Is it selfish wanting to suck and f*ck the entire length of a 1 or 2 hr booking?

[Bangers and Gash]

I know that lots of pro$$ies just love to timewaste  by giving crap massages, making tea, cuddling, chatting about kittens and the complexities of the exchange rate mechanism .... but is it greedy or insensitive of us gentlemen to bypass this girly nonsense and get straight on the job?

Reading the misandrist comments from the dusty phone brigade on Safe and Pro$$ynet it would seem that punters who turn up for a booking and want dirty sex for the duration of a punt are nothing more than piss-takers who can expect to be blacklisted.

Surely I'm paying for sex? If I'm after tea and cuddles I can go see my mum - they're always free 

Who's correct? 

[Dani]

Book someone who offers a PSE as they will be expecting non stop fucking and sucking.  Whereas with a GFE it is slightly slower paced with a  lot of kissing and foreplay before the main event.
However I agree unless you book a massage and the girl is qualified to do it properly then it should not be offered as it is a timewasting tactic as some use it to just do a few strokes up and down but can waste 20 minutes of a booking.

[GeeWiz]

One SP stated a maximum of twenty minutes penetration on an hour hour booking, ten on half hour.

Not advocating an hour of non stop shagging, but I'd expect more than that over two rounds.

[Stealthshagger]

we always get told we are paying for the time. if we pay for an hour, why cant we do the services advertised for the full time? if not, then if in an hour we spend 30 minutes of it having sex etc, let us pay the 30 minute rate.

It is fascinating reading escorts complain that clients go in, get straight to it. Well, if you want a chat etc first, lets do it on your time. If escorts were paying between 1.50 plus a minute with an hour commitment, would they want a slow chat and a cup of tea?

I get the we are not sex  machines argument, but why should punters be cash machines then?

If you pay a high fee for time, why not do the advertised services to your hearts content in the time?

one wg told me she wont do just bjs in the time, as its too tiring. and sex in any position, but not standing as its tiring.  I wonder what justifies the rate for escorting.

[smiths]

I know that lots of pro$$ies just love to timewaste  by giving crap massages, making tea, cuddling, chatting about kittens and the complexities of the exchange rate mechanism .... but is it greedy or insensitive of us gentlemen to bypass this girly nonsense and get straight on the job?

Reading the misandrist comments from the dusty phone brigade on Safe and Pro$$ynet it would seem that punters who turn up for a booking and want dirty sex for the duration of a punt are nothing more than piss-takers who can expect to be blacklisted.

Surely I'm paying for sex? If I'm after tea and cuddles I can go see my mum - they're always free 

Who's correct? 

The one paying is right so the punter. If the seller doesnt like it she should do something else to make money in my view. I am always happy to chat in the breaks i need anyway, and afterwards in the WGs own time.

[smiths]

One SP stated a maximum of twenty minutes penetration on an hour hour booking, ten on half hour.

Not advocating an hour of non stop shagging, but I'd expect more than that over two rounds.

That would be EXACTLY the kind of WG i never wish to meet as they dont have the attitude i require.

[pokenn]

It's up to the punter how he spends the time he has paid for. Of course it's tiring and hard work - that's why the WG is being paid more ph than the Prime Minister or a hospital consultant surgeon.

[deuce14]

Best thing is to be upfront and agree beforehand. The odd time I booked for an hour (im a tightwad) I was clear during booking that I wanted to fuck hard nonstop. Then if they do try to cuddle I feel fine saying no and insisting mycock stays inside them for the full time or until I want to spunk

[house music dave]

I agree that you should be able to fuck and suck for the hour or two if you want to. However this is just not the way most escorts seem to see it. I've read saafe and they are always told that they have to stay in control and dictate the pace, in fact they seem to go in prepared on how they want the meeting to go.

