Can't Punt, what now?

[Bum Lovin Criminal]

Hate to be the bearer of bad news but “The day of the ‘Broken dick” is coming closer for us all, a day when even Surgery, a fist full of ‘Blueys’ and a set of

jump leads won’t raise your chap? ‘  What’s a punter to do then for his thrills and spills?  World cruise, Bowls, Safari, box set of Murder she Wrote?

or will it be a case of no 'wood'en spoon to stir the icing but can still lick out the bowl?   

[Slow grinder]

At the age of 70 and after 43 years of Punting I know exactly what you mean and have/am experiencing all you have said.... so after I realised that it wasn't just the Lockdowns that had dampened my ardor/lust and that it was an amalgam of things as an ex engineer I decided to make a list of my likes and dislikes... Nodders, so I started taking my own (okamoto Crown from Amazon), maybe I needed a bit of pain, nope that was fun but I wouldn't look do it again. Was it foreign ladies, so I only went to Brits, nope it wasn't that, I tried the private club, Rub and Tugs, MMF and a lot of other stuff and nope there's nothing that 'floats my Boat'. In my case because I need to arrange Carers the Punt has to be pretty good..not just an "oh yeah"! and sadly there aren't many pretty good ones where I would walk away with a Happy smile.
Now before all you jerk off trolls say " eeer so where's your reviews".. some I have a lot I haven't because the decent guys on here have already reviewed them ... and I tend to go by recommendations and yes I understand "one mans meat is another mans poison"!
So I'm not saying that I'll stop punting more that I'm taking prolonged rests in between. Lastly anything over £70 for a covered punt is just plain daft!

[Punter S Thompson]

Suicide?

[Slow grinder]

Suicide?

Oh you mean go BareBack !

[Charliehutton]

Shortly before the pandemic I gloomily contemplated on here the day when my cock-pills no longer worked, and was immensely cheered by the response of Home Alone, who reminded me I'd still have hands, and fingers, and a mouth, and a tongue, and that there would still be plenty of avenues of pleasure left to enjoy.

So even when that dark day comes, we needn't be condemned to spending our afternoons watching Bargain Hunt.

[lovemachine]

Whats wrong with doing what ever floats your boat at that particular time. You may not get a thrill out of playing with a dinky toy now, but you may have when you were 5. So if you get a thrill from stamp collecting or sky diving now just do that. But if the mind seeks a woman then yes it will be more difficult.
What about a dominatrix.

[B4bcock]

Good massage sessions will be my way forward.  If I can enjoy a HE at the end , great , but if not I will have still enjoyed a good pampering from an attentive female.

[Moby Dick]

Lastly anything over £70 for a covered punt is just plain daft!

That comment suggests that you think paying more for uncovered isn’t daft?

[WelshClipper]

Rage against the dying of the light (sic) - Dylan Thomas

I'll punt until the last SP refuses to aee me cos I'm too old.

I am now seeing ladies younger than my daughter. If I can hang in another 16 years, they'll be younger than my grandchild 

[Corus Boy]

Age does take its toll, but not the end!

I will happily admit that full service sex is not always on the menu for me, it depends on a number of things, so more often than not I settle on a massage with HE or a session of OWO with CIM.

Never tried/can't use Viagra because of other prescription drugs.

It has been going this way for a few years and there may be an element of 'mental block!'

It started a few years back when not punting as I had a civvy Thai Girlfriend.  Now she was skilled with my body and could recognise how I was feeling.  Usually during an evening she would cajole a strong erection from me and a good performance, after a rest she would want to go for round two, it would take her about five minutes before she would, sometimes not always, declare, "He wants to sleep, he's not playing again!"

I started to realise that it was often the performance of the lady I am with that determines the outcome.  I'm sure many will have encountered the escort technique when you're not getting hard of tugging at your cock faster and harder, that does nothing for me, in fact it has the reverse effect.

Before COVID I regularly visited an escort near Cardiff who was a fantastic kisser, she would get good results with patience.  She was also offering excellent OWO and CIM.  One booking as we cwtched after the event we discussed my performance and agreed on future visits that I would leave what happened to her. 

