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Hi All,

this is a subject that is bothering me too. I didn't want to post on it until I had finished my researches, but ForrestG forced my hand (so to speak ;)).

@Forrest do you watch a lot of porn? If so read on....

Thanks for this mcardle. And I'm sorry that your hand was forced!

I've been punting for a relatively short time, just 3 months or so. However since I started punting my interest in and craving for porn has tailed off quite dramatically. Historically, though, I've wanked a lot while consuming a lot of porn. Perhaps it'll take a while longer before the effects of my porn addiction (assuming that's what it is) fades.

I'm very interested to know whether PIED is a factor in my problem. I'll definitely try the cold turkey thing. I expect I can manage that, especially if it results in an improvement in my punt/pop success rate.

I'm not normally sold on the idea of vitamin supplements. However arginine sounds interesting in that it can deliver benefits to those suffering from ED and anxiety problems. Will give it due consideration.

I'm interested to hear about further results/conclusions of your programme. So please keep me posted. I'll do the same.

Offline Toby

I'm very interested to know whether PIED is a factor in my problem. I'll definitely try the cold turkey thing. I expect I can manage that, especially if it results in an improvement in my punt/pop success rate.

I would imagine wanking a lot possibly has something to do with it. As was put to me recently: your body is used to cumming through your own 'handling', and less used to what other people do to you.

Offline mcardle464

Thanks for your responses, Toby and Forrest.

@toby: as I understand it, and I am not an expert, it's not the wanking (obviously people have always done that) - it's the combination of wanking and the levels of stimulation/immediate gratification you can get from an internet porn overload. There hasn't been anything like it before, and our brains get used to levels of gratification and seek new stimuli - for example I imagine the first skydive must be pretty terrifying, but by the 100th it might be routine, and possibly even somewhat boring.

Essentially you are transferring your sexual impulses off women, and onto screen-based media. Doctors have noticed young males (teen to twenties) having ED, which  *never* happened before. Young males might be prone to coming too soon, but never used to have problems with hard-ons and this is down to PIED caused by porn addiction while their brains are still developing.

I'm sorry, I didn't explain Arginine properly. It increases blood flow - it's an amino acid, a protein that you get in your food.  Taking it about an hour before a punt should help blood flow to the penis which improves erections and sensation.

[[Link hidden, login to view]]  This bloke is a doctor.  He does sell his own herbal formulations, which looks a bid quacky but his books are very good.  He did one on Natural Sex Boosters - which I recommend. You can check out what he thinks of various substances on that site. What I like about him is he actually takes things and writes about their subjective effect, rather than just quote academic papers. A field man, rather than just a desk jockey.

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[[Link hidden, login to view]]   It says here that Arginine can be used as a cream for ED. First I've heard of that. Interesting - I just take it internally.

@UKPers: I expect others of you have experimented with non-pharmaceutical "sex boosters" (that is not viagra, kamagra, cialis etc)- I'd be interested to hear of your experiences.

Another interesting thread on this frankly amazing site.

Thanks for the posts, going to try Arginine to see if can help with my occassional DE problem. 

Thanks for this mcardle. And I'm sorry that your hand was forced!

I've been punting for a relatively short time, just 3 months or so. However since I started punting my interest in and craving for porn has tailed off quite dramatically. Historically, though, I've wanked a lot while consuming a lot of porn. Perhaps it'll take a while longer before the effects of my porn addiction (assuming that's what it is) fades.

I'm very interested to know whether PIED is a factor in my problem. I'll definitely try the cold turkey thing. I expect I can manage that, especially if it results in an improvement in my punt/pop success rate.

I'm not normally sold on the idea of vitamin supplements. However arginine sounds interesting in that it can deliver benefits to those suffering from ED and anxiety problems. Will give it due consideration.

I'm interested to hear about further results/conclusions of your programme. So please keep me posted. I'll do the same.

Forrest - have you tried no porn and no wanking for a week before a punt? I used to get turned on by porn before I started punting but now I hardly bother.

Forrest - have you tried no porn and no wanking for a week before a punt? I used to get turned on by porn before I started punting but now I hardly bother.

Have abstained for about a week now and probably won't get a safe opportunity to punt until next week due to unexpected circumstances beyond my control. I hope by then I'll be good and ready to pop.

