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Offline HappyFlyer

As a 50-something guy who sometimes books 20-something girls, I am wondering if mentioning my age when booking could be helpful in making the punt go smoother? E.g. if the girl is put off by someone the age of her father then I'd rather know before visiting her (and maybe even change my plans). Likewise if she prefers older guys - and even says so - then the punt might go a bit better with the mutually positive anticipation. The main thing I am thinking is that an "age difference surprise" at the door upon arrival might get things off to a worse start that could otherwise have been avoided. I guess I could also mention that I'm somewhat rounder than I used to be, but that might be taking it too far :P

Curious6705

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I think it's a reasonable question to be in your mind. On the other hand IMO most punters are middle age, and many middle aged men are overweight. Offering the information in the way you suggest may IMO lead her to believe you are vulnerable to a little psychological manipulation, and some WGs may seek to take advantage.

yorkshire123

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I'm of a similar age than you. I don't bother telling them my age prior to booking but most of the time i can detect a little relief from them that I'm not a lot younger.
Having discussed this subject with a few prossies in the past some of their reasons for liking older guys are....
- They know what they are doing
- They know how to resect women
- They know how to treat a woman
- They are cleaner
- They smell nicer
- They don't haggle
- They rarely piss about
- They are more relaxed

Now i for one don't believe everything they say, i think its mainly because some of us are quite fluffy & an easy pay day.
For example I'm a one pop guy who likes a lot of foreplay and also penetrative sex isn't always my priority , i can imagine that a some of the younger guys like to (and can) bang away for the full punt but those days are a distant memory for me ( :()
However if she's the kind of girl who likes to get a guy off quickly & end the punt prior to the time you have paid for I'm a fucking nightmare  :cool:

pye024

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Age shouldn't be a problem if the WG is any good. If it is a big problem for them, they should make it clear in their profile.

Offline smiths

As a 50-something guy who sometimes books 20-something girls, I am wondering if mentioning my age when booking could be helpful in making the punt go smoother? E.g. if the girl is put off by someone the age of her father then I'd rather know before visiting her (and maybe even change my plans). Likewise if she prefers older guys - and even says so - then the punt might go a bit better with the mutually positive anticipation. The main thing I am thinking is that an "age difference surprise" at the door upon arrival might get things off to a worse start that could otherwise have been avoided. I guess I could also mention that I'm somewhat rounder than I used to be, but that might be taking it too far :P

If a WG has a problem with punters of a certain age group she should say so on her profile in my view, as indeed some WGs do.

I am getting on for 50 and punt on ocassion with WGs from 18 years of age but dont see my age as being relevant, its punting not dating. If i make it to 70 and am still punting perhaps i might view it differently.

rogerc23

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I'm of a similar age than you. I don't bother telling them my age prior to booking but most of the time i can detect a little relief from them that I'm not a lot younger.
Having discussed this subject with a few prossies in the past some of their reasons for liking older guys are....
- They know what they are doing
- They know how to resect women
- They know how to treat a woman
- They are cleaner
- They smell nicer
- They don't haggle
- They rarely piss about
- They are more relaxed

Now i for one don't believe everything they say, i think its mainly because some of us are quite fluffy & an easy pay day.
For example I'm a one pop guy who likes a lot of foreplay and also penetrative sex isn't always my priority , i can imagine that a some of the younger guys like to (and can) bang away for the full punt but those days are a distant memory for me ( :()
However if she's the kind of girl who likes to get a guy off quickly & end the punt prior to the time you have paid for I'm a fucking nightmare  :cool:

I cant believe cleanlness can be a generation thing, a dirty animal who cant be bothered to wash will be like that regardless of his age

yorkshire123

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I cant believe cleanlness can be a generation thing, a dirty animal who cant be bothered to wash will be like that regardless of his age

Thats what they said but as i stated i don't believe everything i was told.

