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Offline sextopay4

I find this really bizarre and do not understand why punters are paying in advance of the service received .

Can someone explain why the transaction is taken before and not after ?

In most cases , there is a "pimp" so not like anyone is going to do a runner.

You can always show the girl the money, so she is safe in the knowledge that at least you got the money on you to pay.

Once you hand that money over, there is a million things the girl can do to get rid of you asap .

Is it possible to change the consciousness of the situation , and make it so it is fairer for the punter ? The person actually paying for the service?

Just seems really really odd to me , that this form of practice is taking place.

Offline Lilywhite

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You pay for your McDonalds before eating.
You pay your shopping before taking home.
You pay for most things before actually using them.

It's basically the same concept.

Lily xx

Offline Toby

Too easy for a WG to get ripped off otherwise. If someone decides they don't want to pay after the act, what can be done to make them hand over the cash? Anything to do with threats and it's an immediate criminal offence.

It's the price you have to pay for using someone's body for your own pleasures.

I find this really bizarre and do not understand why punters are paying in advance of the service received .

Can someone explain why the transaction is taken before and not after ?

In most cases , there is a "pimp" so not like anyone is going to do a runner.

You can always show the girl the money, so she is safe in the knowledge that at least you got the money on you to pay.

Once you hand that money over, there is a million things the girl can do to get rid of you asap .

Is it possible to change the consciousness of the situation , and make it so it is fairer for the punter ? The person actually paying for the service?

Just seems really really odd to me , that this form of practice is taking place.

Probably because its been this way since Moses was in short pants.

Whats to stop me just walking out with my money afterwards. ?????

If you dont want to pay until afterwards I suggest you find a different hobby

And in the words of Alice Cooper looks like Schools out for Summer
« Last Edit: July 04, 2014, 12:32:15 PM by cockneybstrd »

Offline sextopay4

its not that way in Thailand, and the girls are half the size.

White women are monstrous and could beat most men if it came to it :)

if the relationship is so paranoid then why not 50/50

As someone said the worker can get ripped off, but is just as easy once she has the money to rip off the customer.

and shopping eat etc is not the same thing as paying for sex, sorry


Offline smiths

Probably because its been this way since Moses was in short pants.

Whats to stop me just walking out with my money afterwards. ?????

If you dont want to pay until afterwards I suggest you find a different hobby

And in the words of Alice Cooper looks like Schools out for Summer

That is exactly the situation. Its been the usual practice to pay before the punt for all my over 30 years punting. Exceptions being with some regulars where some trust may have been built up and where paying afterwards is sometimes the case. And at one party provider where paying on exit is the norm.

Offline rolf32313


You can always show the girl the money, so she is safe in the knowledge that at least you got the money on you to pay.

Next season of dragons den....

stp4: "Hello dragons I'm here today to pitch my company ProEscrow, a escrow service for prossies and johns".




Offline cunnyhunt

its not that way in Thailand, and the girls are half the size.

And twice as ugly  :hi:

If you don't pay then you don't fuck.

Offline cunnyhunt

Next season of dragons den....

stp4: "Hello dragons I'm here today to pitch my company ProEscrow, a escrow service for prossies and johns".

Pro esc hoe ?

Offline smiths

its not that way in Thailand, and the girls are half the size.

White women are monstrous and could beat most men if it came to it :)

if the relationship is so paranoid then why not 50/50

As someone said the worker can get ripped off, but is just as easy once she has the money to rip off the customer.

and shopping eat etc is not the same thing as paying for sex, sorry

Total bollocks about white women can beat most men if it came to it. Why not just stick to punting in Thailand or other countries where paying after the punt is the norm if it bothers you so much.

 What i do know is it wont be changing here anytime soon.

its not that way in Thailand, and the girls are half the size.

White women are monstrous and could beat most men if it came to it :)


if the relationship is so paranoid then why not 50/50

As someone said the worker can get ripped off, but is just as easy once she has the money to rip off the customer.

and shopping eat etc is not the same thing as paying for sex, sorry

Hmmm

Well your obviously a troll of some kind but I shall you play with you for a while

Why are you so paranoid that your going to be ripped off

And tell me more about why white women are monstrous.

I am also intrigued why you bring violence into equation as well.


Offline AnthG

I find this really bizarre and do not understand why punters are paying in advance of the service received .

The best bit of advice I have been given on the forums, which I am going to try and follow even though it goes against my grain, is confirm the services you want before handing over the cash.

