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Offline Mansfieldman

Just had another shit punt.. will review another day..
paid 70 , I was there about 10mins .
It was a different girl yet I couldn’t walk away.. I’m feeling the lowest I’ve ever felt and think it’s time I went to talk to someone…. Anyone else feel like this from time to time?

Offline Mutinyonthecounty

That’s rubbish mate. I empathise with you. I had these experiences so many times in the past and knowing you’ve just spent £70 and for what ? It’s pretty rubbish mate. I then you feel bad about spending the money, and what you could’ve done with it instead. It took me years to break that cycle off behaviour. About 10 years ago, I just started punting with those girls who I trust, I know, they know me, they are honest and I knew I was going to get a good service. The downside is that you miss the excitement of seeing new girls, but I reckon the trade off is worthwhile. I reckon that in the past 10 years I’ve probably only had maybe 3 rubbish punts. For years, I just saw Chelsea Hart, Lexi Ryder, Ashley Kane and then LucyBee came along to add to the roster and then exploring the girls at directors lodge. Also paying attention to the recommendations on here and which girls had a good reputation.

Anyhow, it’s no good feeling bad about it pal. My advice is go with your gut feeling - 9 times out of 10 it will be right. And don’t be afraid to walk away if it doesn’t feel right.

Offline ZeroCount

Sorry to hear that mate. If you feel that bad I really would try to find someone to talk to about it. I know it's been said before, but punting is no substitute for ordinary human contact.

I just treat it as a fun hobby, and only indulge when I'm feeling good in general. Particularly as I'm partial to TOFTT-type punts, so my success ratio is relatively low. The gems you find make up for the bad ones, but it can feel pretty shitty when you've wasted your money on a crappy punt. So I can only imagine how bad it would feel to get that "I've wasted my money" post-punt sinking feeling on top of not feeling good in the first place.

Offline Dipper

Sound advice MOTC and ZC.

As he says… you might be better off sticking to the few proven regulars you know will be good punts.

Better still have a long break and stash the cash for other useful or fun stuff.

Sounds like you need something long term at a guess.
« Last Edit: September 08, 2022, 05:10:48 pm by Dipper »

Offline Jasonk71

Just had another shit punt.. will review another day..
paid 70 , I was there about 10mins .
It was a different girl yet I couldn’t walk away.. I’m feeling the lowest I’ve ever felt and think it’s time I went to talk to someone…. Anyone else feel like this from time to time?

More than half of your punts have been shite, according to your reviews. Maybe you should quit punting

Offline Captainhowdy666

Why wait another day for the review when you could have done it instead of this post?
Someone else may get lumbered with them without knowing they maybe crap.

Offline nbarnes

Just had another shit punt.. will review another day..
paid 70 , I was there about 10mins .
It was a different girl yet I couldn’t walk away.. I’m feeling the lowest I’ve ever felt and think it’s time I went to talk to someone…. Anyone else feel like this from time to time?

Just do the well reviewed regulars - that's why this site exists.

I appreciate people want to TOFTT or the joy of finding the next gem, but this game is too expensive and too risky.

I've not had a bad punt in 25 - thanks to this site and due diligence.

Another thing that worked for me when I was getting a bit bored with it was going to a new area (Birmingham) and trying some new things. That brought some of the joy back for it.

Offline JD1

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Pretty shit weekend for me punt wise too.

Had 2 punts booked with regulars, and was hoping to see at least one of the two girls at the top of my hit list.

One of the pre-booked got cancelled, and neither of the new girls I had my eye on seem to be available.. Should have seized the opportunity last weekend when both of them had their green lights on. :dash:

Not much else of interest coming up on AW either last night or today.

Ah well… at least there is the new season of Cobra Kai on Netflix to keep me busy. :D
« Last Edit: September 10, 2022, 08:11:18 pm by JD1 »

Offline hunkybc

Why wait another day for the review when you could have done it instead of this post?
Someone else may get lumbered with them without knowing they maybe crap.

I think in this instance the op is in a bit of a negative mental state and just after some advice.

Offline midspunter

That’s rubbish mate. I empathise with you. I had these experiences so many times in the past and knowing you’ve just spent £70 and for what ? It’s pretty rubbish mate. I then you feel bad about spending the money, and what you could’ve done with it instead. It took me years to break that cycle off behaviour. About 10 years ago, I just started punting with those girls who I trust, I know, they know me, they are honest and I knew I was going to get a good service. The downside is that you miss the excitement of seeing new girls, but I reckon the trade off is worthwhile. I reckon that in the past 10 years I’ve probably only had maybe 3 rubbish punts. For years, I just saw Chelsea Hart, Lexi Ryder, Ashley Kane and then LucyBee came along to add to the roster and then exploring the girls at directors lodge. Also paying attention to the recommendations on here and which girls had a good reputation.

Anyhow, it’s no good feeling bad about it pal. My advice is go with your gut feeling - 9 times out of 10 it will be right. And don’t be afraid to walk away if it doesn’t feel right.

I agree with this completely. Find who works for you and keep going back. Yep, there's little or no thrill of the new but the trade off is trust, discretion and satisfaction.

Offline jimbobted

Could be worse. I once paid £250 for an hour. One shit blowjob later and I was out of the door before 10 minutes was up.
I know that feeling you have.

Offline Mansfieldman

Thanks for Most of your advice and kind words. Some of you not so much …..
I don’t like to play it Safe all the time so my average of negatives will be high…
However if everyone simply stuck with there regulars this site wouldn’t be much use!
I’m a big enough boy to deal with a shit punt but this time I just felt particularly annoyed, disappointed at myself. I do see a regular rub and tug but she is on holiday, and once in a while I like to actually fuck rather than be wanked off…

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Also it seems here profile has disappeared now.

Offline JD1

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Hope you had a good weekend and are feeling a bit better?

It can be disheartening when you have a shit punt and feel like you've wasted your time and money. I like seeing new girls and the novelty of it too, but if I'm not feeling my best I tend to play it safe and stick to girls I've seen before where I know exactly what I'm getting upfront.

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Chin up matey, great words by motc I must admit stay with the proven girls on here, admittedly the experience will vary punter to punter on how the click or the mood of the girl on the given day, but you have a fighting chance.

I do a lot of research on new girls, I also do random shit and that does cost at times

Good luck matey don’t let it get you down