Sorry if this sounds lame but I am no affianado of social media sites etc.
But if you are searching for sex in this form of media. Does'nt that mean your true ID is shown....or do you create a false one.
See...told you how silly the question is.
I am trying to find the right words to phrase this. Anything I type is just from my experience, if anyone else has other advice or anything that contradicts with what I type. Please feel free to comment.
On AW, the girls escorting are doing it as their job. It literally pays their rent. They put a price up and services, we bring the cash and fun times begin. They NEED to see guys so that they can pay rent otherwise they will be evicted.
Now if you are messaging a random woman on social media. She may WANT the money but she doesn't particularly NEED it (in most cases anyway).
She doesn't need it to the degree that she will sleep with a guy who makes her feel like a prozzy (eventhough she somewhat is) or a guy that she feels unsafe with or completely creeped out by. It's like Seeking somewhat, full of girls that don't want to feel like escorts but are escorts to a certain degree.
Also you've got to make it so the woman doesn't feel that you are lying or trying to scam her.
I use a fake name but pictures is a tricky one. My pictures aren't me exactly but they are the same age and race.
Have I sent my real picture to a girl and she stops responding/ghosts me? Yep! It's happened multiple times. I get over it, delete the number and move on to someone else. What you'll notice, is a lot of women just won't respond to your messages. Don't worry, plenty more fish in the sea!
I had to send a LOT of messages to find the 2 women I'm seeing now. I learnt that being explicit or discussing services in a first message would get me instantly blocked and insulted, 9 times out of 10. The ones that did reply to my explicit messages, where usually timewasters that would block and then screenshot my conversation.
I'm a guy in my late 40s that has never set foot in a gym in my entire life. I like food a LOT and it shows. I'm not some Brad Pitt. However I am very very tactful in the first messages I send. I just treat it like a normal conversation. I treat it like I saw something on her profile that intrigued me. From there I progress the conversation in a way where it shows that I am willing to offer assistance/a gift. If she's interested lovely! If not then I bid her adieu and move on. I don't send multiple messages when she doesn't reply and I don't comment on any of her posts.
It's a LOT of work to be honest. What you'll find is a lot of women, just don't reply. However even on Craigslist or Seeking, you're still dealing with timewaster, scammers and flakes.
Is it easier to meet someone on AW and just get it over with? Definitely x50. Why do I do this? I'm looking for something that's a bit more personal and that over the long term is cheaper.
If I give either of the women I'm seeing now £200. They will stay with me for at least 4 hours if not the whole evening, they have a great attitude and actually APPRECIATE the money. Which is so big for me. I can't get that on AW.
Is it worth the work? To most probably not. I have a long term girlfriend who is very very vanilla and we basically don't have sex anymore. I travel for somewhat long periods of a time. Being able to replicate that relationship feeling with a younger woman and it doesn't cost me a ridiculous amount is alright for me.
Also:
Out of the ton of messages sent, it came down to 7 women who were serious about the arrangements. 3 I saw one off, 2 are regular arrangements. The other 2
1 was a serious timewaster who found out as much details as she could about me. Then tried to expose me to my girlfriend and family members. I asked her what her motive was, she said her father cheated and she basically hated men.
The other one scammed me out of quite a bit of money and didn't even come to a single meet. Tried to find out as much details as she could about me. Then took a heavily edited screenshot of our conversation and posted it on Twitter. Shaming me and all that nonsense.
You'll have to be on your toes in regards to crazies. The majority of women however will simply just block/not respond to your messages.