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Offline Jimmyredcab

Some people think if you refuse to be a fluffie then you must be a Neanderthal which is total nonsense.

I am always polite to WG's.

I never attempt to push their limits.

I have even been known to take along a bottle of wine to one of my regular girls.

However ------------ if a girl tells me blatant lies about her age, dress size or anything else that is relevant to the punt then I will tell the world about it, if I lose the girl business then that is her problem, not mine.

Quote from: Jimmyredcab
Some people think if you refuse to be a fluffie then you must be a Neanderthal which is total nonsense.

I am always polite to WG's.

I never attempt to push their limits.

I have even been known to take along a bottle of wine to one of my regular girls.

However ------------ if a girl tells me blatant lies about her age, dress size or anything else that is relevant to the punt then I will tell the world about it, if I lose the girl business then that is her problem, not mine.

Welcome Jimmy - you're a fluffie in my book!

Offline roadie

Quote from: Jimmyredcab
I am always polite to WG's.

I never attempt to push their limits.

I have even been known to take along a bottle of wine to one of my regular girls.

Same here. In fact I'm off to see a regular girl I visit for an hour at 1pm today. I'm taking her a box of chocs as she's been so good to me. I know her real name, home address, her personal phone number, personal email address, the lot. My last punt with her was for an hour outcall, and she stayed 5 hours. We had a takeaway and wine and she even chipped in half the money.
She is now a personal friend and I always drop in and say hello whenever I'm in her town.

Does this make me a fluffie? Or maybe she is the one who's a fluffie?

Offline Jimmyredcab

Quote from: roadie

Same here. In fact I'm off to see a regular girl I visit for an hour at 1pm today. I'm taking her a box of chocs as she's been so good to me. I know her real name, home address, her personal phone number, personal email address, the lot. My last punt with her was for an hour outcall, and she stayed 5 hours. We had a takeaway and wine and she even chipped in half the money.
She is now a personal friend and I always drop in and say hello whenever I'm in her town.

Does this make me a fluffie? Or maybe she is the one who's a fluffie?


Very unusual behaviour from a WG, maybe she loves you long time.

Offline Wayang

Quote from: roadie

Same here. In fact I'm off to see a regular girl I visit for an hour at 1pm today. I'm taking her a box of chocs as she's been so good to me. I know her real name, home address, her personal phone number, personal email address, the lot. My last punt with her was for an hour outcall, and she stayed 5 hours. We had a takeaway and wine and she even chipped in half the money.
She is now a personal friend and I always drop in and say hello whenever I'm in her town.

Does this make me a fluffie? Or maybe she is the one who's a fluffie?

Not certain it makes you a fluffy but I do think you need to think through your relatioship with her.  This is not the f*ck and walk away normal situation.
Mind you - I am just jealous about the extra time you got - I had all the personal details of one of my favourites (because I liked an early start I visited her at home before she went to her working flat) - but she always wanted to be at work by 1100.

Offline Mellow

Quote from: Kate
Mellow your name is a little like 'Little John', as in he's really very tall.  There is nothing mellow about you at all lol.

It's actually based on a true story, disguised as humour.

Quote from: Kate
I think you need to write a list about what how 'non fluffy' is now.  We need a comparison.

A proper punter pays his money, gets his service, goes home. Happy in the knowledge that the WG that serviced him was, reasonably priced, good-looking and professionally good at her job.

In my opinion, "fluffies" are Wgs worst nightmare.

Online Marmalade

Defining fluffies

I enjoyed the fun posts. Especially the 'mellow' one. :D

My own definitions are based on what is of benefit to punters.

I see two.

1. Firstly, in terms of getting meaningful field reports. A fluffie's FR is generally 10/10 and tells us that she was (insert list of words and phrases in superlative). It is of zero use in making an assessment. It is perhaps enjoyable to read by another 'fan' of that particular lady.

2. It can be nice to live in unreality. Punting, even GFE, is a sort of con to which one submits to, preferably willingly (at least one hopes).

An example of this is when men visit Copacabana, a highly tourist-orientated suburb of Rio de Janeiro. There you can, more often than not, experience what I call the 'Disney' effect. 9/10 girls there, if they are any good, will go out of their way to make you feel that they are in love with you and you with them. You are carried along on a high that can last for days or weeks. Occasionally you might even mean it, and very occasionally they do too. The emotional intelligence there btw (IMHO) outstrips that of western cultures, both in a positive and a combative sense.

