Falling for a W/G is the Biggest Mind-Fuck

[hendrix]

Yeah, that's good.

I think everyone has a mindset when they first start punting and their reasons for going into it. I think for some guys EAS is probably inevitable.

I do sympathise as it must be hell for those guys
I'm obviously on friendly terms with regs, a couple of whom I would consider actual friends. But, crucially, I still pay to fuck them. Because, most importantly, that's their job/livelihood. I will not blur that line.

[king tarzan]

I do sympathise as it must be hell for those guys
I'm obviously on friendly terms with regs, a couple of whom I would consider actual friends. But, crucially, I still pay to fuck them. Because, most importantly, that's their job/livelihood. I will not blur that line.

Wouldn't feel sorry for pathetically weak men!

[Thephoenix]

Wouldn't feel sorry for pathetically weak men!

You're such a tiger KT, but even the strongest amongst us can develop strange psychological behaviour without even realising it, whether it's an obsession about a particular WG, or illogical and delusional thoughts about a particular football team.   🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊  simpletto.

[king tarzan]

You're such a tiger KT, but even the strongest amongst us can develop strange psychological behaviour without even realising it, whether it's an obsession about a particular WG, or illogical and delusional thoughts about a particular football team.   🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊🥊  simpletto.

Yo 🙌

[willie loman]

Was she a hot nun???👅👅😋😋😋

some girls from the third world sign up as nuns as a means to get to europe , couple of african nuns did a runner from the convent and were found working in a german red light area, but in my experience british nuns are always lesbians, as priest are nearly always gay.

[jsparky]

some girls from the third world sign up as nuns as a means to get to europe , couple of african nuns did a runner from the convent and were found working in a german red light area, but in my experience british nuns are always lesbians, as priest are nearly always gay.

Please elaborate on your experience with nuns and priests and how do you know their sexual orientation?   

[willie loman]

Please elaborate on your experience with nuns and priests and how do you know their sexual orientation?   

type are all priests gay? that should satisfy your curiosity,

[GingerNuts]

type are all priests gay? that should satisfy your curiosity,

The answer to that question is no. As it is for "are all British nuns lesbians?".

[king tarzan]

The answer to that question is no. As it is for "are all British nuns lesbians?".

Ali G

🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

[Thephoenix]

Unfortunately there's a lot of hypocrisy about the subject
......interesting read:-

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[P Hughes]

+1, I agree it’s a great thread.

You have to take a step back sometimes to properly analyse.

I had a WG where I just was like wow, a gem. Local similar age range and gave me the best oral I’ve received to date. Even got a few meets (freebies), then out of nowhere ghost. You win some you lose some, life happens.

I’ve met one recently who I have to say is extremely attractive to the point when I first saw her I was like “does she not know how attractive she is”. But punting experience you have to separate this. It’s nothing more than a business transaction. All future meets and current relations are temporary as is the job. So you have to adopt a enjoy it while you can mindset.

My advice to anyone earring towards EAS is you need to step back, it’s all temporary. She’s getting fucked by Tom dick and Harry and telling Bob his 2 incher is massive. It’s a transaction. A harsher word, she’s a “prostitute” I think WG or escort dulls it down. You need the virtual slap to wake you up.

I can relate to this reply so much.  I also once met a local WG girl who gave me the  best oral I've ever received to this day. Anyway, things developed to point where I was getting freebies. I'd go round to her house and we would just hang out and fuck on and off for most of the day, usually on a Sunday afternoon and  Friday night. This lasted for about a month. It was great for me as she was local and it was free. And then out of nowhere she ghosted me. She blanked my phone calls and texts. She was still active on AW though and touring the UK.  It was good whilst it lasted and even though we were never a couple, it made me realise its probably best to never go beyond a transactional arrangement. I was single at the time also and believe I probably subconsciously wanted more than a transactional arrangement as looking back, I was lonely guy during those period. Probably not the best circumstances to punt.

