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Author Topic: Lasting longer and very confused.  (Read 2622 times)

Offline David.Carter

Hello all,

if I am paying for sex I last 10 seconds.
If I am not paying for sex I last 20 seconds.
If I am not paying for sex and meeting 2nd or 3rd time I do last.

If its normal usual sex boy meets girl etc then I do last. Sometimes longer then most times and never as long as I want. Even 2d or 3rd time.

I am beyond the point of feeling bad or let down however I do wish to last longer.

Now in the past cock ring has worked, now question is which is the best?

I have used herbal pills not sure if I am supposed to name “Power P” pills which are 100% herbal and they did work.

More so then blue pills as they are natural and are not 100% for “lasting” longer.

So I am confused pop the pills each time?

Or use cock ring? If so I want one that goes around the balls and cock and I dont know how to get into one of them metal ones.

If its too small no good and too big and wont do the job.

I am basicly confused.

What I do know is with a working girl I cant last long.

Could it be that I have more paid sex and not very often. Now I am averaging like 2 or 3 meets per year before it was once a week.

Help is needed.

David x

Offline gorge

You are basically confused -- best not to end your message with a kiss then - save that for ukcottaging.com !
have a wank beforehand - you may last longer then.

Offline vorian

You are basically confused -- best not to end your message with a kiss then - save that for ukcottaging.com !
have a wank beforehand - you may last longer then.

I have heard of some punters having a pre punt shower wank.
Banning reason: Two faced - Slagging off UKP and it's membership using fake account

You are basically confused -- best not to end your message with a kiss then - save that for ukcottaging.com !
have a wank beforehand - you may last longer then.

If I am about to come and i dont want to, I just think about doing my tax return - that knocks it right back.  :lol:

Offline yorkshire123


I am basicly confused.
David x

Well i must admit your not the only fucker, think its a load or rambling shit.  :unknown:

But in the hope that your genuine....

- Have a pre-punt wank
- Pop a Viagra, that seems to do the trick for some
- Buy some delay cream, fuck knows if it works?
- Book a munter
- Book 15 mins slots

Or google it, NHS advise below

Self-help

There are a number of self-help techniques that you may want to try before seeking medical help.
These include:
- masturbating an hour or two before having sex
- using a thick condom to help decrease sensation
- taking a deep breath to briefly shut down the ejaculatory reflex (an automatic reflex of the body during which ejaculation occurs)
- having sex with your partner on top (to allow them to pull away when you are close to ejaculating)
- taking breaks during sex and thinking about something boring
Banning reason: Making false malicious allegations against admin

Well i must admit your not the only fucker, think its a load or rambling shit.  :unknown:

But in the hope that your genuine....

- Have a pre-punt wank
- Pop a Viagra, that seems to do the trick for some
- Buy some delay cream, fuck knows if it works?
- Book a munter
- Book 15 mins slots


The emla cream works but its a bit of a double edged sword. Pre-punt timeing of the application of the cream and how long after that you wipe your dick is key.

Offline rolf32313

Sounds like you are overthinking it. you need to stop thinking about blowing you load too early and just focus on other things.

Offline Dani

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The emla cream works but its a bit of a double edged sword.

Surely using Lidocaine cream for prolonging sex would remove the pleasure as well as it is a topical anaesthetic so would completely numb the head of the penis?  Ok you will last longer but is it really as enjoyable if it is numb?  Serious question by the way as have a couple of punters who would love something to help them

Offline pokenn

Hello all,

if I am paying for sex I last 10 seconds.
If I am not paying for sex I last 20 seconds.


Just wondering if there are any girls offering 60 second punts? That would work great for you.  £100 for 60 mins, so a 60 second punt should be about £2.

Or just have a wank before. It's not that complicated.

Offline CBPaul

Surely using Lidocaine cream for prolonging sex would remove the pleasure as well as it is a topical anaesthetic so would completely numb the head of the penis?  Ok you will last longer but is it really as enjoyable if it is numb?  Serious question by the way as have a couple of punters who would love something to help them

Lidocaine ?  :scare: Not bloody likely !

OP, your confused ?

In case this is a legit post, perhaps you should look up information on premature ejaculation. It's been discussed here before and no doubt you'll find some useful links in the various threads.

Offline Sedlmayer

Hello all,

if I am paying for sex I last 10 seconds.
If I am not paying for sex I last 20 seconds.
If I am not paying for sex and meeting 2nd or 3rd time I do last.

If its normal usual sex boy meets girl etc then I do last. Sometimes longer then most times and never as long as I want. Even 2d or 3rd time.

I am beyond the point of feeling bad or let down however I do wish to last longer.

Now in the past cock ring has worked, now question is which is the best?

I have used herbal pills not sure if I am supposed to name “Power P” pills which are 100% herbal and they did work.

More so then blue pills as they are natural and are not 100% for “lasting” longer.

So I am confused pop the pills each time?

Or use cock ring? If so I want one that goes around the balls and cock and I dont know how to get into one of them metal ones.

If its too small no good and too big and wont do the job.

I am basicly confused.

