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Offline sesalovdarlo

My girlfriend of many years is an attractive girl, but doesnt like doing any of the unusual stuff like cim, facials, bjs (now and again), anal, dressing like a complete whore for me. Also iv probably shagged 3 of the best looking girls ever in the past month or 2. One of them a complete stunner of a air hostess , she was 11/10 for me, I met on way back from Ibiza, I couldn't believe it I chanced asking for her email or telephone no and it eventually led to an invite at hers. But If I compare this to a punt of a girl of my choice I would choose punting any day! And it does more for me! the escorts I punt with Are not exactly out of this world!

Is this normal?


Offline mcb

Kudos on pulling the air hostess!

Toshiba

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My girlfriend of many years is an attractive girl, but doesnt like doing any of the unusual stuff like cim, facials, bjs (now and again), anal, dressing like a complete whore for me. Also iv probably shagged 3 of the best looking girls ever in the past month or 2. One of them a complete stunner of a air hostess , she was 11/10 for me, I met on way back from Ibiza, I couldn't believe it I chanced asking for her email or telephone no and it eventually led to an invite at hers. But If I compare this to a punt of a girl of my choice I would choose punting any day! And it does more for me! the escorts I punt with Are not exactly out of this world!

Is this normal?


I shagged an air hostess look at me

And the point of this thread is what?


Offline PlasticGeordie

Oh Holycrosser, you are so good at raining on peoples parades. Dont you ever have any good days ?  :P  If I ever shag an air hostess I would be wanting to share it with the world too .

Offline smiths

My girlfriend of many years is an attractive girl, but doesnt like doing any of the unusual stuff like cim, facials, bjs (now and again), anal, dressing like a complete whore for me. Also iv probably shagged 3 of the best looking girls ever in the past month or 2. One of them a complete stunner of a air hostess , she was 11/10 for me, I met on way back from Ibiza, I couldn't believe it I chanced asking for her email or telephone no and it eventually led to an invite at hers. But If I compare this to a punt of a girl of my choice I would choose punting any day! And it does more for me! the escorts I punt with Are not exactly out of this world!

Is this normal?

Define normal. I like punting assuming obviously the WG is good so couldnt care less whether others think its normal or not. I punt to suit me. I would say if you are spending money you cant afford on punting then it could be an addiction.

denyason

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We're all are addicted to sex..........thats why we're on here rather than playing golf or something else.
we think with our dicks- why else would i punt?  Another rumpy pumpy session with my frankie this week sorted already. 

Offline PlasticGeordie

So why do we punt ?  There are several reasons for me

Simple need for sex- Been married 26 years, The passion has naturally faded and the wife has more or less lost her interest in sex. I havent

Danger element -  The feeling of not knowing quite what you might be walking into on a new punt.  Worry about being spotted by a friend of the wife or a work colleague going into a punt. . All adds to the buzz.

My collecting instinct -  My hi tech version of the traditional " little black book" looks better/more comprehensive with a wide variety of girls.  nationalities/races/ages ( within reason of course !)  sizes (also within reason of course) porn stars/twins/sisters. Realistically only punting offers all these opportunities. Also why a face pic is high on my priorities.

Any other reasons for you guys ?

Offline FLYING BLUE

My girlfriend of many years is an attractive girl, but doesnt like doing any of the unusual stuff like cim, facials, bjs (now and again), anal, dressing like a complete whore for me. Also iv probably shagged 3 of the best looking girls ever in the past month or 2. One of them a complete stunner of a air hostess , she was 11/10 for me, I met on way back from Ibiza, I couldn't believe it I chanced asking for her email or telephone no and it eventually led to an invite at hers. But If I compare this to a punt of a girl of my choice I would choose punting any day! And it does more for me! the escorts I punt with Are not exactly out of this world!

Is this normal?