[JustaPunter]

I can relate to this reply so much.  I also once met a local WG girl who gave me the  best oral I've ever received to this day. Anyway, things developed to point where I was getting freebies. I'd go round to her house and we would just hang out and fuck on and off for most of the day, usually on a Sunday afternoon and  Friday night. This lasted for about a month. It was great for me as she was local and it was free. And then out of nowhere she ghosted me. She blanked my phone calls and texts. She was still active on AW though and touring the UK.  It was good whilst it lasted and even though we were never a couple, it made me realise its probably best to never go beyond a transactional arrangement. I was single at the time also and believe I probably subconsciously wanted more than a transactional arrangement as looking back, I was lonely guy during those period. Probably not the best circumstances to punt.

Cool story Bro 😎

[Atrueyorkie]

I can relate to this reply so much.  I also once met a local WG girl who gave me the  best oral I've ever received to this day. Anyway, things developed to point where I was getting freebies. I'd go round to her house and we would just hang out and fuck on and off for most of the day, usually on a Sunday afternoon and  Friday night. This lasted for about a month. It was great for me as she was local and it was free. And then out of nowhere she ghosted me. She blanked my phone calls and texts. She was still active on AW though and touring the UK.  It was good whilst it lasted and even though we were never a couple, it made me realise its probably best to never go beyond a transactional arrangement. I was single at the time also and believe I probably subconsciously wanted more than a transactional arrangement as looking back, I was lonely guy during those period. Probably not the best circumstances to punt.

Routine and complacency are a dangerous thing.

Also when are we going to get a review from you?

[Payyourwaymate]

I can relate to this reply so much.  I also once met a local WG girl who gave me the  best oral I've ever received to this day. Anyway, things developed to point where I was getting freebies. I'd go round to her house and we would just hang out and fuck on and off for most of the day, usually on a Sunday afternoon and  Friday night. This lasted for about a month. It was great for me as she was local and it was free. And then out of nowhere she ghosted me. She blanked my phone calls and texts. She was still active on AW though and touring the UK.  It was good whilst it lasted and even though we were never a couple, it made me realise its probably best to never go beyond a transactional arrangement. I was single at the time also and believe I probably subconsciously wanted more than a transactional arrangement as looking back, I was lonely guy during those period. Probably not the best circumstances to punt.

You seem to have a lot of stories you know....Hmmm.... What are your specifications? You good looking? Lots of money? Stability? Youth?

You have a lot of stories but not really posted any real intel to help anyone else in regards to punting in general and you have been here over 1 year to make what you are saying believable to be honest.

I ignored your first couple of stories to give a benefit of a doubt but you've kept reeling these stories off and ignoring members questioning the credibility of them when they have posted contrary evidence of your interactions with SPs from the stories which you are telling. What do you get out of posting these stories? It's not giving any real insight except telling us you managed to get it for "free". 

Going from your posting history it seems you don't punt anymore? Everything seems to be in past tense and you mention punting 20 years ago. Then you mention being in the game for 25 years. Are your experiences you are referring to even in the last 4 years? 

You're just using this thread to reminisce aren't you and not actually provide insight to anyone  . Oh well. I believe you were a punter then, but not now. You can keep telling stories, I'm not bothered enough to report you as you haven't really done anything. Just don't be surprised that people will keep calling you out as a potential fantasist since you don't really have any real credibility to your name lol.

[shed]

Well put 

[Jimmy The Gent]

I can relate to this reply so much.  I also once met a local WG girl who gave me the  best oral I've ever received to this day. Anyway, things developed to point where I was getting freebies. I'd go round to her house and we would just hang out and fuck on and off for most of the day, usually on a Sunday afternoon and  Friday night. This lasted for about a month. It was great for me as she was local and it was free. And then out of nowhere she ghosted me. She blanked my phone calls and texts. She was still active on AW though and touring the UK.  It was good whilst it lasted and even though we were never a couple, it made me realise its probably best to never go beyond a transactional arrangement. I was single at the time also and believe I probably subconsciously wanted more than a transactional arrangement as looking back, I was lonely guy during those period. Probably not the best circumstances to punt.

You were banging a prostitute for free for a month, and that 'made you realise its probably best to never go beyond a transactional arrangement.'

Fuck me.

