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Author Topic: What have you gained from punting (besides sex, of course?)  (Read 3070 times)

jcdmj12

I've just been reviewing my spending over the past year on WGs, and although it's been a fair chunk of change (to me, anyway), overall I feel it was money well spent.

Besides having very entertaining sex with different women, on reflection:

1. Sex is a lot less important to me than it was as part of a relationship, as I know I can get it elsewhere easily. This has enabled me to focus on other parts of the my relationship without all the conflict, anger and resentment there was previously, which has really benefited things.
2. I used to get infatuated with girls really easily, which caused me a lot of trouble in the past. Now I know that I feel that way after pretty much every good sexual encounter, I don't get wound up about it any more, I just look forward to the next one.
3. Sort of related, but it's allowed me to completely separate sex/lust & love in my head.  Lust is just about chemistry, whereas love is something that takes a long, long time to build up (for me, at least)

What about you?
« Last Edit: July 30, 2014, 12:31:13 AM by jcdmj12 »

Offline Minder

the drive we have is never going to change a bit like eating every day lol

our needs

Physiologically we need : breathing, food, water, sex, sleep, homeostasis, excretion  :P


http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/6/60/Maslow%27s_Hierarchy_of_Needs.svg
« Last Edit: July 30, 2014, 12:52:33 AM by Minder »

stress relief to some extent. some people like those bonzai trees, some like watching a shitty tv programme...I prefer a wet and dirty blowjob.

also a distraction. I work horrendous hours on my computer, and have ukp open in the background and when I can I pop off to a punt. Id lose my mind if I didnt do those things.

A better knowledge of london. Getting round in black cabs is fine but knowing where, how far etc and seeing new parts of the city through gash dashes is interesting.

Online webpunter

With the written word being the method of communication then deffo in general life this has made me better in communicating on emails & stuff
Not that my posts would suggest this !
Also not trying too hard to shag the OH - knowing that if no result in this dept, then i will simply make up for this on AW at some point

Offline AnthG

The main positive for me is the ability to show to myself that I am a risk taker. That I have it in myself to do something crazy.

As say this as when you think of it on the grand scheme of things booking a prostitute and paying for sex is up there as one of the craziest things you can do in life and it takes a lot of courage to go through with it that first time.

I would put it on a par scale of abseiling off a large bridge or something.

I would put it as my are you a man or mouse type thing that you go through. So am pleased about this that I did it and did not chicken out that first punt or whatever

Another benefit is its helped with the forming of a better plenty of more fish in the sea attitude. As one of the things about punting is one girl leaves, others soon take her place. And this carries over to real life. So if you see a girl you fancy at work, or wherever and get nowhere. You kind of think, its not that big of a deal as there are plenty more fish in the sea.
« Last Edit: July 30, 2014, 01:18:25 AM by AnthG »

Offline smiths

I've just been reviewing my spending over the past year on WGs, and although it's been a fair chunk of change (to me, anyway), overall I feel it was money well spent.

Besides having very entertaining sex with different women, on reflection:

1. Sex is a lot less important to me than it was as part of a relationship, as I know I can get it elsewhere easily. This has enabled me to focus on other parts of the my relationship without all the conflict, anger and resentment there was previously, which has really benefited things.
2. I used to get infatuated with girls really easily, which caused me a lot of trouble in the past. Now I know that I feel that way after pretty much every good sexual encounter, I don't get wound up about it any more, I just look forward to the next one.
3. Sort of related, but it's allowed me to completely separate sex/lust & love in my head.  Lust is just about chemistry, whereas love is something that takes a long, long time to build up (for me, at least)

What about you?

A memory bank of actually doing things sexually beyond my wildest dreams, all for the price of a punt.

Offline Stiltskin

Punting has improved my knowledge of several UK cities, London especially.

Pretty much all of the posts above apply to me. AnthG comes closest though. My first punt at the beginning of March was incredible. I was so fucking nervous. The WG I saw was superb, calming me down and within 5 mins I was licking her pussy. That day will stay with me for a very long time.

Bear in mind I only discovered AW in Feb and didn't even know what punting meant. Also thought escorts were girls you took out for dinner (yep, really).

Now I've fucked 19 girls, one of them 3 times. Beyond my wildest dreams. And some new friends made on UKP!

