Can't Punt, what now?

[alabama1]

A more accurate title for this thread would be ' Can't get an erection, what now'.

[Natwest]

A more accurate title for this thread would be ' Can't get an erection, what now'.

I think it's a shame, though I realise perhaps in jest to take the topic so lightly. I remember being absolutely devastated when I realised I could no longer get an erection. I found plenty of good advice on here and tried Viagra. Problem solved but it was hard to accept (or perhaps not hard!) it had come to that. It was quite a psychological blow.

[sniffer]

There can be various things in your environment that can affect ability to get hard. Hot temperatures are a no go for me. A hot hotel room with no aircon is a sure-fire party pooper. I have to be very selective about punting in hot weather. A shower at the start of a punt is usually a turn off for me, so I always make sure I'm clean before I leave home.

[Georgedaviesok]

over the last few years I've had various health issues affecting my sexual ability and it really played on my mind wondering what if I couldn't shag. I do use blue pulls but not all the time and they do work but I have found as I'm getting older I'm getting less bothered. The thrill of shagging strangers is still very much a buzz for me but I prefer to see a girl regularly so she knows how I tick. unfortunately all the regs I saw have retired during covid and Im just not to fussed and can't be bothered to make the effort. Mind you if I met the right one it may be a different story.

[Thepacifist]

Nothing lasts forever. When the day comes I will enjoy a bj, ro and get a massage.

[southcoastpunter]

Nothing lasts forever. When the day comes I will enjoy a bj, ro and get a massage.

when the day comes...... I assume that it doesn't happen quite that way, that one day it doesn't happen and that is it, never going to happen again? I assume at a certain time successes become less often and failures (if that is the right word) become more often??

Does "morning glory" also drop right away?

i know we are all different and many factors can influence things but as a general guide, at what sort of age does this happen?  75-80, 80-85ish? being in my early 60's and reasonbly fit and healthy, i hope i have 15+years left but do I?

[Moby Dick]

when the day comes...... I assume that it doesn't happen quite that way, that one day it doesn't happen and that is it, never going to happen again? I assume at a certain time successes become less often and failures (if that is the right word) become more often??

Does "morning glory" also drop right away?

i know we are all different and many factors can influence things but as a general guide, at what sort of age does this happen?  75-80, 80-85ish? being in my early 60's and reasonbly fit and healthy, i hope i have 15+years left but do I?

64 and 3 quarters.

[Home Alone]

As I suspect you know deep down, @southcoastpunter , it's impossible to generalise. I'd only been punting a few years when I was the age you are now and very much "lived in the day".

I never looked forward as you're doing now; I just kept on punting because: i) I could afford it; and ii) there were women who, if I gave them some of my money, would let me shag them!

I'm now 76; and, although I've a congenital disability, my general health is good, touch "wood"! So I've a 2-hour session booked for later this week with a lass I've enjoyed before!

PS: See @Godfrey's reply #4 on page 1!

[Colston36]

What do you mean by "cum"?  To me, it means ejaculating.  But you can ejaculate without having an erection, and you can ejaculate without climaxing.   
For me, it is the climax that is important.  Coming, not cumming.

After 68 years of writing for a very good living I can do without English lessons, thank you. Cum is fairly often used for what I meant and you surely understood. I can ejaculate by shouting, too; but how your little lesson helps anyone get better sex  - which is the purpose of UK punting - I can't imagine. 

[Thephoenix]

As I suspect you know deep down, @southcoastpunter , it's impossible to generalise. I'd only been punting a few years when I was the age you are now and very much "lived in the day".

I never looked forward as you're doing now; I just kept on punting because: i) I could afford it; and ii) there were women who, if I gave them some of my money, would let me shag them!

I'm now 76; and, although I've a congenital disability, my general health is good, touch "wood"! So I've a 2-hour session booked for later this week with a lass I've enjoyed before!

PS: See @Godfrey's reply #4 on page 1!