If she considered that my erection was strong enough to handle the application of a condom without going limp, she would put a condom on and move straight to Reverse Cowgirl and fuck away.  If it wasn't happening she would just continue with OWO and CIM.  I found this 'less stressful' and performance would improve.

So I started to get more selective in who I booked.  Massage and HE often became a first choice.  I'm not rich but would happily pay higher fees for an escort who would get satisfying results.  Better to pay £140 - £180 for a satisfying punt than £60 - £150 for something that did nothing for me.

When I find someone who works for me I'm happy with return visits, I don't feel the need for a new pussy or mouth for every punt.

[pantywetter]

I randomly had a month of my dick not working.  I think it was EAS related, a mental thing. 

It was awful.  I was freaking out, depressed, popping the pills and vitamins, punting like mad trying to find my mojo.

Horrible time.  I was shit scared because I live for sex. 

After having some time off and trying Cialis it then started working again.  Thank god!

I now use Cialis a bit recreationally but dont think I need it.  I need to stop and save it for when I really do need it as it certainly does work! 

When my dick stops working with or without chemical aids I don’t know how I will continue. 

[Festa]

I will be 70 soon and the pharmacological benefit of viagra is undeniable. It works and allows me to have  sex at least once per month with a SP. i have also worked hard to lose weight and improve my fitness, these allow me to have more energetic sex as well. I find most girls respond well to our old fashioned manners.

Do not give up. Keep it up.

[pantywetter]

I am also like Corus Boy that I am more dependant on the girls looks and performance nowadays.

2-3 years ago I could literally shag anything.  I could get hard for almost any bird no matter how big or ugly.

Nowadays, if they have that totally disinterested, cold, business like vibe it probably wouldn’t happen.  They have to be really bad, but you do get them occasionally and it’s bad for your confidence.

[EvilS]

To quote the movie Born On The Fourth Of July, "If you haven't got it in the hips, you better have it in the lips"

[The Owl]

Hate to be the bearer of bad news but “The day of the ‘Broken dick” is coming closer for us all, a day when even Surgery, a fist full of ‘Blueys’ and a set of

jump leads won’t raise your chap? ‘  What’s a punter to do then for his thrills and spills?  World cruise, Bowls, Safari, box set of Murder she Wrote?

or will it be a case of no 'wood'en spoon to stir the icing but can still lick out the bowl?   

I'm pretty sure forum member Comaminion had issues getting wood. From what I remember he had blow jobs, hugs, hand jobs, hugs etc. If anything works for you still and that appeals then go for it.

[Slow grinder]

That comment suggests that you think paying more for uncovered isn’t daft?

How do you get that..where did I intimate that stupidity..it's like me saying " ooo because you thought that it must mean that you ( Moby prick) are a closet BBer".get real Sick Breath!

[CigarSmoke]

At the age of 70 and after 43 years of Punting I know exactly what you mean and have/am experiencing all you have said.... so after I realised that it wasn't just the Lockdowns that had dampened my ardor/lust and that it was an amalgam of things as an ex engineer I decided to make a list of my likes and dislikes... Nodders, so I started taking my own (okamoto Crown from Amazon), maybe I needed a bit of pain, nope that was fun but I wouldn't look do it again. Was it foreign ladies, so I only went to Brits, nope it wasn't that, I tried the private club, Rub and Tugs, MMF and a lot of other stuff and nope there's nothing that 'floats my Boat'. In my case because I need to arrange Carers the Punt has to be pretty good..not just an "oh yeah"! and sadly there aren't many pretty good ones where I would walk away with a Happy smile.
Now before all you jerk off trolls say " eeer so where's your reviews".. some I have a lot I haven't because the decent guys on here have already reviewed them ... and I tend to go by recommendations and yes I understand "one mans meat is another mans poison"!
So I'm not saying that I'll stop punting more that I'm taking prolonged rests in between. Lastly anything over £70 for a covered punt is just plain daft!

Wow! You been punting longer than I have been alive. What did forty years of punting teach you?

