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Author Topic: Socialising with WG's  (Read 13947 times)

Offline Dodo

I have recently visited an absolute darling not only in a sexual sense but she was articulate, funny and good company. I am really keen just to see her for a chat and a coffee or lunch and I guess this is a really naive question but is that normal practise ??
And, if it is does one pay for the bill and the time! ,
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jcdmj12

If you want to go down that route, I'd just give her your debit card + pin now for a week or so, save yourself the heartache of what will happen later.


Offline smiths

I have recently visited an absolute darling not only in a sexual sense but she was articulate, funny and good company. I am really keen just to see her for a chat and a coffee or lunch and I guess this is a really naive question but is that normal practise ??
And, if it is does one pay for the bill and the time! ,

Whats normal to one punter might not be to another. I have had lunch and dinner with WGs but crucially its always been off the clock, i wouldnt and wont pay a fee to buy a WGs company for non sexual reasons. I have though on ocassion paid for the lunch or dinner, gone dutch and the WG has paid. Obviously this has been with some regulars in the main.

I also dont get attached nowadays which could be fatal, if this is something you think could happen to you my advice would be dont do it.
« Last Edit: August 04, 2014, 11:47:27 PM by smiths »

Offline Matium

I have recently visited an absolute darling not only in a sexual sense but she was articulate, funny and good company. I am really keen just to see her for a chat and a coffee or lunch and I guess this is a really naive question but is that normal practise ??
And, if it is does one pay for the bill and the time! ,

Go to a butcher, buy a pound of lamb then put it through a mincing machine and as you do that, think of your heart taking the place of the lamb, because that is what happens when you fall in love with a prostitute.



Offline Andre 3000

Paying a woman to be 'nice' always leads to a reality check somewhere along the line

Enjoy the nice chat and sex and leave it at that trying to meet outside of that arena will lead to egg on your face OP

Is there any link to this lovely girl? or are you going to keep her to yourself?

I say go for it, follow your desire but you will get hurt - it's all part of the girlfriend experience! :wacko:

You need to go through the pain and emotional torture, you'll come out a stronger person for it. I think most punters need to go through this process, to avoid getting emotionally attached in the future.

...or go cold turkey and never see this prossie again.


Offline webpunter

The OP needs to search up EAS
Like it the comment about giving the WG card + PIN !
I've thought about giving a WG the OH's card - only coz it would be a fuck load cheaper !
« Last Edit: August 05, 2014, 12:59:20 AM by webpunter »

Offline SophieScott

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I have recently visited an absolute darling not only in a sexual sense but she was articulate, funny and good company. I am really keen just to see her for a chat and a coffee or lunch and I guess this is a really naive question but is that normal practise ??
And, if it is does one pay for the bill and the time! ,


From a WG, I can tell you this does happen.  Not too often, but clients do ask to take us to dinner and things from time to time.  It would be normal practice to pay the bill and the time, this is what I do and all the girls I know do, as in any booking you are paying for the escorts time not the deeds!

I can understand why the guys are telling you not to do it though, just thought I'd add my tuppence h'penny in for what it's worth!

Offline Dani

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If you have only met her once the likelihood is she will charge you for this as well as you having to pay for everything unless she asked you to go for a meal with her
It's quite rare for this to happen without pay although it does happen but normally with a good regular who's company she enjoys. I do it with two regs but I wouldn't do it with any client that asks
I think you need to read the thread here on EAS as if you are thinking this after one meet then even paying to see her again is going to cause you a problem

I don't want to be rude but the likelihood she will agree to this is about as likely as me winning the euro lottery this week and I don't play it
If she felt the same attraction or feelings of friendship that you feel she would have mentioned it and asked you. Prossies are not shy little things or they couldn't do this job so if she wanted too she would have asked

jcdmj12

OP - read this

http://becauseimawhore.com/2013/05/26/once-a-client/

It's long, but well written, and will lay out the path you have in front of you once you start having "social" expectations. 

Offline Minder

op

by paying we enter a service industry, and kudos to the wg who make it an awesome experience,

I'm not sure it would be possible to find a situation were it becomes more with a wg, maybe a long term reg, wins the heart but very unlikely , but we can live in hope  :P


Offline Daffodil


From a WG, I can tell you this does happen.  Not too often, but clients do ask to take us to dinner and things from time to time.  It would be normal practice to pay the bill and the time, this is what I do and all the girls I know do, as in any booking you are paying for the escorts time not the deeds!

I can understand why the guys are telling you not to do it though, just thought I'd add my tuppence h'penny in for what it's worth!

Nonsense  :hi:

This is just a bullshit line that gets trotted out by people who think prostitution is illegal. Your 'time' is worth next to jack shit, it's the fact that you will spread your legs for cash that brings in the wage.

Offline Daffodil

I have recently visited an absolute darling not only in a sexual sense but she was articulate, funny and good company. I am really keen just to see her for a chat and a coffee or lunch and I guess this is a really naive question but is that normal practise ??
And, if it is does one pay for the bill and the time! ,

You sound like a schoolboy with a crush and that is a bad thing.

