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Author Topic: The Opposite of the "After-punt Buzz".  (Read 1925 times)

Having had this experience https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=31974.0 yesterday, it's got me  wondering how others react to such a situation.

My feelings when https://www.adultwork.com/2268082 failed to reply to the text we'd agreed earlier in the week that I'd send her when on my way to the  punt, I had a mixture of emotions: anger at her  :diablo: ; frustration at myself for apparently having made a bad selection [again!], although there were no obvious signs that she was going to be a TW  :unknown: ; annoyance that I then found myself in a town where there was no other WG who ticked my boxes  :mad: ; but finally, relief that I still had the £70 in my pocket to be spent elsewhere - if she's a TW, then would her service be any good? :bomb:

Anyone else want to get stuff like this off their chests?


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I always think of the positives RL

Still have got the money in my pocket to spend on another pro$$ie rather than one who cant be arsed to be reply.

Maybe have second punt when your down in old London town this week instead ?

Though travelling back on public transport with an tab enhanced boner must have been a bit uncomfortable in the heat yesterday !

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Still have got the money in my pocket to spend on another pro$$ie rather than one who cant be arsed to be reply.

absolutely - the unbuzz is worse when you've paid, the punt goes shit and you walk out frustrated and a ton down :(

First time it happened, I was really pissed off and couldn't arrange anything else which left me fucking annoyed. It happened again last month, but this time I just let it roll off me, money saved for another day. Neither time had I commenced my journey so it was just the disappointment of not having a punt. I think the first time was my inexperience showing through.

Now I have arrangements with my favourite (you know who she is R L) that if it all goes wrong, I can call her and if she's available (which she usually is as she doesn't see many) in I go. Las tmonth I could have tested the theory but in the end I just couldn't be bothered.

tcm

(A few years ago) the only girl who has ever let me down was Katy of Farnborough. Twice. An incall and an outcall. She's a camgirl only at the moment. Luckily I had backup plans so didn't miss out much on either occasion.

Experiences that changed the way I Hotlist now and I've not had an issue since.

Offline vorian

You make a good point RL, the anger  :angry: from a bad punt or being fucked around can be an equal to the buzz. Of course much worse if you have lost the money or had a long expensive journey. A cure or at least a way of reducing the frustration is of course a UKP review, revenge is a dish best served cold.
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Offline akauya

Like others have said it really is frustrating when this happens, especially if you've taken a tab. It's a shame there are no equivalents to Soho walk ups in other parts of the UK. When shit like that happens to me I usually got to a Soho walk up for a quick pump and dump. Not ideal after all the anticipation of an arranged but failed punt, but takes the frustration off your bollocks at least.


I consciously decide beforehand if I'm going to have a plan B or not now. It doesn't half help when things do go wrong if I've decided to just get on with what ever I was supposed to be doing. I also create a little mental HL of the other girls I could spend the money on. All about controlling the brain.

And when I get home I watch some porn and have a wank.

tcm

I always think of the positives RL

Still have got the money in my pocket to spend on another pro$$ie rather than one who cant be arsed to be reply.

Maybe have second punt when your down in old London town this week instead ?

Oh, trust me, cb; that thought has occurred to me!


Though travelling back on public transport with an tab enhanced boner must have been a bit uncomfortable in the heat yesterday !

You could say that! ;)  It certainly didn't help my mood, I can tell you!

My worst experience was with a WG that I reported on this thread https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=28884.0. It was a busy day for me, so I kept on pushing the boundaries of my time limit ( I usually account for an extra hour after the expected time a punt finishes), I was pretty miffed at the time.

However when I read the title of the thread you started it made me think of my most recent punt, with a lass I've been seeing regularly...the meeting was postponed by an hour (more of an inconvenience, since I was still home when I received the message) and then by another 10 mins (very annoyed this time, since I was outside the apartment), and despite being rock-solid throughout the encounter and cumming wonderfully, the conversation afterwards was really forced, the lass was really self-centered and she kept on playing on her fucking phone all the time 3-4 mins before I left and completing ignoring my existence!   All of this combined left me feeling pretty unsatisfied with the whole experience and it oddly became a bit too 'real', like this was some shitty relationship that I needed to get out of and let's be fair, I don't punt for this kind of experience, I wanted that 'after-punt buzz' and it was sorely lacking after this meet had happened. 


Offline dilettante

I'm hoping to go for a Thai massage shortly then a punt a bit later - haven't got a clue who with, plan A I emailed last night hasn't logged into AW yet, but at least three I can just ring to punt with and I'll get one of them at least, surely most places have enough spare girls like this, trusted girls you know from reviews or previous meets will be OK etc?

I've only had the negative doldrums thing once after I paid £90 for basically a quick shag, not very pleasant but just think that next month you'll be ready for next punt and buzzing but they'll still be a cunt.
« Last Edit: June 14, 2014, 02:02:55 PM by dilletante »

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I always think of the positives RL

Still have got the money in my pocket to spend on another pro$$ie rather than one who cant be arsed to be reply.