[Thephoenix]

I've mentioned on here before that because of a combination of peripheral arterial disease, peripheral neuropathy, borderline diabetes, frightening side effects of mixing ED meds and prescription meds, and old age (81), my punting days involving erections and climaxes are over.

It's taken me the last year to finally admit that reality to myself after being a regular punter and member of various forums for many years.

It's not the end of the world. Although my medical records describe me as being moderately frail I actually feel reasonably fit.

Growing older can be a pain but it's better than the alternative.

I've still got spare cash to spend on sensual massages and can still post helpful reviews particularly on new massage providers.

[LLPunting]

How do you get that..where did I intimate that stupidity..it's like me saying " ooo because you thought that it must mean that you ( Moby prick) are a closet BBer".get real Sick Breath!

You chose the words "Lastly anything over £70 for a covered punt is just plain daft!" which can quite reasonably be taken to suggest you'd consider a different amount for an uncovered one.  If all you meant to say was paying more than 70 to fuck an SP is daft then "covered" is redundant.  The fact you then took an insulting tone rather than walked back your choice of words speaks more of you being the prick.

[Thephoenix]

Too much talk of pricks this early in the morning is putting me off my sausages.

[daviemac]

How do you get that..where did I intimate that stupidity..it's like me saying " ooo because you thought that it must mean that you ( Moby prick) are a closet BBer".get real Sick Breath!

We can only read what you post and "Lastly anything over £70 for a covered punt is just plain daft!" indicates you're limit for covered sex is £70 and anything over that has to be something different and the only thing different is uncovered. 

No good you calling people names for taking what you post in the way it comes across. Like LLP said including 'covered' in your statement indicates a comparison to something else.

[Bum Lovin Criminal]

Not many things in this world that are better than sex, and sex with a hot filthy stranger way out of ones league is even better.  So when my plumbing

finally packs up, there will be weeks of tears, wailing, gnashing of teeth, tearing of shirts and scouring the internet for that ‘magic’ bullet. 

A few things can come close to replace the punt thrill, a large bonus and promotion, skydiving for charity, a seriously expensive and lavish 12 course

meal +wine, being present at Wembley as your team wins/lifts the Trophy, front row +back stage VIP pass at your favourite band concert, etc, etc. 

However, theoretically I’d bin that all off for a working dick and frolics with a couple of filthy greased-up horny sluts on a regular basis..

[Slow grinder]

We can only read what you post and "Lastly anything over £70 for a covered punt is just plain daft!" indicates you're limit for covered sex is £70 and anything over that has to be something different and the only thing different is uncovered. 

No good you calling people names for taking what you post in the way it comes across. Like LLP said including 'covered' in your statement indicates a comparison to something else.

Question .. is this a Punting site that actively pursues 'Covered sex' answer YES... Question 'Are there other forms of sexual relief' answer YES... it only comes across to people who are instinctively looking for underhand BBers of which I'm not, I applied to this site because it reviews and discuss's Covered sex!...there are many other forms of sexual relief and mine up this point have covered Rub and Tug, Proper massage, Tantric and Mild Dom. So why would anyone, other than a little minded person think that my comments would imply otherwise. If I'd put "Lastly anything over £70 for a shag" ... the people who hide behind their keyboards would have had a field day " ooo so you're a BBer are you"!
As regards names, this site has a lot of the above mentioned who feel that their contribution is to immediately 'jump' on people who write their first reviews or in their eyes write or say something odd... in a face to face conversation that's banter ... as a written word it comes across as plain sarcasm. the fact that certain people choose to 'have a go' at me for writing something as innocuous as I have, then that just highlights how deliberate sarcasm is condoned!

[Slow grinder]

We can only read what you post and "Lastly anything over £70 for a covered punt is just plain daft!" indicates you're limit for covered sex is £70 and anything over that has to be something different and the only thing different is uncovered. 

No good you calling people names for taking what you post in the way it comes across. Like LLP said including 'covered' in your statement indicates a comparison to something else.

and BB sex is the only thing that you and he can think of!   maybe latent BBers yourselves?