Seems to me like you are seeking validation - you want to be told it's normal :)

Well, what IS normal?? (as Mr Smith above says) - Everyone is different, normality is a state of mind - if you enjoy it, as indeed, most of us on here do, then carry on, whether it's 'normal' or not - go ahead and enjoy it whilst you still can :thumbsup:

Offline FLYING BLUE

So why do we punt ?  There are several reasons for me


Any other reasons for you guys ?

No woman in my life
Constantly travelling out of the UK
Didn't get much when I was in my Teens or Twenties
Shy - No chance OR interest in the dating scene
Do not get turned on by older women
Only turned on by slim, younger (no older than 35), small busted women
Older gent & overweight - not considered good looking

That about sums it up for me

Online jarrovian

Ha I  think your talking about me there fb

Toshiba

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Oh Holycrosser, you are so good at raining on peoples parades. Dont you ever have any good days ?  :P  If I ever shag an air hostess I would be wanting to share it with the world too .

Maybe im getting to cynical....im bored

Anyhow, ignore me im on me rags

Offline ohfook1t

i take it by you name and profile pic flying blue and your constant travelling you may be an airline pilot? apologies if im wrong but i thought that once your a pilot, no matter of age/looks etc the stewardess's were queing up for jump.. must be just a myth

Offline jonalpha

I think Plasticgeordie is mostly right. In my case my wife went off sex years ago, I wasn't even 30 at the time, and after many years of trying to sort things out I decided that I wasn't going to carry on with no sex on the menu.

I don't have time for an affair and I'm sure that I'd be found out anyway. An hour long visit sneaked in on opportune days seems a far safer option to me.

Offline sesalovdarlo

Seems to me like you are seeking validation - you want to be told it's normal :)

Well, what IS normal?? (as Mr Smith above says) - Everyone is different, normality is a state of mind - if you enjoy it, as indeed, most of us on here do, then carry on, whether it's 'normal' or not - go ahead and enjoy it whilst you still can :thumbsup:

I suppose this is true. The point I'm. Making is I'm not even in my 30s yet, comparing casual sex to women iv met who are up for fun, to paying a girl (even if she's not fantastic looking) to perform the acts I want, I would always choose the latter.

Offline PlasticGeordie

I know exactly what you mean sesalovdarlo, Though I cannot explain exactly why. Its something about the impersonality of sex with a woman I first laid eys on 5 minutes ago. Would need a psycholigist to explain I think. I also have no guilt regarding the wife about seeing an escort but would would feel plenty guilty about having an affair with a regular woman, Again I cant explain the logic of this and I realise my moral stance is on very shaky foundations.

Offline FLYING BLUE

  once your a pilot, no matter of age/looks etc the stewardess's were queing up for jump.. must be just a myth

Oh, if only  :cry: - myth for sure :cool:

Offline Boundless

I know exactly what you mean sesalovdarlo, Though I cannot explain exactly why. Its something about the impersonality of sex with a woman I first laid eys on 5 minutes ago. Would need a psycholigist to explain I think. I also have no guilt regarding the wife about seeing an escort but would would feel plenty guilty about having an affair with a regular woman, Again I cant explain the logic of this and I realise my moral stance is on very shaky foundations.

Agree entirely.
As sex has been off the menu at home for a few years, I too have no guilt regarding the odd punt but would have major reservations re an affair. I tend to think that most moral stances tend to be on shaky foundations, it depends who is doing the judging.  For us, punting is a normal activity but this view isn't shared by the majority of people I'm sure.

Yes, I too get an immense buzz from the inevitability that the girl is going to let you fuck her - you can't beat it imho!
« Last Edit: June 13, 2014, 05:18:30 pm by Boundless »

Offline Greenman

Afairs are too risky for me and complicated in my stressful busy life I can do without
I like handing the folding stuff over for a bit pleasure once a month or so

Offline Spartacus123

My excuse is that I'm a balding hairy arsed Asian bloke, how the hell else will I get to shag young (sometimes) attractive women?  :hi: