Pegging

[Fifeboy65]

I have recently been taking my first few tentative steps into the world of BDSM and have found this really enjoyable and exciting and certainly a bit different from the more normal type of meets I have been used to over the years. It probably isn’t something I would go for every time but maybe once every 3rd or 4th session.

So far I have experienced some flogging, pin wheels, wax play, CBT and being restrained and now thinking of trying some anal play and pegging. Not really had much experience of having anything stuck up my arse apart from the occasional finger for a bit prostrate massage so what should I expect? Any tips on anything I should do to prepare beforehand and also what I should be looking for when choosing a lady who offers this service?

[tesla]

have a good clean out and find someone who has some experience, it can make the difference between having something shoved up your arse (i.e. very uncomfortable) and a wonderful sensation

[daviemac]

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[Waterhouse]

If it becomes a regular thing, don’t forget to stock up on Pampers and Huggies for your later years in life. 

[Lou2019]

have a good clean out and find someone who has some experience, it can make the difference between having something shoved up your arse (i.e. very uncomfortable) and a wonderful sensation

with regards to the good clean out, I would recommend a bulb type douche, you can get from Love Honey for about £5

[scutty brown]

I guess what you really need is a girl who will give you a colonic irrigation session first

[Fifeboy65]

have a good clean out and find someone who has some experience, it can make the difference between having something shoved up your arse (i.e. very uncomfortable) and a wonderful sensation

Thanks seems sensible advice, have a couple of ladies who I have met before who I think I would be comfortable trying this with.

[HornyHemel]

with regards to the good clean out, I would recommend a bulb type douche, you can get from Love Honey for about £5

I can highly recommend this one which IMHO is far better than any bulb douche:  External Link/Members Only

Just remember to use it a couple of hours before any backdoor fun!! 

[BRBRBR]

Yes Douche first.

I sugest you try a fisting rather than pegging. The girl can adjust the fingers inserted and find out easier where your limits are.

[filthyscotslover]

"I can highly recommend this one which IMHO is far better than any bulb douche:  External Link/Members Only

Just remember to use it a couple of hours before any backdoor fun!!"


Yikes thats risky. If the shower goes roasting like they do it will be rather unpleasant. You would also find out the water went roasting far later inside you than you would compared to to the water just hitting your skin

[Strawberry]

Yes Douche first.

I sugest you try a fisting rather than pegging. The girl can adjust the fingers inserted and find out easier where your limits are.

Surely you mean fingering and prostate massage, gentle probing?

[Fifeboy65]

I can highly recommend this one which IMHO is far better than any bulb douche:  External Link/Members Only

Just remember to use it a couple of hours before any backdoor fun!! 

Looks interesting, have bought a bulb douche to use ahead of first meeting so will have a couple of practices with that first. If I really enjoy the pegging might invest in something like this.

[BRBRBR]

Surely you mean fingering and prostate massage, gentle probing?

That's good too but I meant up to the wrist.

[mrfishyfoo]

I can highly recommend this one which IMHO is far better than any bulb douche:  External Link/Members Only

Just remember to use it a couple of hours before any backdoor fun!! 

The same thing from the A***** place is about £10 with FOC delivery.

[scutty brown]

this girl has the   right tool

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[GingerNuts]

Yes Douche first.

I sugest you try a fisting rather than pegging. The girl can adjust the fingers inserted and find out easier where your limits are.

That's good too but I meant up to the wrist.

Hardly seems like the place to start for a beginner.

[Waterhouse]

I sugest you try a fisting rather than pegging. The girl can adjust the fingers inserted and find out easier where your limits are.

That’s just bullshit - especially for someone who’s not tried it before. 

Beginners should start off well lubed (water based) with finger (or two) or slim vibe to loosen up (for anal virgins) and then try something like a 4” circ. strapon, maybe 5” girth if comfortable.  Fisting for a first try is plain madness.

[Londonpunter30]

I’ve been doing pegging for years and still not stretched enough for fisting.. start small and work from there.  A hard session with a small toy can be just as good as something larger

[BRBRBR]

Hardly seems like the place to start for a beginner.

A fist to the wrist is rectal bliss!

[GingerNuts]

A fist to the wrist is rectal bliss!

Maybe, but surely it's something you build up to, not start out with.

[BRBRBR]

Maybe, but surely it's something you build up to, not start out with.

Sound advice, indeed.

[MissWolf]

That’s just bullshit - especially for someone who’s not tried it before. 

Beginners should start off well lubed (water based) with finger (or two) or slim vibe to loosen up (for anal virgins) and then try something like a 4” circ. strapon, maybe 5” girth if comfortable.  Fisting for a first try is plain madness.

100% this

[S.X. MacHine]

Trying to think of a light hearted limerick which might be appropriate, but could only come up with this-

‘There’ll was an old bey from Calcutta,
Who greased up his arsehole with butter.
Instead of the roar which emitted before,
Came a soft oleaginous flutter’.

 

[tynetunnel]

Brilliant 

[Punterperson1971]

I tried pegging with a regular and prostrate massage and it’s a lovely feeling I’m still learning the easy way by building up from small to big as that’s what she suggested to do first.
One off the bucket list