Falling for a W/G is the Biggest Mind-Fuck

[Marmalade]

It's like if you go to a conference or something where the speakers have a track record in the subject. Then someone with no known track record decides to get up on the stage and comment on everything and expect everyone to listen. Now if you do that, unless you can convince people within moments that you are someone pretty special and should be listened to above the crowd, you'll look a dick.

There have been a few that have got away with it -- the (infamous) James comes to mind. Never posted a review. But his knowledge of punting could leave most people standing; moreover he could smell trolls and hunt them down just for fun and with amazing accuracy. Some people thought he was the old Admin nom-de-plume.

So the lesson really is, you might be a nice guy, a cool punter even, but until you post some reviews it's better to contribute humbly and very occasionally if at all.

[usroads]

Hey... maybe we aught to have a new thread to describe ourselves to all our fellow punters.
I'll start - I'm 5'9", 11 stone and just your average psycho.   

[Marmalade]

Hey... maybe we aught to have a new thread to describe ourselves to all our fellow punters.
I'll start - I'm 5'9", 11 stone and just your average psycho.   

Well yes, you do want the occasional psycho WG to be able to recognize you don't you? Especially if you give a negative review to one of her mates...
As for married guys, nuff said.

The forum is about punts, not the me me me part ffs. Just my opinion.

[OakTree]

Some guys can just fuck and go, but perhaps some of us have a deeper longing for something else and, when we get a taste of it in a booking, it sparks the EAS. And the same can happen to an SP, no doubt.

There's nothing wrong in having a deeper longing for something else just why would go looking for it where have to pay the bird to let you fuck them? It just isn't the time or place for that sort of thing

For me it really is fuck and go and I wouldn't dream of thinking anything more of it than a casual meeting, albeit very physical.

Hand the cash over, do the bizz and fuck off.

[FineWine69]

Can't say as I've experienced this yet, not saying it wouldn't give my head a wobble if she was that perfect, but then you have to ask yourself if she is an 11 out of 10 what chance do you stand anyway, I'm fucking paying to shag her so it hardly makes me BF material 

[victor989]

I like to consider myself as a rational punter and not prone to EAS, but something similar
happened to me in a much smaller way.

In 2019 I punted a stunning WG. We got on very well and even did some mild flirting ! Afterwards
the irrational part of my brain started fantasizing about what could happen outside of punting.

A month later I went to punt her again and saw a small, old, shrivelled punter leaving, who must
have just had his cock inside her. My irrational brain kicked in again and couldn't get it's head around
this and was upset. I still had a good punt with her but something shifted inside me afterwards.

I guess even rational punters can be human.
   

[JontyR]

As I said after I described myself - "I'm not saying this to big myself up, but because it's caused some blurred lines".

To be fair, you're right. I enjoy vaildation from women and men, regardless of whether they're SPs. I used to suffer from low self-esteem (and still working on it), so, yeah, it's nice when someone compliments me; whether that's on my physical appearance, my intellect or my attitude.

Also, I'm not punting much at all at the moment as I have other avenues for sexual adventure. I saw what payyourwaymate said and it struck a chord so thought I'd add my experience to the conversation, that's all.

Not much or not at all? Seeing your review history you have "gone early and gone hard" in your punting career. With all of your bookings seemingly positives apart from where you've got radio silence. It's a great record but one which suggests that you are a glass half full type of guy.

It strikes me that you may have a desire to be liked, to receive that validation, and that you want the next hit of a positive reaciton from another rather than taking the time to reflect on what you've just done. It's an addictive behaviour trait in a hobby which is also addictive. The SPs concerned may have been interested in getting to know you better genuinely for your dashing looks and winning personality. But it could also be  that you are giving off the vibes of a needy individual that is ripe for milking.

Please don't think I'm trying to burst your bubble or drag you down. There's a genuine concern that you are setting off on a path that may be doing you more harm than good. You've acknowledged some of your previous issues with your self image, which shows that you have a certain amount of self awareness which hopefully you can use to allow you to live your best life.

[Payyourwaymate]

Not much or not at all? Seeing your review history you have "gone early and gone hard" in your punting career. With all of your bookings seemingly positives apart from where you've got radio silence. It's a great record but one which suggests that you are a glass half full type of guy.