Good luck H.A.
.....and in the words of Mr Spock "Live long and prosper!"





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[petermisc]

After 68 years of writing for a very good living I can do without English lessons, thank you. Cum is fairly often used for what I meant and you surely understood. I can ejaculate by shouting, too; but how your little lesson helps anyone get better sex  - which is the purpose of UK punting - I can't imagine.

Quite obviously I wasn't sure exactly what you meant by "cum", or I wouldn't have asked.  As I said, to me it means ejaculate, and by "you surely understood" I take it that you mean the same. 

Many WGs seem to think that they have done their job if they have got you to ejaculate, and fine if this satisfies you.  However, I do not find this particularly satisfying if I have not also climaxed, and it is rarely satisfying if I don't have an erection.  Personally, I would prefer it if they concentrated on getting me to climax rather than "cum".

[Home Alone]

Good luck H.A.
.....and in the words of Mr Spock "Live long and prosper!"





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Thanks a lot, @Phoenix.

[lillythesavage]

As I suspect you know deep down, @southcoastpunter , it's impossible to generalise. I'd only been punting a few years when I was the age you are now and very much "lived in the day".

I never looked forward as you're doing now; I just kept on punting because: i) I could afford it; and ii) there were women who, if I gave them some of my money, would let me shag them!

I'm now 76; and, although I've a congenital disability, my general health is good, touch "wood"! So I've a 2-hour session booked for later this week with a lass I've enjoyed before!

PS: See @Godfrey's reply #4 on page 1!

Get in there  . You have already told us sex does not have to stop, or punting for that matter, if Dicky does not want to play every time, even not at all 

[Home Alone]

You can tell I was a late starter to this job, can't you, @lillythesavage?! 

[Thephoenix]

Quite obviously I wasn't sure exactly what you meant by "cum", or I wouldn't have asked.  As I said, to me it means ejaculate, and by "you surely understood" I take it that you mean the same. 

Many WGs seem to think that they have done their job if they have got you to ejaculate, and fine if this satisfies you.  However, I do not find this particularly satisfying if I have not also climaxed, and it is rarely satisfying if I don't have an erection.  Personally, I would prefer it if they concentrated on getting me to climax rather than "cum".

Call me old fashioned or even a simpleton, but I thought to  cum can mean to climax and/or to ejaculate.
So you can climax and ejaculate,
Cum and ejaculate,
Climax and cum,
....or even I suppose cum and cum.

But you're saying you can cum/ejaculate without cumming/climaxing?

F..k me!...... I don't know whether I'm cumming or going now....please explain.

[SpaceRaiderDave]

Call me old fashioned or even a simpleton, but I thought to  cum can mean to climax and/or to ejaculate.
So you can climax and ejaculate,
Cum and ejaculate,
Climax and cum,
....or even I suppose cum and cum.

But you're saying you can cum/ejaculate without cumming/climaxing?

F..k me!...... I don't know whether I'm cumming or going now....please explain.

I agree the post by Petermisc confused me as well. I was OK with most of it except his use of the word Climax. He says thats climaxing is the most important thing yet claims claims you can ejaculate without climaxing. I always believed that for a man Cum, Orgasm, Climaxing and Ejaculation were all interchangeable terms.

I appreciate that it is possible to orgasm and produce little or no semen but that is the only slight difference in terms I can think of.

 

[Thephoenix]

Maybe he means pre-cum?
....or am I confusing it further?

[petermisc]

Call me old fashioned or even a simpleton, but I thought to  cum can mean to climax and/or to ejaculate.
F..k me!...... I don't know whether I'm cumming or going now....please explain.

You can ejaculate without having an erection, and without climaxing.  Ejaculation can be caused by simply stimulating your cock.  Climaxing is more of a whole body experience than the simple release of cum - the whole body convulses, and in extreme cases you can almost blackout.  The most obvious example of ejaculating without climaxing is when you are young, something arouses you and you unintentionally ejaculate.  The example most relevant to this thread is when a WG wanks you to completion when you really aren't in the mood - stimulation of your cock causes you to ejaculate but without climaxing.  Ejaculation by having your cock stimulated is pleasurable, but nowhere near as pleasurable as a climax.