[Moby Dick]

How do you get that..where did I intimate that stupidity..it's like me saying " ooo because you thought that it must mean that you ( Moby prick) are a closet BBer".get real Sick Breath!

Here:

Lastly anything over £70 for a covered punt is just plain daft!

That tells me you would pay more for uncovered sex.
No need to insult me!
Stop acting like a TWAT

[daviemac]

Question .. is this a Punting site that actively pursues 'Covered sex' answer YES... Question 'Are there other forms of sexual relief' answer YES... it only comes across to people who are instinctively looking for underhand BBers of which I'm not, I applied to this site because it reviews and discuss's Covered sex!...there are many other forms of sexual relief and mine up this point have covered Rub and Tug, Proper massage, Tantric and Mild Dom. So why would anyone, other than a little minded person think that my comments would imply otherwise. If I'd put "Lastly anything over £70 for a shag" ... the people who hide behind their keyboards would have had a field day " ooo so you're a BBer are you"!
As regards names, this site has a lot of the above mentioned who feel that their contribution is to immediately 'jump' on people who write their first reviews or in their eyes write or say something odd... in a face to face conversation that's banter ... as a written word it comes across as plain sarcasm. the fact that certain people choose to 'have a go' at me for writing something as innocuous as I have, then that just highlights how deliberate sarcasm is condoned!

To start with you are totally wrong with the statement highlighted above, this site is punting site where paid sex and massages in all their forms are discussed and reviewed and as the rules show bareback sex discussions are allowed.

12 Bareback / Unprotected sex
Allowed, but other members have the right to express disapproval of such activities.

Had you put "Lastly anything over £70 for a shag" people would just assume you meant covered sex as that is by far the normal, however as has been explained to you, you put  "Lastly anything over £70 for a covered punt is just plain daft!" which indicates you are happy to pay less than £70 for covered but over £70 for something else, ie BB.

and BB sex is the only thing that you and he can think of!   maybe latent BBers yourselves?

You are getting extremely defensive about all this and throwing unfounded accusations about, you are the one who posted paying more than £70 for covered sex was daft and no matter which way you look at it that statement indicates a comparison to paying more than £70 for something else.

There's an old saying about when in a hole, best advice I can give is accept you could have worded your post a bit better, stop the name calling and making unfounded accusations, accept the advice or don't accept the advice makes no difference to me.

Edit

You even brought bareback into it.   

Oh you mean go BareBack !

[pantywetter]

Daviemac and the other poster is clearly right.  Any English speaker would parse your sentence in the same way, that covered is an important distinction. 

[Slow grinder]

       

[daviemac]

     

I don't know why people can't just admit they made an error in what they posted and what they wrote wasn't what they meant instead of pushing it to the point of a ban.   

[Thephoenix]

I will be 70 soon and the pharmacological benefit of viagra is undeniable. It works and allows me to have  sex at least once per month with a SP. i have also worked hard to lose weight and improve my fitness, these allow me to have more energetic sex as well. I find most girls respond well to our old fashioned manners.

Do not give up. Keep it up.

Yes, enjoy while you can mate.

[Thephoenix]

Shortly before the pandemic I gloomily contemplated on here the day when my cock-pills no longer worked, and was immensely cheered by the response of Home Alone, who reminded me I'd still have hands, and fingers, and a mouth, and a tongue, and that there would still be plenty of avenues of pleasure left to enjoy.

So even when that dark day comes, we needn't be condemned to spending our afternoons watching Bargain Hunt.

To get back on track...

I understand the comments from H.A and yourself are making, but in reality are you really prepared to spend £150 for an hour of you fingering and licking the lady?
I know there's the body contact and intimacy, and the satisfaction that you're giving someone else pleasure, but personally I'd rather pay £40 for a really good fbsm, where the sensuality and pleasure is mine even though there's no HE.
For £150 I can enjoy 3 or 4 such massages which gives me more to look forward to.

As regards to Bargain Hunt, I'd rather commit Hari Kari.