Below is an extreme situation of a guy fucking someone for 6 hours, part of me feels sorry for the girl as physically it must have killed her the other part of me is annoyed at saafe for telling this girl that all her time wasting tactics would work. Some of the advice saafe gives baffles me.  I'm all of the opinion ten minute break and we are back to the task in hand, 

Violence and aggressiveness I have no time for. But if the guy said he wanted to play for 6 hours, you have to think in your head. Do I have the mental fortitude and stamina to do this. Take proper responsibility for your own actions.

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[Stealthshagger]

violence and aggression are no nos full stop, no exception. When there is any violence or aggression etc from a man on a woman or vice versa, it should be a police matter. not ok.

Sex for six hours..if it is too much to have sex for six hours, dont take the money or booking for six hours of sex. I can see why it is way too much, but I think its foolish to agree to in the first place, and cynical to expect to timewaste for the money.

I should add i did not click the link, but commenting on the points you made.

[wristjob]

If it says that in their profile fine, you choose whether to book on the terms they give. If not - different story.

I agree that you should be able to fuck and suck for the hour or two if you want to. However this is just not the way most escorts seem to see it. I've read saafe and they are always told that they have to stay in control and dictate the pace, in fact they seem to go in prepared on how they want the meeting to go.

Below is an extreme situation of a guy fucking someone for 6 hours, part of me feels sorry for the girl as physically it must have killed her the other part of me is annoyed at saafe for telling this girl that all her time wasting tactics would work. Some of the advice saafe gives baffles me.  I'm all of the opinion ten minute break and we are back to the task in hand, 

Violence and aggressiveness I have no time for. But if the guy said he wanted to play for 6 hours, you have to think in your head. Do I have the mental fortitude and stamina to do this. Take proper responsibility for your own actions.

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Pretty much agree with all of that. In an hour booking I would expect an hour of whatever I like to be available unless otherwise stated. If it's over an hour I'd accept she's a human being and not a robot and treat her like I would have an employer treat me so 5-10 mins an hour for the look, drink - and jeez something to eat in a 6h booking. Should be discussed beforehand and the price should reflect this really.

That girl in the example sounds dumb to be honest. If she couldn't carry on she should have said and cut the booking short. As she had seen him before she should have known what she was getting in to - and adjusted the booking accordingly.

As for feeling like a piece of meet - piss off. I doubt anybody has done a normal boss where their boss hasn't totally crapped on them occasionally. At least she's in a business where that's part of the nature of the business

[house music dave]

I kind of veered the topic off course slightly i fear. I agree straight 6 hour sex is too much for almost anyone. If the guy was into that experience why not book a full overnight? I think the point i was trying to make with the link is that a lot of them rightly were against what he did. But the way in which they took against him made me feel as though they'd do the same to a guy who books 1 hour and wants to cum 3/4 times.

[threechilliman]

6hrs shagging non stop? Yeh, right. In your dreams. Nobody could do that - you eventually lose interest.......

tcm

[house music dave]

Why you'd want to spend 6 hours with a prossie is beyond me

[Stealthshagger]

6hrs shagging non stop? Yeh, right. In your dreams. Nobody could do that - you eventually lose interest.......

tcm

might well be on something?

[JV547845]

With a 6 hour marathon surely they should've been changing condoms and lubing up or at least changing positions.  Girls get cramp.  I'm impressed if she stayed wet for that length of time. 

It's a weird one really as some of us punters complain in reviews that the girl didn't take the lead enough and not many of us like it when they just lie back and take it.  I wouldn't continue shagging more than an hour, pounding them into the mattress, unless the SP was really into it.  That happens very rarely when a WG says `fuck me as hard as you like, don't worry about hurting me' and I don't then come within 10 minutes.  I've had a couple of girls stop in doggy when I was going for pop two and finish me off by hand.  I was concerned I was doing something wrong, I can't really feel what I'm doing with a johnny on.  Sometimes you know they're just putting up with you but still want you to shag them and come ASAP (strangely sometimes because they're scared of negative feedback).  That might still take a long time with me ladies, it's just a fact of life when using condoms especially if I've not seen a face pic before.  No WG ever believes me when I say I'll be gentle either.