[versace]

I can relate to this reply so much.  I also once met a local WG girl who gave me the  best oral I've ever received to this day. Anyway, things developed to point where I was getting freebies. I'd go round to her house and we would just hang out and fuck on and off for most of the day, usually on a Sunday afternoon and  Friday night. This lasted for about a month. It was great for me as she was local and it was free. And then out of nowhere she ghosted me. She blanked my phone calls and texts. She was still active on AW though and touring the UK.  It was good whilst it lasted and even though we were never a couple, it made me realise its probably best to never go beyond a transactional arrangement. I was single at the time also and believe I probably subconsciously wanted more than a transactional arrangement as looking back, I was lonely guy during those period. Probably not the best circumstances to punt.

She probably just got sick of your stories…

[king tarzan]

She probably just got sick of your stories…

El_kiko in the nutzo!!!

[Chazz]

El_kiko in the nutzo!!!

KT you are a legend! 

[The0neAnd0nly]

Just released!! - actual footage of P Hughes and his completely 100% legit true stories!!

Click below link to view, we need to give the guy a break c'mon! See 03:47 for exhibit A

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[Atrueyorkie]

Just released!! - actual footage of P Hughes and his completely 100% legit true stories!!

Click below link to view, we need to give the guy a break c'mon! See 03:47 for exhibit A

External Link/Members Only

I’m actually on the floor  what a show as well

[Doc Holliday]

I reckon that experiences and expectations from encounters may differ between those that measure the length of the punts in minutes and those that measure them in hours. I wonder if the longer booking bods are more prone or at risk of EAS.

Logically yes .. though not necessarily. External Link/Members Only 

Seriously, there can be an instant and inexplicably rapid 'love at first sight' reaction by either party. I do not mean lust at first sight, although this may be part of it. Punting does not preclude this phenomenon from occurring, it just makes it much less likely to progress and develop.

[willie loman]

Logically yes .. though not necessarily. External Link/Members Only 

Seriously, there can be an instant and inexplicably rapid 'love at first sight' reaction by either party. I do not mean lust at first sight, although this may be part of it. Punting does not preclude this phenomenon from occurring, it just makes it much less likely to progress and develop.

surely you have got that bit wrong? punting can be  a form of speed dating, therefore if there is lust or love its more likely to develop than a couple exchanging looks on the tube, plenty  of wgs hook up with customers

[Doc Holliday]

surely you have got that bit wrong? punting can be  a form of speed dating, therefore if there is lust or love its more likely to develop than a couple exchanging looks on the tube, plenty  of wgs hook up with customers

I think we are probably in agreement Willy? I worded it badly and should have said first 'meeting' rather than first 'sight', so exchanging looks on the tube is excluded. Some wg's do indeed hook up with customers, but if there is an instant attraction, most judge it inadvisable (rightly so) and dismiss it, therefore less likely for anything to develop than a civvy hook up should Cupid's arrow similarly strike.

My main point is that it doesn't necessarily require multiple long meetings for EAS to occur.   

[willie loman]

I think we are probably in agreement Willy? I worded it badly and should have said first 'meeting' rather than first 'sight', so exchanging looks on the tube is excluded. Some wg's do indeed hook up with customers, but if there is an instant attraction, most judge it inadvisable (rightly so) and dismiss it, therefore less likely for anything to develop than a civvy hook up should Cupid's arrow similarly strike.

My main point is that it doesn't necessarily require multiple long meetings for EAS to occur.

ok, but an important point is that civvy sex in britain at least initially involves 2 drunks, so an interaction with a hooker gives both parties a clearer picture, as both are usually sober.

[JontyR]

My main point is that it doesn't necessarily require multiple long meetings for EAS to occur.

Granted. The point that I was trying to make wasn't neccessarily about the occurrance of EAS,  just responding to those that couldn't comprehend how it could happen, even to suggest that it showed some kind of mental weakness or deficiency. I think the world would be a better place if we try and walk a mile in others shoes, or to at least acknowledge our personal experiences and needs aren't all the same.