[Colston36]

Hate to be the bearer of bad news but “The day of the ‘Broken dick” is coming closer for us all, a day when even Surgery, a fist full of ‘Blueys’ and a set of

jump leads won’t raise your chap? ‘  What’s a punter to do then for his thrills and spills?  World cruise, Bowls, Safari, box set of Murder she Wrote?

or will it be a case of no 'wood'en spoon to stir the icing but can still lick out the bowl?   

I have never been able to perform with a condom on. This was no problem until 9 years ago when I reached  the age of 77, my much younger partner went off sex with me. She wanted a baby which I couldn't provide having had an unreversible snip.

So I decided to start punting regularly, which I have done ever since. I have found plenty of ways to entertain myself. As I keep very fit it is rare for me not to be able to cum. Happens maybe once every few months, no more.

[petermisc]

I started to realise that it was often the performance of the lady I am with that determines the outcome.  I'm sure many will have encountered the escort technique when you're not getting hard of tugging at your cock faster and harder, that does nothing for me, in fact it has the reverse effect.

Totally agree.  A girl tugging at my cock harder and harder only emphasises my lack of erection, and makes it even less likely that I will get one.  Unfortunately many WGs have a set routine, and if it doesn't work for you then they are clueless what to do.  Worse, if she makes it plain that she sees it is as your problem, not hers, this again only makes it worse.

As I have got older, I too have realised that the lady's technique has become increasingly important in determining whether or not I get an erection, and how hard it is.  The days when I get hard just by looking at a pretty girl are long gone. 

Unfortunately most SPs sole focus seems to be on your cock, which only highlights any problem in getting an erection.  Nowadays I need an SP who knows how to get me hard long before her hand touches my cock.  And doesn't make a big thing of it if I fail to get an erection. 

A quick rub and tug no longer does it for me - I need a slow build-up, whole-body experience.  Kissing, and FK in particular, are essential for me.  A slow, sensual massage can be excellent at getting me hard, provided the SP doesn't spend too long on it and the ardour starts to drop again.  There are some SPs who know how to sensually caress my balls and perineum that is particularly arousing - these tend to be SPs who have had proper massage training.  Unfortunately, it is only a few who know how to do this - most don't have a clue, and go at it far too hard.

In essence, I now go for the whole experience.  The less I need to concentrate on getting an erection, the more likely I am to have one.

[Bum Lovin Criminal]

Shortly before the pandemic I gloomily contemplated on here the day when my cock-pills no longer worked, and was immensely cheered by the response of Home Alone, who reminded me I'd still have hands, and fingers, and a mouth, and a tongue, and that there would still be plenty of avenues of pleasure left to enjoy.

So even when that dark day comes, we needn't be condemned to spending our afternoons watching Bargain Hunt.

I remember the 5 occasions on punts when 'mini-me just laid there like a beached Whale and which everything the SP did, not even a twitch. 

(I've since been back and redeemed myself on all those bad memories)I tried RO, fingers, 69, dirty talk and the BJ was embarassing to watch. 

For me anyways, a punt without a 'stiff' one + nutt is pointless and a waste of cash.

Can effect the SP too knocking her self esteem,' thinking she's too fat/flat/thin/ugly/smelly/undesirable/etc. she might even refuse to see you again

I'm so glad to hear from others that pharmaceauticals will be effective even well into one's 80's and beyond. Thank Fuck for that..

   fellas! I had Inspector Morse lined up for my future, not Bargain Hunt   

[petermisc]

I remember the 5 occasions on punts when 'mini-me just laid there like a beached Whale and which everything the SP did, not even a twitch. 

I'm so glad to hear from others that pharmaceauticals will be effective even well into one's 80's and beyond. Thank Fuck for that..

Don't bet too heavily on the Viagra.  While undoubtedly it will help (provided that you don't get an incompatible medical condition), the effect does begin to wear off.  Like any drug, the body eventually starts to get used to it.  Don't start using it until you really need to, because if you do you may find it no longer effective when you really need it.

Unfortunately, popping a pill is a quick-fix, that can mask all sorts of other problems.  Eventually, you may need to start addressing those problems.

