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Offline KRedWhite

It just would not float my boat to break a girls skin or permanently mark her so I guess if Emma or Carrie allow you to do that and you really want to then fair enough (albeit I have seen a few girls on AW who claim to be able to take pretty hard spankings).  So far as variety goes, there is girls on AW who will take spankings and offer a big variety in their services at half the price that Emma or Carrie charge.

I never said that you go there to permanently mark a lady, what I actually said was: "nothing so dramatic, it's fun, We leave the blood for sick-frustrated psychos."

Offline KRedWhite

Really, meant as a joke in a friendly manner was it, i think not and it certainly wasnt funny in any way in my view, it was a dig as this post is by a poster with a beef with me about something.

...as I already said: "it's entirely up to you."

I already explained myself.

I think you are taking yourself a bit too seriously.

If you have a grudge with someone there is no need to take it with me.

- be nice with others and others will be nice with you -

Offline jackdaw

Something I tried (from both sides) a couple of years ago when I was going through my apprentice perv stage. I actually enjoyed aspects of it... but decided it was too expensive* to master the Dom art, and too painful to major as a sub. (*NB... I chuckled at idea of anybody thinking expense was a major limiting factor in Smiths pursuit of fun... wouldn't be amazed if he spends more per year in pursuit of the bonny black hare than I earn.)

Of course, there are some doms/ subs that carry out extreme acts. But... very for large majority... its all about learning to cause just enough pain in right way to heighten overall pleasure of experience, whilst certainly avoiding any permanent marking, or even marking that would take more than a couple of hours to fade.

Incidentally I was amazed at how vigorous a hand spanking an experienced sub can enjoy... as long as correct methods followed. Same treatment would most likely have seen me blubbing. As for so many thing, its all about judging what other person wants.

Offline smiths

...as I already said: "it's entirely up to you."

I already explained myself.

I think you are taking yourself a bit too seriously.

If you have a grudge with someone there is no need to take it with me.

- be nice with others and others will be nice with you -

I see you dont follow your own words regarding being patronizing.

Offline Matium

Human skin is very responsive to to being touched. Spanking - real, professional spanking - is all about the tingling of physical sensations so that you always remain on the right side of the line separating pleasure from pain.

I've had WGs squirm with sheer pleasure from being spanked.

I have only tried giving spanking with one prossie, was doing the deed in the doggy position and she asked me to spank her, I did as asked and within a few strikes could feel her getting ludicrously moist, was a big turn on for me as well as I had never tried it before then and to see the effect it was having was great.
For some reason I have never asked about it with another, must try it again some time.

Offline softlad

I have only tried giving spanking with one prossie, was doing the deed in the doggy position and she asked me to spank her,

I've had similar with a gem from the past.
She liked me to slap then squeeze her buttocks, she also like to be strangled..... :scare:
I got the impression I was too much of a light weight for her, because I didn't do it hard enough.  :cry:

Offline SteveNova

Giving a spanking is certainly on my 'to do' list of experiences and this thread has confirmed that view.  I have heard good reports of Tammy from Bath Babes in that respect - and she's in my part of the world  :) 
As far as receiving from a dom - well I would have to be able to drive home and my car has quite a firm ride  :scare:

Offline NIK

As I have done many things over the years this is something I have both given and received. Can't say it does that much for me either way though.
I do recall one girl who actually loved it - I had thought girls loving being spanked was a myth until then - she said she loved the tingling sensation, and it used to really excite her.  :D

closest ive got is a few playfull taps although one girl i saw for a while lovev her nipples being squeezed and bitten hard

Offline Falstaff

A few WGs have asked to be spanked hard on the arse, its rude to say no so i obliged, my hand was tingling afterwards. I have no interest nowadays in women spanking me.

Likewise I'm not interested in being spanked. Quite like spanking but it not something I actively seek out.

Have never used a cane but have thought about it. The higher rates usually charged put me off acting on the notion.

Offline manc36

A hard spanking never hurt anyone. Well not for long anyway   :)

I'd be interested if there where many WG who enjoy this kind of play. I know of one spanko in Oldham who enjoys roleplay and spanking.

A hard spanking never hurt anyone. Well not for long anyway   :)

I'd be interested if there where many WG who enjoy this kind of play. I know of one spanko in Oldham who enjoys roleplay and spanking.

That may  depend] on whether or not you went to a school where the pervert teachers enjoyed, er, strapping/caning the pupils!

Offline Whore Of Babylon

I never said that you go there to permanently mark a lady, what I actually said was: "nothing so dramatic, it's fun, We leave the blood for sick-frustrated psychos."
If it's between consensual adults all is permissible in my eyes.
 Really, be careful about judging the extremity of people's kinks as there are many who would call you a "sick-frustrated psycho" for your comparatively milder fun!


