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touch.and.go

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Not intentionally, but once when ordering room service I just came out.  But with regulars, do they often move to real name terms?

SugarPuff

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Not intentionally, but once when ordering room service I just came out.  But with regulars, do they often move to real name terms?
Many of my clients have told me their real name on accident and in conversation. I have also stupidly blurted out my name on accident!

Offline J_H

Christain name yes, surname, never. Christian name is such a common one as probably not to matter, and I'd only forget my pseudonym anyway like you ordering the champers!

Offline Bangers and Gash

I tend to pluck a name out of thin air. Although once, whilst slathered in shower gel at an incall I heard her shout from another room, ''Simon! .... do you want a cold drink or something?''

Because of all the exertions previous I completely forgot the name I was using and momentarily went into panic/fight mode thinking some dodgy fucker was in the flat. That little incident probably shaved a month off my life. :D

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Not intentionally, but once when ordering room service I just came out.  But with regulars, do they often move to real name terms?

SNAP!!

About a year ago, I was in Bristol on some work and was booked in a hotel and had some time to kill, so called over a local girl by the name of Paris. Whilst ordering room service over the phone, I gave my real name, only to then realise that I had just mentioned it in front of a WG.

As she was looked such a sweet girl, I thought I'm sure I shall be fine, so without thinking any further and using my wrong brain, I committed a cardinal sin..... No, not Bareback!!!

I showed her my Facebook Page, including details of all my friends, families, work collegues, relatives, etc. That is the only time it has ever happened, as I've done this to any other WG since.

Now and then, I tend to recall that episode, but so far, touch wood, it's been all fine.

PS She did offer a duo, which I was interested in, but it turned out it would be with her sister. I wasn't comfortable with that, so passed on the opportunity.
« Last Edit: June 11, 2014, 05:00:14 pm by CoolTiger »

Offline mh

PS She did offer a duo, which I was interested in, but it turned out it would be with her sister. I wasn't comfortable with that, so passed on the opportunity.

 :lol:

I am surprised she didn't charge you for the duo service you were already getting, what with her sister being a figment of her imagination inside her head.

Offline PatrickCarnes

Have always used my real first name.

JV547845

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No but a couple of WGs have told me their real names.  I have occasionally let my guard down by showing my car number plate, hotel name, pay pal account, regular bank account and home address to various WGs.  I figure those WGs like discretion too though so there's a mutually self-assured destruction situation for me to fall back on, and I probably care less than them if anyone finds out what we got up to.

cockneybstrd

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No but a couple of WGs have told me their real names.  I have occasionally let my guard down by showing my car number plate, hotel name, pay pal account, regular bank account and home address to various WGs.  I figure those WGs like discretion too though so there's a mutually self-assured destruction situation for me to fall back on, and I probably care less than them if anyone finds out what we got up to.

Surely its a yes you have if you have shared that info

No I have not shared my name had one actively go out of her way to find out my name.

potato

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Circumstances of the outcalls etc., means it would be impossible to keep it secret anyway.  I know everything about my reg anyway and she has as much to lose as me so I don't worry about it..


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No but a couple of WGs have told me their real names.  I have occasionally let my guard down by showing my car number plate, hotel name, pay pal account, regular bank account and home address to various WGs.  I figure those WGs like discretion too though so there's a mutually self-assured destruction situation for me to fall back on, and I probably care less than them if anyone finds out what we got up to.

Am surprised you've not mentioned exchanging of facebook Profiles!!!

Offline The High Sparrow

Well my first name though not my surname. wouldn't make much difference because both names are pretty common

JV547845

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Am surprised you've not mentioned exchanging of facebook Profiles!!!

Maybe I should make a punting fb profile lol.  It wasn't all the details to the same one by the way.

Offline Denhamhoop

Have seen a Wg who called me by my real name as she had been to school with me and remembered me.I have to be honest i didnt really remember her from school i can only assume she had blossomed since.The fact her profile claimed she was 10 years younger than me might be a tad suspicious as well

Offline dandaley

yep always use my real name and in fact have a reg as Fb friend , oh yes  :dance:

virgil

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Lots know my real first name.

My current fave gave me her FB details and I was able to look at all the photos that gave me a feel about her adult lifestyle.

Offline herbie007

I tend to pluck a name out of thin air. Although once, whilst slathered in shower gel at an incall I heard her shout from another room, ''Simon! .... do you want a cold drink or something?''

Because of all the exertions previous I completely forgot the name I was using and momentarily went into panic/fight mode thinking some dodgy fucker was in the flat. That little incident probably shaved a month off my life. :D


I just use Herbie now but used to use different names, I once told a girl a false name when I met her, can’t remember what it was now, later during the meet she asked me what my name was as she forgotten, I just shrugged my shoulders as I couldn't remember either and we both just laughed.

Don't think they much care what our names are.