Now take the same girl out of Copacabana, and she has much greater difficulty in maintaining that illusion. It is a routine she knows well in familiar surroundings. Cynically, I can point out that if the bottom line is saving money, you can get decent service and GFE a lot cheaper than you can in Copacabana (Disneyland). Many girls in the less touristy areas charge a fraction of the price. But it can also be like going on a big dipper at Southend rather than the same or similar big dipper in Disneyland Paris. So occasionally I indulge. (And even with new exchange rates I manage to get a Copacabana overnight for £30, though many beginners and not-so-beginners pay more).


So there is nothing wrong with being a fluffy. As long as you don't get hurt and don't overspend. Enjoy it while it lasts. (And expect some stick over the fluffidom field reports.)

Offline roadie

Quote from: Wayang

Not certain it makes you a fluffy but I do think you need to think through your relatioship with her.  This is not the f*ck and walk away normal situation.
Mind you - I am just jealous about the extra time you got - I had all the personal details of one of my favourites (because I liked an early start I visited her at home before she went to her working flat) - but she always wanted to be at work by 1100.

You're right about it not being the normal f**k and walk away, but we have become very good friends and we enjoy each others company a lot.

Just to make you slightly more jealous....hehehe, my visit to her today was for an hour 1pm till 2pm. We were still in the bedroom at 2-30pm, then out for a coffee. She had to go up the town for some shopping and asked if I wanted to go with her, so off we went. She got a couple of things from the shops and we headed off to the pub for a drink.
Then back to her place where she cooked me a lovely meal, after which, we headed back into the bedroom for another hour of fun.
I left for home at 7-45pm.

I love having this girl as a friend, and she's always welcoming when I visit her either for a paid visit or social visit. I don't think that I really need to re-consider my relationship with her as we both know exactly where we stand. I can visit her whether I pay for her time, or not. There is nothing more than friendship involved.

Offline ladyofthemansion

I see that word fluffie used when talking of prozzienet. What does it mean?

Offline AnthG

A "Fluffie" books in
A "Fluffie" pays for extras
A "Fluffie" brings a bottle of wine
A "Fluffie" is fat
A "Fluffie" is old
A "Fluffie" loves reverse oral
A "Fluffie" asks if the whore enjoyed herself
A "Fluffie" books for next time before he dumps his load
A "Fluffie" tells her that he wants a shower
A "Fluffie" pays for his time in the shower
A "Fluffie" apologies for wetting the soap
A "Fluffie" tells her that he'll write a good auto-censored report
A "Fluffie" waits for his kiss bye bye

then

A "Fluffie" rings up to thank the whore
A "Fluffie" drops in some chocolates
A "Fluffie" gets her private number
A "Fluffie" texts her over and over
A "Fluffie" learns of her life problems
A "Fluffie" learns that she is a druggie
A "Fluffie" thinks that he can save her
A "Fluffie" gets rid of all her dealer numbers on her phone
A "Fluffie" starts to supply her with drugs himself
A "Fluffie" wants her to leave the business
A "Fluffie" starts to hate all her other clients
A "Fluffie" sets up home for the whore
A "Fluffie" makes the offer

then

Whore dies of overdose

A "Fluffie" says he tried his best


Not exhaustive, but I reckon if you get 10, you're A "Fluffie"
I just found this topic from a search made. I absolutely love this post. Got a good laugh. And seems to sum things up well.

Offline smiths

I just found this topic from a search made. I absolutely love this post. Got a good laugh. And seems to sum things up well.

« Last Edit: July 01, 2012, 10:40:01 PM by smiths »

Offline AnthG

Really, its utter and complete shit in my opinion. A Fluffy is fat this now poster has posted, that is of course rubbish, a Fluffy is old, again rubbish, in fact its offensive drivel taking no account for the individual punter. Sure some fat and old punters might be Fluffies, but some arent.

Not sure how old Jimmy is but he is no youngster and isnt a Fluffy, i am fat but not a Fluffy.
But at the bottom it states

Quote
I reckon if you get 10, you're A "Fluffie"

You could pick out certain points for anything. For example define Troll (given the other posts which caused me to search and find this post).

1. Someone on the internet
2. Someone who joins a forum
3. Someone who posts offensive posts directed at specific members
4. Someone who argues all the time.

Someone could say. "Hey I am on the internet so that makes me a Troll". No because you don't have the other 3.