Curious6705

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- They know how to resect women

I like the typo but I think it's probably one best avoided!  :lol:

yorkshire123

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I like the typo but I think it's probably one best avoided!  :lol:

Good spot sir  :hi:
(I doubt it will be my last tonight  :dash:)

Offline nigel4498

I'm sixty two and always tell them my age when I book. Have a booking tomorrow with a twenty year old who states on her profile that she prefers the more mature guy shall we say!
My regular is only twenty two.
I have never had any problem at all.
Agree with yorkshire, perhaps we give them an easy time, though I do still like to pop twice.  :P

Offline Boundless

I'm of a similar age than you. I don't bother telling them my age prior to booking but most of the time i can detect a little relief from them that I'm not a lot younger.
Having discussed this subject with a few prossies in the past some of their reasons for liking older guys are....
- They know what they are doing
- They know how to resect women
- They know how to treat a woman
- They are cleaner
- They smell nicer
- They don't haggle
- They rarely piss about
- They are more relaxed

Now i for one don't believe everything they say, i think its mainly because some of us are quite fluffy & an easy pay day.
For example I'm a one pop guy who likes a lot of foreplay and also penetrative sex isn't always my priority , i can imagine that a some of the younger guys like to (and can) bang away for the full punt but those days are a distant memory for me ( :()
However if she's the kind of girl who likes to get a guy off quickly & end the punt prior to the time you have paid for I'm a fucking nightmare  :cool:

Totally agree with all the above and all my regs know I'm a one trip pony!

I used to be a bit concerned about this a few years ago in the early days, but I figure, as you do, that a fair percentage of punters are over 45 and possibly slightly overweight. I always tell myself that they're not going to get George Clooney walking through the door when after all they are in the business of sucking total strangers' cocks for cash. If asked my age, I always tell them, but in prossie years of course, i.e. knock about 8 years off! A few have told me they're glad I'm an older guy as they're concerned that they might know younger guys from school, college, social scene etc in a fairly small town.

Offline NIK

Only to the dickheads who have stupid age restrictions. If you are  paying anyone's money should be good enough regardless of age. I wouldn't fuck an old woman, but then I am the one paying.

Oldstager

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I am 84. Until recently I had a long term regular w.g. who was quite happy with my age, but having recently had to find myself a fresh w.g. I found that with my age showing on my AW Profile all my emails went unanswered.  I then took 10 years off my age on my Profile and surprise, surprise, got one or two replies, so, clearly, there is some "cut-off" age somewhere in the 70s beyond which one becomes considered too old.

I, too, am now a "one pop" merchant, but I was brought up by my late wife to make sure that I gave my companion the maximum possible pleasure before my "one pop", so once securely in the saddle I pace myself and make sure my companion has several orgasms before I `blow`. 

Needless to say, I have been told that I could well pass for 75 in appearance, but I suspect that my future available choices are going to be somewhat limited in number

Offline Boundless

I am 84. Until recently I had a long term regular w.g. who was quite happy with my age, but having recently had to find myself a fresh w.g. I found that with my age showing on my AW Profile all my emails went unanswered.  I then took 10 years off my age on my Profile and surprise, surprise, got one or two replies, so, clearly, there is some "cut-off" age somewhere in the 70s beyond which one becomes considered too old.

I, too, am now a "one pop" merchant, but I was brought up by my late wife to make sure that I gave my companion the maximum possible pleasure before my "one pop", so once securely in the saddle I pace myself and make sure my companion has several orgasms before I `blow`. 

Needless to say, I have been told that I could well pass for 75 in appearance, but I suspect that my future available choices are going to be somewhat limited in number

Well done OS, something for us all to aspire to, I'd like to think I'll still be able to manage it at your age.  Just wondering who your reg was as a WG told me a while ago that she had a client who was 84 but I can't recall who it was now. You in the West mids by any chance?

Offline Sedlmayer

If a prostitute has problems with fucking/sucking an older man she should say so very clearly on her profile, so that punters know just how deluded and unprofessional she is and avoid her.
An age limit would put me off even if I was a lot younger than I am, because it shows a very unprofessional attitude. You're a prostitute, here's the money, open your mouth.

Offline i_like_coffee

I've never really read an age limit, and when I have it's actually the other way around. Some peopel don't want younger guys.

I am also wondering if ethnicity is an issue too?

Offline smiths

I've never really read an age limit, and when I have it's actually the other way around. Some peopel don't want younger guys.

I am also wondering if ethnicity is an issue too?

Yes ethnicity is a problem for some WGs, some make clear on their profiles no blacks or asians welcome for example. This subject has had many threads discussing it.

Offline NIK

Yes ethnicity is a problem for some WGs, some make clear on their profiles no blacks or asians welcome for example. This subject has had many threads discussing it.

Yes, let's not go there. It really has been done to death. Suffice to say it's the only 'service' that can get away with blatant discrimination these days. However of course because it's so personal the consensus is that no woman should be expected to see anyone she doesn't want to. Once again showing paid sex is completely different to anything else in the service world.

