Better offer syndrome

[catweazle]

Excuse me while I have a little rant 

I have a few regulars, for both massage r'n't and FS ladies.   One of the FS ladies is only available on a highly irregular  basis, so, last time I saw her, I said  'please drop me a text when you're next working".

A week or two passes, then I get the text "working  today, available after 3.30". That fits in fine  with my schedule,  so, within 5 minutes of that text I reply, asking for a booking around the 3.45 mark.

Silence. ( normally get a rapid confirmatory reply)
A couple of hours later, still nothing, so I text ' is that time OK with you?".
Silence.

About 90 minutes later, a flurry of texts:

Yes that's fine.

No sorry I already have a booking at 4.00

Can see you after 5.30?

As I responded within 4 minutes, I can only assume that she had a better offer  for the 4.00 o'clock slot - may be an hour booking?

Either way, I'm just a wee bit pissed off.

Rant over.

[williambream]

Hurt her bottom line and stop seeing her. You're only a transaction to her at the end of the day.

[Arfa2stroke]

Just to clarify , Did she reply “yes that’s fine” then proceed to cancel?
If so then it warrants a negative review as a legitimate booking was made

[catweazle]

Just to clarify , Did she reply “yes that’s fine” then proceed to cancel?
If so then it warrants a negative review as a legitimate booking was made

The three texts I've quoted  literally arrived  one after the other in a matter of seconds, so unsure  if "yes,that's fine," followed a minisecond later by the "sorry" text constitutes a confirmed booking.

[Winker121]

The three texts I've quoted  literally arrived  one after the other in a matter of seconds, so unsure  if "yes,that's fine," followed a minisecond later by the "sorry" text constitutes a confirmed booking.

Were the messages sent over a longer period? I sometimes receive them in a heap even though they might have been sent hours apart.

[catweazle]

Were the messages sent over a longer period? I sometimes receive them in a heap even though they might have been sent hours apart.

The time stamp all had the same time.

[Lamnguin]

Might just be "disorganised syndrome" - she did already have a booking at 4pm but had forgotten about it.

[mrfishyfoo]

Hurt her bottom line and stop seeing her. You're only a transaction to her at the end of the day.

Exactly.

Regular or not us punters have to keep reminding ourselves that all a pro$$ie really cares about is money.

[Porsha97]

Just want to reply with an escorts pov, I've been in this position a few times where I've offered someone a booking and they reply 5 mins later but the booking is no longer available. In my opinion I think she might of sent the original text out to a few people and it was just a case of first come first served. I personally wouldn't prioritise a potentially longer booking over a regular client. Not sure why she sent the confirmed booking message though unless it was a mistake (as mentioned above) or it was meant for someone else.

[Disco dave]

Tbh cat mate, this happens to me probably 5-6 times a month. Yeah we would all love a good booking system and top class customer service but the reality is that doesnt happen. I dont stressed about it, i move onto the next one.

[datwabbit]

The time stamp all had the same time.

That's the time they came to you rather than from her? I think you're right though.