Yup am finding it a lot easier than I thought it would be to abstain completely from porn. Of course having a clear mental image of the successful outcome of this bit of self-research is a great motivator :P

Offline yorkshire123

Have abstained for about a week now and probably won't get a safe opportunity to punt until next week

2 weeks worth, fucking hell Gump it may be a good idea to tell the poor girl to wear some goggles  :cool:
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2 weeks worth, fucking hell Gump it may be a good idea to tell the poor girl to wear some goggles  :cool:

Funny you should say that Y123. It just so happens that my mental image involves me redecorating the room.  :P

Must... stay... strong...  :wacko:

Offline yorkshire123

Funny you should say that Y123. It just so happens that my mental image involves me redecorating the room.  :P

Must... stay... strong...  :wacko:

Good luck buddy  :thumbsup:
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Offline fgs

The WG talking dirty and then me sticking my tongue down her throat until i tickle her tonsils usually ensures i can pop. The biggest obstacle for me is a cold unfriendly WG, i dont wish to be in the same room as such people let alone punt with them.

Cold and unfriendly WG is by far the worst performance inhibitor for me - other than BO of course  :vomit:

Offline fgs

Thanks for this mcardle. And I'm sorry that your hand was forced!

I've been punting for a relatively short time, just 3 months or so. However since I started punting my interest in and craving for porn has tailed off quite dramatically. Historically, though, I've wanked a lot while consuming a lot of porn. Perhaps it'll take a while longer before the effects of my porn addiction (assuming that's what it is) fades.

I'm very interested to know whether PIED is a factor in my problem. I'll definitely try the cold turkey thing. I expect I can manage that, especially if it results in an improvement in my punt/pop success rate.

I'm not normally sold on the idea of vitamin supplements. However arginine sounds interesting in that it can deliver benefits to those suffering from ED and anxiety problems. Will give it due consideration.

I'm interested to hear about further results/conclusions of your programme. So please keep me posted. I'll do the same.
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From experience the cost element from the inevitable increase in brass intake to account for your  porn addiction will soon take its financial toll and you will gravitate back to porn. I was on 5 brasses a week at one point but have managed to wean myself back to 1 a week with a healthy dose of internet porn. Its all about balance.... :lol:

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From experience the cost element from the inevitable increase in brass intake to account for your  porn addiction will soon take its financial toll and you will gravitate back to porn. I was on 5 brasses a week at one point but have managed to wean myself back to 1 a week with a healthy dose of internet porn. Its all about balance.... :lol:

Wise words, indeed, fgs. Wise words.

Perhaps not for you but the scourge that is the human ageing process is also a factor in this for me. What I mean by that is that I find that, after firing, it now takes me longer to build up a full head of steam than it did say 10 years ago. So, from a purely financial perspective, that's a bit of a blessing. But, yes, moderation seems to be the solution to problems associated to so many human vices.  :)

2 weeks worth, fucking hell Gump it may be a good idea to tell the poor girl to wear some goggles  :cool:

According to Wikki :


The volume of semen ejaculate varies. A review of 30 studies concluded that the average was around 3.4 milliliters (ml), with some studies finding amounts as high as 4.99 ml or as low as 2.3 ml.[6] In a study with Swedish and Danish men, a prolonged interval between ejaculations caused an increase of the sperm count in the semen but not an increase of its amount.[12]

Trust those scandinavians to know whats going on.


Offline bower

same thing happens to me, ive had 3 punts now and 3 non finishes!  :angry:
with me i think its the women who really dont seem to want to be there, thats an instant turn off for me and when theyve turned up and not what u expected them to look like.
after each one ive said never again but in truth ill keep trying and keep looking for someone who gives a good gfe

same thing happens to me, ive had 3 punts now and 3 non finishes!  :angry:
with me i think its the women who really dont seem to want to be there, thats an instant turn off for me and when theyve turned up and not what u expected them to look like.
after each one ive said never again but in truth ill keep trying and keep looking for someone who gives a good gfe

That sucks, bower.

I hope you find a solution to the problem soon.

Perhaps some of the content in this thread will help you?

Good luck  :)

Offline bower

hope so forrest, living in the arse end of nowhere doesnt help either, havin to travel or pay a fortune and then a shit punt really guts u

I dont normally get anxiety before a punt. It's normally when Ive just walked into the room and sat down on the bed I think OOH FUCK  :scare: then I calm down a bit.

For me it was finding the perfect GFE... Lots of kissing, very intimate and made to feel completely at ease

Well, AV, I was initially sceptical but now admit you were spot on with your prescribed remedy.  :thumbsup:

Credit also to my gfe service provider, Nicole. https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=35598.0


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