Falling for a W/G is the Biggest Mind-Fuck

[Doc Holliday]

I wasn't going to post again, however can I just point out, that at no point has Ron suggested he wanted to date this girl and there is no suggestion she would wish to either. That's not what this was about.

[Colston36]

Yep, they do.
And I guess that makes your women cheapskates. 
You basically treat them like whores. 

I'm afraid I can't follow your curious attempt at logic.

[puntingpumping1920]

If I became obsessed with a prostitute (That will never happen)
 
I would offer the girl an exclusive arrangement
 
We will negotiate a price and the escort then takes her ads off the market.

[Marmalade]

I'm afraid I can't follow your curious attempt at logic.

You might not wish to follow it, but I’m sure can actually see it if you cared to. A paid woman, or ‘kept’ woman — it’s all the same. Just one of degree. And believe me (again only if you care to — which you probably won’t) a relationship of equality is far more interesting and stimulating.

[TheMagnet]

I wasn't going to post again, however can I just point out, that at no point has Ron suggested he wanted to date this girl and there is no suggestion she would wish to either. That's not what this was about.

I'm still curious in knowing what the desired end result is from falling for this WG?

Is it just a short term obsession?

[s0whatsnew?]

A  WG said to me some months ago   "Its a dirty business".    "Yes"  I replied, "First you've got to get the guy hooked, then when you've got him hooked, you have to keep him away".   

  I've lost count of the number of times I've been hooked and wasted money.  Nowadays I'm much more brutal in my cut-off points.  If a WG hasn't shown willing to enlarge our relationship by the end of our second session  (assuming there seems to be mutual chemistry),  then I'm off and away.

[pythondan]

If a WG hasn't shown willing to enlarge our relationship by the end of our second session  (assuming there seems to be mutual chemistry),  then I'm off and away.

This seems odd - out of all the WGs I have seen over a period of 20 odd years there are only two where I would want anything more than a pay and leave setup. It took me multiple meets to reach that stage - what exactly are you hoping for?

[oddson1970]

A  WG said to me some months ago   "Its a dirty business".    "Yes"  I replied, "First you've got to get the guy hooked, then when you've got him hooked, you have to keep him away".   

  I've lost count of the number of times I've been hooked and wasted money.  Nowadays I'm much more brutal in my cut-off points.  If a WG hasn't shown willing to enlarge our relationship by the end of our second session  (assuming there seems to be mutual chemistry),  then I'm off and away.

what exactly do you mean by "enlarge" the relationship?

[The0neAnd0nly]

what exactly do you mean by "enlarge" the relationship?

Probably freebies or her acting like she's his girlfriend to make him feel special.  Don't know but it seems like a creepy attitude a d way of doing things to me 

Why can't people just go shag a bird for a agreed sum and leave without any issues. Honestly it makes me wonder how women would be if male prostitution was just as common

[The0neAnd0nly]

And before anyone says I'm judging I'm not. I just think SPS or a woman giving a massage shouldn't be made to feel like someone is out to push them to do something they don't want to... Or that the guy is going to go full on stalker / weirdo mode.

[puntingpumping1920]

Honestly it makes me wonder how women would be if male prostitution was just as common

 
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[oddson1970]

Probably freebies or her acting like she's his girlfriend to make him feel special.  Don't know but it seems like a creepy attitude a d way of doing things to me 

Why can't people just go shag a bird for a agreed sum and leave without any issues. Honestly it makes me wonder how women would be if male prostitution was just as common

Until the guy confirms what he means by "enlarge" we can only speculate.But l do agree its a strange way of going about getting your end away for an agreed sum.As long as the SP does what is on her LL , enlargement , whatever that might be, is unnecessary for me.She gets her fee and l get what l'm looking for,job done 

[P Hughes]

This is a great thread discussion. I understand Punting is a transactional relationship but sometimes the relationship is not always black and white. Basically there is no one size fits all answers. All I can say, speaking from experience, is remember how and why you met the WG in the first place and proceed with caution and realism. Having affairs of the heart with a WG is not something I would recommend, regardless how nice and genuine the WG may seem, but sometimes people actually have to experience certain situations personally. It's part of life and development.

[Atrueyorkie]

This is a great thread discussion. I understand Punting is a transactional relationship but sometimes the relationship is not always black and white. Basically there is no one size fits all answers. All I can say, speaking from experience, is remember how and why you met the WG in the first place and proceed with caution and realism. Having affairs of the heart with a WG is not something I would recommend, regardless how nice and genuine the WG may seem, but sometimes people actually have to experience certain situations personally. It's part of life and development.

+1, I agree it’s a great thread.

You have to take a step back sometimes to properly analyse.

I had a WG where I just was like wow, a gem. Local similar age range and gave me the best oral I’ve received to date. Even got a few meets (freebies), then out of nowhere ghost. You win some you lose some, life happens.

I’ve met one recently who I have to say is extremely attractive to the point when I first saw her I was like “does she not know how attractive she is”. But punting experience you have to separate this. It’s nothing more than a business transaction. All future meets and current relations are temporary as is the job. So you have to adopt a enjoy it while you can mindset.

My advice to anyone earring towards EAS is you need to step back, it’s all temporary. She’s getting fucked by Tom dick and Harry and telling Bob his 2 incher is massive. It’s a transaction. A harsher word, she’s a “prostitute” I think WG or escort dulls it down. You need the virtual slap to wake you up.

[Thephoenix]

  I've lost count of the number of times I've been hooked and wasted money.  Nowadays I'm much more brutal in my cut-off points.  If a WG hasn't shown willing to enlarge our relationship by the end of our second session  (assuming there seems to be mutual chemistry),  then I'm off and away.

I'm sorry but I'm a bit puzzled by your post.
I assume you've been punting for a long time, and admit to losing count of the number of times you've been hooked and wasted your money, yet you're still hoping for mutual chemistry with each new WG, so that you can 'enlarge' your relationship.

[usroads]

+1, I agree it’s a great thread.

My advice to anyone earring towards EAS is you need to step back, it’s all temporary. She’s getting fucked by Tom dick and Harry and telling Bob his 2 incher is massive. It’s a transaction. A harsher word, she’s a “prostitute” I think WG or escort dulls it down. You need the virtual slap to wake you up.

I can think of several more fitting descriptions than the "Escort" euphamism   

[hendrix]

A  WG said to me some months ago   "Its a dirty business".    "Yes"  I replied, "First you've got to get the guy hooked, then when you've got him hooked, you have to keep him away".   

  I've lost count of the number of times I've been hooked and wasted money.  Nowadays I'm much more brutal in my cut-off points.  If a WG hasn't shown willing to enlarge our relationship by the end of our second session  (assuming there seems to be mutual chemistry),  then I'm off and away.

Wtf are you on about with "enlarge our relationship" and "chemistry"? This is punting not dating.

[puntingpumping1920]

I know from meeting British agency girls 

Lines can be easily blurred on the relationship you have

This depends on your financial status, age and looks

[usroads]

This is a great thread discussion. I understand Punting is a transactional relationship but sometimes the relationship is not always black and white. Basically there is no one size fits all answers. All I can say, speaking from experience, is remember how and why you met the WG in the first place and proceed with caution and realism. Having affairs of the heart with a WG is not something I would recommend, regardless how nice and genuine the WG may seem, but sometimes people actually have to experience certain situations personally. It's part of life and development.

Would be nice if you posted a few reviews of  you experiences ?

[Colston36]

You might not wish to follow it, but I’m sure can actually see it if you cared to. A paid woman, or ‘kept’ woman — it’s all the same. Just one of degree. And believe me (again only if you care to — which you probably won’t) a relationship of equality is far more interesting and stimulating.

I suspect we are misunderstanding each other; my relationships with ladies of the night have been very much ones of equality; I lived with two for about two and a half years each.   