[Thephoenix]

Granted. The point that I was trying to make wasn't neccessarily about the occurrance of EAS,  just responding to those that couldn't comprehend how it could happen, even to suggest that it showed some kind of mental weakness or deficiency. I think the world would be a better place if we try and walk a mile in others shoes, or to at least acknowledge our personal experiences and needs aren't all the same.

Yes indeed!

[Doc Holliday]

Granted. The point that I was trying to make wasn't neccessarily about the occurrance of EAS,  just responding to those that couldn't comprehend how it could happen, even to suggest that it showed some kind of mental weakness or deficiency. I think the world would be a better place if we try and walk a mile in others shoes, or to at least acknowledge our personal experiences and needs aren't all the same.

Absolutely.

Unfortunately the threads around this perennial topic will always read pretty much the same, with very entrenched views. Those views are frequently formed on reading the last thread on the subject rather than experience and reality. 

As Willie says people may be attracted to each other when meeting in every sphere of life. Going into a particular situation and saying I'm going to make sure it doesn't happen to me, shows no understanding of human emotions. Equally people proudly perceiving they have full control over their emotions and calling others idiots for not having control over theirs, shows a similar lack of understanding of the power of said emotions.

That does not mean though that you should not then behave rationally to any such attraction.

Having said all that this thread began slightly differently, in that the OP found himself in a situation where he was attracted to someone, but this then manifested itself in a very unhealthy obsession with her seeing other men, whom he deemed not suitable for her. With such cases it is acceptable to questions someones mental state and to be concerned and which I did.

[pantywetter]

I have less than zero interest in a relationship with a WG, but even I have fell for 2 or 3 over the years.  You meet a 10 out of 10 in looks and personality (whatever that means for you), then you get chemistry and you both drop your guard and you lose your head for a while.

It is an occupational hazard which I now actively look to avoid having come out of the latest earlier this year.

Still think the original poster on this thread crossed many red lines though. 

[JontyR]

Having said all that this thread began slightly differently, in that the OP found himself in a situation where he was attracted to someone, but this then manifested itself in a very unhealthy obsession with her seeing other men, whom he deemed not suitable for her. With such cases it is acceptable to questions someones mental state and to be concerned and which I did.

And credit to you for doing so Doc.

However it's the same thread being used to credit someone who may be suffering (and the EAS may be a symptom rather than the cause) as "pathetically weak" or "something up with you mentally" which I think do little to help the OP or others who see this thread in the future.

[Asmodeus]

And credit to you for doing so Doc.

However it's the same thread being used to credit someone who may be suffering (and the EAS may be a symptom rather than the cause) as "pathetically weak" or "something up with you mentally" which I think do little to help the OP or others who see this thread in the future.

It's always the "real men" who comment on other men being pathetic and weak for showing one modicum of emotion.

It's why the world is in such a terrible state... The sheer majority of our gender shouldn't be allowed to pass on their genes; let alone be responsible for raising a young human.

smh

[PaulRuff]

It's always the "real men" who comment on other men being pathetic and weak for showing one modicum of emotion.

It's why the world is in such a terrible state... The sheer majority of our gender shouldn't be allowed to pass on their genes; let alone be responsible for raising a young human.

smh

They're probably talking out of their arse too.

 

[Atrueyorkie]

It’s need to be a mixture. This thread has been great and eye opening. The fact it’s still ongoing is a testament of that.

Everyone operates differently and also responds differently.

To one person telling him to man up will give him the right shake up to get over something. Where as another will respond better to a softer approach.

If you're too emotional about seeing other peoples opinions you need to get off the internet.

So when you say you these “macho” men, it’s just because you don’t agree with their approach. Just because that doesn’t work for you doesn’t mean what other people say isn’t helpful for another person

[king tarzan]

It’s need to be a mixture. This thread has been great and eye opening. The fact it’s still ongoing is a testament of that.

Everyone operates differently and also responds differently.

To one person telling him to man up will give him the right shake up to get over something. Where as another will respond better to a softer approach.

If you're too emotional about seeing other peoples opinions you need to get off the internet.

So when you say you these “macho” men, it’s just because you don’t agree with their approach. Just because that doesn’t work for you doesn’t mean what other people say isn’t helpful for another person

Macho comacho 🥊🥊🥊🥊👊👊👊👊

[Asmodeus]

It’s need to be a mixture. This thread has been great and eye opening. The fact it’s still ongoing is a testament of that.

Everyone operates differently and also responds differently.

To one person telling him to man up will give him the right shake up to get over something. Where as another will respond better to a softer approach.

If you're too emotional about seeing other peoples opinions you need to get off the internet.

So when you say you these “macho” men, it’s just because you don’t agree with their approach. Just because that doesn’t work for you doesn’t mean what other people say isn’t helpful for another person

"Wouldn't feel sorry for pathetically weak men!"

So who does this comment help? What does it contribute to this thread? How does it benefit humanity having this type of attitude?

I look forward to your defense of this

[Atrueyorkie]

"Wouldn't feel sorry for pathetically weak men!"

So who does this comment help? What does it contribute to this thread? How does it benefit humanity having this type of attitude?

I look forward to your defense of this

Defense? Haha this is not court,unfortunately I don’t get paid to respond. he’s entitled to his opinion in how he views people, whether it’s correct or not is subjective. He can state what he wants as long as it doesn’t go against the rules. It’s good to have a collective viewpoint, you will pool different kinds of perspective.

 I don’t feel like regurgitating my previous reply. My personality is quite blunt and straightforward, I’d see the comment as tough love, a wake up call. Personally “IF” I was affected by EAS. I’d think to myself come on, wake up after reading that. I wouldn’t sink into a depressed state. Again whether it helps or not is up to viewer/punter of the post.

This is a clear example. “YOU” appreciate the softer approach clearly. I appreciate the more unfiltered no matter how coarse it comes across I’d rather the blunt and unfiltered.

I already see this going round in circles

[Colston36]

You were banging a prostitute for free for a month, and that 'made you realise its probably best to never go beyond a transactional arrangement.'

Fuck me.

I wouldn't risk it if I were you.

And by the way his idea that it's better to pay than get free verges on insanity.

[Asmodeus]

To be honest with you, I actually agree with most of what you've written...

This is a clear example. “YOU” appreciate the softer approach clearly. I appreciate the more unfiltered no matter how coarse it comes across I’d rather the blunt and unfiltered.

I already see this going round in circles

Hard or soft doesn't matter, I just appreciate my fellow human beings actually having some humility and compassion with how they conduct themselves online or in real life. You can still be "hard" without having to resort to calling anyone pathetic and weak.

No circles... let's agree to disagree.

[tp69]

To be honest with you, I actually agree with most of what you've written...
 
Hard or soft doesn't matter, I just appreciate my fellow human beings actually having some humility and compassion with how they conduct themselves online or in real life. You can still be "hard" without having to resort to calling anyone pathetic and weak.

No circles... let's agree to disagree.

Agree with this.

Blunt and unfiltered is one thing, but it shouldn't justify one being obnoxious, there's no need for it. It only takes a few extra seconds to convey a similar message without it being directly offensive.

[lillythesavage]

To be honest with you, I actually agree with most of what you've written...
 
Hard or soft doesn't matter, I just appreciate my fellow human beings actually having some humility and compassion with how they conduct themselves online or in real life. You can still be "hard" without having to resort to calling anyone pathetic and weak.

No circles... let's agree to disagree.

The use of name calling or coming across as a hard as nails twat, who has no human feeling or compassion on an a forum where few know each other is wasted energy and laughable really.

We are all different and in the game for different reasons with different outlooks on human life, if you cannot get along without coming across as a twat from behind a screen with people you do not know a thing about, real life must be real fun 

[Thepacifist]

Just remember most wouldn’t even talk to you without a payment. We are not their friends. Enjoy it for what it is. Shag em before they’re gone. I don’t want to be with a girl who fucks other men, for money or not. So for me it’s quite easy to separate the two. Don’t waste your time and feelings on girls who don’t feel the same.

