When I started living with my gf I stopped doing this, not bcz I'm afraid to get busted or bcz I can't move freely, those aren't issues at all.
I really want to and I've seen ads for some crazy good escorts, but I feel ashamed to do it when I have a person I'm sharing my life with, cooking for me, doing house work, keeping the dishes clean, taking care of me. I just don't know how I will look in her face if I do it while she's been a backup for me every day now.