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Author Topic: WG's that are shy about reviews.  (Read 1965 times)

Offline Apu

Should I text her about potentially posting a review about her?
Its a postive review, but as she is uneasy about the site, I dont want to bring her name into something that could affect her confidence or privacy. She has no previous reviews here and is relatively new to the scene so I dont want to feel uneasy about it.

I know the answer is "ask her before doing it" but should I be careless about it and do it anyway for the sake of us punters.



I thought the aim of this forum was to post honest reviews. I'm not sure what she'd be worried about if it's positive as it should be good for business.

tcm

Offline Toby

I know the answer is "ask her before doing it" but should I be careless about it and do it anyway for the sake of us punters.

If you're worried about it, write it out and then leave it a day. Read it back to yourself after that, and if you are still happy it go ahead and post it.

Offline Apu

tcm

she said discretion was important to her and reviews made her feel uneasy, she shuddered, so I assumed she obviously has issues with the site.


Offline Apu

If you're worried about it, write it out and then leave it a day. Read it back to yourself after that, and if you are still happy it go ahead and post it.

Thanks, depending on her response, I'll write a review, then sleep on it I guess.


Offline vorian

Post the review as it will benefit other punters.  The feelings of the WG should not come into it imo, just make sure you leave out any details that might identify her, what else could she have an issue with.
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Offline vorian

Thanks, depending on her response, I'll write a review, then sleep on it I guess.

If you are going to have your review,  checked and potentially censored by the girl, then what value does it honestly have. She might as well write it herself.

Sometimes :dash:
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Offline vorian


I know the answer is "ask her before doing it" but should I be careless about it and do it anyway for the sake of us punters.

What on earth makes you say that, I would be surprised if that was the general consensus.
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Offline Apu

I probably am being overly senstive. She wont be censoring me I guarantee it. If she didnt bring up the fact that UKP reviews makes her feel uneasy... I wouldnt have had 2nd thoughts.


Offline Toby

What on earth makes you say that, I would be surprised if that was the general consensus.

I wouldn't ask a plumber before writing a review of their service. As you said above, as long as identifying info is kept out I can't see why there should be an issue.

Apu, as long as you don't reveal that she wears an eye patch around town, and that her area is safe because she lives next door to the Telford church of Scientology, you should be fine.

Offline vorian

I probably am being overly senstive. She wont be censoring me I guarantee it. If she didnt bring up the fact that UKP reviews makes her feel uneasy... I wouldnt have had 2nd thoughts.

OK forget the review could you post a link for her please as you said it was positive.
Banning reason: Two faced - Slagging off UKP and it's membership using fake account

Offline Toby

OK forget the review could you post a link for her please as you said it was positive.

A review could (almost) be as brief as stating that it was a positive experience.

For an example:
"Parking good, safe area. LadyX was friendly and I felt relaxed in her company. Services as listed on her likes, with no extra costs paid. Good experience, and she didn't have a secret penis. All good."

Offline Apu

I'll post a review mate. I feel more confortable about it now as you blokes have pointed out it couldnt do any harm.

Apu,

Think about the money you shelled out as well. That will help you decide who's in charge of the review. Provided no personal details are given it will be fine. The only WG's who should be nervous of UKP are those who provide a shite service or mess punters around.

tcm

Offline Jackjones

If she didnt bring up the fact that UKP reviews makes her feel uneasy... I wouldnt have had 2nd thoughts.

How the hell did this even come up?  :unknown:

I'd guess her comment was a polite way of asking you not to, why is a unsure BUT if she has asked you not to and your going to she might not be happy about it if you plan to go back.

Nothing stopping you giving advice about her if she should pop-up on your local board tho.

Offline Apu

How the hell did this even come up?  :unknown:

I'd guess her comment was a polite way of asking you not to, why is a unsure BUT if she has asked you not to and your going to she might not be happy about it if you plan to go back.

Nothing stopping you giving advice about her if she should pop-up on your local board tho.

I asked her about how long she's been in the Escorting scene and she brought it up.