Here is the £100, so like I asked for on the phone that does include the A-Levels doesn't it.
Yes.
Ok heres the cash then.

It may not guarantee you are getting it. But it ups the percentages a lot I would say as nobody is going to renege after promising something in the actual room itself.

Offline Toby


and shopping eat etc is not the same thing as paying for sex, sorry

That's correct - Tesco can take back the shopping if you walk out the door without paying.

Offline smiths

The best bit of advice I have been given on the forums, which I am going to try and follow even though it goes against my grain, is confirm the services you want before handing over the cash.

Here is the £100, so like I asked for on the phone that does include the A-Levels doesn't it.
Yes.
Ok heres the cash then.

It may not guarantee you are getting it. But it ups the percentages a lot I would say as nobody is going to renege after promising something in the actual room itself.

Thats what i have always advised punters to do, but you are wrong that nobody is going to renege. I had 2 Brit WGs agree all the services in person but as soon as they got my cash they said they couldnt do any kissing or OWO as they had bad gums, they hadnt bothered mentioning that bollocks when confirming both services were on offer to my face.

I agree it increases the chances of getting the services though.

Offline Garden69

its not that way in Thailand, and the girls are half the size.

White women are monstrous and could beat most men if it came to it :)

if the relationship is so paranoid then why not 50/50

As someone said the worker can get ripped off, but is just as easy once she has the money to rip off the customer.

and shopping eat etc is not the same thing as paying for sex, sorry

Are you from a different planet ? Explain to us all (if you can) why you believe paying for sex after is how it should be !

I find this really bizarre and do not understand why punters are paying in advance of the service received .

Can someone explain why the transaction is taken before and not after ?

In most cases , there is a "pimp" so not like anyone is going to do a runner.

You can always show the girl the money, so she is safe in the knowledge that at least you got the money on you to pay.

Once you hand that money over, there is a million things the girl can do to get rid of you asap .

Is it possible to change the consciousness of the situation , and make it so it is fairer for the punter ? The person actually paying for the service?

Just seems really really odd to me , that this form of practice is taking place.

This is a wind up surely?

This is a wind up surely?

+1. I'm trying to think of something I use before paying. A meal perhaps...

tcm

Offline Toby

+1. I'm trying to think of something I use before paying. A meal perhaps...

tcm

Only in a restaurant. Pub meals and cafés are usually pay up front.


its not that way in Thailand, and the girls are half the size.


Yes but women over there are mere chattels. Also over there check how much it cost to fuck a Russian hooker it's a lot more than to fuck a Thai.

Offline Toby

Perhaps we could work on a sliding scale, where payments are made as the services progress:
- client arrives and agrees that the WG is the one he was expecting: 10% of fee paid
- WG offers a cup of tea: 5% fee paid
- WG undresses and doesn't have a penis: 10% fee paid
- punter undresses: 10% of fee paid for WG keeping a straight face
- WG starts to perform BJ: 5% fee paid before starting, 5% paid during, and 5% paid after
- penetration starts: 10% paid before starting, 10% paid during, 10% paid after
- during punter's climax: 10% paid during build up, 10% paid while cumming

At all stages there would be a minor break in activities, while the money is sorted and the WG stores it safely away.

Offline GeeWiz

If your punt is £120 ph, then just take sixty £2 coins and give her one every minute.  Simple.

In Thailand you pay after but woe betide you if you don't is all I can say. They would collectively get you to see the error of your ways and you would pay and then some. Go to pattayaaddictsdotcom and have a read of some of the horror stories.

Here they're not so clanish.

Offline Garden69

If your punt is £120 ph, then just take sixty £2 coins and give her one every minute.  Simple.

Yes and set a reminder on your phone each minute - what a passion killer that'd be  :rolleyes: :)

Offline caramelceleste

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As a WG doing outcalls only I'm incredulous at your question lol
I kind of understand what you're saying in the context of incalls, agencies and girls with pimps. But do you really think they're going to let you not pay after you're dabbled in their goods anyway?
But outcall indies agreeing to provide services via the internet and showing up for free? Never! Lol I'd probably waste less time earning money by offering my services for free in person in a social setting and then charging up front like a scammer once they're alone.

Offline sextopay4

Total bollocks about white women can beat most men if it came to it. Why not just stick to punting in Thailand or other countries where paying after the punt is the norm if it bothers you so much.

 What i do know is it wont be changing here anytime soon.

Not with ignorant aggressive attitudes like yours , no.

You dont think it is a good idea? seems like you oppose it ?


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