought I was writing sensibly.

[lillythesavage]

YOU agree with me. !!!!

Oh fuck. Just when I thought I was writing sensibly.

What exactly makes a women marriage material?  Child bearing hips    Still a virgin? 

There is no such thing, it just happens when two people hit it off and that can happen anywhere, anytime.

To keep it on topic, even on a punt, as stated in this thread, and probably on the others.

Been married twice, still am, but I have no recall of thinking, hmmm, this one is marriage material, the first was a shotgun job, the second because she was bisexual  , and I ran out of excuses not to  .

2 wives, 3 big expensive weddings, one divorce, another in the pipeline, would have done it again a few years back if religion did not get in the way, but never ever looked at a woman as marriage material  .

The concept is alien, as is guys deciding they want to get married while not dating  .

[lillythesavage]

Stole this of the joke thread,

External Link/Members Only

[Punterperson1971]

Why am I being picked on?

Please close my account and refund money. Thaks

Ffs why don’t you man up grow a pair and move on if not log out and fuck off forever 

[Hobbit]

What exactly makes a women marriage material?  Child bearing hips    Still a virgin? 

There is no such thing, it just happens when two people hit it off and that can happen anywhere, anytime.

To keep it on topic, even on a punt, as stated in this thread, and probably on the others.

Been married twice, still am, but I have no recall of thinking, hmmm, this one is marriage material, the first was a shotgun job, the second because she was bisexual  , and I ran out of excuses not to  .

2 wives, 3 big expensive weddings, one divorce, another in the pipeline, would have done it again a few years back if religion did not get in the way, but never ever looked at a woman as marriage material  .

The concept is alien, as is guys deciding they want to get married while not dating  .

What you are referring to is chemistry and yes it is needed to have a compatible relationship. However, people change and evolve and chemistry alone is not enough to keep a marriage together. There has to be a common factor something separate from themselves to keep focused on and to help build and keep the relationship together. Some people think that a child can do that but having a child also sometimes is not enough and couples still separate.

This is why I always say "a child is not for Christmas". Always think very carefully before having children as it's a huge responsibility.

What is marriage material? Well, there are many factors for me, such as honesty, loyalty, intelligence, calmness, selflessness et cetera. But for me traditional values aren't to be found in all modern women nowadays and quite rare.

[Stevelondon]

What you are referring to is chemistry and yes it is needed to have a compatible relationship. However, people change and evolve and chemistry alone is not enough to keep a marriage together. There has to be a common factor something separate from themselves to keep focused on and to help build and keep the relationship together. Some people think that a child can do that but having a child also sometimes is not enough and couples still separate.

This is why I always say "a child is not for Christmas". Always think very carefully before having children as it's a huge responsibility.

What is marriage material? Well, there are many factors for me, such as honesty, loyalty, intelligence, calmness, selflessness et cetera. But for me traditional values aren't to be found in all modern women nowadays and quite rare.

Same can obviously be said of men.

[Hobbit]

Same can obviously be said of men.

Yes, that is true for some men also. Nevertheless, it does not negate the issue at hand.

[Stevelondon]

Yes, that is true for some men also. Nevertheless, it does not negate the issue at hand.

I’m unsure there is even an issue.
To me the term marriage material being used in this instance is nonsensical to say the least.
Both misogynistic and chauvinistic in its terminology………. Albeit on the lighter end of the spectrum. 😂

[lillythesavage]

I’m unsure there is even an issue.
To me the term marriage material being used in this instance is nonsensical to say the least.
Both misogynistic and chauvinistic in its terminology………. Albeit on the lighter end of the spectrum. 😂

Exactly, thought up by men who would not have a clue  , there is no such thing,

[Laid-back DB]

Did once years ago. We ended up together for a few months, but I moved abroad with my job and we weren't settled enough together to commit to her moving with me (for her moving to the opposite side of the world away from all her family and friends for a few years and for me it was that I wasn't sure that we would be happy together longer term - still in the early stages where we lived separate lives and had only met a few of each other's closest friends)

[Home Alone]

As I noted earlier, I've never fallen in love with an SP; what I have done is to become very good friends with an SP, who I had been seeing professionally once a month for 4 hours for just over 10 years until about 12 months ago. A number of accidents in the last couple of years had made 'doing the deed more difficult more me so, as far as she's concerned, I am now an ex-punter.

There's just over 25 years between us; and neither of us looks on the other as a matrimonial/relationship partner. What we are is very good friends who meet different needs in the other: she's much more practical than me; whereas my experience of life has hoped her to see a different side to various facets of modern life, including relationships. We meet up to celebrate the other's birthday and, of course, Christmas. And, from time to time, when there's a gig on near to where one or other of us lives, we'll meet up for a meal before going to the gig. If it ends in time for me to get home, that's what I'll do; if not I'll stay overnight at her's in what's her "work-room".

