Is it a good idea to see the same girl twice?

[KnopeKnopeKnopeKnope]

I went to see this girl at La Maison in Bury in December and had a good time with her and I've been thinking about going to see her again soon.

Now, a little part of me is thinking this isn't a good idea, so I was wondering what you guys thought?

Is the second time with the same girl easier because you've been with her before or is it awkward because you like her? I don't want to have a bad experience that costs a lot so any help would be much appreciated.

[Horizontal pleasures]

If you fancy her go for it, but if you have a crush on her find someone else rather than have an emotional entanglement.

[yorkshire123]

What girl is it please?

[KnopeKnopeKnopeKnope]

This makes me feel dumb but that's what I'm worried about. If I do go to see her again, I couldn't pretend I'd never met her before.

Last time there was only one other girl I was interested in. What if this time she's the only one I feel like seeing?

Little more context and to answer yorkshire123: Jenna. I'm 24 and she was maybe the only girl around my age/that I clicked with.

[pierrot]

Ffs man, imagine your in a pizza parlour, would you say I cant have the peperoni because I had that last time.
I doubt she remembers you anyway she will have sucked a lot of cock since december.

[smiths]

I went to see this girl at La Maison in Bury in December and had a good time with her and I've been thinking about going to see her again soon.

Now, a little part of me is thinking this isn't a good idea, so I was wondering what you guys thought?

Is the second time with the same girl easier because you've been with her before or is it awkward because you like her? I don't want to have a bad experience that costs a lot so any help would be much appreciated.

IF a WG is good i punt with them as much as i can manage, punts can get better as the WG learns to know what i like and how i like it.

Just ensure its strictly business and you shouldnt go far wrong.

[NIK]

I have seen many girls several times and a couple over forty!
What is this bollocks about not seeing anybody twice? 

[yorkshire123]

Sorry i haven't seen Jenna so I'm unable to advise you if she's a good return punt or not.
La maison is like a sweet shop, most of the times you go for the same old sweet but every now & again you fancy something different or even mix them together. Thats a long winded way of saying go with your heart.

I wouldn't even bother trying to hide the fact that you've seen her before the chances are she will remember you, i find that repeat meets can be advantageous as it can remove the awkwardness of the first meet & you can get down & dirty as soon as the door closes 

If its lust then go for it
If its because you have feelings then don't

Sorry i couldn't be of more help.

[smiths]

I have seen many girls several times and a couple over forty!
What is this bollocks about not seeing anybody twice? 

Due to the fear of getting too attached from what i have read. Some of us are able to punt ensuring that doesnt happen though of course, even though i did have a WG get attached to me a few years back, it all ended with me advising her to look elsewhere.

[Matium]

I went to see this girl at La Maison in Bury in December and had a good time with her and I've been thinking about going to see her again soon.

Now, a little part of me is thinking this isn't a good idea, so I was wondering what you guys thought?

Is the second time with the same girl easier because you've been with her before or is it awkward because you like her? I don't want to have a bad experience that costs a lot so any help would be much appreciated.

If there's any chance at all that you're developing feelings for this girl then do not see her ever again.

Having your heart go through a mincing machine is what falling in love with a prostitute is all about.

[KnopeKnopeKnopeKnope]

I don't think about her all the time - now and again - less than I do with some other (non-working) girls.

I've got this feeling that it'll be awkward. As in, you talk, she works out that you've been thinking about her and then she's not interested. But then again, she is a pro, and she put me at ease last time, so even posting this feels a bit dumb.

[Third Man]

Of course you see her again. If she does it for you sexually, see her. IMHO you can have a  better relationship with certain WG's than with others, but thats all it is. Its a business transaction. Both winners, some people get on with others in life generally. This is the same.

[keepitup]

I've got this feeling that it'll be awkward. As in, you talk, she works out that you've been thinking about her and then she's not interested.

In my experience it is usually less awkward the second time: the initial awkwardness of not knowing whether there might be any chemistry has gone. Opinions differ on the importance of chemistry in a paid punt, but it's important to me at least.

But then again, she is a pro, and she put me at ease last time

Exactly. Relax, sit back and enjoy the ride (literally, perhaps?). You're over-thinking it

[Matium]

Chemistry????????????????????

The only chemistry is that involved in transferring money from your wallet to her purse.

Try asking a prostitute to have sex with you for free and then talk about the importance of chemistry.

[a10]

It won't be awkward in the slightest when she sees your wad of cash ready to be handed over.

The only way it will be awkward is if you have any "feelings" for her and act as such.

A lot of WGs like regular customers, steady stream of cash coming in is always good

[agent47]

Seeing a WG more then once i think you will get more confidant and relaxed with each other and the experience can get better, plus some WG thrive on the fact that guy's keep coming back for more. if you feel your getting attached tell yourself, ''she see's plenty of guy's better then you so why would she be interested in you'' just have a good time.

[KnopeKnopeKnopeKnope]

All you guys are really sound, cheers.

[keepitup]

Try asking a prostitute to have sex with you for free and then talk about the importance of chemistry.

I'm not dumb enough to think I could get away with that , but...

The only chemistry is that involved in transferring money from your wallet to her purse.

I think it's more subtle than that. I've had punts where the girl was cold and distant and I've had punts where the girl was warm and friendly. I know which ones I prefer. I also prefer it if the girl happens to enjoy the same kinds of sexual activities that I do.

[CBPaul]

The most I've ever seen the same prossie is 3 times and I've been punting for over 20 years now, seen a fair few twice. Partly it's because I have a desire to shag as many as possible and like trying new ones each time and partly because I think I'm trying to find another who matches the very best I've ever seen.