It strikes me that you may have a desire to be liked, to receive that validation, and that you want the next hit of a positive reaciton from another rather than taking the time to reflect on what you've just done. It's an addictive behaviour trait in a hobby which is also addictive. The SPs concerned may have been interested in getting to know you better genuinely for your dashing looks and winning personality. But it could also be  that you are giving off the vibes of a needy individual that is ripe for milking.

Please don't think I'm trying to burst your bubble or drag you down. There's a genuine concern that you are setting off on a path that may be doing you more harm than good. You've acknowledged some of your previous issues with your self image, which shows that you have a certain amount of self awareness which hopefully you can use to allow you to live your best life.

He was pretty transparent in his posts and I don't think he was necessarily "pushing his chest out" per say. Was there a need for the attempted psychoanalysis? Implicitly, you are dragging him down because you have now implanted an idea through your post deducing possible reasons for his actions that he is a needy individual when all you are going off are some of his posts and reviews.

Your post to me just seems to be a diplomatic "I think you are too full of yourself and you are not as good as you think you are fuck you" buttered up with a tinge of advice. If I am wrong fair enough, but that's how I interpreted it. Let the guy live, nothing wrong with being confident in ones self.

[Thephoenix]

There's nothing wrong in having a deeper longing for something else just why would go looking for it where have to pay the bird to let you fuck them? It just isn't the time or place for that sort of thing

For me it really is fuck and go and I wouldn't dream of thinking anything more of it than a casual meeting, albeit very physical.

Hand the cash over, do the bizz and fuck off.

It's best to follow the panda approach......eats shoots and leaves.

[JontyR]

Your post to me just seems to be a diplomatic "I think you are too full of yourself and you are not as good as you think you are fuck you" buttered up with a tinge of advice. If I am wrong fair enough, but that's how I interpreted it. Let the guy live, nothing wrong with being confident in ones self.

I don't think advising someone who you may feel is at risk of exploitation  undertaking self reflection is "fuck you". But yeah, if you or he wants to interpret it that way then fair enough. I accept your comments because I think they are coming not out of any personal malice. Mine were put out there in the same way.

In terms of advice I always say the same thing, listen to it all...and then do what you were going to anyway.

[Payyourwaymate]

I don't think advising someone who you may feel is at risk of exploitation  undertaking self reflection is "fuck you". But yeah, if you or he wants to interpret it that way then fair enough. I accept your comments because I think they are coming not out of any personal malice. Mine were put out there in the same way.

In terms of advice I always say the same thing, listen to it all...and then do what you were going to anyway.

I don't think it is like that at all. I fully believe him. Outside of punting I have seen what women do for men they become infatuated with. For punting even so, the SP I became friends with told me of a guy that was a punter that she became infatuated (though she did not admit it) with and was prepared to sacrifice for. They don't even speak anymore and she would still give him another chance and have his kids, do you know how mad that is  . Not everyone that punts is an unattractive guy with no confidence in themselves that can be exploited by women easily.

[P Hughes]

Actually, they say that reviews are allowed for up to 6 months.

New members may post reviews that are up to 12 months old, I think the change was made to help newbies to the forum to bring some value. 
You've been here 14 months so hardly a newbie!

You say you haven't punted in over a year, which means you could have contributed something when you joined.

The rules also say that "Members are expected to post Reviews"

Your posts do seem to be fantasies rather than recounting specifics. 
There's too much vagueness about them, which suggests they're jackanory!

I particularly like this one:
It's a fucking masterpiece post which I'd summarise as: you probably had 1 WG (but even you're not sure about that) who once tried to get you hooked because she was short of money.  She did this by not providing the services you wanted because she found you ugly!

It's a genius contribution 

Whatever. Believe what you wish. I don't care what you think. If you think I'm making up posts, good for you. I think you're some wannabe cyber hard man, I can't even take you seriously. I don't or need validation from someone like you. I post my experiences, if you don't like it or believe it, frankly it doesn't matter to me.

[Marmalade]

Whatever. Believe what you wish. I don't care what you think.

And we should believe you and care………because? 