I guess the best SPs will just make it clear on their profile, it's only the mis selling part that's annoying and it's only some Romanians who are like `why haven't you come yet?'  The rest of the time that's just the deal with having sex with strangers for the first time. 

[Jimmyredcab]

I can't fuck for an hour, doubt I could have done when I was 18, I think some of you gents live in a fantasy world.   

[CBPaul]

I can't fuck for an hour, doubt I could have done when I was 18, I think some of you gents live in a fantasy world.   

Comes from spending too long watching porn and believing that the blokes remain rock hard, unaided, for hours and have the stamina to bang away non stop. Load of nonsense.

In the saafe report above she says he expected continued sex, oral and her playing with herself for 6 hours, so in other words 6 hours of her rubbing herself with the odd suck n fuck when he was ready and able.

[Nimrod]

I've had good punts and bad punts in my many years experience, but I've never come close to feeling the need to negotiate Key Performance Indicators in advance. I'm afraid it does occur to me that in this case, there is probably something wrong with the OP because the problem just doesn't sound like a real-life scenario. Sorry, but reading between the lines that what I get from this post.

[GreyDave]

 
What!! I and others might agree with Jimmy

That saafe thing is balls no mention how much she was paid eh?
To have a boner for that time is dangerous

My feelings are a full on PSE ( when Ive done em  ) as the girl will take lead and in my past has brought me to edge and relaxed then back I was knackered (Karolina Annabels MK, big Italian/Romanian lass) I have not in 30 plus years of punting even when young been with a girl / woman that I could wear out, I ve been in party situations where the girls (Brazilian) take down punters and count em for number and time in pussy.
Save yer cash for shorter more full on shags is my tupence worth
Whatch some porn lad those chaps don`t last that long either. Mind you they have bigger cocks than us mortals

[Bangers and Gash]

I can't fuck for an hour, doubt I could have done when I was 18,

Then maybe you should alter your diet, take regular exercise and see if things improve. Sitting in a cab all day reading the Daily Mail is bound to affect your sex drive.

I think some of you gents live in a fantasy world.   

Isn't that what punting is about? 

[Jimmyredcab]

Then maybe you should alter your diet, take regular exercise and see if things improve. Sitting in a cab all day reading the Daily Mail is bound to affect your sex drive.

This may shock you but --------------------------- some punters tell lies.   

[James999]

I can't fuck for an hour, doubt I could have done when I was 18, I think some of you gents live in a fantasy world.

More than one pro$$ie has told me that most guys come in a few mins and chat for the rest of their time, with some of them coming twice but many just chat and play around and then they want sex right at the end as they know it won't take long 

Book a pro$$ie for the amount of time you want sex, be this 15,30 mins or an hour, after all when you go in the pub you don't order 5 pints if you are only going to drink two 

There are of course exceptions and one girl told me she had a client who would fuck solidly for an hour and still not cum, she said he would be dripping sweat on her and after seeing him she'd be uncomfortable for ages, so she stopped seeing him.

[Jimmyredcab]

Book a pro$$ie for the amount of time you want sex, be this 15,30 mins or an hour, after all when you go in the pub you don't order 5 pints if you are only going to drink two 

Generally speaking you will have the same amount of sex whether you book 30 minutes or an hour ------------ that is why some pro$$ies refuse 30 minute bookings.   

[James999]

Generally speaking you will have the same amount of sex whether you book 30 minutes or an hour ------------ that is why some pro$$ies refuse 30 minute bookings.

100% agree 

[Ali Katt]

Generally speaking you will have the same amount of sex whether you book 30 minutes or an hour ------------ that is why some pro$$ies refuse 30 minute bookings.   

Also the reason why I don't do hour bookings, unless I've seen that person before.