Of the very best I only count 3 and of them - it's a tough one to get onto my gold standard list  I saw two of them 3 times. Didn't see them any more because in both cases they buggered off. As it happens I realised that I could easily become too attached to the first one and came to the conclusion that I should see a different prossie about the same time she jacked it all in. The other one I would have seen many more times if she'd kept working. Actually that goes for a few of the prossies I've seen now I come to think about it.

So, if you've found a good one then go again.
Seeing a new prossie gives me more of a buzz of anticipation and also a feeling of relief that she's the prossie in the profile. But it could equally be the sinking feeling when she isn't the girl in the profile or doesn't provide the services I want. On the other hand seeing a good one a second time has always been easier, and generally more satisfying than the first visit.

[mattylondon]

If you fancy her go for it, but if you have a crush on her find someone else rather than have an emotional entanglement.

Good advice. Spot on.

Chemistry????????????????????

The only chemistry is that involved in transferring money from your wallet to her purse.

Try asking a prostitute to have sex with you for free and then talk about the importance of chemistry.

You're quite right, in my opinion. When I talk of chemistry with a prossie, I mean enough to get along for the duration of the punt. Certainly nothing beyond that, though it can of course happen. Dangerous territory to find oneself in.

[Stoking]

This makes me feel dumb but that's what I'm worried about. If I do go to see her again, I couldn't pretend I'd never met her before.

Last time there was only one other girl I was interested in. What if this time she's the only one I feel like seeing?

Little more context and to answer yorkshire123: Jenna. I'm 24 and she was maybe the only girl around my age/that I clicked with.

There's a fair few Jenna's... AW link?

[Matium]

OP said it was Jenna of La Maison, Bury

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[Daffodil]

I don't tend to, but that's just me. I like change and am the same in other parts of my life (except restaurants, I have one of two that I like and refuse to go elsewhere. Drives the girlfriend mad), but each to their own.

If the sex is good then why not, I guess, but if you want to see her more often because of "feelings" then I suggest you go park your bike elsewhere.

[wristjob]

What a daft thread. I would say avoid seeing the same girl twice in a  row to avoid EAS, but twice ever - 7+ months apart?????? If you can go 7 months without seeing her again you aren't that attached. If it's twice a week every week then start worrying.

[doc14]

I quite often see the same girl more than once, doesn't mean you get attached (not for me anyway) plus they often do remember you anyway so no point saying you have never seen her before.
If she is a good punt keep punting

[Dani]

I've got this feeling that it'll be awkward. As in, you talk, she works out that you've been thinking about her and then she's not interested. But then again, she is a pro, and she put me at ease last time, so even posting this feels a bit dumb.

We don't think like that.  We don't see a repeat customer and think "Oh God he likes me, oh shit now what do I do."  We are more than happy with repeat clients.  not only does it mean we have done our job properly it also means that if he becomes a regular we get more money out of it and a regular is an easier booking as we don't have to guess what they like and we also know they are a decent guy so don't have to worry before the booking. 

The only time it becomes a problem is if you make it obvious you would like a bit more than a paid sexual experience as that is when the Oh God No comes into it and in that case a decent girl would not see you again anyway as she wouldn't want to encourage that type of behaviour

[Daffodil]

We don't think like that.  We don't see a repeat customer and think "Oh God he likes me, oh shit now what do I do."  We are more than happy with repeat clients.  not only does it mean we have done our job properly it also means that if he becomes a regular we get more money out of it and a regular is an easier booking as we don't have to guess what they like and we also know they are a decent guy so don't have to worry before the booking. 

The only time it becomes a problem is if you make it obvious you would like a bit more than a paid sexual experience as that is when the Oh God No comes into it and in that case a decent girl would not see you again anyway as she wouldn't want to encourage that type of behaviour

It irritates me how you seem to think you can speak for all prossiedom 

Exchange "we" for "I" would be my advice 

[mattylondon]

Exchange "we" for "I" would be my advice 

Indeed. 

[Nimrod]

I went to see this girl at La Maison in Bury in December and had a good time with her and I've been thinking about going to see her again soon.

Now, a little part of me is thinking this isn't a good idea, so I was wondering what you guys thought?

Is the second time with the same girl easier because you've been with her before or is it awkward because you like her? I don't want to have a bad experience that costs a lot so any help would be much appreciated.

I don't really understand the question. If you went to the bakers and discovered they sold a really nice loaf, wouldn't you go back for more? So what's the difference? You found a service provider. She delivered a good service. Why would you not return? Surely the fact that you now know from experience that she delivers a decent session reduces the risk; not increases it. Wierd post in my book. Maybe you are confusing paid sex for something else?

[Nimrod]

We don't think like that.  We don't see a repeat customer and think "Oh God he likes me, oh shit now what do I do."  We are more than happy with repeat clients. 

Why is it that when a punter makes a sweeping remark about the nature of escorts (at least elsewhere, if not on this board) he is usually accused of generalisations and ignorance but you appear quite comfortable using "we". Have you been elected to speak on behalf of all working girls?

[Dani]

It irritates me how you seem to think you can speak for all prossiedom 

Exchange "we" for "I" would be my advice 

You are quite correct and I apologise.  I have a habit of thinking that other prossies have the same working structure as I do as the ones I know well, do work and feel the same as I do about certain subjects.  No I do not speak for all prossies and nor would I want to After reading some of the reviews on here you would think I would have learned by now to not use we and to use Ias it is quite obvious that some prossies have no working morals or values at all but then if I put I it then feels as if I am touting which is not my objective.  I shall have to start using "I would hope most decent girls would" Instead of we
Again my apologies as I would not want to speak for anyone else