[daviemac]

Whatever. Believe what you wish. I don't care what you think. If you think I'm making up posts, good for you. I think you're some wannabe cyber hard man, I can't even take you seriously. I don't or need validation from someone like you. I post my experiences, if you don't like it or believe it, frankly it doesn't matter to me.

Members are quite entitled to question whether or not you actually punt if you have not posted any reviews.

You say you haven't punted in over a year but you joined on January 2nd 2021 so you could have reviewed any meetings you had after January 2020 which is 2 years ago.

The normal time limit for reviews is 6 months however in order to give members such as yourself a chance to make useful contributions this was extended to 12 months for the first 6 months of membership.

Those new members who chose to take advantage of the relaxation of the rules and post their experiences avoided the type of questions you are facing. 

[contentguy]

And we should believe you and care………because? 

Because his fantasies seem very real to him, and he's taking the "trouble" to share them in an attempt to be part of the conversation here.

Love your analogy about expert speaker being followed by someone with no track record expecting everyone to listen to them.

[contentguy]

Whatever. Believe what you wish. I don't care what you think. If you think I'm making up posts, good for you. I think you're some wannabe cyber hard man, I can't even take you seriously. I don't or need validation from someone like you. I post my experiences, if you don't like it or believe it, frankly it doesn't matter to me.

You're the punting equivalent of Uncle Albert from "Only Fools and Horses"?
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You've waffled around on here about your "experiences" (fantasies).
Scanning your 54 posts, only 1 relates to an actual experiences with an actual SP. 
She was difficult to book 

You don't speak like someone who punts. 

For example: https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=313889.msg3507877#msg3507877
- She thought you were a major saddo
- In her mind she was thinking .....
- She pitted (sic) you .....
- You suppose it was a reasonable assumption ...

You provide a commentary about what you thought she thought, and how you felt about what you thought she thought.  But no mention of who she is or what you got up to with her!

[P Hughes]

You're a loon.  That's the conclusion I've reached.

[olddognewtricks49]

Fell for one wg, we really hit it off and after few punts we would meet for lunch then back to hers for sex with no payment involved, if I wasn't married I would have let it become a relationship

[contentguy]

You're a loon.  That's the conclusion I've reached.

So in your fantasies, I’m a loon 

And in reality, you’re a leech 

Ranting on about things that didn’t happen decades ago, just like…..
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[JPin]

Not much or not at all? Seeing your review history you have "gone early and gone hard" in your punting career. With all of your bookings seemingly positives apart from where you've got radio silence. It's a great record but one which suggests that you are a glass half full type of guy.

It strikes me that you may have a desire to be liked, to receive that validation, and that you want the next hit of a positive reaciton from another rather than taking the time to reflect on what you've just done. It's an addictive behaviour trait in a hobby which is also addictive. The SPs concerned may have been interested in getting to know you better genuinely for your dashing looks and winning personality. But it could also be  that you are giving off the vibes of a needy individual that is ripe for milking.

Please don't think I'm trying to burst your bubble or drag you down. There's a genuine concern that you are setting off on a path that may be doing you more harm than good. You've acknowledged some of your previous issues with your self image, which shows that you have a certain amount of self awareness which hopefully you can use to allow you to live your best life.

I have punted three times this year, once per month. I had spells last year when I was flushed and wanted to go all out, so yeah... two in a day, three or four in a week. It was for fun, not validation.

I meditate every day, for an hour. I am a reflective person and have taken time out from punting on several occasions since I started last Feb. Minimum of a month at a time. I regularly reflect on my activity and how to approach it in a healthy way. Thankfully I don't have much of an addictive personality... I get immersed in things, I can be a glutton, but addiction, no. Lucky for me.

I am not vulnerable or primed for exploitation and I don't think I want to be liked any more than the average person, it's a pretty inherent syndrome (wanting to be liked) in our society. Yes, I get off on female attention but there's only one SP I've seen more than a couple of times and she's a fave/regular. Even then, my visits are intermittent. Compliments do make me feel good yeah, but that's part of the whole experience. A few years back it would have been a different story, but I honestly do take punting with a pinch of salt most of the time. I'm not an infallible, emotionless punting robot, but I have enough awareness to keep myself in check.

Also take note that I didn't follow up with any of those three SPs that suggested we could meet out of the punting arena.