[king tarzan]

Just remember most wouldn’t even talk to you without a payment. We are not their friends. Enjoy it for what it is. Shag em before they’re gone. I don’t want to be with a girl who fucks other men, for money or not. So for me it’s quite easy to separate the two. Don’t waste your time and feelings on girls who don’t feel the same.

The OP and his fan club on this subject are absolutely weak minded and custard hearted pathetic embarrassment to the Alpha male // men in general.

[JontyR]

The OP and his fan club on this subject are absolutely weak minded and custard hearted pathetic embarrassment to the Alpha male // men in general.

Utter bollocks. I don't need to flag wave about my self worth by going out of my way to demean or abuse others.

[JustaPunter]

The OP and his fan club on this subject are absolutely weak minded and custard hearted pathetic embarrassment to the Alpha male // men in general.

Lol

Don’t tell me, you think you are an “Alpha Male”

😂😂😂

[king tarzan]

Lol

Don’t tell me, you think you are an “Alpha Male”

😂😂😂

You enjoy being the opposite 👍

[Asmodeus]

Lol

Don’t tell me, you think you are an “Alpha Male”

😂😂😂

Ikr... 🤣

My case in point... smh

[SantanaCarlos]

It’s quite the mind-fuck when it does happen, you’re crushing on a girl who’s sells her body - you’re just a notch on the headboard and all you can think about is how she’s undoubtedly moments away from getting pounded by an old beer-bellied fucker, and the heaps of punters that follow after him. Apologies to old beer-bellied members Her competence in her line of work means she gives the illusion that you’re connecting, that you’re being treated differently to how she is with the other punters. In reality, that’s just her understanding the service-oriented nature of the game and maybe even merely enjoying her job, sometimes we forget that’s allowed.
The following days you end up checking if her green light is on, hoping that it isn’t, and heart sinking when it is. You check UKP to see if she has any new reviews, and when she does, you read it with reluctance because at that point there simply isn’t any way you can’t. Don’t get me started on how it feels reading the play by play detail. It’s a very odd and unique experience and almost feels as painful as getting cheated on, that’s an exaggeration but the pain isn’t a million miles apart.

My experience was worsened by the fact that I punted said girl in a secluded part of town and could see the next punter waiting to be called up. An old, ugly, fat and greasy looking dude - the images circling of him rubbing all over her; her being made to suck on his hairy bollocks. She was very feminine, very submissive and assertive men like I usually am could easily do with her as they please; it all made me feel quite sick.

I saw a notepad on her desk. It was dates and jobs, listing exactly how many punters she saw per day and for how long. I picked it up and started reading it whilst she stashed the cash, she came in and was horrified that I was reading it, swearing in Spanish and chasing me around the room as I took in what the pad had written on it. 5 men on Friday, 8 yesterday, and 4 today. I looked at her in disgust, shaking my head and she could clearly see how much it bothered me.

Fuck me, what going on here then?  Unhealthy, unhinged, unruly.

OP Sounds like a right nutter, blimey 
 

Just remember most wouldn’t even talk to you without a payment. We are not their friends. Enjoy it for what it is.

Emotional entanglement with any sex worker is simply ludicrous

+1

Interesting thread, nonetheless. I hope you find a semblance of peace 

[JonasG]

Just remember most wouldn’t even talk to you without a payment. We are not their friends. Enjoy it for what it is. Shag em before they’re gone. I don’t want to be with a girl who fucks other men, for money or not. So for me it’s quite easy to separate the two. Don’t waste your time and feelings on girls who don’t feel the same.

👍

I honestly don't get it.

I'm equally as baffled at the amount of reviews I read where punters state "she must've liked me" or "she definitely orgasmed" as if any of that matters.

[shed]

👍

I honestly don't get it.

I'm equally as baffled at the amount of reviews I read where punters state "she must've liked me" or "she definitely orgasmed" as if any of that matters.

It must matter to them but definitely not for me. SP at the top of their game are generally good actresses and will make the punter feel special. The vulnerable ones get taken in by thinking she had an orgasm or was soaking wet or compliments on his big dick.  Nativity in the extreme.

[JustaPunter]

You enjoy being the opposite 👍

Somebody that states they are something tends to be overcompensating and not what they pretend to be…..