Star Massage - Belper

[Iloveoral]

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So this is review I enjoyed but with a bitter twist

So wanted to see this girl for ages, before lockdown, we spoke and didn’t quite get a meet as she wanted me to talk on the app KIK

she no longer advertises full service just massage so loving the look of her went for it, £60 for the hour

On arrival she was beautiful, fit, super sexy and as the meet proceeded I thought she was a really nice girl, very intelligent, easy to talk to, just a love,y person.

The massage itself was fantastic she is very skilled

We seemed to click but no happy ending, but this was mentioned on her profile so I didn’t expect it, would be lying if I said I was hoping for it.

 Y hand brush her leg as she massaged me, I did comment on how smooth her legs were, as well as a fantastic body she has, thin vest on showing off her small tits with little tiny nipples, we did have a giggle about them and she said they were bigger and sexier before, sadly I missed the FS days

Totally enjoyed my time, we sat and chat for ages after, me still bullock naked, had a drink together, seemed to have a new friend, may of let my hand start to wonder on her leg as we sit and she was fine with it all for ages, she even shown me her profile on badoo and a girl she fancied, getting on I thought very well, time to leave I’d actually been there nearly 2 hours now and she had the kids to pick up


Perfect time had

The next day I get an email saying don’t contact me again, I was the worst customer ever touching her without her consent... this actually shocked me initially then made me feel i was disrespectful, apparently she though I had little respect for her (which totally wasn’t the case) as she is no longer a sex worker.
I emailed to apologise for her feeling like that and confirm I’d not see her again as requested.

So this went from a fantastic meet, great massage, totally recommend her, she is amazing, to a massive shock.

Next day I felt like shit after reading her email, I even though she may have got me mixed up with another punter, I felt pretty bad for her feeling that way about me.

Moral of the story is keep your hands to yourself even if the girl seems ok with it, if she’s not flogging sex, it could get horribly misunderstood, even if you think you’ve clicked be 100% before you rub a girls leg.

I would 100% recommend her massage if that’s all your after she is very good, but keep your hands in your pockets after.

[Hereto69]

Thank you for the review and sorry to hear of what you experienced after, especially as it seemed as though you were both enjoying conversing etc

Adultwork is quite simply the WRONG platform for her to promote her business and services. It's clear what is and isn't on offer, but it's still the wrong platform.

I feel that she is putting herself in situations that could be misunderstood, dangerous or even worse for her. This shouldn't happen, but sadly not everyone has respect or knows what boundaries are (This is not directed at op)

[HailWood]

I think I had this SP on my hot list when she did FS and did contact her but didn’t go to see her as she didn’t offer kissing. Her response seems like a bit of over reaction IMO; surely she could have just mentioned no touching at the time. Good that you have been open about the subsequent contact. 

[mr.bluesky]

Thank you for the review and sorry to hear of what you experienced after, especially as it seemed as though you were both enjoying conversing etc

Adultwork is quite simply the WRONG platform for her to promote her business and services. It's clear what is and isn't on offer, but it's still the wrong platform.

I feel that she is putting herself in situations that could be misunderstood, dangerous or even worse for her. This shouldn't happen, but sadly not everyone has respect or knows what boundaries are (This is not directed at op)

I agree adultwork seems to be the wrong platform for her to be advertising on but she does state on her profile there would be no genital contact so it's understandable why she did not want to be touched. Even on gumtree adverts that say no sexual services provided you know there is going to be at least a hand job on offer in most cases. I am only surprised she did not drape a towel over you during the massage. If you read her interview where it asks any tattoos or piercings she says N/A  yet you can clearly see a tattoo on her chest ,  then the next question about tattoos or piercings she states "blatant " 

[snoopy]

Weird, she will probably go back to providing HE at least before too long. Sounds up my street so might give it a go. Did the old man react at all while she was working on you and how much attention did she give to glutes and inside thighs?

[NervousJ]

ahhhh mate, i bet you felt like shit afterwards.. i think it's a slight over reaction, she could have politely said no or just removed your hand...

as said, it's a very strange place to advertise for a "normal" massage...

she does look faf though... hope you've not put a  marker on the ice cream van...

[Charliehutton]

Thank you, ILO, for telling us such a cautionary tale. This girl sounds downright dangerous to me.

Adultwork describes itself as the 'eBay of sex!', which she's well aware of, so if she's offering no kind of sexual service, why advertise there? There are plenty of places to advertise legitimate massage, with no risk of confusion.

Why does she feel the need to stipulate that her customers are not at liberty to relieve themselves? The answer, of course, is that she is well aware that any customer responding to an AW advert may well expect some kind of sexual service along the way.

Yet there she is, claiming to be outraged and offended at a hand touching her leg. God knows what else she may be capable of claiming, so she sounds best avoided to me.

[Iloveoral]

Thank you for the review and sorry to hear of what you experienced after, especially as it seemed as though you were both enjoying conversing etc

Adultwork is quite simply the WRONG platform for her to promote her business and services. It's clear what is and isn't on offer, but it's still the wrong platform.

I feel that she is putting herself in situations that could be misunderstood, dangerous or even worse for her. This shouldn't happen, but sadly not everyone has respect or knows what boundaries are (This is not directed at op)

One of the things that has worried me since the meet was there’s going to be a lot more guys out there knocking on her door that may not be as polite, I did mention to her that AW wasn’t the best place to advertise, I also recommend other ways to achieve more for free from google etc,
Hence shocked the next day but happy to respect her wishes, I won’t call again

[Iloveoral]

I think I had this SP on my hot list when she did FS and did contact her but didn’t go to see her as she didn’t offer kissing. Her response seems like a bit of over reaction IMO; surely she could have just mentioned no touching at the time. Good that you have been open about the subsequent contact. 

I do wish I’d have got in whilst fs was on the menu but she wanted me to contact her via kik app that I didn’t have, so it never happened, she is fit as fuck, shame it’s turned out like this

[Iloveoral]

I agree adultwork seems to be the wrong platform for her to be advertising on but she does state on her profile there would be no genital contact so it's understandable why she did not want to be touched. Even on gumtree adverts that say no sexual services provided you know there is going to be at least a hand job on offer in most cases. I am only surprised she did not drape a towel over you during the massage. If you read her interview where it asks any tattoos or piercings she says N/A  yet you can clearly see a tattoo on her chest ,  then the next question about tattoos or piercings she states "blatant " 

Strangely I was sitting on the settee for ages talking to her after the massage still naked, I honestly though she was good with me touching her leg as the conversation was quite sexual, her body, girls she prefers to fuck etc. Maybe I just got the wrong signs sadly, good job I didn’t try to kiss her....

[Iloveoral]

Weird, she will probably go back to providing HE at least before too long. Sounds up my street so might give it a go. Did the old man react at all while she was working on you and how much attention did she give to glutes and inside thighs?

Never got a brush of the cock, twice a genuine accidental touch but that was all, I didn’t get hard at any point though it started to rise a tad when she told me she liked girls and photo of a girl on badoo she was chatting up

[Iloveoral]

ahhhh mate, i bet you felt like shit afterwards.. i think it's a slight over reaction, she could have politely said no or just removed your hand...

as said, it's a very strange place to advertise for a "normal" massage...

she does look faf though... hope you've not put a  marker on the ice cream van...

Mate still feeling shit about it, I honestly though we got on brilliantly, it was so well I actually asked if she wanted to get some food one night, we left and I asked her to send me her mobile, she said maybe with a cheeky face and gave me a cuddle, next days email I was expecting a number not telling me I was disrespectful and by far the worst client that had visited, just so shocked, anyone that knew me would 100% say I’m not like that at all. Will put it behind me but it’s a lesson in life I won’t forget.

[Iloveoral]

Thank you, ILO, for telling us such a cautionary tale. This girl sounds downright dangerous to me.

Adultwork describes itself as the 'eBay of sex!', which she's well aware of, so if she's offering no kind of sexual service, why advertise there? There are plenty of places to advertise legitimate massage, with no risk of confusion.

Why does she feel the need to stipulate that her customers are not at liberty to relieve themselves? The answer, of course, is that she is well aware that any customer responding to an AW advert may well expect some kind of sexual service along the way.

Yet there she is, claiming to be outraged and offended at a hand touching her leg. God knows what else she may be capable of claiming, so she sounds best avoided to me.

Over the weekend I still have had this all going through my mind, we put ourselves in a dangerous situation every meet, it obviously can be very dangerous for the girls out there, but the guys not only stand a chance of being mugged/ robbed/ stabbed you could actually get the wrong girl (not saying this girl ) but she could claim rape etc. I read a few too many blackmail reviews on here, totally not saying this girl is like that, but it’s there to think about.

[gbyld87]

Sounds to me like a deeply conflicted individual.

[Iloveoral]

Sounds to me like a deeply conflicted individual.

Lovely girl, very spiritual, I did think an overthinker but lots of opinions was an interesting chat, into her weed but hey everyone has there thing, mines Asians and she was of that kind.

[Theman1]

Why would anyone advertise on AW if not offering a sexual service. She would treble are income if a HE was offered. Shame.

[PassingBi]

Why would anyone advertise on AW if not offering a sexual service. She would treble are income if a HE was offered. Shame.

Its free and has a large pool of clients?

Clearly states that in her write-up as well as saying no services.

If she didn`t want the OP to touch it should have been made clear the first time physical contact was made.

[Iloveoral]

Why would anyone advertise on AW if not offering a sexual service. She would treble are income if a HE was offered. Shame.

She had the tightest skimpy clothes on too, that didn’t help, the AW ad will deffo get the wrong blokes knocking on her door, and she works from home, Massage bed is in the front room, at night I’m told she does it whilst the kids are in bed

[Theman1]

How did you make contact, via AW? I'm very tempted and will deffo flash the cash, she like everyone else will have a price, they all have a price.

[GingerNuts]

How did you make contact, via AW? I'm very tempted and will deffo flash the cash, she like everyone else will have a price, they all have a price.

Having read this thread and her profile how can you think that's appropriate behaviour?

[badsin]

I'd advise everybody to stay well clear of this one, inviting a whole world of shit to occur.
And she's a silly moo for advertising on AW - just fucking leave it alone 

[MajorPayne]

Its free and has a large pool of clients?

Clearly states that in her write-up as well as saying no services.

If she didn`t want the OP to touch it should have been made clear the first time physical contact was made.

Despite that though punters go on AW for sex and there are multiple examples on Gumtree advertisements stating no sexual services and then giving HE, b2b etc

[Iloveoral]

How did you make contact, via AW? I'm very tempted and will deffo flash the cash, she like everyone else will have a price, they all have a price.

 

Yes matey AW

Good luck with that one 

[Iloveoral]

I'd advise everybody to stay well clear of this one, inviting a whole world of shit to occur.
And she's a silly moo for advertising on AW - just fucking leave it alone 

Couldn’t have put it better myself 

[Iloveoral]

Despite that though punters go on AW for sex and there are multiple examples on Gumtree advertisements stating no sexual services and then giving HE, b2b etc

I too read the ad and admittedly went in hope

[GingerNuts]

Despite that though punters go on AW for sex and there are multiple examples on Gumtree advertisements stating no sexual services and then giving HE, b2b etc

They state that on Gumtree adverts to comply with the terms of use.

On AW any legal sexual activity can be advertised. Perhaps a poor choice but if someone advertises on AW and states no sexual activity you can bet they mean it.

[Mysteriousc]

Anyone know if the location is a coincidence?

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 Reckon it’s the same person as the AW?

[Imp8]

Couldn’t have put it better myself 

Come on Ilo,what's going on here   !!!!
You give her a strong positive....And advise others to see her,YET,you ' couldn't put it better yourself  '  when a fellow op suggests we avoid   !!!!


Men do stupid things,trust me,I have,but why not just politely tell you   '  I don't like to be touched please   ' 
That's all it would have taken,it's not rocket science. You would have backed straight off.

[Iloveoral]

Come on Ilo,what's going on here   !!!!
You give her a strong positive....And advise others to see her,YET,you ' couldn't put it better yourself  '  when a fellow op suggests we avoid   !!!!


Men do stupid things,trust me,I have,but why not just politely tell you   '  I don't like to be touched please   ' 
That's all it would have taken,it's not rocket science. You would have backed straight off.

As a massage and the time during the massage, she was bang on, fit as fuck, sexy nipples poking through her vest (no bra), I could see her Pusey lips through her bottoms, just so sexy, obviously I had the hope there maybe more, there wasn’t.

Badsins comment to stay clear, as it’s could turn into a world of shit, I agree totally, she could have claimed anything, assaulting her, rape, you name it, if she was that fired up over her leg being touched,  and I agree as also mentioned AW is the wrong platform to advertise.

I had my hand on her leg for ages, maybe 10 mins or more, she never said a thing from the off so I though she was good with it, even when I left I thought nice girl I’d seen again, didn’t still see anything had upset her, she even said if you come again make it after 8 when the kids are in bed to save £20 on a child minder, wasn’t u til the next day I hit the crazy email telling me I’m the worst customer ever.

Looking back I do wish I never attended as I took it initially as a massive shock 


And yes 100% had she mentioned anything I would have totally backed away immediately