Reading all the advice so far, I think the mistake I have made is thinking that emailing is all part of a flirting process when it's actually the start of a business transaction.
I am looking for occasional fun and to have sex with girls that in the real world stopped being interested in me decades ago.
But what is fun for me isn't necessarily the same for the other party I suppose.
I made this mistake too when I started, but occasionally my flirting emails worked, and I found this fantastic. This flirty, sexy chat put me right in the mood and often continued en route to the punt with sexy texting both ways.
This for me, is the perfect start to a punt.....but sadly a rare occurrence.
It's a shame girls don't do it more often as it would be a huge selling point for them....after all, most profiles are one massive flirt, offering everything under the sun in line with their likes. The profile draws us in to the fantasy (as it is designed to do) and should continue a little more once a booking is made, to continue the illusion.
Curt, abrupt responses immediately turn me off, as they contradict the earlier fantasy created.
I understand that it is a business transaction, but going to all that trouble to sell yourself with a sexy profile, then adopt a cold attitude right at the point of sale, seems like they are missing a trick.
They certainly are with me, I would be easy to charm into a booking.....I like to feel wanted (or at least that my £150 is wanted