And still no links
But unless I have missed something in this thread, he doesn't even know if he has a STI yet.
Naming a girl as the one he thinks gave him something when maybe he has got nothing at all is a bit harsh I would say. Infact as an edit I would say is really harsh and way OTT.
I say this as I remember myself back when I started punting, i.e this threadhttps://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=3440.0
I was panicking then like you wouldn't believe thinking I had thrush, Chlamydia or whatever and I had caught it from someone. I went to the gum clinic and just found it was penile eczema brought on from over washing the nether regions.
At that time before getting the check I was thinking lists of girls and going 'I know who it will be who gave me it' and thinking the worst of people, and I am pleased I never said nothing as she had given me nothing.
What I can also say it may not be an STI, It may be a UTI. I have also long before starting punting had a UTI and I can say an E-coli UTI infection its symptoms are pretty much identical to that of a Gonorrhoea infection.
The OP needs to get the checkup and stop speculating. And I would say definitely not name and shame until there is something to name and shame.