Each of us reckons that we've got the best of all worlds, in that there's no tension about being in a relationship or any jealousy on my part about her clients. They're how she earns her income; and, having been a regular contributor over the years, it would be hypocritical of me to pass any comment on how she earns her money.

[Stevelondon]

As I noted earlier, I've never fallen in love with an SP; what I have done is to become very good friends with an SP, who I had been seeing professionally once a month for 4 hours for just over 10 years until about 12 months ago. A number of accidents in the last couple of years had made 'doing the deed more difficult more me so, as far as she's concerned, I am now an ex-punter.

There's just over 25 years between us; and neither of us looks on the other as a matrimonial/relationship partner. What we are is very good friends who meet different needs in the other: she's much more practical than me; whereas my experience of life has hoped her to see a different side to various facets of modern life, including relationships. We meet up to celebrate the other's birthday and, of course, Christmas. And, from time to time, when there's a gig on near to where one or other of us lives, we'll meet up for a meal before going to the gig. If it ends in time for me to get home, that's what I'll do; if not I'll stay overnight at her's in what's her "work-room".

Each of us reckons that we've got the best of all worlds, in that there's no tension about being in a relationship or any jealousy on my part about her clients. They're how she earns her income; and, having been a regular contributor over the years, it would be hypocritical of me to pass any comment on how she earns her money.

Well put sir.
An extremely intelligent and yet sensitive way of viewing what is of course. A sensitive relationship topic.

Although not on the same time scale. I too share a similar relationship with a SP I met through punting. I think of her as an extremely good friend. (Possibly with benefits albeit oh so rarely) 😂

[IAmNotFamous]

Well put sir.
An extremely intelligent and yet sensitive way of viewing what is of course. A sensitive relationship topic.

Although not on the same time scale. I too share a similar relationship with a SP I met through punting. I think of her as an extremely good friend. (Possibly with benefits albeit oh so rarely) 😂

To be fair. A friendship is normal in my opinion. Forget about the industry. If we pivot. And applied this to other industries. It’s like being friends with a really good brick layer or decorator or personal trainer.

For me it is (and slowly becoming a was) “hey I like you, loads, I want to be more than friends”.

So it’s like me trying to get my painter or bricklayer to go with me on a date.

I’m gradually breaking from the mindset that falling in love with a painter (female) is different to falling in love with a WG (but technically no different to falling in love with a personal trainer (female)

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Nice arerangement Home Alone if it works for you and her, then that in my book fine:)..

As to 'err good child bearing hips etc isnt that the primary intent of a marridge to rear children, give them a stable background as possible?

At my offsprings secondary school 75%, yes severty five percent of the year were living apart or divorced!

[Stevelondon]

Nice arerangement Home Alone if it works for you and her, then that in my book fine:)..

As to 'err good child bearing hips etc isnt that the primary intent of a marridge to rear children, give them a stable background as possible?

At my offsprings secondary school 75%, yes severty five percent of the year were living apart or divorced!

I would certainly disagree with marriage being the primary point of procreation.
The last sentence proving that.

Personally I find the concept of marriage a tad outdated now.

[shed]

Did once years ago. We ended up together for a few months, but I moved abroad with my job and we weren't settled enough together to commit to her moving with me (for her moving to the opposite side of the world away from all her family and friends for a few years and for me it was that I wasn't sure that we would be happy together longer term - still in the early stages where we lived separate lives and had only met a few of each other's closest friends)

Have you lived abroad for 9.5 years 

[daviemac]

Have you lived abroad for 9.5 years 

From another thread but relating to the same member.

He hasn't been logging onto the site in recent years.   

[king tarzan]

So many flower hearted sissy's out there
Unbelievable!!

[Punting2022]

Do not do it.
The issue does arise when a civvie girl you love has turned into an escort.

Sex wont be the same again, what makes these girls turn to escorting when they have everything going for them in thier civvie life.
Is thier anyway to make them give it up. Or is the cash simply too good.

I have worked it out, if a girl has a high paid office job and escorts. She can earn 5k a month.

[PaulRuff]

I feel sorry for the guys who start seeing a girl whom they later find out is an escort, that must sting a bit...

[Trpy]

I feel sorry for the guys who start seeing a girl whom they later find out is an escort, that must sting a bit...

Maybe strangely, but it wouldn't worry me.   What about the converse. ......... finding that some guy she is seeing is seeing has been having it away with a group of escorts.

(sorry don't know the collective noun for a group of escorts.   Posse is a possible ?)

[Punterperson1971]

A posse of prozzies’s
A gaggle of wg’s
A pack of hookers

[akauya]

A bit off topic but... as "marriage material" was brought up I have to mention something.

I agree with those who said there is no such things a marriage material. A very old fashioned and slightly misogynistic term.