[Payyourwaymate]

I know from meeting British agency girls 

Lines can be easily blurred on the relationship you have

This depends on your financial status, age and looks

I agree. Having money when you are below 40 and being single changes the punting lens entirely if they realise you are single and have ££££££. Or if you are young and have the looks it also changes it. Being a man of serious financial means when you're young is almost equivalent to a hack lol. The leverage in the "power dynamics" of being young and having money over women is insane. With SPs I think it is even more exacerbated because they are used to chancers and pretenders so when a genuine super baller around their age range or not too far off from it comes round it's all hands on deck for them .

[GingerNuts]

I know from meeting British agency girls 

Lines can be easily blurred on the relationship you have

This depends on your financial status, age and looks

Do you often discuss your financial status?

[puntingpumping1920]

Do you often discuss your financial status?

   
 
If you're a regular at a high end agency some British SPs will ask questions
 
I'm sure @Momodan38 gets the same questions

[GingerNuts]

   
 
If you're a regular at a high end agency some British SPs will ask questions
 
I'm sure @Momodan38 gets the same questions

Unless you've seen the same girl several times how does she know you're a regular with the agency?

[puntingpumping1920]

Unless you've seen the same girl several times how does she know you're a regular with the agency?

   
 
You don't have to book the same girl several times
 
The agency will say things like this to the girl ---
 
"He is a regular"
 
"He is a big spender"

[puntingpumping1920]

I agree. Having money when you are below 40 and being single changes the punting lens entirely if they realise you are single and have ££££££. Or if you are young and have the looks it also changes it. Being a man of serious financial means when you're young is almost equivalent to a hack lol. The leverage in the "power dynamics" of being young and having money over women is insane. With SPs I think it is even more exacerbated because they are used to chancers and pretenders so when a genuine super baller around their age range or not too far off from it comes round it's all hands on deck for them .

 
It’s a different ball game for those guys
 

[puntingpumping1920]

The agency will say things like this to the girl ---
 
"He is a regular"

 
@Payyourwaymate is a regular at Diva
 
Diva will tell the girls he books that he is a regular

   

[Roman77]

Very interesting thread. From time to time you’ll meet a WG and sometimes you just ‘click’. Depending on circumstances this can lead to you visiting on a regular basis. It’s their job to make you feel ‘special’. This has happened to me on a couple of occasions when I was going through rough times. Complements flowing, the old lines, “you’re amazing, oh it’s so good, can’t wait to see you again” etc all massaging the ego. They want you to return and for one reason, cold hard cash.
 
The important thing to remember is you’re one of many. It’s their job to reel you in, make you feel you’re the only one. Remember you’re not on a date. It’s a business transaction. You’re paying for their time and so is the next guy and the next.
The biggest wake-up call is when you read the feedback on AW. “Lovely guy, amazing in bed, perfect gent, can’t wait to see him again”. Then check what they’ve written about their other clients. It’s the same. You’re really not special to them.

At the end of the day we’re just an ATM to the WG. They’re hoping you fall for them and become a regular cash dispenser.
Thankfully my mindset has now changed. They’re not WG, SP or escorts. Those are the new names for the oldest tradition.
They’re prostitutes and you are just the paying customer. Enjoy your time but after the appointment head back into the real world again.

[puntingking]

Very interesting thread. From time to time you’ll meet a WG and sometimes you just ‘click’. Depending on circumstances this can lead to you visiting on a regular basis. It’s their job to make you feel ‘special’. This has happened to me on a couple of occasions when I was going through rough times. Complements flowing, the old lines, “you’re amazing, oh it’s so good, can’t wait to see you again” etc all massaging the ego. They want you to return and for one reason, cold hard cash.
 
The important thing to remember is you’re one of many. It’s their job to reel you in, make you feel you’re the only one. Remember you’re not on a date. It’s a business transaction. You’re paying for their time and so is the next guy and the next.
The biggest wake-up call is when you read the feedback on AW. “Lovely guy, amazing in bed, perfect gent, can’t wait to see him again”. Then check what they’ve written about their other clients. It’s the same. You’re really not special to them.