Maybe have second punt when your down in old London town this week instead ?

Though travelling back on public transport with an tab enhanced boner must have been a bit uncomfortable in the heat yesterday !

Pretty much sums up how I feel. I think your situation is worse than most because you had the Viagra.

In your situation I guess there's something in the feeling of revenge from a report and the realisation it will likely cost her way more than it cost you and inconvenience her more too (when the likely new profile needs making).

I've had B&S, or my timeslot bumped, or bumped and then B&S in the past and it has made me very cautious about travelling too far to a punt. it ended up pushing me more into parlour punting where I've mostly been ok but you know there will always be a plan B available if the worst happens.

Hopefully karma will reward you and your £70 with something special.


Offline JV547845

I don't want to punt when I'm pissed off, angry and vengeful so I have to wait a bit for the dissappointment to fade before initiating plan B.  That only happens if comms go dead though and I've got it under control anyway.

Offline herbie007

I had one keep me waiting outside her flat for about 10 minutes, even though she gave me the door number and me knocking on her door about half a dozen times, as I was walking back to my car she sent me a text asking where I was, so I went back, once I got inside she told me I could only have a 30 minute meet instead of the hour I booked, and she said the landlord was coming round.

I was already pissed off with her for keeping me waiting but the bullshit landlord excuse was to much so I walked and went to see Maggie 21 instead, this happened a couple of months ago and I still get pissed off when I come across her profile as I really wanted to shag her and I still wonder if she would have been any good.

But looking back at least I got to shag Maggie again.  :rolleyes:
« Last Edit: June 14, 2014, 05:52:23 PM by herbie007 »

I don't want to punt when I'm pissed off, angry and vengeful so I have to wait a bit for the dissappointment to fade before initiating plan B.  That only happens if comms go dead though and I've got it under control anyway.

Its always the quiet ones you have to watch..  :)

Offline SirFrank

I've had a few post punts walk of shames where I couldn't get back to the car quick enough so I could self flagellate in the hope of suppressing my feelings of self loathing. For me it's happened when I should of walked but didn't or the punt was shite and I wished I'd stayed at home, knocked one out and saved myself £100. I usually look at myself in the car mirror when I get it and say to myself - you fucking loser.
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Offline pleasure

I've had a few post punts walk of shames where I couldn't get back to the car quick enough so I could self flagellate in the hope of suppressing my feelings of self loathing. For me it's happened when I should of walked but didn't or the punt was shite and I wished I'd stayed at home, knocked one out and saved myself £100. I usually look at myself in the car mirror when I get it and say to myself - you fucking loser.

Yeah, with my preference for seeing new girls, disinterest in "regulars", and general willingness to take risks, this is a feeling I'm pretty familiar with. I try to look at the lost money as a "research fee". I'm investing it in the future, for the times when the gamble pays off. None of this self-justification really cheers me up much when I get home £70 lighter after a shitty experience, mind you.

Particularly when I started out, I didn't know any better and overlooked some tell-tale signs of disinterested and inexperienced WGs. Now, I make a point of leaving feedback on any bad experiences I have, or when something doesn't live up to the expectations [set in said WG's profile].

I happened upon this forum when looking for redhead/ginger WGs, then saw a few comments about other WGs on a certain site - now I'm very grateful I've been forewarned about a few of them I have/had in my hotlist.

I've had a few post punts walk of shames where I couldn't get back to the car quick enough so I could self flagellate in the hope of suppressing my feelings of self loathing. For me it's happened when I should of walked but didn't or the punt was shite and I wished I'd stayed at home, knocked one out and saved myself £100. I usually look at myself in the car mirror when I get it and say to myself - you fucking loser.

Yep, definitely had this a few times :/

Offline smiths

Having had this experience https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=31974.0 yesterday, it's got me  wondering how others react to such a situation.

My feelings when https://www.adultwork.com/2268082 failed to reply to the text we'd agreed earlier in the week that I'd send her when on my way to the  punt, I had a mixture of emotions: anger at her  :diablo: ; frustration at myself for apparently having made a bad selection [again!], although there were no obvious signs that she was going to be a TW  :unknown: ; annoyance that I then found myself in a town where there was no other WG who ticked my boxes  :mad: ; but finally, relief that I still had the £70 in my pocket to be spent elsewhere - if she's a TW, then would her service be any good? :bomb:

Anyone else want to get stuff like this off their chests?

If i get mucked about i have the same feelings as you. I never travel that far for a punt nowadays, a maximum of a 50 mile round trip by car, and i am usually in that area for other reasons not just to punt, and if i do get mucked about i always have a plan B option.

This limits my annoyance greatly compared to when i didnt punt like this.


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