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Offline Matium

Do you ever ask your WG for a lapdance? Does it become part of the "routine"? Can she lapdance well?


Offline Jimmyredcab

Do you ever ask your WG for a lapdance?

Absolutely not.   :scare:

i went to a lap dancing bar a few years back (8/9) and paid

  £10.00 to go in
   £3.50 for a bottle of anything
   £15.00 for a dance

i watched a guy have 8 or 9 dances 4 beers and he was down to his last change .
he spent £150 ish just to go home frustrated


Offline Matium

I agree that it is a waste of time and money to go to a lapdancing club but if you ask a WG, particularly a young one, she'll be happy to do so.

Older WGs are sometimes reluctant to give you a lapdance, as they don't know how, but they can be coaxed before you go on to other things.

:)

Offline RedAlertTourist

Depends.

My view of "lapdancing" was based on a god awful film years back called Showgirls (1996) it had that chick out of Saved by the Bell doing full frontal nudity with Gina Gherson.

Her version of Lapdancing- was actually dry humping (the act of grinding her pussy up against a seated Male's lap whilst riding up and down cowgirl style).
Also saw this "pussy grinding" fetish in a sex/swingers/bondage documentary.

I had a lapdance once in the champagne room VIP section of a well known strip club (stole someones wrist band for discounted entry) and was disappointed there was no actual contact. But the Stripper DID remove her thong for me when I asked to see her pussy (even though it was against house/licensing rules apparently  :()

But pussy grinding- yep its all part of the foreplay and I tend to find the Escort finds it unique and a turn on too  :kiss:

Offline Matium

Lapdancing from a WG is very much a preliminary, especially if it's done with the right music and after she's given you a welcoming drink. It's best to just sit back and enjoy and the advantage is that it puts both you and her on a high before you go on and do other things.

Offline Jimmyredcab



Older WGs are sometimes reluctant to give you a lapdance.


I expect the walking frame may get in the way.  :D

Online smiths

Ideally where and when possible i want the WG to be naked apart from very high clear porn heels as she opens her door to me and after a quick introduction and giving her the money i like her tongue down my throat rather than dancing for me.

« Last Edit: June 25, 2011, 03:49:07 PM by smiths »

Offline Shade

Depends.

My view of "lapdancing" was based on a god awful film years back called Showgirls (1996) it had that chick out of Saved by the Bell doing full frontal nudity with Gina Gherson.

Her version of Lapdancing- was actually dry humping (the act of grinding her pussy up against a seated Male's lap whilst riding up and down cowgirl style).
Also saw this "pussy grinding" fetish in a sex/swingers/bondage documentary.

I had a lapdance once in the champagne room VIP section of a well known strip club (stole someones wrist band for discounted entry) and was disappointed there was no actual contact. But the Stripper DID remove her thong for me when I asked to see her pussy (even though it was against house/licensing rules apparently  :()

But pussy grinding- yep its all part of the foreplay and I tend to find the Escort finds it unique and a turn on too  :kiss:

Alas in the UK the Law is responsible for it being a no contact affair. Whereas in the US, it can be fairly full on, or at least so I hear. I wouldn't mind the latter taking place in a punt (perhaps just before the second round), it'd be quite fun for a change, but I'd expect full on touching and more, obviously, and wouldn't want it to last for more than about one song.

Offline RedAlertTourist

Alas in the UK the Law is responsible for it being a no contact affair. Whereas in the US, it can be fairly full on, or at least so I hear. I wouldn't mind the latter taking place in a punt (perhaps just before the second round), it'd be quite fun for a change, but I'd expect full on touching and more, obviously, and wouldn't want it to last for more than about one song.

Its whatever you find a turn on........

I remember in my High School/College Days when a girl used to sit on my lap (being a not too bright, hormonial teenager I had no idea what that meant) but I know it felt good to have her weight on "that area" and being literally CM or MM of cloth away from her pussy. used to get me hot under the collar

The idea of a grinding lapdance/pussy rub/dry hump is a throwback to that sexual longing.