At the end of the day we’re just an ATM to the WG. They’re hoping you fall for them and become a regular cash dispenser.
Thankfully my mindset has now changed. They’re not WG, SP or escorts. Those are the new names for the oldest tradition.
They’re prostitutes and you are just the paying customer. Enjoy your time but after the appointment head back into the real world again.





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[puntingking]

Wgs are very talented at what they do. Well most anyway  you get the odd few who just want to make you cum as fast as possible but in my experience if you listen to the reviews of other punters you can make a educated choice about what wgs are actually good at their Jobs and what wgs should find another career

[django0700]

Err…… no never lol. I just love different hot pussy ❤️

+1 

[OakTree]

A  WG said to me some months ago   "Its a dirty business".    "Yes"  I replied, "First you've got to get the guy hooked, then when you've got him hooked, you have to keep him away".   

  I've lost count of the number of times I've been hooked and wasted money.  Nowadays I'm much more brutal in my cut-off points.  If a WG hasn't shown willing to enlarge our relationship by the end of our second session  (assuming there seems to be mutual chemistry),  then I'm off and away.

What is it you’re hoping to enlarge to?

To say you’ve been hooked and wasted money implies you hoped to become in some form of relationship with her.

I don’t know why you believe it’s their aim to get you hooked. My experience is I’m a distant memory to them the moment I walk out the door. Likewise they are the same to me. I in-fact rarely go back regardless of how good they are.

[Fkk]

What is it you’re hoping to enlarge to?

To say you’ve been hooked and wasted money implies you hoped to become in some form of relationship with her.

I don’t know why you believe it’s their aim to get you hooked. My experience is I’m a distant memory to them the moment I walk out the door. Likewise they are the same to me. I in-fact rarely go back regardless of how good they are.

You are absolutely spot on. All smiles on arrival and false smiles on departure. We are on a conveyor belt of clients. Next

[pantywetter]

What is it you’re hoping to enlarge to?

To say you’ve been hooked and wasted money implies you hoped to become in some form of relationship with her.

I don’t know why you believe it’s their aim to get you hooked. My experience is I’m a distant memory to them the moment I walk out the door. Likewise they are the same to me. I in-fact rarely go back regardless of how good they are.

Was about to post the same.  No girl has ever seen interested in getting me hooked and only a small percentage seem to actively try to get you to return.

Maybe because I’m ugly but I don’t think so. 

[WelshClipper]

Was about to post the same.  No girl has ever seen interested in getting me hooked and only a small percentage seem to actively try to get you to return.

Maybe because I’m ugly but I don’t think so.

I am glad you said it. 

I do not believe the old maxim that wgs are looking for mostly regulars. Things might go that way I suppose and if they do, fair enough. But it seems to me most wgs I have seen just want traffic through the door especially as someone mentioned the average escort career is ten years. Who has time to cultivate regulars.

And I dont think being ugly has any bearing on the situation. Your dosh is as good as the next.

 

[versace]

And I dont think being ugly has any bearing on the situation. Your dosh is as good as the next.

 

Spot on. Having been punting for many years, hands down the two most important aspects to a WG are personal hygiene and being respectful. They do not care about the looks, of course it helps, as it makes it more bareable for them, but that’s about it.

[P Hughes]

Was about to post the same.  No girl has ever seen interested in getting me hooked and only a small percentage seem to actively try to get you to return.

Maybe because I’m ugly but I don’t think so.

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I completely agree. I've probably had 1 WG who tried to get me hooked, but I soon discovered she was in financial trouble and basically saw me as a easy safe punt. But, interestingly, she never allowed any kissing or oral. This may have been because she thought I was ugly and was repulsed by the notion, or those were the boundaries she set. Its something I will never know now.

[alabama1]

Just like we will never know if you punt or not, judging by your zero reviews.

