The difference between your post aand the OP's is that yours is sincere and heartfelt based on your experience of WGs.
And mine isn't ?...sincere that is!
I asked a simple genuine question (that in fairness has created an interesting thread) based on my own feelings and experiences, or maybe should I say lack of. I find it amazing that to go beyond simply having a physical relationship seems to a lot of guys to mean you develop a fixation with nothing in between.
Thats just simply bollocks..........between a straight shag and deep unequivocal love there is an ocean full of alternative levels of relationships.......those who think otherwise should get out a bit.
Personally, the pleasure of sex with whoever is far more enjoyable to me when it is with someone I find attractive physically and yes, emotionally........but that level of emotion does not have to be full on. Or does it?
On another thread running contemporaneously with this one it is interesting to see the divergence of views on revisits v one offs