SP giving too much away. Should I tell her?

[Larry]

Interesting conundrum. If something was let slip during a meet, then it could have been accidentally. If you are going to see her again I'd just wait for her to say something similar and say something like "don't tell me, we don't actually know each other".

If you are not going to see her again, I'd leave it.id certainly be concerned that maybe she's just not a discrete person, and I try not to see people who are less than discrete. 

I'm surprised by how many people are making out like you did something wrong just looking her up. I once found a working girls civvies Facebook page including facial photos and family connections because she had her full name in her email address which was on her AW account for some reason.

I had zero interest in stalking her, I just wondered exactly how far you can get with someone's full name and an idea of where they live... turns out a lot...

As a result I chose not to meet her. Mainly because the facial photos gave away a lot...

[DrGFreeman]

The the OP, if I found an escort was inadvertently leaking private information id drop her a message to tell her to make her aware.

I think the interesting question is what level of searching for info on someone is inappropriate.
To me publicly posted info is fair game. I don't think goggling someones name or looking for their social media is weird for someone you have met socially. That's why its there.

[senordingdongs]

Some girls just don't care, I know a girl from civvie life that works as a WG and Dom, calls herself by her real name, naked photos and graphic videos all over Twitter with her using her real full name. Videos of her pegging men and even adverts of selling her own shit and the usual tea with granny posts

Her father is pretty famous around my neck of the woods so would be surprised if they don't know her profession

What does that matter, I’d imagine the chances of it being the same woman would be slim anyway. No need to be a knob about it.

[myothernameis]

What does that matter, I’d imagine the chances of it being the same woman would be slim anyway. No need to be a knob about it.

Your quoting your own post 

[webpunter]

He's talking to himself

Your quoting your own post 

[Tom1976]

How many SPs don’t do enough to cover their tracks as it were to preserve anonymity?

I’ve been with SPs who work from their family home, use their personal phone for AW which is often linked to social media and there are a great many personal email addresses on AW too.

They have a right to a private life.

[LLPunting]

The the OP, if I found an escort was inadvertently leaking private information id drop her a message to tell her to make her aware.

I think the interesting question is what level of searching for info on someone is inappropriate.
To me publicly posted info is fair game. I don't think goggling someones name or looking for their social media is weird for someone you have met socially. That's why its there.

What if that SP decided to link with your friends having seen your socials?  Don't cop out by saying I don't do socials or I don't give my real identity out because that is the fucking point we're making.  If you don't want an SP knowing who you are WHY do you think it's ok to find out about her private life, regardless what she says during a booking?

[rubric]

I've been in a few circumstances where additional confidences are shared, and generally put them out of my mind for all the reasons mentioned in this thread.

If someone overshares verbally I generally won't say anything, but I'm not going to go back. I'm not going to tell them anything because there's generally no way of knowing how they would react.

[bops909]

Met a girl. She was friendly and quite chatty, and told me quite a lot of "anonymous" information about herself.

 2 minutes of Google produced photos in the local rag of her "normal" life, her home address, real name, names of family members, real social media pages etc.
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do I have a moral duty to tell her she's inadvertently giving out too many breadcrumbs, or do I trust the fact she's an intelligent adult and would be more circumspect with someone who wasn't such a gent? I don't want to be accused of stalking!

How about the next time you see her you tell her a story of a friend of a friend you met recently, someone you didn't know, who amazed you in the pub one night by being able to find out who people were just  from their chat over a few drinks. Close enough to hint without being direct. Let her do her own  "the moral of the story is"...

if you haven't got time for a long story how about the mate who insists on putting his phone in the fridge before you talk about work.

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