[GingerNuts]

I completely agree. I've probably had 1 WG who tried to get me hooked, but I soon discovered she was in financial trouble and basically saw me as a easy safe punt. But, interestingly, she never allowed any kissing or oral. This may have been because she thought I was ugly and was repulsed by the notion, or those were the boundaries she set. Its something I will never know now.

So many anecdotes, so few reviews...

[king tarzan]

I should be a prime candidate for this given my preference for overnights and trips with WG's. But, can honestly say it's never happened. I don't date, which might be a factor as any female close interaction with me is paid. So it's an easy equation for me, Women=Money. That's it.

Wicked 🐅 traits 👍👍👍👌👌👌🥊🥊🥊👊👊👊

[P Hughes]

Just like we will never know if you punt or not, judging by your zero reviews.

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I haven't punted for over a year. The rules say the review has to be within a year. Not that I need your permission or authority to post anything.

[king tarzan]

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I haven't punted for over a year. The rules say the review has to be within a year. Not that I need your permission or authority to post anything.

Roaring 🦁

[alabama1]

Roaring 🦁

Noticed he's not brave enough to reprimand Gingernuts though   

[contentguy]

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I haven't punted for over a year. The rules say the review has to be within a year. Not that I need your permission or authority to post anything.

Actually, they say that reviews are allowed for up to 6 months.

New members may post reviews that are up to 12 months old, I think the change was made to help newbies to the forum to bring some value. 
You've been here 14 months so hardly a newbie!

You say you haven't punted in over a year, which means you could have contributed something when you joined.

The rules also say that "Members are expected to post Reviews"

Your posts do seem to be fantasies rather than recounting specifics. 
There's too much vagueness about them, which suggests they're jackanory!

I particularly like this one:

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I completely agree. I've probably had 1 WG who tried to get me hooked, but I soon discovered she was in financial trouble and basically saw me as a easy safe punt. But, interestingly, she never allowed any kissing or oral. This may have been because she thought I was ugly and was repulsed by the notion, or those were the boundaries she set. Its something I will never know now.

It's a fucking masterpiece post which I'd summarise as: you probably had 1 WG (but even you're not sure about that) who once tried to get you hooked because she was short of money.  She did this by not providing the services you wanted because she found you ugly!

It's a genius contribution 

[JPin]

if you are young and have the looks it also changes it.

I hope this doesn't sound arrogant but I pretty much fit this description and you're right, every time I walk through the door, the positive reactions I get from SPs... I am genuinely humble but I'm also aware that I'm a good looking guy, tall, athletic, zero body fat, handsome, plus I'm friendly and outgoing - I tick a lot of the boxes. Been told so many times in my life I should try modeling. I'm not saying this to big myself up, but because it's caused some blurred lines.

Since I started punting I've had three different SPs want to meet me outside of the booking; one asked for my number (I booked her through a maid), one offered me her real number and similarly with another. I think the lines can very easily get blurred if you both fancy each other and it feels as though there's something a little more than a mere transactional encounter.

Some guys can just fuck and go, but perhaps some of us have a deeper longing for something else and, when we get a taste of it in a booking, it sparks the EAS. And the same can happen to an SP, no doubt.

[JontyR]

I hope this doesn't sound arrogant but I pretty much fit this description and you're right, every time I walk through the door, the positive reactions I get from SPs... I am genuinely humble but I'm also aware that I'm a good looking guy, tall, athletic, zero body fat, handsome, plus I'm friendly and outgoing - I tick a lot of the boxes. Been told so many times in my life I should try modeling. I'm not saying this to big myself up, but because it's caused some blurred lines.

Since I started punting I've had three different SPs want to meet me outside of the booking; one asked for my number (I booked her through a maid), one offered me her real number and similarly with another. I think the lines can very easily get blurred if you both fancy each other and it feels as though there's something a little more than a mere transactional encounter.

