Guys thank you for your replies it just goes to show what a varied bunch we are.
I think TCM hit the nail on the head with reference to travelling, my work takes me away from home virtually every week giving me the opportunity to punt when i decide to do so, the end location can & does change from one day to the next which would lend itself to more of a short term booking mentality.
Maybe if i ever decide to get a 9-5 static job (god forbid) i would start to plan more?
Having said that maybe our own personality comes into play more than i first thought, for instance i rarely plan anything more than a week in advance in my personal life so it would make sense for that part of my life to continue into my punting habits as well.
As for lusting after & chasing a certain prossie, i don't think my mindset will ever change on that one, if they are too busy to squeeze me in then there are plenty more fish in the sea.
VFM is more of a priority for me now, if i feel a regular is starting to take the piss then they can kiss goodbye to my future custom, if a newbie doesn't give me post punt buzz then they will never become a regular. My VFM mindset change is all down to the great advise given by UKP members & i thank you all.
I have come to the conclusion that i love having sex with women of all shapes & sizes (not too fat though), nationalities, age's, backgrounds, looks (not pig ugly) & skin colour. Its not as simple as "every goal is a hole" just my taste changes quite dramatically day to day.
My mum once described me as a "randy little sod" in my teens after i got caught shagging the milf next door, i don't think i ever grew out of it