[CatBBW]

Pretty much agree with all of that. In an hour booking I would expect an hour of whatever I like to be available unless otherwise stated. If it's over an hour I'd accept she's a human being and not a robot and treat her like I would have an employer treat me so 5-10 mins an hour for the look, drink - and jeez something to eat in a 6h booking. Should be discussed beforehand and the price should reflect this really.

I have been asked a few times for 4-6 hour full sex bookings, in which the guys said they wanted to spend the whole time fucking and/or being sucked. During negotiations of price and service, I said it would be £XXX amount (usually something like 2 or 3 x my 1 hourly rate, so they're getting a large discount) and for every hour I would need approx 10 minutes 'comfort break', where I could use the loo, have something to eat and drink, and generally cool off and even take a quick shower if I want...NONE of the guys were happy with this, one of them even said "no breaks but I'll bring you some bottled water if you insist" !! (I didn't take the bookings!)

So yes, if a man wants to go at the pussy for 6 hours solid, he needs to make sure the WG is aware of this and agrees to it before making the booking.

[Jimmyredcab]

Also the reason why I don't do hour bookings, unless I've seen that person before.

Obviously if you like the pro$$ie then you may be happy to chat for the other 30 minutes.   

[Private Parts]

Even do the Daily Mail crossword
PP

[Ali Katt]

Obviously if you like the pro$$ie then you may be happy to chat for the other 30 minutes.   

Either that or I know they will deliver a decent service and I will get value for money.

[threechilliman]

might well be on something?

Almost certainly. A mains supply probably.....

tcm

[GeeWiz]

Generally speaking you will have the same amount of sex whether you book 30 minutes or an hour ------------ that is why some pro$$ies refuse 30 minute bookings.   

Not true if you have two rounds.

[smiths]

6hrs shagging non stop? Yeh, right. In your dreams. Nobody could do that - you eventually lose interest.......

tcm

Indeed, i would have to see it to believe it. I have seen a small number of punters shagging non stop for 2 hours at parties and on ocassion another 2 hours at the following party after having an hours break between those parties.

[smiths]

Not true if you have two rounds.

Or three which i aim for in an hours punt, i dont always get their though, but i definitely couldnt get their in less than an hour nowadays which is why an hour is my minimum punt length. If i were a one pop punter i would more than likely book half hours.

[Jimmyredcab]

Not true if you have two rounds.

Can I use the analogy of a small child who sees a large cake in the bakers shop window, he is sure he will eat it all until he is half way through it and then realizes he can't.

I remember a famous brothel owner called Sunni Tara telling me that many punters went for the 40 minute session where you were allowed two pops, according to her many did not go for pop number 2.   

[Ali Katt]

Can I use the analogy of a small child who sees a large cake in the bakers shop window, he is sure he will eat it all until he is half way through it and then realizes he can't.

I remember a famous brothel owner called Sunni Tara telling me that many punters went for the 40 minute session where you were allowed two pops, according to her many did not go for pop number 2.   

Spot on. Maybe if I was a younger man, but in hour bookings I think I've managed to cum twice less than 5 times, out of over 30 punts.

[CBPaul]

Can I use the analogy of a small child who sees a large cake in the bakers shop window, he is sure he will eat it all until he is half way through it and then realizes he can't.

I remember a famous brothel owner called Sunni Tara telling me that many punters went for the 40 minute session where you were allowed two pops, according to her many did not go for pop number 2.   

2 pops in 40 minutes and the analogy probably holds true. Strikes me the prossie had worked that one out as being an easy option otherwise she'd just offer cum twice in 60 minutes.

But unlike the child and the massive cakes I know that I can manage to cum twice in an hour. Well 80 % of the time. Once in a 30 minute punt and twice in a 60 minute punt means more sex in the 60 minute, quite a lot more actually as I last a lot longer second time around.

[James999]

every hour I would need approx 10 minutes 'comfort break', where I could use the loo, have something to eat and drink,

Can't you go an hour without eating 

[akauya]

Not true if you have two rounds.