Some guys can just fuck and go, but perhaps some of us have a deeper longing for something else and, when we get a taste of it in a booking, it sparks the EAS. And the same can happen to an SP, no doubt.

I don't know why we need a description of you or your humbleness. But if I may say, stop punting and get a girlfriend. It seems you like the validation you get from SPs, who it must be remembered are paid to make you feel better about yourself. (unless its a BDSM thing)

I only say this because, when it starts to go, the odd line by the eye, the receding hair line, the gentle spreading of the gut, it goes. Find yourself someone who you would gladly spend the rest of your life with, not a trophy in terms of inspiring lust but someone who can help you be the best version of you going forward. Punting is fun, but it isn't real life. It can be an add on, but should never replace the real world.

[JPin]

As I said after I described myself - "I'm not saying this to big myself up, but because it's caused some blurred lines".

To be fair, you're right. I enjoy vaildation from women and men, regardless of whether they're SPs. I used to suffer from low self-esteem (and still working on it), so, yeah, it's nice when someone compliments me; whether that's on my physical appearance, my intellect or my attitude.

Also, I'm not punting much at all at the moment as I have other avenues for sexual adventure. I saw what payyourwaymate said and it struck a chord so thought I'd add my experience to the conversation, that's all.

[shed]

I hope this doesn't sound arrogant but I pretty much fit this description and you're right, every time I walk through the door, the positive reactions I get from SPs... I am genuinely humble but I'm also aware that I'm a good looking guy, tall, athletic, zero body fat, handsome, plus I'm friendly and outgoing - I tick a lot of the boxes. Been told so many times in my life I should try modeling. I'm not saying this to big myself up, but because it's caused some blurred lines.

As you have gone to the trouble of describing yourself as an Adonis to faceless members, I can only assume you must be an ugly fucker also 

[versace]

I hope this doesn't sound arrogant but I pretty much fit this description and you're right, every time I walk through the door, the positive reactions I get from SPs... I am genuinely humble but I'm also aware that I'm a good looking guy, tall, athletic, zero body fat, handsome, plus I'm friendly and outgoing - I tick a lot of the boxes. Been told so many times in my life I should try modeling. I'm not saying this to big myself up, but because it's caused some blurred lines.

Since I started punting I've had three different SPs want to meet me outside of the booking; one asked for my number (I booked her through a maid), one offered me her real number and similarly with another. I think the lines can very easily get blurred if you both fancy each other and it feels as though there's something a little more than a mere transactional encounter.

Some guys can just fuck and go, but perhaps some of us have a deeper longing for something else and, when we get a taste of it in a booking, it sparks the EAS. And the same can happen to an SP, no doubt.

Blimey, you sound like a perfect bloke. But surely even you can’t be perfect. What size pecker are you rocking?! And please don’t tell me it’s 8 inches, as then I might as well go into hibernation. 

[Payyourwaymate]

I hope this doesn't sound arrogant but I pretty much fit this description and you're right, every time I walk through the door, the positive reactions I get from SPs... I am genuinely humble but I'm also aware that I'm a good looking guy, tall, athletic, zero body fat, handsome, plus I'm friendly and outgoing - I tick a lot of the boxes. Been told so many times in my life I should try modeling. I'm not saying this to big myself up, but because it's caused some blurred lines.

Since I started punting I've had three different SPs want to meet me outside of the booking; one asked for my number (I booked her through a maid), one offered me her real number and similarly with another. I think the lines can very easily get blurred if you both fancy each other and it feels as though there's something a little more than a mere transactional encounter.

Some guys can just fuck and go, but perhaps some of us have a deeper longing for something else and, when we get a taste of it in a booking, it sparks the EAS. And the same can happen to an SP, no doubt.

Bro...please be prepared. A couple members are going to try to give you a bollocking from what you have said . I hear you though, trust me I get you. Some members just might not like hearing that because they think money alone will give a decent service which in sometimes it does and most of the time with good providers it does.... and it should be expected as we are paying customers. However, women have their personal attractions and are not robots....unfortunately LOL.