As PYWM said, your response/armchair psychoanalysis felt like a not-so-thinly-veiled put down. British society has a (bad) habit of knocking people down. I don't think I'm anything special, I wasn't posturing, but I am confident in myself; my character and my physical appearance. And so I should be. I've worked on myself a lot to be in a position to describe myself (matter of factly) as I did a few posts back.

If it really was genuine concern, then thankyou. 

[JontyR]

As PYWM said, your response/armchair psychoanalysis felt like a not-so-thinly-veiled put down. British society has a (bad) habit of knocking people down. I don't think I'm anything special, I wasn't posturing, but I am confident in myself; my character and my physical appearance. And so I should be. I've worked on myself a lot to be in a position to describe myself (matter of factly) as I did a few posts back.

If it really was genuine concern, then thankyou. 

Genuine concern, I don't take that much time just to put someone back in their box. 

[JPin]

Genuine concern, I don't take that much time just to put someone back in their box.

Ok, well thankyou. Hope you feel less concerned now I've given a bit more insight.

[JontyR]

Ok, well thankyou. Hope you feel less concerned now I've given a bit more insight.

When it comes to charitable giving, be that money/time/advice once you give it - how it is used is none of your concern. Good luck.

[contentguy]

You're a loon.  That's the conclusion I've reached.

I see you’re still here, you’ve logged in today.

But you didn’t want to address my observations.

Que sera sera

[JonasG]

Never happened to me and highly doubt it will.

You need to have a clear mentality when it comes to punting.

[AJA]

OP....if you're still around and reading stuff on here..I feel for you.
Been there, done that, got the t-shirt and all the mental madness that goes with it, but am doing my best to move on.
It's been more than 18 months and I know I've still got a way to go, but hope I'm heading in the right direction ! haha
Wish you well.
Good luck !

[MrMohican]

Ive had mild EAS (thankfully only mild) a few times. It can manifest itself a few ways with me. The lowest level EAS i get is where, because the WG is good at her job and makes the encounter seem natural and flowing and fun I feel we have really clicked.

Its easy to persuade myself in this situation that in her mind at the very least I've been placed in the upper echelons of 'nice clients' - someone who she would happilly hang out with for a drink or a meal after work because we seem to really get on. These are the kind of girls I tend to make my regulars. Ive had a some rude awakenings from this illusion a few times. One only a few months back where the girl after having giving me her personal mobile number rather than just her business one attacked me via text when I sent her a message which was mildly flirtatious. She threatened to block me if I did it again because alledgedly its a phone her family could see and that I would have to be nothing but business like in texts to her in future. She then proceeded to mess up a booking because she tried to crowbar a meet between social engagements that she clearly didnt have time to fit in and then pulled out at short notice and was pretty rude and abrupt about it. Thats when the penny dropped - I was just another number to her. But I was suprised at how upset it made me. I realised I had developed genuine feelings for this girl. We made up. She apologised the next day but I've not had the heart to revisit her since. Once the illusion is shattered its hard to go back.

But I dont think I have ever got EAS that bad that Im jealous she's seeing other clients. That's a seriously slippery slope to be on. If anything the idea she's seeing other guys is arousing to me. There's something exciting about seeing someone you know is a total slut - even if just in a professional capacity. Plus it would be utter hipocrisy anyway. I might have regulars who I have mild EAS for but it doesnt stop me wanting to see other WGs. I do this precisely because I love the variety.

The worst EAS I got though was with a Thai masseuse many years ago. I think part of the beguilement was that she started out being really strict about her service being massage only. It helped that she was a brilliant masseuse too, she was technically one of the best Ive experienced. She was also one of the most beautiful women Ive ever had the pleasure of. She was really, really pretty and her skin was like flawless caramel. I still remember the day I managed to persuade her to unleash her breasts - the perfection of them almost brought tears to my eyes. Bit by bit, visit after visit I managed to persuade her to give a little more. I started getting HE off her and by the end she was sucking me to completion and letting me massage her and go down on her. We never had full sex, I wanted to but she kept withholding that prize but the massage and oral sessions were so good it never felt like anything was missing. Our sessions were getting longer and longer too - sometimes clocking in at nearly two hours - but she never charged me extra. She'd always persuaded me that she was a good girl that had come to the UK with the intention of being nothing more than a masseuse. She would also play this game that she was reluctant sometimes to offer the sexual side of her service to me.

Then one day - I still remember the shock - I chanced on a solo escort site and she was on it. All her services were laid out - a full service WG. She did everything apart from anal. She'd started out as an escort! I still remember the feeling - like I had been lied to and yes, the feeling was akin to how Ive felt when Ive discovered civvy girlfreinds had been unfaithful to me. Thats when I realised I had it bad for this girl. Looking back I think if she had shown more interest in me I might have been persuaded to leave my current GF. for her. Thank god she didnt because Im pretty sure it would have ended in disaster. Shortly after this she disappeared off the scene Even now though I miss her and I think of her with a warmth and affection that probably belies any feeling she had for me. Im sure I have been instantly forgotten by her.

Sometimes the heart goes where it wants, even though you know deep down its not something real or tangible - we all of us have a capacity to self deceive. Its not for nothing that scientists say that the brain patterns of someone in love are similar to those who are insane. Love and madness throughout history has always been closely linked.

[alabama1]

Ive had mild EAS (thankfully only mild) a few times. It can manifest itself a few ways with me. The lowest level EAS i get is where, because the WG is good at her job and makes the encounter seem natural and flowing and fun I feel we have really clicked.

Its easy to persuade myself in this situation that in her mind at the very least I've been placed in the upper echelons of 'nice clients' - someone who she would happilly hang out with for a drink or a meal after work because we seem to really get on. These are the kind of girls I tend to make my regulars. Ive had a some rude awakenings from this illusion a few times. One only a few months back where the girl after having giving me her personal mobile number rather than just her business one attacked me via text when I sent her a message which was mildly flirtatious. She threatened to block me if I did it again because alledgedly its a phone her family could see and that I would have to be nothing but business like in texts to her in future. She then proceeded to mess up a booking because she tried to crowbar a meet between social engagements that she clearly didnt have time to fit in and then pulled out at short notice and was pretty rude and abrupt about it. Thats when the penny dropped - I was just another number to her. But I was suprised at how upset it made me. I realised I had developed genuine feelings for this girl. We made up. She apologised the next day but I've not had the heart to revisit her since. Once the illusion is shattered its hard to go back.

But I dont think I have ever got EAS that bad that Im jealous she's seeing other clients. That's a seriously slippery slope to be on. If anything the idea she's seeing other guys is arousing to me. There's something exciting about seeing someone you know is a total slut - even if just in a professional capacity. Plus it would be utter hipocrisy anyway. I might have regulars who I have mild EAS for but it doesnt stop me wanting to see other WGs. I do this precisely because I love the variety.

The worst EAS I got though was with a Thai masseuse many years ago. I think part of the beguilement was that she started out being really strict about her service being massage only. It helped that she was a brilliant masseuse too, she was technically one of the best Ive experienced. She was also one of the most beautiful women Ive ever had the pleasure of. She was really, really pretty and her skin was like flawless caramel. I still remember the day I managed to persuade her to unleash her breasts - the perfection of them almost brought tears to my eyes. Bit by bit, visit after visit I managed to persuade her to give a little more. I started getting HE off her and by the end she was sucking me to completion and letting me massage her and go down on her. We never had full sex, I wanted to but she kept withholding that prize but the massage and oral sessions were so good it never felt like anything was missing. Our sessions were getting longer and longer too - sometimes clocking in at nearly two hours - but she never charged me extra. She'd always persuaded me that she was a good girl that had come to the UK with the intention of being nothing more than a masseuse. She would also play this game that she was reluctant sometimes to offer the sexual side of her service to me.

Then one day - I still remember the shock - I chanced on a solo escort site and she was on it. All her services were laid out - a full service WG. She did everything apart from anal. She'd started out as an escort! I still remember the feeling - like I had been lied to and yes, the feeling was akin to how Ive felt when Ive discovered civvy girlfreinds had been unfaithful to me. Thats when I realised I had it bad for this girl. Looking back I think if she had shown more interest in me I might have been persuaded to leave my current GF. for her. Thank god she didnt because Im pretty sure it would have ended in disaster. Shortly after this she disappeared off the scene Even now though I miss her and I think of her with a warmth and affection that probably belies any feeling she had for me. Im sure I have been instantly forgotten by her.

Sometimes the heart goes where it wants, even though you know deep down its not something real or tangible - we all of us have a capacity to self deceive. Its not for nothing that scientists say that the brain patterns of someone in love are similar to those who are insane. Love and madness throughout history has always been closely linked.

So she was ok with others within her family seeing your ' i would like anal today if that's ok, oh yes, and swallow. Could you confirm a price please ? , cheers ' business like texts 

[MrMohican]

So she was ok with others within her family seeing your ' i would like anal today if that's ok, oh yes, and swallow. Could you confirm a price please ? , cheers ' business like texts 

No this girl in question was another technically good masseuse. But she gets naked, gives b2b, lets me go down on her and gives HE. I might have listed services to an out-and-out WG but Im wise enough to know that masseurs who offer extras are often 'good girls' that have strayed into the dark side so Im never out-and-out crude with them. I literally texted to say Id missed seeing her over xmas and was looking forward to our next sesh with some emojis which included an aubergine - so pretty low level flirting - but even that was deemed too much by this girl.

She's great company but is totally bonkers. I mean why would you hand a client your personal number if you are afraid of your family seeing flirty message. More to the point why is your family anywhere near your personal phone in the first place.  When I first met her, her then boyfriend was handling her bookings and I was told in no uncertain terms not to be explicit in my texts because he might see them. Im thinking what the hell does this guy think goes on in a b2b massage? Lol! Not suprised he didnt last.

When we are together though we have loads of banter and laughs - she loves the mutual massage I give her and every session has just felt totally natural like Im visiting an old friend. She's exactly the kind of girl I'd love to date - except I wouldn't with this one as I know she's totally mental.

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Nah mate shes not Bonkers shes just female!, don't try to understand that even Stephen Hawking said he couldnt even with his Einstien like brain!..

Just accept WG's as they are, to them  the only signs their intrested in is these ones;

£££££ $$$$$$$  ££££££  $$$$$$$$ €€€€€€€€ ££££££ !!!! * Lots off;!..

[tp69]

Ive had mild EAS (thankfully only mild) a few times. It can manifest itself a few ways with me. The lowest level EAS i get is where, because the WG is good at her job and makes the encounter seem natural and flowing and fun I feel we have really clicked.

Its easy to persuade myself in this situation that in her mind at the very least I've been placed in the upper echelons of 'nice clients' - someone who she would happilly hang out with for a drink or a meal after work because we seem to really get on. These are the kind of girls I tend to make my regulars. Ive had a some rude awakenings from this illusion a few times. One only a few months back where the girl after having giving me her personal mobile number rather than just her business one attacked me via text when I sent her a message which was mildly flirtatious. She threatened to block me if I did it again because alledgedly its a phone her family could see and that I would have to be nothing but business like in texts to her in future. She then proceeded to mess up a booking because she tried to crowbar a meet between social engagements that she clearly didnt have time to fit in and then pulled out at short notice and was pretty rude and abrupt about it. Thats when the penny dropped - I was just another number to her. But I was suprised at how upset it made me. I realised I had developed genuine feelings for this girl. We made up. She apologised the next day but I've not had the heart to revisit her since. Once the illusion is shattered its hard to go back.

But I dont think I have ever got EAS that bad that Im jealous she's seeing other clients. That's a seriously slippery slope to be on. If anything the idea she's seeing other guys is arousing to me. There's something exciting about seeing someone you know is a total slut - even if just in a professional capacity. Plus it would be utter hipocrisy anyway. I might have regulars who I have mild EAS for but it doesnt stop me wanting to see other WGs. I do this precisely because I love the variety.

The worst EAS I got though was with a Thai masseuse many years ago. I think part of the beguilement was that she started out being really strict about her service being massage only. It helped that she was a brilliant masseuse too, she was technically one of the best Ive experienced. She was also one of the most beautiful women Ive ever had the pleasure of. She was really, really pretty and her skin was like flawless caramel. I still remember the day I managed to persuade her to unleash her breasts - the perfection of them almost brought tears to my eyes. Bit by bit, visit after visit I managed to persuade her to give a little more. I started getting HE off her and by the end she was sucking me to completion and letting me massage her and go down on her. We never had full sex, I wanted to but she kept withholding that prize but the massage and oral sessions were so good it never felt like anything was missing. Our sessions were getting longer and longer too - sometimes clocking in at nearly two hours - but she never charged me extra. She'd always persuaded me that she was a good girl that had come to the UK with the intention of being nothing more than a masseuse. She would also play this game that she was reluctant sometimes to offer the sexual side of her service to me.

Then one day - I still remember the shock - I chanced on a solo escort site and she was on it. All her services were laid out - a full service WG. She did everything apart from anal. She'd started out as an escort! I still remember the feeling - like I had been lied to and yes, the feeling was akin to how Ive felt when Ive discovered civvy girlfreinds had been unfaithful to me. Thats when I realised I had it bad for this girl. Looking back I think if she had shown more interest in me I might have been persuaded to leave my current GF. for her. Thank god she didnt because Im pretty sure it would have ended in disaster. Shortly after this she disappeared off the scene Even now though I miss her and I think of her with a warmth and affection that probably belies any feeling she had for me. Im sure I have been instantly forgotten by her.

Sometimes the heart goes where it wants, even though you know deep down its not something real or tangible - we all of us have a capacity to self deceive. Its not for nothing that scientists say that the brain patterns of someone in love are similar to those who are insane. Love and madness throughout history has always been closely linked.

Interesting share, and self-aware.

I would imagine that if you like a WG a little more than you should and seeing her often, it's time to step back and cut if off before it gets to a point where you develop feelings and it becomes a problem.

I remember having a session with a WG once that was one of the hottest, most intensely raunchy sessions I've had with anyone. I couldn't see her again for about 4 weeks and when I did she didn't remember me. I remember being really surprised, but it told me everything I needed to know about the transactional relationship with a WG.

[opal]

What i find most suprising Ron is that with 143 notched up reviews you've been hit with EAS for one particular girl. 

Been in a similar position myself. Been punting for decades and been on friendly terms with some girls but one girl made a play for me and it went on from there. Problem is that unequal relationships dont tend to work. In my case the inequality was mainly financial.

[usroads]

Been in a similar position myself. Been punting for decades and been on friendly terms with some girls but one girl made a play for me and it went on from there. Problem is that unequal relationships dont tend to work. In my case the inequality was mainly financial.

She was earning more than you?? 

[workinallweek]

 3 times hit with EAS

 2 girls dissapeared a while back ( it was more than paid meets) and i would probably be back if they were .

 1 girl who retired and we met up a few times i have come to my senses i was just a support when her life went shit ...

  will it happen again ?  probably ....

[king tarzan]

3 times hit with EAS

 2 girls dissapeared a while back ( it was more than paid meets) and i would probably be back if they were .

 1 girl who retired and we met up a few times i have come to my senses i was just a support when her life went shit ...

  will it happen again ?  probably ....

Sounds like a Hindi film love story

[opal]

She was earning more than you?? 

Good point! I suppose the potential was for her to earn more tham me but zero assests and associated baggage. Of course that isnt an issue at first

[Trotter671]

I thought should add to this or not as should have known better with my age!! Seen there's a new EAS thread as well!

Had to give my head a wobble a couple of times in the past.

Must have seen Sienna Kink about 14/15 times (lost count TBH) - the seasoned NW punters will remember her- absolute FAF petite pocket rocket blonde - the sex was always amazing, snogged my face off throughout every booking (all over each other as soon as through the door and tokens handed over) and each time was full on and different things we tried - very open minded lass, tie and tease was a blast. Used to love giving her goose bumps and the shaky leg syndrome!

The post coital chats and kissing were great and really enjoyed listening to her travel stories - loves/loved Ibiza. Just seemed to get on really well, so down to earth as well as being gorgeous and naughty. Went over time lots of times (never intentional as I don't want to take the piss - once we got chatting after though,,,). I was tempted a  number of times to ask her out but bottled TBH as I knew she had a few regulars who she liked as well - sure she would have let me down gently if I had.

