I think the admin will just leave it as it is, this is a forum about prostitution, lavenders employs prostitutes so the post is fair.
They don't employ prostitutes. They employ masseuses, who also presumably know about the other services Lavenders offer.
A full body massage can stray into what might be defined as "sexual activity", but that's down to the masseuse in question, and also down to her if she wants to ask for money or, importantly, not.
Also, what's been discussed here regarding one or two specific women who go beyond hand contact and engage in more obviously sexually orientated behaviour is entirely down them, and completely goes against any rules at Lavenders.
In short, I think this thread and future threads should be deleted, and if high street establishments wish to be discussed, then it should be done so via PM. They are a business that offer services beyond what some guys go for, so it's doing them a disservice.
Most people see massage as a potentially sordid thing, which is only the case if the masseuse is shit, and it's an attitude that people should abandon, otherwise it's self-perpetuating. A full body massage by someone who knows what they are doing, is just that. The study of how muscles connect, where stress can manifest, and then the execution of connected hand movements involved to relieve stress, etc, goes back centuries, and within that sphere of knowledge, well... that includes movements around the genitals (of both men and women) for relief, which we usually associate with sex, i.e. orgasm. It is not meant for a "bit of nookie". It's strictly a non-romantic, non-amorous context. Intimate, yes, but respectful of the situation. It doesn't involve oral sex, or penetrative sex. If you and the masseuse have a mutual sexual attraction, then that should move outside of an establishment.
If they offer something like this
for money they are going against the rules. If you are okay with paying for that, it has nothing to do with management, and the business, so if talk of this behavior showing up on google for anyone to see, then threads should be deleted.
And I want to end this slightly rambling post to reiterate that I've been visiting masseuses at various places, mostly in Newcastle for quite a few years now. In that time, I've gone through times when I've needed a few sessions of shoulder and back massage, and other times when I've gone for a soft full body massage. Most times money has changed hands, other times not. Other times I've gone to places blatantly set up where the masseuses aren't that good, and things are clearly set up in full expectation of wanting money for 'sexual' services. And I avoid those places. I've got to know a few names and faces, and even had offers of meeting up outside work (sadly not for quite a while!) but I've not posted about any of this recently, and probably won't in the future if the results of forum posts come up on google searches.
I hope my points can be read with understanding rather than reactionary "fluffy" comments.
One suggestion to solve the issue might be to create a "sticky" thread to stay at the top of the forum, telling people to PM certain members regarding all knowledge concerning north east massages if guys (or girls!) come here for info.
