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Author Topic: Getting what you want vs ruining the moment  (Read 957 times)

Offline wukkas

So now that I have a few punts under my belt, I wanted to ask you all a question regarding...well almost like the 'during punt high'.

If the punt is good, I get really excited, enjoy myself a lot and almost go into a different world for that hour. I've recently noticed that prior to meeting, I'd always make the time to arrange all the services I like, any roleplay etc. However, once the punt does start, it's almost as if I forget what I had asked for because I am in that 'during punt high'.

Classic example: met a WG a few weeks back who I had an excellent time with (review will come). Not the best best looking but I have to admit she put in a lot of effort to please me and I was really turned on. Right at the end, during this whole roleplay etc she asked me to cum on her tits. Now, I was so turned on that of course I did and I loved every second of it. After I left, I realised I had specifically discussed CIM and a facial with her. I think I almost feel harsh when the punt is going really well to stop and say, 'no we discussed I get to cum on your face'.

I understand we have the right too as we are paying for the service, but what do you guys do? Do you stop every moment to do exactly what you want? Or do you enjoy things happening with the flow if the punt is really good?

Note: Just to clarify, the punt was good fun. If it was awful, I'm sure I would have asked for more stuff if I was get bored. This is specifically for the good punts!

Offline JV547845

I'd go with the flow.  Having a punt go really well is far better than having to mentally cross everything on  a check list when you've got far better things to do.  The best girls imho will ask you beforehand what you want or what you're thinking of and do their best to include it all in your time so you don't have to remember anything.

Offline johnny34

Depends on the moment. Sometimes go with the flow, sometimes stick to the original plan. If i intend to see her again it doesn't matter as i can choose how to 'pop' the next time. Sometimes the suggested climax is better than what i had planned.

Offline CP1

personally i'd go with the flow. being in a situation with a WG where the sex does just flow ('properly/normally'), is rare enough that you don't want to spoil the moment IMO

Offline Outcallguy

Hmm, going with the flow can be good.
But it's good to bear in mind if you're not going to be seeing the lady again, then you may want to focus on getting what you came for. (no pun)

Offline a10

It's a really good question. I've felt the exact same thing, going with the flow and then feeling "let down" after - but not during the punt.

It's as you say, not ruining the moment but do you ruin the memory?

It's a tough one, but as others have said the best pro$$ies will make sure the moment matches the expectation or request. I'd say go with the moment if it's close to the end, but make sure you get what you want if it's during the build up. The "asked me to come on her tits" sounds like the WG was dodging the facial to me.

Offline smiths

So now that I have a few punts under my belt, I wanted to ask you all a question regarding...well almost like the 'during punt high'.

If the punt is good, I get really excited, enjoy myself a lot and almost go into a different world for that hour. I've recently noticed that prior to meeting, I'd always make the time to arrange all the services I like, any roleplay etc. However, once the punt does start, it's almost as if I forget what I had asked for because I am in that 'during punt high'.

Classic example: met a WG a few weeks back who I had an excellent time with (review will come). Not the best best looking but I have to admit she put in a lot of effort to please me and I was really turned on. Right at the end, during this whole roleplay etc she asked me to cum on her tits. Now, I was so turned on that of course I did and I loved every second of it. After I left, I realised I had specifically discussed CIM and a facial with her. I think I almost feel harsh when the punt is going really well to stop and say, 'no we discussed I get to cum on your face'.

I understand we have the right too as we are paying for the service, but what do you guys do? Do you stop every moment to do exactly what you want? Or do you enjoy things happening with the flow if the punt is really good?

Note: Just to clarify, the punt was good fun. If it was awful, I'm sure I would have asked for more stuff if I was get bored. This is specifically for the good punts!

I have my punts mapped out with the WG knowing exactly what i require and having agreed to it when i booked her ensuring there couldnt be any mis-communications, a WG excuse i have had before. So if i dont get what i require and was agreed its always because the WG lied to me.

In this scenario as long as i get what i require i am flexible enough to try something in addition to my essentials. So if CIM and a facial was agreed i would require it for my first pop but might follow the WGs lead with cuming on her tits for my second pop. IMO its very important to take the lead when punting unless the punter specifically gets off on the WG doing so. It ensures i fit in what i want with no timewasting by the WG.

Offline Sedlmayer

Depends on the moment. Sometimes go with the flow, sometimes stick to the original plan. If i intend to see her again it doesn't matter as i can choose how to 'pop' the next time. Sometimes the suggested climax is better than what i had planned.

I think that's very good advice personally - any plan of action that I go into a punt with is provisional. Sex is probably best, most of the time, when it's a bit spontaneous?

There all sorts of thing I want to try with the girl, even after I have looked at here likes, and sent her a message of what I want to do and try, I always forget, as I'm to excited

Now a days I just take things as they happen, so if performing oral on the escort, sometimes I move onto rimming, just slightly with my tongue to se what her reaction is

If there a please don't do that, I back of, but if there no answer, then start to tongue here rim hole more

Offline GeeWiz

If you plan ahead, you'll be disappointed.  Go with the flow.  Within reason.  For example if you want two pops, then ensure time wasting tactics don't take over.

Offline sam55

Yes, a good topic of discussion.

I have frequently found myself in the position of going with the flow rather than to my imagined plan. It's a bit of a juggling act between having a rigid (!) plan and just going going along with what the WG wants. I recently went to see a girl specifically for a skoolie role-play and she absolutely looked the part perfectly. Probably too good as I couldn't wait to get my hands on her so the stern headmaster didn't stick to the script that I had carefully rehearsed in my head!

I guess this is where it helps to have a regular as when you get to know them it's easier to discuss and suggest possible things to do on the next punt.


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