I personally am really really choosey. I am about to imminently break my 20 month punting hiatus with a girl i last seen I think 4 years ago. Even before then on average I’d probably punt once a month at absolute most and it was either with a well reviewed agency girl on here (with one exception when I took an ad-hoc threesome with a newbie).
The newbies on adult work, the viva street gambles, any red flags on here - that’s my immediate I’m not doing it. My whole thing is to punt girls that I wouldn’t have a chance with in real life and it really narrows the field down but takes a lot of the fear away and means I’ve never even been tempted to walk.
Like you I am choosy. That doesnt mean every girl has to be a supermodel but generally Im looking for women who as you say we wouldnt ordinarily get to grips with in every day life, or not at my age now.
In the past Ive visited well reviewed girls on here and didnt fancy them when I saw their face or body or both so walking is something Ive got used to doing. Ive even done it with agency girls and explained to the agency that they weren't my cup of tea and they have been cool with that. If we cant see up-to-date accurate pictures including facial once then why should I take all the risk?
I still make the odd mistake and occasionally my dick still rules my head but after so many times regretting these decisions Im now way more choosy and happy to keep my powder dry if its not what I want.
I walked away from a girl last week becasue she was way heavier than the pictures, it was the same girl but chubby isnt my thing and I felt using pics that are clearly out of date is disingenuous. She opened the door all smiles and was really nice during the comms so I felt a little bad. After I left I sent her a message apologising for wasting her time but pointing out I felt she wasnt quite what she was advertising, she replied very politely saying 'no problem have a good day'.