I'll drink to that

 :drinks:

tcm

Offline macmate

I was more than a bit rubbish with girls in my teens and early twenties, then I met my other half. There was a big part of me that felt I missed out, so for me it's about completing my bucket list and chalking up a reasonable tally of experiences - women are beautiful things after all.

Knowing I'll (hopefully) get to 80 odd years with no regrets and a filthy memory bank is kind of reassuring.

Offline hendrix

Experiences I'll never forget.

Offline socks

I agree with what others have said especially the making up for lost time bit - for some reason I shunned girls in my teens - and the doing of everything I can imagine with as many different women as possible. I love being able to reflect on the fact that I have to date, had sex with around 50 different women, 10 in their arseholes and have been sucked or wanked by even more!  :yahoo: I hope to grow that number too of course. And the range of things I've done, wow, it's fantastic!

There's also something about being true to myself. I have never understood the worldwide moral/legal objection to prostitution, nor do I see the 'sex is only for people who are married/in a relationship' perspective. I think sex is great and everyone should absolutely feel free to do more of it! In everyday reality though I can't live that philosophy but punting enables me to access it.

Offline Tailpipe

Experiences I'll never forget.

Smaller savings and investments  :cool:

But you only live once

Offline JR

Smaller savings - agreed
Confidence/relaxed attitude
I was a virgin when I met my wife and was faithful until the decree absolute, now have been a 53 going on 20 yo serial shagger. Have been punting since Jan 2013 which also gave me confidence to explore other options, like online dating (NOT match but some of the more basic sites) and have come up trumps on that as well, don't think I would have had the success with that without the boost from some pretty good punts

Offline Tailpipe

Smaller savings - agreed
Confidence/relaxed attitude
I was a virgin when I met my wife and was faithful until the decree absolute, now have been a 53 going on 20 yo serial shagger. Have been punting since Jan 2013 which also gave me confidence to explore other options, like online dating (NOT match but some of the more basic sites) and have come up trumps on that as well, don't think I would have had the success with that without the boost from some pretty good punts

Sounds good to me ,a couple of reviews from you would have been good , you missed nothing by not using match.com its shit.

Problem I feel is speeding time punting size 8 stunners then try to date a 40 something was never going to work for me.

happy punting

Offline JR

Sounds good to me ,a couple of reviews from you would have been good , you missed nothing by not using match.com its shit.

Problem I feel is speeding time punting size 8 stunners then try to date a 40 something was never going to work for me.

happy punting
Hopefully this will take you to some mini-reviews I posted when I started on here
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=34707.msg477125#msg477125
will do some proper ones soon, have a few booked ahead

Offline anyfucker

Not having to have a mistress with all the stress that entails.

A memory bank of actually doing things sexually beyond my wildest dreams, all for the price of a punt.
+1 and proving I can still do it at 72.

Offline Natwest

I really wanted to stop watching porn. Punting has completely cured me.

Offline LL

I gained the ability to last longer at sex.

Offline Matium

Greater independence from women in the sense that when you're at a party and you've struck out, you can console yourself with the thought that for a few pounds, you can be having sex with a girl who's younger, fitter, healthier and prettier than any of the women who've spent the last few hours ignoring you.

Prosttution allows a man to say "sod you!" to civvy girls.

jcdmj12

I really wanted to stop watching porn. Punting has completely cured me.

+1 to that.  I occasionally watch porn, but my default is just to use my memory.   :cool:

jcdmj12

Smaller savings and investments  :cool:

But you only live once

Yep, and there are no pockets in shrouds.

jcdmj12

Experiences I'll never forget.

Agree 100%.  The FFM sessions I had with Blondies were defintely bucket list material.

jcdmj12

There's also something about being true to myself. I have never understood the worldwide moral/legal objection to prostitution, nor do I see the 'sex is only for people who are married/in a relationship' perspective. I think sex is great and everyone should absolutely feel free to do more of it! In everyday reality though I can't live that philosophy but punting enables me to access it.

It's an  Anglo-saxon/Protestant thing.  Both the Japanese and some European countries (France, Italy etc) have far more realistic attitudes about the different between committed relationships and sexual entertainment.

Offline JV547845

Most importantly my life no longer revolves around sexual frustration but on topic my punctuality and male grooming have greatly improved.


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