Like I said tell the Escort you want her on top, ask her to sink her weight and ride you up and down like you were having sex (observe the results with hilarity or arousal) but MOST know what you mean.

Offline enzio

I love asking girls to dance during a punt.  Most find it something really difficult to do but try anyway.  It is so lovely watching the inexperienced dancers turn red with embarrassment as they dance for you but gain more confidence as they continue.  Then again I had a punt with a really arty student about a month ago and when I asked her to dance naked, she came out with the most wonderful exotic artistic dance which didn't necessarily turn me on but was good to see.

A couple of days ago I punted with a girl who was clearly a former lap dancer (and she confirmed that she had been).  It showed as it was an extremely good punt.

Offline AnthG

I was thinking about this and I just cannot see any reason I would want to ask for this.

Its like the thing you do in kosha bars that want to remain on the right side of the law so do not offer sex at all so they offer this as kind of like the best substitute they can which pales in comparison to anything guys really want but its all they can get.

Why ask for a substitute when you can have the real thing or more fun things to do.

The same applies to a massage, I had an escort 2 weeks back ask me half way through the appointment can she give me a massage.

And I was like no I do not like that. I mean I genuinely cannot even consider why I would ever want this. I might as well set fire to my money than pay for a massage.

Plus isn't getting a message an effeminate thing to get anyway?

Massaging the girl however is a whole different story.

Offline SteveNova



Plus isn't getting a message an effeminate thing to get anyway?

Massaging the girl however is a whole different story.
Massaging the girl is a nice turn on, but why do you think receiving one is effeminate - actually it can be very erotic.
As for lapdancing - I may ask the escort for that sometime, especially if she has actually been a dancer.   ;) 
I did go to a lap club once some years back, when grinding on the lap was permitted (but no touching the girls).  It was fine for a while but, at the end of the evening, just left me frustrated.

Online smiths

I was thinking about this and I just cannot see any reason I would want to ask for this.

Its like the thing you do in kosha bars that want to remain on the right side of the law so do not offer sex at all so they offer this as kind of like the best substitute they can which pales in comparison to anything guys really want but its all they can get.

Why ask for a substitute when you can have the real thing or more fun things to do.

The same applies to a massage, I had an escort 2 weeks back ask me half way through the appointment can she give me a massage.

And I was like no I do not like that. I mean I genuinely cannot even consider why I would ever want this. I might as well set fire to my money than pay for a massage.

Plus isn't getting a message an effeminate thing to get anyway?

Massaging the girl however is a whole different story.

Effeminate, no a lot of punters like massage and HE, they prefer it to FS, others convince themselves its not punting so dont feel guilty. Most WGs who want to massage you are trying to timewaste in my experience. I have no interest in massage with or without a HE myself, it would be like having a starter but not the main course.

Tony Montana

I love it.  I think it makes a very erotic start to the punt if done well... and if not you can have a laugh with (not at) the girl.

Offline Tibbs

I class massage and HE as a totally difference service to FS. Not because they're not both sexual encounters, because they are, but because they put you in very different places.

When you get a good massage and HE (I'm not talking a Chinese rub n tug here) the masseuse will get you into a totally relaxed state and then starts to play. The most intense orgasms I've had have come from hand relief. Imagine how relaxed you feel after you come and imagine already being in a massively relaxed state before that. The resultant feeling is just incomparable.

There's also the odd feeling of surrendering your pleasure to someone else. This is especially true of girls who don't let you touch them much. I think this is where the feminine worry comes in; as a man you have to be in control, but with a massage you're willingly handing that control to someone else. Not only that but you aren't doing anything to pleasure her.

I've been to see my favourite lady probably 8 times in the last 3 months and she knows my reactions very well now. She knows how I like the ending and she gives me the most incredible orgasms. She basically has me babbling incomprehensibly before she finally gives me release.


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