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Author Topic: Stumped for a polite way of telling a SP to mind her own business.  (Read 4660 times)

Recently seen a SP nice friendly and all that sort of a bit of chemistry but then she's asking me all these fucking awkward questions, where do you Live, where do you work, Have you got Kids, Do you fuck your wife.

Jesus Christ this wasn't a new girl on the scene either.

I'm sure it was harmless small talk but it kind of put me on the spot, not very professional on her part. I felt like telling her straight to mind her own fucking business or what the fuck has it got to do with you but then the Punt would have probably gone on a downward trajectory.

I thought it was a golden rule not to ask personal questions?

Roland D Hay

There are a fair few nosy cows and the way to combat this is to simply invent a fantasy life. Tell her you're a mormon and you have four wives, all of whom you fuck frequently but somehow they just ain't enough. Then ask her if she's looking to settle down.   :hi:

Offline k

If she got a bible out and asked you to swear on oath that your answers were correct then I might have had an issue with her patter.

Simplest way to reply is to ask her name.  Her real name.  Does she live here?  What country does she from?  Let's see your passport photo.  How much rent do you pay?  Does that include giving the landlord a blowjob, or does he get full service?  Etc. 

Offline vorian

It's possible it was innocent question from a inexperienced prossie,  I believe the more professional ones would not behave in such a way.

Of course it could have been more insidious,  in which case have a fake cover story in your head or tell her to kind her own business.

I think you know what my next question will be.
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Offline wristjob

Well, first off probably don't go back.

You could always lie. 20 questions gets boring though.

"Bah that's all boring...." pretty much kills it dead then I guess ask her something.

Start asking her personal questions like, why is she a prostitute? does she do it to feed her drug habit? how many cocks does she suck a day?

Offline yorkshire123

You should have kept her mouth occupied in other ways  :cool:

If your uncomfortable just make up some elaborate bullshit, policeman seems very common according to a regular. Failing that i don't have an issue with the "mind your own business" comment as I've used it a couple of times & is usually followed by an apology from said prossie with no visible hard feelings.
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Offline stayer

A stiff cock in a WG's mouth is a well-proven way of keeping the peace.


You should have kept her mouth occupied in other ways  :cool:



She kept stopping to talk. WTF.

Roland D Hay


Be honest with her. Tell her those personal questions are making you uncomfortable and you want to talk about something else.

Offline frankiemanchester

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Start asking her personal questions like, why is she a prostitute? does she do it to feed her drug habit? how many cocks does she suck a day?

hey, in my experience quite a lot of guys ask quite personal questions to us girls as well, how many guys do you see a day, do you have a boyfriend, have you got any kids, how did a girl like you get into a job like this, your too nice to do this job...

i think some people dont see the harm in asking, and i dont usually mind these questions but it all depends on mood, tone, general gist of the service

i think the one that gets me the most is "is frankie your real name" haha xx

I always find a punt goes better with a bit of conversation, but if personal questions come up I always use out of date stuff, if I can't be vague. For example, if I get asked about work, I use 2 jobs ago. Can talk about that but it isn't totally accurate.

Be honest with her. Tell her those personal questions are making you uncomfortable and you want to talk about something else.

Yeah your spot on. I should have been forthright. It's just that I was a little shocked surprised and put on the spot.

I'm not going to be mentioning names or posting links cos I think it was just harmless small talk. I will mention this though when I see my next one. I will specifcaly mention no personal question please during the booking process.

I'll fucking learn yet!  :sarcastic:

Offline AnthG

I often get asked personal questions like this. I usually chat on bookings, or am normally a bit nervous at the start of bookings and it just seems to be the natural questions people ask for small talk to break the ice clearly the girls not realising that maybe in this scenario something else is maybe a better topic.

So in this situation its simply a case of come up with something.

The thing is - and those who are good at this may be able to say one way or the other, as I feel like I have went down both routes and it did not have good consequences.

As e.g

Scenario 1. If you make it sound you are a bit well off and have a good paying job, then the girl - or one I remember did with me and I get the feeling it was due to my doing this - started trying to get me to pay extra for everything I wanted. She wanted £30 for simple things like DFK kissing and another for OWO. So I am guessing £60 more if I wanted both.

A pee take and thus makes me very hesitant now about going on the I have cash route. (I never paid for either by the way for those curious)

So the other route is to go down Scenario 2 where you say you are effectively strapped for cash and this punt is like your mega present to yourself that you have saved up for type of stuff to try and get some sympathy so the girl maybe may give you some more effort if she thinks you cannot afford this usually.

The problem with this one in all honesty I got a bit of a crush for one of the girls I did this with and then possibly regretted this route as I am a realist and these girls would only even consider you if you knew you had cash so would have rather have at least pretended a bit.

So I would come up with a story with bets hedged to be honest. Which like I say I am not sure what that best story would be.

Offline Ali Katt

From what I've heard you'd be surprised how many punters ask prossies personal question. Personally, I don't want them to know my personal life any more than I do theirs.

Give a silly answer the best is to tell her your getting married next week and wanted to have an affair beforehand. Say you have 7 kids to different mums. And that you work for HMRC.

Offline TonyJC

Be honest with her. Tell her those personal questions are making you uncomfortable and you want to talk about something else.

+1


Or just make something up.

Jim

Next time they ask just tell them you've just got out of the Nick and your the first woman you've been with for a long time.

If they ask what for

Say killing a whore who tried to charge me extra for owo

Actually they might freak her out a little but would be worth seeing her reaction.


Offline Ali Katt

how did a girl like you get into a job like this, your too nice to do this job...
That's the worst question in the world like that will get any a free shag off the books.

I've heard prossies ask "why don't you have girlfriend" and "why do you punt?" all out of order questions IMHO.

Offline Urban_G

I've lost count the amount of times a wg has asked me personal questions, most commonly it seems to be 'Do you have a wife / girlfriend?'.
Talk about passion killer, it's the wrong topic to discuss during a punt, although to be fair it's mostly asked after the deed has been done so not so bad.

Another one is 'What job do you have?'. I have a different kind of job to most people and this question has sometimes caught me off guard. Unlike a false name, I never used to have a 'false job' to tell them and often blurted out the truth.

But still, why do they ask when they haven't the slightest bit of real interest? I Know it's to fill the time but I'm quite happy getting dressed and leaving with the bare minimum of small talk.

Now I generally try to steer the conversation away from myself and onto them, usually stuff about how long they've been in UK and if they like it here etc.

Offline AnthG

Be honest with her. Tell her those personal questions are making you uncomfortable and you want to talk about something else.
To be honest I would not go down this route as you are adding tension, and possibly awkwardness to the siltation at the very least. Or at the worst some girls may get their back up towards you (unfortunately prostitutes are sometimes people who react OTT to scenarios as they are a little unstable - or stark raving psychos some times).

You are saving so much potential grief just making something up.

jcdmj12

Just make shit up... it's fun coming up with the most ridiculous backstories.


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