The actual acts you indicate you enjoyed are pretty ordinary so what do you mean "very open minded"? That's a very subjective phrase depending on how conservative or depraved a punter is. Her list of likes and her categorical DON'Ts doesn't really paint a particularly out-there sex vixen, excepting her openness to a range of genders, identities and combinations. The implied lack of armpit shaving (or chest, back, arms or unabrow) isn't really that risque.
By "kitkat and more" do you mean you used more than 4 fingers and got them "chocolatey"? Couldn't or not allowed to get a fist in?