Reading all the responses and all of BG's previous reviews and the fact that nearly everyone else has had a good experience or better with MM, don't you all think that the problem lies with him rather than the girl?
Like for example trying to have banter with a girl whose English is limited. And everyone here knows after the first few seconds of arriving of whether it is going to work or not. If you can see her expression is none too positive, just walk. Don't even ask her. You're the one in control, not her.
It's a shame you had a bad experience but I think this one is on you.
There's camaraderie on here, but if you don't think the same as above then you're lying through your teeth.