I am taking it the same for Mellows list of what is a Fluffy.

Offline smiths

But at the bottom it states

You could pick out certain points for anything. For example define Troll (given the other posts which caused me to search and find this post).

1. Someone on the internet
2. Someone who joins a forum
3. Someone who posts offensive posts directed at specific members
4. Someone who argues all the time.

Someone could say. "Hey I am on the internet so that makes me a Troll".

I deleted my post but its like fortune telling to my mind, it could apply to virtually anyone, in this case punters.

Anyway a Fluffy to me is a punter who always takes a SPs side whether they believe they are right on any matter or not. Being right or wrong isnt relevant to a Fluffy, the punter is ALWAYS automatically to blame.

aha
some ideas about fluffy
I think it is an unreal stereotype
I even asked what it means in the thread about the user numbers on here and compared with auto-censored

I did mention that I bring chocs or strawberries to a lady.
Does that make me a fluffie?
I do it sometimes even to a first time to break the ice, be polite and get a better service. it works. I am not a romantic but I can still be friendly, it gets me places, I mean anatomically, that I might otherwise not reach like 69 or mouth to mouth resuscitation type snogging. And sometimes listening sympathetically results in a great suck after she regains her morale!
Does that make me a fluffie?
Why should some of you guys show contempt to a fluffy anyway? There are many ways to the erotic which help the ££ go further and refresh the parts.

Offline Jacob

And sometimes listening sympathetically results in a great suck after she regains her morale!

Was she was allergic to strawberries or disappointed that you'd presented her with 'Heroes' instead of her favorite 'Quality Street'.

You sound like you expect a Pro$$ie to have a problem that she can share with you or is it just the reaction you get when they open the door?  ;)

No not allergic
and I usually go for Green and Black
but no, I do not expect to learn their problems, and I am not a 'social worker' but a friendly chap and maybe twice in 6 months a lady (I mean 2 different ladies) opened up and I listened and after that the passions were inflamed and we had a great time, and maybe a few more great times.

Any one recall a BBW from Leicester/Nuneaten called Lustylush who has now retired. I saw her maybe 2wice a year for about 4 years and yes we became friends but she was still a lady with whom to punt for cash. I can be friendly to my plumber also and he still mends my leak for cash.

Please do not be sarcastic with me.

Offline Jacob

Another term that is sometimes used is 'Genuine Punter', so for anyone interested there is a thread here that has a particularly good post by Jerry.  :hi:




Another term that is sometimes used is 'Genuine Punter', so for anyone interested there is a thread here that has a particularly good post by Jerry.  :hi:

nice one, thanks for the link. Time for bed. Next punt Tuesday I hope.

Offline Jimmyredcab


Why should some of you guys show contempt to a fluffy anyway?

Simple answer, a true fluffie will never say a bad word about any WG no matter what she does, if she gives a terrible service the true fluffie will say it must be the punter's fault, to sum it up they make me want to throw up.   :vomit:

Offline outofthegame

I don't get the need to 'break the ice'. I am paying her for sex, if there is any tension or awkwardness from her then she is not doing her job properly.  The pro$$ies on saafe talk about ruining the mood and such like but it is delusional. This is a transaction about sex, not a 'romantic encounter'.

who said anything about romantic encounter? As a visitor it is nice and friendly to bring something. Money it is but it need not be impersonal especially as it is going to be intimate. I suppose we shall have to disagree but it works for me.

Offline mattylondon

who said anything about romantic encounter? As a visitor it is nice and friendly to bring something. Money it is but it need not be impersonal especially as it is going to be intimate. I suppose we shall have to disagree but it works for me.
You're already bringing her the gift of money. Isn't that enough?  :dash:

What works for you, works for you, I guess. I'll never understand the mentality of some of you guys, but then you're the paying punter and it's your choice. Me? Yes, be polite and friendly, but I'd rather save the gifts and all the rest for somebody that cares about me, as much as I do about them. Not some ho who's interest in you will wane as quickly as your £££ runs out. Truth is, prossies don't give a flying fuck about you or any other punter. Just their  £££ :hi:

« Last Edit: July 02, 2012, 06:22:52 PM by mattylondon »

Offline Matium

A fluffy is one who disguises a sexual transaction with the trappings of romance.

Offline outofthegame

A fluffy is one who disguises a sexual transaction with the trappings of romance.
Best definition of the word I have seen.



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