Offline HannahDarcy

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I enjoy giving a spanking and being spanked. I have used a wooden spoon and a belt on a client and I was careful not to leave any marks.

I have only been spanked by hand. Some guys have not specifically asked for a spanking session - they have just given me a good old smack during doggy. Brilliant. I usually ask those ones to pull my hair whilst they are at it.

Banning reason: Bad attitude + Implied threats

Do you. or the WG, use hands, plimsole, paddle, cane?

I've spanked a WG with a leather wallet full of cash.

She almost came.  :unknown:

I've spanked a WG with a leather wallet full of cash.

She almost came.  :unknown:

But was it the spanking or the size of your wallet that brought her off?

Seriously, I'm into spanking and have visited a few professional spanking 'subs' and enjoyed every visit. Unfortunately, the majority of 'spankees' as they call themselves make it clear that sex is completely off limits, while those who also offer 'personal services' are out of my price range.

Last week I visited an escort who said she was up for spanking. I didn't spank her, but when I visit her again I'm tempted to put her over my knee and warm her behind for five minutes or so before I move on to the sex.

Spanking is a big turn on for many men and women (I know because I used to spank my wife) and is a good way to get a girl's juices flowing. I'd recommend it to anyone who hasn't tried it.

As for being spanked, well I'm a member of a number of forums dedicated to spanking and you'd be amazed how many men express a desire to be spanked by an older woman.

Offline nova painted floozie

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I've had 2 clients want to spank me. One put me over his knee and immediately started smacking my arse really hard and fast. The shock of the pain was too much and I had to ask him to stop after about 30 seconds. He clearly had no idea what he was doing and I had to hide my anger for the rest of the booking  :diablo:
The other client was an expert and built up very slowly, always warning me when he was going to go faster/harder and checking every so often I was ok. I'm not sure if I enjoyed it but it was a really interesting experience. I remember feeling that I was nearing my limit but then the thought popped into my head: 'It's only pain. That's all it is.' I lasted a lot longer than I expected after that.
If you can stop thinking of the pain as 'ow - bad. Hurts! Don't like it!' and start just relaxing and settling into the sensation - just being prepared to feel it and not necessarily enjoy it but not be freaked out by it either then you can get somethyng from it.

Offline punk

I've had 2 clients want to spank me. One put me over his knee and immediately started smacking my arse really hard and fast. The shock of the pain was too much and I had to ask him to stop after about 30 seconds. He clearly had no idea what he was doing and I had to hide my anger for the rest of the booking  :diablo:
The other client was an expert and built up very slowly, always warning me when he was going to go faster/harder and checking every so often I was ok. I'm not sure if I enjoyed it but it was a really interesting experience. I remember feeling that I was nearing my limit but then the thought popped into my head: 'It's only pain. That's all it is.' I lasted a lot longer than I expected after that.
If you can stop thinking of the pain as 'ow - bad. Hurts! Don't like it!' and start just relaxing and settling into the sensation - just being prepared to feel it and not necessarily enjoy it but not be freaked out by it either then you can get somethyng from it.

i like playing the drums on the girls bum some times, lightly and playfully

I think - well, my experience tells me - that provided it is not done cold, or straight in with a hard slap, that mild spanking can be not really painful at all, and more like a sharp counterpoint to what else is going on at the time. Whoever is on the receiving end has to be well warmed up and turned on though, for it to not really 'hurt', but be more of an exciting, thrilling tingling. That's maybe missing the original point though, which does seem to be about pain

Offline nova painted floozie

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I think - well, my experience tells me - that provided it is not done cold, or straight in with a hard slap, that mild spanking can be not really painful at all, and more like a sharp counterpoint to what else is going on at the time. Whoever is on the receiving end has to be well warmed up and turned on though, for it to not really 'hurt', but be more of an exciting, thrilling tingling. That's maybe missing the original point though, which does seem to be about pain
For most people I think that's right, although you have to be comfortable in that position ie: classic submissive. Some folks (especially traditionally masculine guys) might struggle with that side of it.
What I was describing above was an awful lot more than mild spanking though. The client visited me again and used a paddle but was so expert in his technique that I was able to tolerate a lot more of it than I expected. In fact, it became a battle of wills for me. I wanted him to get tired of it before I hit my pain threshold. I won in the end! But was daft enough to say this out loud and he promptly put me back over his knee until I couldn't take any more. Quite rightly.

Offline fredpunter

You're getting very close to deserving a spanking for touting I reckon. I'm sure there'd be no shortage of volunteers.


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