Roland D Hay

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Yes, I think all prossies should admit their age but very few do.  :hi:

Offline Daffodil

It should be completely irrelevant.

If a prossie has an issue with age (young or old) she should say so on her profile. If she hasn't then I see no reason to state your age.

Offline Jimmyredcab

I am an old bastard but would never point this out when making a booking, never been turned away yet, if girls enter this business to meet young hunks they are in for a disappointment.    :wackogirl:

Offline Third Man

Its something thats concerned me a bit over the years, and being over 50 have occasionally asked a girl if she sees many older guys as I used to think that I would probably be her oldest .Clearly not! Since being a member here its been great seeing that in general there are lots of older punters and most girls are happy with that.

cockneybstrd

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I am an old bastard but would never point this out when making a booking, never been turned away yet, if girls enter this business to meet young hunks they are in for a disappointment.    :wackogirl:

Exactly..

I dont give my age when booking. I dont see why it would be of interest to them.

I dont mind telling them when asked. What annoys me is the false bullshit when they ask I say X and they go really you look much younger...

Yeah pull the other one I didnt pay you for false compliments I am paying you to suck my cock.

Offline NIK

Exactly..

I dont give my age when booking. I dont see why it would be of interest to them.

I dont mind telling them when asked. What annoys me is the false bullshit when they ask I say X and they go really you look much younger...

Yeah pull the other one I didnt pay you for false compliments I am paying you to suck my cock.

Yes I have often been told I look younger than I am - not recently though as I think the years have suddenly caught up!  :scare:
However I used to reply, 'That's because I'm not married and don't have any brats!'  :D

GeeWiz

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Your age shows on AW.  My date of birth was set as 1st January 1901 until pointed out to me, so I guess it may have led to some non replies.  Have also seen profiles state 25-40 as if it's a dating site.

Their loss as when I'm in my fifties and beyond, I'll have more disposable income than ever and would expect most blokes the same.

Offline LanceVance

If a prostitute has problems with fucking/sucking an older man she should say so very clearly on her profile, so that punters know just how deluded and unprofessional she is and avoid her.
An age limit would put me off even if I was a lot younger than I am, because it shows a very unprofessional attitude. You're a prostitute, here's the money, open your mouth.

Precisely, if you are going to sell sex, it doesn't make sense to be picky about who you see. If a WG states she will only see white professionals between 30 and 70, she won't make anywhere as much money as the WG around the corner who will see anyone who is clean, respectful and over 18.

Offline threechilliman

I give em some basic details as I'm confident in my appearance, mainly so they have some idea of what to expect. I describe myself as average looking and in good shape for my age (mid-40's), not fat and not bald. As I said to one girl 'you'll be able to keep your lunch down!'

tcm

Roland D Hay

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As I said to one girl 'you'll be able to keep your lunch down!'

tcm

Brilliant, but did she?  :lol:

ATMIV

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"Is it helpful to admit your age when booking?"

In my case yes, it's helpful to me! I prefer a young girl to be expecting someone of my age when she opens the door. I don't just blurt out I incorporate it in an opening email.

My first email to an escort always follows a similar format.

A) I compliment them on their profile
B) I ask what there preferred method of booking is
C) I ask if all services are inclusive
D) I politely ask if there is a problem in cumming more than once
E) I inform them I enjoy pleasuring a woman and ask if that's ok and request they direct me as to any particular technique they enjoy
F) I request they read my feedback and my list of enjoys in my AW Profile so they can get an idea of what things I like to do

Finally I state my age tell them I'm no stud muffin and ask if they have a problem with it.

I put all of this into my intro email so they know what things I'm expecting but mainly it allows me to gauge to some degree whether or not I will take it further with an escort by her reply.

If she replies warmly and has taken time to address my questions - Bingo

If it's a curt one liner - I move on

So yes it is helpful - to me .

Offline threechilliman

Brilliant, but did she?  :lol:

No sign of her lunch! She got stuck in to me from the moment i walked in and was one of the girls I paid at the end.....

tcm

Offline anyfucker

As a 50-something guy who sometimes books 20-something girls, ...
As a 60-something guy who almost always books 20-something girls, i have never been asked my age nor had anyone turn me down.
I am pretty fit and toned - no i don't know my body fat percentage:-)
A couple of years ago a chinese prossie told me she had a regular in his 90s but hadn't seen him for a few months.
I'll be glad enough if i make it to 90 let alone still banging girls in their 20s

Offline sublimetoridiculous

Have been turned down once for being too old. Did suggest to put that on the profile to save everyone's time, but that fell on deaf ears.