Offline threechilliman

Always use my real name but never revealed my surname. I net my age down into WG years as well using this formula:-

(WG Age+10%)+2=Real Age

No WG will ever work it out  :lol: :lol: :lol:

tcm

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I then booked someone on AW and got a reply, "Hi XXXX". I changed it slightly so that if they look they may think they mistyped.

I used to use a name that was a bit too similar to my real name. Above incident got me thinking so now I usually use a random name and usually forget which one I use so often get asked if I'm Bob/whatever and look puzzled then say yes.

I did once tell some girls my name was Wayne Rooney - I think I have a lot to asnwer for  :P

Bracknell 67

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When I first starting punting many years ago I was Steve but it just felt ridiculous and as I was punting all over the UK while on business I thought as I'd never see these girls again it made little difference if they knew my first name; it's a really common name after all.  Even now that I punt mainly in Berkshire, down South or London I still use my real name; I really have no issue with doing so.   I'm not on FB or twatter and never reveal my surname or personal email address so I'm pretty relaxed about using my real name.
« Last Edit: June 11, 2014, 06:27:04 pm by Bracknell 67 »

Offline mothra

Being the fluffy type I get so turned on when any prossie murmur my name out, even though it's only an act. For me it feels more intimate and I get better orgasm out of it.

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With regulars,yes. As I will travel with regulars, seeing passports etc becomes inevitable.

a10

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I use the same pseudonym all the time, always have. Same "life story" too. Keeping to incalls makes it easier too.

I do remember being round a WGs house, banging her on the living room carpet, when the phone starts ringing. "It'll be fine" she says "the machine will get it." So we carry on and the machine does get it. On loudspeaker. We both then hear the lady from the hairdresser's she's booked in with leave a message for her after confirming her name, first and last.

It was a bit awkward, that's for sure.

Offline ciscoxxx69


I just use Herbie now but used to use different names, I once told a girl a false name when I met her, can’t remember what it was now, later during the meet she asked me what my name was as she forgotten, I just shrugged my shoulders as I couldn't remember either and we both just laughed.

Don't think they much care what our names are.

 :lol: :lol: :lol:

A couple I see know my first name......I think :unknown:

JV547845

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Is it a bigger risk using a false name because if you end up meeting a WG who knows you when you're out with family or work and they call you by your false name you've got some worse explaining to do than `oh yeah, we met online and slept together'.

Offline blackburnian

I use the same pseudonym all the time, always have. Same "life story" too. Keeping to incalls makes it easier too.

Exactly what I do , I also use a name fairly similar to my real one so it's easy to remember.

I have know a good few girls real id's over the years , its amazing how many use their real name to register an email account , leave mail on the doormat, or even  their everyday mobile number ( use a smartphone for punting and whatsaap etc can give some interesting results !!)

Best one I had was an incall where the girl had her slimming world awards plastered all over the toilet wall complete with real name on!

Bb

Offline mattylondon

Not intentionally, but once when ordering room service I just came out.  But with regulars, do they often move to real name terms?
I know the real names of well over half of the prossies I've ever punted more than once. Tends to be when they're nattering about themselves with others and have therefore lowered their guard. To me it's completely irrelevant.

I think some like to believe that it flatters you to know, even though they probably tell everybody else too! It's a question I'm often asked myself by a prossie, so part of me thinks it's a play at getting hold of my name. As I've said previously, I believe that prossies like to equalize the scales and have some 'info' on you.

Even those I've spent social time with have never got to know my real name and they never will.
« Last Edit: June 11, 2014, 07:04:37 pm by mattylondon »

touch.and.go

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I always use my real first name as its fairly common, and I prefer the girls call me by that name rather than a fake name, or even worse, babe (bebe for angelina) or hun. :scare:

Offline blackburnian

Is it a bigger risk using a false name because if you end up meeting a WG who knows you when you're out with family or work and they call you by your false name you've got some worse explaining to do than `oh yeah, we met online and slept together'.

Not necessarily, use a name similar to your real name,then you can simply say they got mixed up.

Bb

cockneybstrd

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Is it a bigger risk using a false name because if you end up meeting a WG who knows you when you're out with family or work and they call you by your false name you've got some worse explaining to do than `oh yeah, we met online and slept together'.

Thats bollocks really. Any half decent pro isnt going to come up to you in public. They should ignore you.

As someone who doesnt give my real name to a lot of Civvy birds I ve shagged. I can tell you its easy to front it out. You stare them straight in the eyes and say sorry you must have the wrong person

Offline mattylondon

Thats bollocks really. Any half decent pro isnt going to come up to you in public. They should ignore you.

As someone who doesnt give my real name to a lot of Civvy birds I ve shagged. I can tell you its easy to front it out. You stare them straight in the eyes and say sorry you must have the wrong person
Yes, that was a load of nonsense. You're more likely to be ignored, as I once saw a girl I'd punted in the Tescos Covent Garden store. A little smile and not a word. As it should be.