In addition I firmly believe that humans are not meant to be monogamous. I'm in a bit of a hurry so can't expand too much for now, so I will just like to recommend, for those interested in monogamy/human relationships/etc. this book "Sex at Dawn" by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá.

Every chapter I read I went... hell yeah that's exactly what I thought. Brilliant.


Back on topic....

The best way to avid EAS, or falling in love with a SW, is never visit the same SW more than twice or as I do only once. It's very rare that I see a SW more than once.

[MysteryManNo.7]

As someone who has been there, done that, dated a WG and fallen in love with her and her with me just do not do it. Relationships are complicated enough and I just cannot see a relationship with a sex worker ever working beyond some extremely niche examples.

I have even had an escort I've seen regularly who joked she had found her second husband the moment she met me ask me why on earth I would date an escort. She said the only reason it worked between her ex and her was he was a male prostitute so they felt the arrangement was fair as they were both fucking other people for work. Indeed she split with him because he wanted to move back home and start a family and she wanted to carry on fucking and sucking lol. 

I can only really see it working if you're a 'cuckold' and are turned on by the idea of your Mrs fucking other men even if it is for work and are comfortable being turned down for sex some nights as she's too tired from being ridden by other men some of whom will be more handsome, better hung and better lovers than you.

[IAmNotFamous]

A bit off topic but... as "marriage material" was brought up I have to mention something.

I agree with those who said there is no such things a marriage material. A very old fashioned and slightly misogynistic term.

In addition I firmly believe that humans are not meant to be monogamous. I'm in a bit of a hurry so can't expand too much for now, so I will just like to recommend, for those interested in monogamy/human relationships/etc. this book "Sex at Dawn" by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá.

Every chapter I read I went... hell yeah that's exactly what I thought. Brilliant.


Back on topic....

The best way to avid EAS, or falling in love with a SW, is never visit the same SW more than twice or as I do only once. It's very rare that I see a SW more than once.

I actually agree with EVERYTHING you have written.

I don’t think males are programmed to be with one person. It’s society that encourages it. I read a headline about a woman who had eight children with eight fathers. So what if she had eight children with eight fathers. She’s helping to continue the human race.

Your final paragraph - helpful tip. I thank you for sharing. I agree with you, I made the mistake of seeing the same SP on a number of occasions thinking we could try new things during each encounter.

[southcoastpunter]

as "marriage material" was brought up I have to mention ....

A very old fashioned and slightly misogynistic term.

i know you are not the only one on here to say that - but in the past, whenever i have heard "marriage material" used in a real life (ie non punting) context, its usually been women saying that about a guy!!

seeing the same WG a number of times does not necessarily mean EAS - i am not alone in having seen a regular once a week or so for a number of months and didn't get EAS

[MysteryManNo.7]

I actually agree with EVERYTHING you have written.

I don’t think males are programmed to be with one person. It’s society that encourages it. I read a headline about a woman who had eight children with eight fathers. So what if she had eight children with eight fathers. She’s helping to continue the human race.

Your final paragraph - helpful tip. I thank you for sharing. I agree with you, I made the mistake of seeing the same SP on a number of occasions thinking we could try new things during each encounter.

I sparked off a long discussion on this topic on another forum (not punting related at all, literally a forum where you could talk about anything and everything) and I was pleasantly surprised at the number of people who agreed with me. I don't want to make this a long-winded discussion but one thing punting has taught me since I began over 4 years ago is that men and women are, over our lifetimes, sexually divergent. By this I mean whether it's due to childbirth or menopause women generally lose interest in sex, though not always, for one reason or another at some point in their mid-life whereas men, again in general though not always, tend to remain sexually active and invested throughout their lives until they basically physically can no longer perform the act.

Having been in a serious relationship with a sex worker who asked me out no less and having slept with close to 100 different escorts The difference between those two relationships are night and day. The ex I reference was not the most physically attractive or most skilled lover I have had but the emotional bond we shared was a world apart from what I share with even escorts I have a friendly relationship with and like.

I feel that many people don't really understand or appreciate what marriage means, especially if you marry early that you will commit yourself solely to one person physically and emotionally. I can see myself committing to one woman emotionally, falling in love with her, starting a family, protecting and respecting her but I cannot envision myself doing so physically.

I've gone on for too long already but I'm trying to say that I feel many marriages would be much happier and healthier if a wife who had gone off sex but still loved her husband understood and allowed him to occasionally sleep with an escort understanding that it was purely a physical event which for myself it has always been. I'm grateful I experienced EAS so early in my punting career and with a woman who asked me out and with whom I had a loving relationship as it has ensured that I have not so far in 4 years since ever caught feelings for another escort. 

[Watts.E.Dunn]

There as a tribe somwhere were all the woman let all the men shag them so that no ones knows whos the father of any child so all the men join in looking after the children!