Or three as Smiths pointed out. On my good days I have managed three pops in an hour, it's getting more difficult now but can easily manage two. On some good days I can manage two pops in a half hour session. I suppose I'm one of the lucky ones.

What pisses me off is the arrogance of some punters who think because they can't manage more than one pop in an hour (or two) everyone else is like them and are lying or showing off.

We are all different, we respond to different stimulus in a different way and act accordingly. Some guys pop once in an hour and like to talk the rest of the time, so what's so fucking wrong about that? It's his money he decides what he does with it. Some guys can pop many times in an hour and skip the talking, that's great if they can do it.

When I saw the title of this thread I thought this was aimed at some guys who can fuck for ages and ages and not cum (I met a few at parties) and believe me they are not very happy themselves as it takes it out on them. Some men cannot come with intercourse, they do enjoy the fucking but they don't come.

So there are a huge number of differences between us but as I said what pisses me off is the arrogant punters who believe their way of punting is the only way.

[hendrix]

Or three as Smiths pointed out. On my good days I have managed three pops in an hour, it's getting more difficult now but can easily manage two. On some good days I can manage two pops in a half hour session. I suppose I'm one of the lucky ones.

What pisses me off is the arrogance of some punters who think because they can't manage more than one pop in an hour (or two) everyone else is like them and are lying or showing off.

We are all different, we respond to different stimulus in a different way and act accordingly. Some guys pop once in an hour and like to talk the rest of the time, so what's so fucking wrong about that? It's his money he decides what he does with it. Some guys can pop many times in an hour and skip the talking, that's great if they can do it.

When I saw the title of this thread I thought this was aimed at some guys who can fuck for ages and ages and not cum (I met a few at parties) and believe me they are not very happy themselves as it takes it out on them. Some men cannot come with intercourse, they do enjoy the fucking but they don't come.

So there are a huge number of differences between us but as I said what pisses me off is the arrogant punters who believe their way of punting is the only way.

Amen. 

[CatBBW]

Can't you go an hour without eating 

I didn't mean I would need to do ALL those things in the comfort break, just at some point(s) during a 6 hour session I would need food, drink, toilet, rest and perhaps a shower. I couldn't fit all that into one 10 minute break 

Besides, my point was that none of the guys who contacted me for a 4-6 hour shagathon were happy that I wanted a break at all, which *is* pretty selfish, but at least I knew/they asked before any booking was made.

[shagbambi]

So there are a huge number of differences between us but as I said what pisses me off is the arrogant punters who believe their way of punting is the only way.

+1

Well said Akauya.  Could not put it better myself.

[smiths]

Or three as Smiths pointed out. On my good days I have managed three pops in an hour, it's getting more difficult now but can easily manage two. On some good days I can manage two pops in a half hour session. I suppose I'm one of the lucky ones.

What pisses me off is the arrogance of some punters who think because they can't manage more than one pop in an hour (or two) everyone else is like them and are lying or showing off.

We are all different, we respond to different stimulus in a different way and act accordingly. Some guys pop once in an hour and like to talk the rest of the time, so what's so fucking wrong about that? It's his money he decides what he does with it. Some guys can pop many times in an hour and skip the talking, that's great if they can do it.

When I saw the title of this thread I thought this was aimed at some guys who can fuck for ages and ages and not cum (I met a few at parties) and believe me they are not very happy themselves as it takes it out on them. Some men cannot come with intercourse, they do enjoy the fucking but they don't come.

So there are a huge number of differences between us but as I said what pisses me off is the arrogant punters who believe their way of punting is the only way.

Absolutely spot on.

[CBPaul]

Or three as Smiths pointed out. On my good days I have managed three pops in an hour, it's getting more difficult now but can easily manage two. On some good days I can manage two pops in a half hour session. I suppose I'm one of the lucky ones.