The only time you should be seeing a prossie for social time is if it's unpaid for and both sides want to do it. Even then, getting into a relationship with a prossie is daft in the extreme in my opinion.

jcdmj12


From a WG, I can tell you this does happen.  Not too often, but clients do ask to take us to dinner and things from time to time.  It would be normal practice to pay the bill and the time, this is what I do and all the girls I know do, as in any booking you are paying for the escorts time not the deeds!

I can understand why the guys are telling you not to do it though, just thought I'd add my tuppence h'penny in for what it's worth!

what kind of person pays £100+ an hour to buy someone dinner?  :wacko:

Offline PolishGirlLover

No idea if it's normal but I tried this recently with a girl as I felt we got along great. I wanted to be friends as she was my age and was cool to talk to. She said no she doesn't meet clients outside work one of her "rules." I agreed reluctantly and said I wish I'd met you outside this work instead. She often offended by this. I guess to her I was dismissing a relationship forged on her terms where she's in control. But I stopped seeing her as I either wanted her as a friend or nothing at all. I didn't want to pay her to be a buddy.

It would've been weird too meeting up only knowing each other from work. I hated to admit but it's true.

My advice try it with her and see. Best thing though is to find a girl you dig outside punting. Saves you heartache.

Offline AnthG

The best thing I would do is read TawnySteeles AW profile or website as she really covers Social Escorting in some detail.

https://www.adultwork.com/882905 or https://www.adultwork.com/TawnySteele or http://www.tawnysteele.com/Social.php

She charges for that

One hour: £40
Each subsequent hour: £30
An extra half hour: £20

And that to me seems like a good pretty fair going rate.

I have wanted to do social escorting myself with two girls. The first girl who I mainly wanted to do it with retired just before the booking I was going to ask her (I kind of worry sometimes it may be she seen my topic asking about this and then quit straight after but I am probably being paranoid on that).

The second girl I am glad the people here convinced me not to do it as the girl in question was harbouring some kind of hatred towards me after not liking my positive review for a previous punt so that

But if you still want to go through with it, the thing I was going to do was print off Tawney Steeles profile and show it to the girl so she could get an idea of what it is and the prices she could earn and then ask her if she wanted to do that. There is probably a smoother way to do it for those with the gift of the gab, but this was my way I was planning on asking for it.
« Last Edit: August 05, 2014, 08:10:32 AM by AnthG »


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Offline Matium


you are paying for the escorts time not the deeds!


Wrong.

This is Britain not America.

Prostitution is legal.

A guy is paying to have sex with you not for your time.

As a prostitute, you should know your own legal status.

Offline Jimmyredcab

I took this from a girls Q & A section, it should answer the question. ---------

Q. Do you want to come out for a drink/coffee/lunch as a friend?

   A. Thanks for the offer but no and anyone who hassles me with these requests however polite will be blocked, as soon as you leave my premises our time together is over until and if you book again.


Get real, girls want your money not your company.    :dash: :dash: :dash:

Offline Dodo

Some interesting responses.......thank you.

Err.....but also a lot of assumptions.

 The question was raised, not on the back of an infatuation but simply to understand if there is a protocol. The girl in question was intelligent and a great conversationalist.......now I could simply make another booking for what would undoubtedly be another wonderful visit or, as per the question, i quite fancied a non sexual environment meet over a coffee.

I'm quite capable of answering the question myself but this forum is all about other opinions.....isn't it ?  :dash: :dash: :dash: :dash:
« Last Edit: August 05, 2014, 08:33:08 AM by Aspley »
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Offline AnthG

I could simply make another booking for what would undoubtedly be another wonderful visit or, as per the question, i quite fancied a non sexual environment meet over a coffee.

Which is called social escorting. And thus what I linked to.

You could if you wish just email her on AW and say, "do you possibly do social escorting which is where I pay you to just go out to a social function such as a Café or something" and see what she comes back with to that.

But by paying is the only way you are going to manage it. You would be dreaming if you think this is going to happen for free. And I say that with no offence incase you think I mean that personal to you. I don't, any punter would be dreaming if they thought that.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Which is called social escorting. And thus what I linked to.

You could if you wish just email her on AW and say, "do you possibly do social escorting which is where I pay you to just go out to a social function such as a Café or something" and see what she comes back with to that.

But by paying is the only way you are going to manage it. You would be dreaming if you think this is going to happen for free.

Spot on.    :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

Prostitutes are in business, most already have a pimp/boyfriend/husband --------------- they don't want our company unless they are getting paid.    :hi:

Offline Aspen

OP - read this

http://becauseimawhore.com/2013/05/26/once-a-client/

It's long, but well written, and will lay out the path you have in front of you once you start having "social" expectations.

Good article. It also outlines the fact that once you start seeing prostitutes you will never stop.
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Offline Jimmyredcab

Good article. It also outlines the fact that once you start seeing prostitutes you will never stop.

Me and NIK could have told you that.      :crazy: :crazy:


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