Second time was after first lock down - an extremely pretty size 6 red head called Jessy sort of Stockport area. Another lass were the sex was out of this world - she was extremely vocal as well and got so flushed - can't have been faked ? Jessy was my Sunday afternoon 'go to' for a quite a few months. So innocent looking but a very fun and naughty lass. After the sex we always talked and kissed and cuddled running over a number of times  - always seemed just so natural and not as if it was a paid encounter. I really wanted to ask her out and seriously thought about it a few times but had to take a reality check - I'm nearly twice her age so I guess the answer would have been no anyway. She disappeared of AW anyway a month or two after I last saw her

[1599337]

Not saying this to be harsh but i feel like there has to be something up with you mentally to pay a woman to spend a specific amount of time fucking you and end up wanting to date her.

[Payyourwaymate]

Not saying this to be harsh but i feel like there has to be something up with you mentally to pay a woman to spend a specific amount of time fucking you and end up wanting to date her.

It's not that something is wrong with him specifically per say. It's the impact of pair bonding. It seems people are underestimating the potency of the biochemicals involved with pair bonding that effect us subconsciously. That's why love is typically seen as irrational, feelings of that nature are very easy to succumb to for those who may not have full emotional self awareness of what is happening to them in real time and just "going with the flow" without logically trying to deduce what is happening to them. Even once aware, it is still difficult to overcome those feelings trying to take over your rational thought process. Add in good sex, loneliness and what ever vulnerabilities you can think of and it really is a recipe for disaster.   

[JonasG]

Not saying this to be harsh but i feel like there has to be something up with you mentally to pay a woman to spend a specific amount of time fucking you and end up wanting to date her.

That's what I've always thought, I honestly can't fathom it.

[willie loman]

That's what I've always thought, I honestly can't fathom it.

wherever people meet, there is always the possiblity of some sort of hookup, ive had offers in churches, i kid you not, so nothing odd about sex worker and client.

[shed]

wherever people meet, there is always the possiblity of some sort of hookup, ive had offers in churches, i kid you not, so nothing odd about sex worker and client.

What from the vicar 

[willie loman]

What from the vicar 

wrong church mate, ive had offers from the odd priest, church groups are rich pickings in the sense that the majority of the congregation is female.

[JontyR]

That's what I've always thought, I honestly can't fathom it.

I reckon that experiences and expectations from encounters may differ between those that measure the length of the punts in minutes and those that measure them in hours. I wonder if the longer booking bods are more prone or at risk of EAS.

[willie loman]

I reckon that experiences and expectations from encounters may differ between those that measure the length of the punts in minutes and those that measure them in hours. I wonder if the longer booking bods are more prone or at risk of EAS.

i think we can take that as given, plus frequency of visits,

[JonasG]

I reckon that experiences and expectations from encounters may differ between those that measure the length of the punts in minutes and those that measure them in hours. I wonder if the longer booking bods are more prone or at risk of EAS.

Yeah that would make sense.

Constantly booking 2hr+ sessions I think is asking for trouble in the long run in terms of blurring the lines.

[king tarzan]

wherever people meet, there is always the possiblity of some sort of hookup, ive had offers in churches, i kid you not, so nothing odd about sex worker and client.

Was she a hot nun???👅👅😋😋😋

[hendrix]

Yeah that would make sense.

Constantly booking 2hr+ sessions I think is asking for trouble in the long run in terms of blurring the lines.

As mentioned previously, I do this all the time, including overnights and trips. Seen regs hundreds of times.. Zero EAS. It's all about the mentality of why you're punting imo, and how you treat each punt and WG. For me, a woman=money. No boundaries to blur there!

[king tarzan]

As mentioned previously, I do this all the time, including overnights and trips. Seen regs hundreds of times.. Zero EAS. It's all about the mentality of why you're punting imo, and how you treat each punt and WG. For me, a woman=money. No boundaries to blur there!

Woman=money

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[JonasG]

As mentioned previously, I do this all the time, including overnights and trips. Seen regs hundreds of times.. Zero EAS. It's all about the mentality of why you're punting imo, and how you treat each punt and WG. For me, a woman=money. No boundaries to blur there!

Yeah, that's good.

I think everyone has a mindset when they first start punting and their reasons for going into it. I think for some guys EAS is probably inevitable.