What pisses me off is the arrogance of some punters who think because they can't manage more than one pop in an hour (or two) everyone else is like them and are lying or showing off.

We are all different, we respond to different stimulus in a different way and act accordingly. Some guys pop once in an hour and like to talk the rest of the time, so what's so fucking wrong about that? It's his money he decides what he does with it. Some guys can pop many times in an hour and skip the talking, that's great if they can do it.

When I saw the title of this thread I thought this was aimed at some guys who can fuck for ages and ages and not cum (I met a few at parties) and believe me they are not very happy themselves as it takes it out on them. Some men cannot come with intercourse, they do enjoy the fucking but they don't come.

So there are a huge number of differences between us but as I said what pisses me off is the arrogant punters who believe their way of punting is the only way.

Bang on, good post 

[yorkshire123]

As some prostitutes see the activity as a job i will put my point over as so.

In most jobs today a 6 hour shift could include 2 breaks of about 45 minutes combined. These breaks are rarely paid so either extra time is added on thus attending for 6.45 hours or leaving on 6 hours & getting paid for 5.25 hours.

You can't have it both ways girls, if you want a break be prepared to pay for the privilege one way or the other by extending the time at no extra cost or reducing the cost by the amount you want to rest.

Luckily for any prossie meeting are guaranteed lots of rest as i have the stamina of a sloth 

[James999]

I didn't mean I would need to do ALL those things in the comfort break, just at some point(s) during a 6 hour session I would need food, drink, toilet, rest and perhaps a shower. I couldn't fit all that into one 10 minute break 

Besides, my point was that none of the guys who contacted me for a 4-6 hour shagathon were happy that I wanted a break at all, which *is* pretty selfish, but at least I knew/they asked before any booking was made.

If you are unable to build a basic rapport with a client so such things fall naturally in a longer booking then probably best they didn't happen, the reality is it was probably more of an idea / fantasy as opposed to a serious request, be this in the clients or your mind 

[Nimrod]

Can I use the analogy of a small child who sees a large cake in the bakers shop window, he is sure he will eat it all until he is half way through it and then realizes he can't.

I remember a famous brothel owner called Sunni Tara telling me that many punters went for the 40 minute session where you were allowed two pops, according to her many did not go for pop number 2.   

Sunni Tara...there's a name to conjur memories. I once had a bit of, shall we say, wife-related punting trouble (many years ago) and even though I'd never met her, she was a rock and a close confidant throughout the ordeal.

I was surprised to discover, at a party I attended on the spur of the moment last year (really just to road-test the party concept), that I could pop twice in an hour. I had assumed I couldn't as I hadn't done so for many years but what I have come to realise is that after the first pop, the itch has been scratched and I am simply not interested in round 2. Once I've come, I've just got better -- even more interesting and exciting -- things to do with my time than shag pro$$ies, particularly the same one for a second time in close succession.

WG friends tell me that less than 10% of punters do pop twice in an hour and, predictably, those that do are not favoured 

[Daffodil]

The definition of prostitution is engaging in sexual acts for money. She may want to chat, have a drink, eat (CTG  ), but that isn't what I'm paying for. Time permitting, I'm happy for her to have a break, but it should be on her own time.

A prostitute may get lucky and find a punter who wants to chat for 55 minutes and fuck for five, but that's the smooth. She also needs to take the rough and, heaven forbid, actually put some effort into it.

[GeeWiz]

Eloquently put akauya.

[Bangers and Gash]

A prostitute may get lucky and find a punter who wants to chat for 55 minutes and fuck for five, but that's the smooth.She also needs to take the rough and, heaven forbid, actually put some effort into it.

I've done a bit of field research on this subject and it's surprising the amount of punters who don't have full sex during a booking and prefer to chat, kiss and cuddle - forget spending 5 minutes fucking. I can see why some pro$$ies might get pissed off when they suddenly realise the guy between their legs means business and they'll have to break sweat for a change. Talk about money for nothing!