Offline Horizontal pleasures

In my opening message I simply state as part of my description of myself that 'I am older than you' and never state my real age until I have come. I have never been asked in advance how old I am. I only give my age after the deed has been done when they are surprised (real or fake!?). 72.

I have rarely approached a lady who states a maximum age when I am older than that age, no point.

Offline JR

I give em some basic details as I'm confident in my appearance, mainly so they have some idea of what to expect. I describe myself as average looking and in good shape for my age (mid-40's), not fat and not bald. As I said to one girl 'you'll be able to keep your lunch down!'

tcm
Baldist!
I have been balding since my early 20's and so far have had no problems with wg's or civvies throwing up on me  :crazy:

Offline cunnyhunt

Booking a Milf type punt I was turned down for being too young (27 then) once,  but no problem now.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Precisely, if you are going to sell sex, it doesn't make sense to be picky about who you see. If a WG states she will only see white professionals between 30 and 70, she won't make anywhere as much money as the WG around the corner who will see anyone who is clean, respectful and over 18.

This thread is about age, not skin colour.     :unknown: :unknown: :unknown:

Girls who prefer to not see black guys will still get a good living.     :hi: :hi:

pokenn

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I really don't think most WGs give two hoots about the age/looks of the punter.

I've never even mentioned my age when contacting the girl, and none have ever asked.

A punter who thinks WGs care about his age/looks is getting mixed up about whether she's his girlfriend or a prossie who offers sex for money

Offline Jimmyredcab

I really don't think most WGs give two hoots about the age/looks of the punter.

I've never even mentioned my age when contacting the girl, and none have ever asked.

A punter who thinks WGs care about his age/looks is getting mixed up about whether she's his girlfriend or a prossie who offers sex for money

Agree on all points.

It is a paid business arrangement, not a blind date.     :hi: :hi:

Offline Stiltskin

A punter who thinks WGs care about his age/looks is getting mixed up about whether she's his girlfriend or a prossie who offers sex for money

I think a lot of them do care, especially the younger/newer girls and it's reflected in their service. This is one reason why some girls get mixed reviews.

If George Clooney turns up at their door or John McCririck, hairier, fatter and 20 years older, who do you think is going to get the better service? The thought of a sweaty John McCririck heaving away on top of a teenaged girl turns even my stomach.

The older, career prossie is a different story though. They care more about a punter's attitude and hygiene than age or looks, although Mr McCririck would probably fall short on both counts :D.

Offline threechilliman

I think a lot of them do care, especially the younger/newer girls and it's reflected in their service. This is one reason why some girls get mixed reviews.

If George Clooney turns up at their door or John McCririck, hairier, fatter and 20 years older, who do you think is going to get the better service? The thought of a sweaty John McCririck heaving away on top of a teenaged girl turns even my stomach.

The older, career prossie is a different story though. They care more about a punter's attitude and hygiene than age or looks, although Mr McCririck would probably fall short on both counts :D.

Agree. A couple of girls I've seen have said something along these lines. One of the reasons they like RCG......

tcm

Offline denneboom

This thread is about age, not skin colour.     :unknown: :unknown: :unknown:

Girls who prefer to not see black guys will still get a good living.     :hi: :hi:

White Professionals. I've often wondered what being a professional is and how you would qualify as one.

Type_O_Negative

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Well i think in this business to be a professional means to be a gentelman.

Offline finn5555

Well i think in this business to be a professional means to be a gentelman.

Don't mix up professionalism with being fluffy  :hi:

petitealice

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I agree. It is about being a gentleman, clean and polite, friendly, and generally pleasant. I don't understand girls who put restrictions on customers based on age, race, etc. it is their preference of course, but from my point of view, I would be offended if I went to the supermarket or to a hairdressers and was refused service based on my race or gender or age. To me, it is someone who is interested in your service and would like to pay to receive your services, whatever they look like is irrelevant.

kingkong

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I'm of a similar age than you. I don't bother telling them my age prior to booking but most of the time i can detect a little relief from them that I'm not a lot younger.
Having discussed this subject with a few prossies in the past some of their reasons for liking older guys are....
- They know what they are doing
- They know how to resect women
- They know how to treat a woman
- They are cleaner
- They smell nicer
- They don't haggle
- They rarely piss about
- They are more relaxed