It is also possible to climax without ejaculating, but this needs training to control your climax.  The controlled climax is not quite as pleasurable as a full-blown climax, but the benefit is that your body is ready to go for a second round much faster.

[king tarzan]

I am also like Corus Boy that I am more dependant on the girls looks and performance nowadays.

2-3 years ago I could literally shag anything.  I could get hard for almost any bird no matter how big or ugly.

Nowadays, if they have that totally disinterested, cold, business like vibe it probably wouldn’t happen.  They have to be really bad, but you do get them occasionally and it’s bad for your confidence.

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[shed]

You can ejaculate without having an erection, and without climaxing.  Ejaculation can be caused by simply stimulating your cock.  Climaxing is more of a whole body experience than the simple release of cum - the whole body convulses, and in extreme cases you can almost blackout.  The most obvious example of ejaculating without climaxing is when you are young, something arouses you and you unintentionally ejaculate.  The example most relevant to this thread is when a WG wanks you to completion when you really aren't in the mood - stimulation of your cock causes you to ejaculate but without climaxing.  Ejaculation by having your cock stimulated is pleasurable, but nowhere near as pleasurable as a climax.

It is also possible to climax without ejaculating, but this needs training to control your climax.  The controlled climax is not quite as pleasurable as a full-blown climax, but the benefit is that your body is ready to go for a second round much faster.

I'm off for a 🍺🍻🍻 after that explanation 😂

[Moby Dick]

Call me old fashioned or even a simpleton.

You Sir, are an old fashioned simpleton

[Thephoenix]

You Sir, are an old fashioned simpleton

Sorry I missed your post. After reading the previous post on the theory of cumming I had to have a lie down in a dark room.
I've been shagging regularly for over 65 years and thought I knew everything about cumming, but I'm now determined to spend the next hour thrashing my 'piece of wet string' excuse for a cock until I cum without cumming, which I think last occurred around 1956 whilst dreaming about Brigitte Bardot.
.......Oh and that time when I was experimenting with that cattle prod you lent me.

[petermisc]

I'm now determined to spend the next hour thrashing my 'piece of wet string' excuse for a cock until I cum without cumming

Well, if it works for you, go for it.

Unfortunately, as I explained previously, it doesn't work for me - concentrating on my limp cock only highlights its limpness.  Fortunately, I learnt from a good masseuse how it is still possible to make myself cum even with a limp cock.  And if I am very lucky, and am in the right mood, I can sometimes even give myself an orgasm too.  Of course, it is far more enjoyable to have someone else doing it for me.

[akauya]

Hate to be the bearer of bad news but “The day of the ‘Broken dick” is coming closer for us all, a day when even Surgery, a fist full of ‘Blueys’ and a set of

jump leads won’t raise your chap? ‘  What’s a punter to do then for his thrills and spills?  World cruise, Bowls, Safari, box set of Murder she Wrote?

or will it be a case of no 'wood'en spoon to stir the icing but can still lick out the bowl?   

I suppose the day will come to us all when we will no longer be able to achieve an erection.

I haven't read all the replies yet so apologies if someone covered this already but one possible option left for us is prostate orgasms.  Haven't tried it myself, mainly because I'm lucky enough to still enjoy good orgasms with a fully erect cock, but also because I'm too chicken to try it... yet.

However, I'm always keeping it in mind as one option given that there are increasing reports that prostate orgasms are just as good, if not better, than regular orgasms. The only problem is the 'little' hurdle of getting something up our bums to explore that option.

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[mark22]

MED3000 is new topical gel for ED which is being developed and should be going on sale in the UK/EU either later this year or 2023.

As it's applied directly to the penis it's hoped that ED sufferers who are curently precluded from taking Viagra etc will be able to use the fact acting (10 mins) gel.