They're more likely to be worried about you blurting out something, than the other way around.
« Last Edit: June 11, 2014, 07:35:44 pm by mattylondon »

Offline Cactus

On my first ever punt, about 8 years ago, the escort asked me my name and I niavely blurted out my real name without thinking too much.  Saw her a couple of times thinking this was the best thing since sliced bread.

Fast forward 7 years and I revisit, thought she'd retired, but I saw her advertising on AW and thought I'd give it a go.  It was shit, but that's beside the point.  Anyway, upon arrival, she says I remember you, you're Terry... Fuck!

N.B. Name changed to protect the innocent  :hi:

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On my first ever punt, about 8 years ago, the escort asked me my name and I niavely blurted out my real name without thinking too much.  Saw her a couple of times thinking this was the best thing since sliced bread.

Fast forward 7 years and I revisit, thought she'd retired, but I saw her advertising on AW and thought I'd give it a go.  It was shit, but that's beside the point.  Anyway, upon arrival, she says I remember you, you're Terry... Fuck!

N.B. Name changed to protect the innocent  :hi:

That's an odd name: Terry Fuck    :D

JV547845

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OK Cheers guys, nothing to worry about then :).

charming_red

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Always use a pseudonym. There are some girls out there you can genuinely trust, but for the majority, no way I'd give my real full name.

Keep your guard up, people can track you down now if they wanted to screw you over for whatever reason. Even worse if you use your private number, just look at the bother Panel got into. If your name is common like John, then I suppose you're okay.

Only 1 girl knows my full name and shes left the business anyway.
« Last Edit: June 11, 2014, 07:45:43 pm by charming_red »

vorian

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That's an odd name: Terry Fuck    :D

It's pretty cool though.  :cool:

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cockneybstrd

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I prefer Phil McAvity!  :D

Is it 1990's brit porn names then

I always go by Dr Neil Down

I am sure someone has used Phil Mycock

and the classic Ben Dover

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Is it 1990's brit porn names then

I always go by Dr Neil Down

I am sure someone has used Phil Mycock

and the classic Ben Dover
Indeed!  :D

Rochdull lad

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In the civvy world, I've always been known by my full first name [e.g. "Stephen" - that isn't my first name, btw] and any of my neighbours, say, who called me [e.g.]"Steve" doesn't know me as well as they think they do.

In the world of punting, it's the other way round.  My "punting nickname" is [e.g.] "Steve" and it's only when I've seen a WG quite a few times that I say that I'd be more comfortable with her calling me "Stephen".

Both my current Regulars [I've been seeing one for at least 15 months and the other for twice as long], and a couple of retired ex-Regulars with whom I'm still in contact socially, know my surname.  But, as it's an uncommon surname, a WG would have had to become a real Regular [over a year, say] and someone I felt I could trust for me to mention it to her.

new_punter

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I use my real christian name and it doesn't bother me.

Roland D Hay

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Everyone knows my real name, it's Roland D Hay  :hi:

Offline threechilliman

In the civvy world, I've always been known by my full first name [e.g. "Stephen" - that isn't my first name, btw] and any of my neighbours, say, who called me [e.g.]"Steve" doesn't know me as well as they think they do.

In the world of punting, it's the other way round.  My "punting nickname" is [e.g.] "Steve" and it's only when I've seen a WG quite a few times that I say that I'd be more comfortable with her calling me "Stephen".

Both my current Regulars [I've been seeing one for at least 15 months and the other for twice as long], and a couple of retired ex-Regulars with whom I'm still in contact socially, know my surname.  But, as it's an uncommon surname, a WG would have had to become a real Regular [over a year, say] and someone I felt I could trust for me to mention it to her.

Strangely, I do exactly the same thing. Long version in the real world, shortened version in the punting world. And I have no idea why as it wasn't a conscious decision. I haven't got to the bit where I ask the WG to use my full name.

tcm

yorkshire123

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When i first started this hobby i tried using the old false name trick, i quickly realised that i am inherently thick as fuck & can hardly remember what happened yesterday so i decided to use my real name from then onwards.
Never ever used my last name.

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Offline socks

Real first, that's all I disclose. It would impact quite adversely for me if she used a name that wasn't mine when in the act. Wouldn't go floppy or anything but it's more intense when she says my name as she asks me to fuck her!

Offline latecomer

I've always used my own first name.  Can't see that it's ever caused any problem.  I know the real first name of some WGs and sometimes their surnames too.  They leave things lying around (or at least those that do incalls in their own home do) with their name on.  I don't think that's very wise but presumably they guess that most of us are discreet and more interested in the business in hand, so to speak.

domino131

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I've used my real name with one WG, but it's one that I know is very trustworthy and in fact I believe she goes by her own real first name as well.  Otherwise I've gone with a name that is very close to my real name but much more common.  I sort of get that it's probably a good idea to use a false name, but I feel odd pretending that my name is something else and being called by a different name, which is why I go with something similar.