Now i for one don't believe everything they say, i think its mainly because some of us are quite fluffy & an easy pay day.
For example I'm a one pop guy who likes a lot of foreplay and also penetrative sex isn't always my priority , i can imagine that a some of the younger guys like to (and can) bang away for the full punt but those days are a distant memory for me ( :()
However if she's the kind of girl who likes to get a guy off quickly & end the punt prior to the time you have paid for I'm a fucking nightmare  :cool:
Having discussed this subject with a few prossies in the past some of their reasons for liking older guys are....
- They know what they are doing :lol:
- They know how to resect women :lol:
- They know how to treat a woman :lol:
- They are cleaner :lol:
- They smell nicer :lol:
- They don't haggle :lol:
- They rarely piss about :lol:
- They are more relaxed :lol:

I have been told completely the opposite by WG's. So in your opinion younger men all smell,are dirty,haggle,piss about,are nervous,and don't know what they are doing. You really need to stop believing what WG's tell you, as they are just telling you what you want to hear. They all say to the younger guys that they prefer young men, it doesn't mean anything.

yorkshire123

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Having discussed this subject with a few prossies in the past some of their reasons for liking older guys are....
- They know what they are doing :lol:
- They know how to resect women :lol:
- They know how to treat a woman :lol:
- They are cleaner :lol:
- They smell nicer :lol:
- They don't haggle :lol:
- They rarely piss about :lol:
- They are more relaxed :lol:

I have been told completely the opposite by WG's. So in your opinion younger men all smell,are dirty,haggle,piss about,are nervous,and don't know what they are doing. You really need to stop believing what WG's tell you, as they are just telling you what you want to hear. They all say to the younger guys that they prefer young men, it doesn't mean anything.

And you really need to read the whole of my post before attempting to take the piss  ;)

Offline Dani

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I am not worried about age unless they look or sound very young and talk street as that just puts me off.
I did see it mentioned that prossies would prefer George Clooney look a like to a john Mccririck (sp).  That depends though on attitude not looks.  some good looking men can be dirty and smelly or just complete tossers in which case the other guy if he was pleasant and friendly and clean would get a much better service.
Its not about looks.  For me anyway as I don't really fancy many men at all until I know the.  I only really start to fancy someone once I get to know them and find they stimulate my mind, be it through being intelligent or having a great sense of humour.  A guy with a good sense of humour would get a better service from me than a guy who hardly spoke at all and laid there like a sack of spuds.

Looks and age don't come into it at all.  My very best client is a much older man and by older I mean at least 35 years older than me who is rotund, losing hair rapidly and teeth as well has a bad heart and is falling apart.  Yet his sense of humour matches mine so much we have become firm friends and have a great time in the bedroom as we can have a laugh instead of taking sex so seriously which also means we try different things too as it is so relaxed and if those things don't work out we can laugh about it. 

Looks and or age mean nothing in this industry on the clients side.  A client is paying for a service. it is not dating.  It is not a relationship.  Massage is a personal service but a real massage place would not turn away a client due to age or looks.  Plus after a few months of doing this we don't really look at faces anyway as they all blur in to on another. Once you have seen so many clients one face looks very much like the next.

kingkong

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And you really need to read the whole of my post before attempting to take the piss  ;)

Read it all and still stand by what I say. ;)

yorkshire123

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Read it all and still stand by what I say. ;)

Ok i will make it a little bit easier for you  :hi:


I have been told completely the opposite by WG's. So in your opinion younger men all smell,are dirty,haggle,piss about,are nervous,and don't know what they are doing. You really need to stop believing what WG's tell you, as they are just telling you what you want to hear. They all say to the younger guys that they prefer young men, it doesn't mean anything.

Now i for one don't believe everything they say, i think its mainly because some of us are quite fluffy & an easy pay day.
For example I'm a one pop guy who likes a lot of foreplay and also penetrative sex isn't always my priority , i can imagine that a some of the younger guys like to (and can) bang away for the full punt but those days are a distant memory for me ( :()
However if she's the kind of girl who likes to get a guy off quickly & end the punt prior to the time you have paid for I'm a fucking nightmare  :cool:

Offline Apu

If you have the look of a 72 year old, bring it up, but if not, just mention it in passing during the phone call (not email), to get her immediete reaction, if she's a cock, she'll say no, good prossies usually will make you feel even more comfortable as you took them into consideration.
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