You are right KT. I made it clear in review that I kept my calm and did not swear at her during the meeting. After the event, I can call her whatever I want but you will still have some white knights come here and tell me I am wrong in some way and she was right But hey! its a free country, they have their opinion and I have mine.
By all means swear at her after the fact but be sure to own the actual motivations for the choice of words used and the feelings driving them. There's a vast difference between a single "The bitch took my money!" and repeated cussings and implication throughout a complaint.
As PAYM pointed out there is also a complete difference between an SP who refuses to engage with a specific minority as a prostitute, whatever her reasons, and one who refuses anyone not of a preferred characteristic.
It's only partly helpful to shout "Racist!" without being able to clarify whom she is abusing. Again choosing to be reactionary without clarity speaks to your own lived experience and attitude, no matter how virtuous or conflicted.
So perhaps reflect on your chosen title for this review. I have expressed my anger about some SPs in the past, and I've re-written more than one review before publishing some, and I'm not proud of where some of that came from and I'm working on that.