[petermisc]

As I keep very fit it is rare for me not to be able to cum. Happens maybe once every few months, no more.

What do you mean by "cum"?  To me, it means ejaculating.  But you can ejaculate without having an erection, and you can ejaculate without climaxing.   
For me, it is the climax that is important.  Coming, not cumming.

[simon07]

It is getting harder now. Even wanking may produce a drop or so, there is no longer an head blowing orgasm or even a desire to sleep afterwards. The prostate and the prostate (reduce your getting up to pee at night) drugs have taken the toll the last 3 months.

That absence of punting means I am rationalising the desire to punt, aided by poor choice, poor service and silly high prices.

Back to the beer and listening to Bruce Springsteen’s “Glory Days’ songs of punting past.

[Home Alone]

Age does take its toll, but not the end!

I will happily admit that full service sex is not always on the menu for me, it depends on a number of things, so more often than not I settle on a massage with HE or a session of OWO with CIM.

Never tried/can't use Viagra because of other prescription drugs.

It has been going this way for a few years and there may be an element of 'mental block!'

... ... ... ...

Apologies, @ Corus Boy, I kinda skim read your post originally, but when I was re-reading the thread this morning, I wondered if you had discussed with your G.P.  whether Cialis - rather than Viagra - might be an acceptable tablet to go with the other medication you have to take.

Several years ago now, as a comparatively recent immigrant to the land of paid-for sex, I'd begun to find that Viagra was no longer "doing the trick" for me; and I thought that was a bit unfair! So I went to see one of the GPs at my local surgery. She consulted the Formulary and discovered that Cialis was probably a better option for me. So I've been on them ever since!

Admittedly, I wasn't taking any other medication at the time (I only take Statins now) so this might not work for you; but if you don't ask your GP whether Cialis would work with the other medication you're on, you'll never know.

[Charliehutton]

I remember the 5 occasions on punts when 'mini-me just laid there like a beached Whale and which everything the SP did, not even a twitch. 

I've had 3 such occasions, BLC, and each time it's because I didn't fancy the girl one bit, and should have walked. After 5 or 6 years, the Cialis has become a bit more selective. It used to be up and at 'em even in the most dismal circumstances; I remember one girl looked like Peggy Mount's ugly sister, but there was no stopping it. I have to fancy the girl nowadays, though, and - touch wood, as it were - it's yet to let me down.

[Corus Boy]

Apologies, @ Corus Boy, I kinda skim read your post originally, but when I was re-reading the thread this morning, I wondered if you had discussed with your G.P.  whether Cialis - rather than Viagra - might be an acceptable tablet to go with the other medication you have to take.

Several years ago now, as a comparatively recent immigrant to the land of paid-for sex, I'd begun to find that Viagra was no longer "doing the trick" for me; and I thought that was a bit unfair! So I went to see one of the GPs at my local surgery. She consulted the Formulary and discovered that Cialis was probably a better option for me. So I've been on them ever since!

Admittedly, I wasn't taking any other medication at the time (I only take Statins now) so this might not work for you; but if you don't ask your GP whether Cialis would work with the other medication you're on, you'll never know.

Thank you but all avenues in the 'Blue Pill' area have been discussed and rejected by my doctor and from a second opinion.

[Home Alone]

Okay; sorry to read that, @Corus Boy. Just didn't want you - or anyone on here - to be unaware of the option.

[Bum Lovin Criminal]

I've had 3 such occasions, BLC, and each time it's because I didn't fancy the girl one bit, and should have walked. After 5 or 6 years, the Cialis has become a bit more selective. It used to be up and at 'em even in the most dismal circumstances; I remember one girl looked like Peggy Mount's ugly sister, but there was no stopping it. I have to fancy the girl nowadays, though, and - touch wood, as it were - it's yet to let me down.

I had to Google who Peggy Mount was and...    maximum respect to you CH.

Works the other way too, the SP's so hot, you want to impress, personalities click then, Boom, performance anxiety kicks in and nothing,

Mr floppy shows up and spoils the party.

[Thephoenix]

But you can ejaculate without having an erection, and you can ejaculate without climaxing.   

