Oh shit...
Did you ask for intel beforehand? Someone like Professor Larryshouse would have nipped that shit in the bud for you beforehand.
Anyway, not sure how much this will screw with your head or if it even matters to you at all but...
a) Don't fret, what's done is done, you didn't know and thought you were fucking a woman.
b) Don't worry about what others here say about you, its an anonymous forum, no know one knows you.
Chin up and better luck next time.
PS: I would send an angry message to the agency about this.