Offline vorian

I'll post a review mate. I feel more confortable about it now as you blokes have pointed out it couldnt do any harm.

I look forward to reading your positive review of this girl.
Banning reason: Two faced - Slagging off UKP and it's membership using fake account

Offline Apu

Thanks tcm ,
will start on the review inbetween the Semi final and finals of the world cup 


Offline smiths

Should I text her about potentially posting a review about her?
Its a postive review, but as she is uneasy about the site, I dont want to bring her name into something that could affect her confidence or privacy. She has no previous reviews here and is relatively new to the scene so I dont want to feel uneasy about it.

I know the answer is "ask her before doing it" but should I be careless about it and do it anyway for the sake of us punters.

IMO you have to decide if a review is to help and inform other punters, or for the benefit of this WG. IF she advertises in the public arena of the net as a WG why on earth would you need her to agree to a review or not, thats entirely your business. IF you review hotels and restaurants you dont get their permission first, it would make a mockery of the reviews otherwise.

There is no no reports list on here thankfully, WGs and pimps cant simply opt out while laughing their heads off at being given such an option.

Offline Dani

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I am a poster here yet I still feel a little uneasy/nervous seeing clients who I know are members just because you know the reviews will be bluntly honest and you never know what a client really feels when he leaves as he may act as if he enjoyed it but didn't and then write a negative review. A negative here makes much more of an impact than on AW

However a positive will only bring more clients


If you didn't book her through here how did she know you were a member here?  surely you didn't tell her as that would likely make her uneasy as she may feel next time you may try to use it to your advantage as did happen a few times on PN over the years

However a positive review should not make her uneasy as all it will do is probably improve her business as she will get more clients from it.   It also helps punters as it points out a good prossie that many might have missed otherwise

She's a prossie. She's got an adultwork profile. She gets paid to suck and fuck. What's the issue?  The review is positive. It's a bit late to be coy.

Offline yorkshire123

Tail wagging the dog I'm afraid   :thumbsdown:

Do a review or not its your choice, if you had doubts then you shouldn't have asked the question in the first place.
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Offline wristjob

tcm

she said discretion was important to her and reviews made her feel uneasy, she shuddered, so I assumed she obviously has issues with the site.

Discretion is important? Does she post her pictures and a phone no on AW? Are you going to out in anything as revealing as that in the review? Do you could think you could give a review that maintains her discretion?

I believe it;s impossible to post any review that is 10/10 in every category and some women are ultra sensitive. Basically she thinks she'll get ripped down a bit eithr by you posting honestly or by people commenting if you fluffy it up - which doesn't look like a massive stretch considering you are asking this question.

Nobody is or should be forced to write reviews here. If you choose to then what I would ask is that your loyalty is to punters and not stitching them up with false info and forcing them to waste money, over a WG who might be great - but she doesn't help you out the way the guys here do.

Bottom line is you should have never even discussed it with her. You could write something vague on the specifics, left it a week or 2 - she wouldn't even know it was you. If I'm honest I did feal uneasy abotu TCM's review of Dani - not cos he reviewed her but because he arranged it through this site, she knew who he was on here prior. I don't see how the girl knowing she will be reviewed really makes for a balanced review.

Offline Dani

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. If I'm honest I did feal uneasy abotu TCM's review of Dani - not cos he reviewed her but because he arranged it through this site, she knew who he was on here prior. I don't see how the girl knowing she will be reviewed really makes for a balanced review.


I agree which is why I did say to TCM when we first met that I prefer not to know someone is a member before the booking has finished as  I know otherwise people will assume I only gave a good service because I might get reviewed on here


If I'm honest I did feal uneasy abotu TCM's review of Dani - not cos he reviewed her but because he arranged it through this site, she knew who he was on here prior. I don't see how the girl knowing she will be reviewed really makes for a balanced review.

As with all my reviews, you can take from them what you wish or nothing at all. It would be unwise to base a decision on whether to see a girl on a single review anyway. Much better to seek out other reviews and see if the same boxes keep being ticked

 :drinks:

tcm


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