Some of us can do neither.

[petermisc]

Some of us can do neither.

That suggests there is more than a physical problem.

[Thephoenix]

That suggests there is more than a physical problem.

If only that was the case.

As I stated earlier..... peripheral artery disease affects blood flow, peripheral neuropathy affects sensitivity and benign prostatic hyperplasia doesn't help.
Basically my poor old todger is knackered.

Mentally I'm as randy as ever. Dick Brain still wants to keep going.

I could dose myself up with 100mg sildenafil and get some life back, although that wouldn't effect the sensitivity and ability to climax. In fact it would make it worse.
However as that reacts with the candersartan and ticagrelor meds and causes dangerous drop in blood pressure which causes syncope.
....so definitely physical.

Apart from being a complete nutter, my mental health is fine.

[southern punter]

  The days when I get hard just by looking at a pretty girl are long gone. 

Unfortunately most SPs sole focus seems to be on your cock, which only highlights any problem in getting an erection.  Nowadays I need an SP who knows how to get me hard long before her hand touches my cock.  And doesn't make a big thing of it if I fail to get an erection. 

A quick rub and tug no longer does it for me - I need a slow build-up, whole-body experience.  Kissing, and FK in particular, are essential for me.

Great post.  I'm decades younger than many in this thread but this year have found the chap isn't always hard "just by looking at a pretty girl" or anticipating the punt like it used to be.  I'm not sure if physical or mental issue.  Either way at my last punt I was lying there soft as the SP chatters away about totally un-sexy stuff and then she says something like "right let's get you going" and starts wanking me, I said no stop that and pulled her up for some DFK and voila, erection.  SP expresses surprise at how that worked.   It's amazing how even amongst women whose full time job is working with male sexuality, how many don't seem to realise an erotic or romantic mood and some kissing / foreplay is a prerequisite for a lot of men to get fully aroused.  Instead trying to go from 0 to 100 instantly.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Great post.  I'm decades younger than many in this thread but this year have found the chap isn't always hard "just by looking at a pretty girl" or anticipating the punt like it used to be.  I'm not sure if physical or mental issue.  Either way at my last punt I was lying there soft as the SP chatters away about totally un-sexy stuff and then she says something like "right let's get you going" and starts wanking me, I said no stop that and pulled her up for some DFK and voila, erection.  SP expresses surprise at how that worked.   It's amazing how even amongst women whose full time job is working with male sexuality, how many don't seem to realise an erotic or romantic mood and some kissing / foreplay is a prerequisite for a lot of men to get fully aroused.

Could not agree more mate!..

[londonroad]

Like the OP I dread the day when I can no longer get it up.
I am the wrong side of 60 but determined to keep enjoying sex for as long as possible. Apparently boosting our Testosterone levels as we get older is important in maintaining our sex drive.
I do try to be careful what I eat and drink and attend the gym regularly (including weight training). Also , not sure if this has been scientifically proved, but after going to the gym I normally feel hornier than when I arrived. Is this because of the testosterone boost or having seen some sexy young ladies in tight fitting gym clothes? 😂

[Stevelondon]

I just go with the flow nowadays.
I don’t feel the need to have a raging hard on and shag in various positions to enjoy myself anymore.

Saying that I sometimes do. As I said. I just go with whatever happens.
I’m paying so I certainly don’t need to impress any SP with my sexual prowess.

Helps me a great deal if I really fancy the girl. Helps if she enjoys my tongue attentions. I do like kissing too and that definitely helps.

The pills usually give me a bloody headache afterwards and like I’ve said. I’d rather enjoy myself than think of performance.
Had a wonderful edging massage recently and even though it was lovely. Just couldn’t get that fully hard on vibe going. Didn’t stop me from cumming though and the reality is that’s all that matters.

[GreyDave]

So even when that dark day comes, we needn't be condemned to spending our afternoons watching Bargain Hunt.

Stolen from Viz .... Roger Melly on the telly ...New format 2 guys in a Brothel see who gets most shags.....we`ll call it   " Bargin Cunt"