What I do know is with a working girl I cant last long.

Could it be that I have more paid sex and not very often. Now I am averaging like 2 or 3 meets per year before it was once a week.

Help is needed.

David x

Wasn't there a bogus poster before who signed off like this? Got banned?

Offline Admin

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Wasn't there a bogus poster before who signed off like this? Got banned?

Well spotted, it is visa0049 back.

Offline akauya

David x


The kiss was his downfall. He should have called himself Judas Iscariot :D


Offline CBPaul

Wasn't there a bogus poster before who signed off like this? Got banned?

Well remembered  :thumbsup:

And there was me giving the benefit of the doubt  :dash: I almost suggested he used a small elastic band as a cock ring, wish I had now.

Offline yorkshire123

David Carter, not as net savvy as your namesake are you :sarcastic:
Banning reason: Making false malicious allegations against admin

What an Asshole. I bet this is a genuine problem for some.

I always find that if I drink Alcohol it tends to make me take a bit longer. Only a couple of glasses mind.

Offline Dani

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I don't get the kiss on the end.  I have never met or chatted to a man who puts a kiss on the end of a post on a forum.  Perhaps on a text to the opposite sex but a forum post?
It just seems a very feminine thing to do, I know I sometimes do it on forums but then again only if offering moral support.

Surely using Lidocaine cream for prolonging sex would remove the pleasure as well as it is a topical anaesthetic so would completely numb the head of the penis?  Ok you will last longer but is it really as enjoyable if it is numb?  Serious question by the way as have a couple of punters who would love something to help them

Your almost right. It will numb the head of the penis.

The trick is to partialy desensitise the frenum and not the whole head, Lidocaine specificaly for PE has a diagram and instructions.

That said it still takes out a lot of feeling and I have also noticed that sometimes there is quite a lot of cum that comes out after the ogasmic ejeculation.

Enjoyment encompassess more than just nerve stimulation of the penis, for me it is also about the experience and the cream has been a revelation for enhancing that.

As I said before, timing is important. Get it right and you get an extended punt, a great experience and a shuddering orgasm.

Get it wrong and you're pushing rope.

David x

I saw this pretty soon after he posted it. My first thought was 'twat' and switched off....

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Offline dilettante

Try to abstract your mind by reading / writing paragraphs of more than one sentence - go on, try it - it may increase your staying power.

Offline carra100

What the fuck have I just read?

Offline LL

My tips for lasting longer.

When I feel I'm about to cum (and if it's not right at the end of the session) then I'll squeeze my cock between finger and thumb, just under the helmet.  It doesn't always work but usually this helps me lose the desire to cum and I can carry on fucking afterwards.  The trouble is that if I'm fucking a really hot girl I have to remember to apply this technique earlier as if I wait until just before I'm about to cum to do it, the sight of me pulling out of the tight pussy of a really sexy girl can just tip me over the edge - and no amount of cock-squeezing can stop me emptying my load.

Also, really thick condoms make me (and probably every other man) last longer.  You know the "pond liners" that some WGs use - so thick that you can't really feel much when fucking.  Any girl that provides this kind is just making extra work for themselves as her clients will last a lot longer so she'll spend a lot more time fucking rather than timewasting.

I pick sexual positions where I'm in control of the speed and I'll slow down to a snail's pace if I feel I'm getting close to orgasm, usually thinking about something else for a half a minute or so (what I'm having to eat afterwards usually does the trick).  Even in doggy you can be in total control of the speed.  Many WGs will offer this position to try to make you cum quicker as they can ram their arse against you.  However, if you pull her very close so that you're very deep, then you can be in total control of whether or not your cock slides in and out (generally the movement which makes one shoot).  I hardly ever let a girl ride on top of me where she is the one controlling the speed, that is unless it's either at the beginning of the session when I'm warming up, or it's near the end and I intend to finish that way.

Finally, simply changing positions regularly or switching between sex and oral (I know many WGs would complain about the latter as they might want to change condoms but ask anyway), so that the sensations are different, helps me hold off for longer.

As a one-cum punter I have to employ all these little tricks to get the most out of my session.  The only time I've ever cum more than once in a single booking (and only in one hour bookings) is when the first pop has been unexpected and I've tried to stop it, resulting in an unsatisfactory orgasm where hardly any jizz comes out.  After one of those then I can usually get hard again pretty quickly and cum again fairly quickly.

Online OscarC

A Fleshlight STU (Google it) could help you build up more self control.


Surely using Lidocaine cream for prolonging sex would remove the pleasure as well as it is a topical anaesthetic so would completely numb the head of the penis?  Ok you will last longer but is it really as enjoyable if it is numb?  Serious question by the way as have a couple of punters who would love something to help them

I have no experience with Lidocaine or anything like that (the only thing I've ever used is the brand that Durex make that is meant to help you last longer but it didn't seem to do a lot), does it last a long time?  If it doesn't last too long then it might still be good as I think it's still just a turn on to be having sex with someone attractive, and it's psychologically good to have had a long session, as long as you do actually get to have a satisfactory orgasm as well.


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