Author Topic: Racism/discrimination in the industry  (Read 7297 times)

Offline Name Not Found

Once you've been rejected because of your race it is probably easy to jump to the conclusion that future rejections are based on race too

Which is exactly what I meant; he was prejudiced towards reaching that conclusion

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So you've been obsessing over an escort who in your view has bad communication for 2-3 years?

She has been inactive for a very long time and also I did not have any feedback. I saw she is back to work and I also had a feedback so I managed to get a booking this time. I actually told her I have no luck meeting her.

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Offline Inthehouse1

No evidence of racism here whatsoever and it's illogical to make that suggestion anyway. Why would a SP decide not to see guys of a certain race, refuse to mention it anywhere in her ad's or comms and then proceed to just turn people of that race away at her door? It would fuck her diary (on possibly a daily basis), cause unnecessary traffic in her building and potentially lead to uncomfortable situations on her door step.

Offline nike

I'm not sure that his wrong conclusion was based on prejudice. It might have been based on past experience with other SPs. Once you've been rejected because of your race it is probably easy to jump to the conclusion that future rejections are based on race too when in actual fact it was actually to do with the SP's concerns about lack of discretion.

I would agree with this entirely.


Luckily, never been rejected or experinced something like that ever before.

However, this post indicates otherwise. 
The op has jumped to the wrong conclusion, I.M.O.


No evidence of racism here whatsoever and it's illogical to make that suggestion anyway. Why would a SP decide not to see guys of a certain race, refuse to mention it anywhere in her ad's or comms and then proceed to just turn people of that race away at her door? It would fuck her diary (on possibly a daily basis), cause unnecessary traffic in her building and potentially lead to uncomfortable situations on her door step.

There is no logical to wgs thinking, that has been proved over and over again. I have to disagree with u on this, as I have been discrimiated before by a wg, based on my ethnicity. The wg had nothing on her profile, phoned her from outside her apartment, she must have seen me from her window and told me she doesn't see Asian guys. I posted a negative review.
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Offline Poopster

She didn't explicitly say to not use the lift... no, she just said use the stairs.  "Use the stairs" means "use the fucking stairs". 

She also didn't tell you not to bang her neighbours doors and shout "I'M GOING TO SEE THE ESCORT GIRL IN FLAT XX!" in through the letterboxes.  Maybe any future girls you see need to make that warning too.  And tell you to breathe in and out. 

Offline PunterNumber69

Can we just lock this thread as it's going nowhere and discussion of racism, religion and politics is banned?

Offline Name Not Found

Can we just lock this thread as it's going nowhere and discussion of racism, religion and politics is banned?

It's brought the Poopster back, so it's not all bad  :drinks:

Offline Inthehouse1


There is no logical to wgs thinking, that has been proved over and over again. I have to disagree with u on this, as I have been discrimiated before by a wg, based on my ethnicity. The wg had nothing on her profile, phoned her from outside her apartment, she must have seen me from her window and told me she doesn't see Asian guys. I posted a negative review.

Fair point. I just wouldn't think that the SP here, who is clearly cautious regarding her neighbours, would allow a customer she doesn't want to see to come to her door.

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It's brought the Poopster back, so it's not all bad  :drinks:

NNF, how are you? :drinks:

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She didn't explicitly say to not use the lift... no, she just said use the stairs.  "Use the stairs" means "use the fucking stairs". 

She also didn't tell you not to bang her neighbours doors and shout "I'M GOING TO SEE THE ESCORT GIRL IN FLAT XX!" in through the letterboxes.  Maybe any future girls you see need to make that warning too.  And tell you to breathe in and out.

I did not want to keep writing on this thread as advised by respected senior member (Name Not Found) but let me make it clear. She did not even said "use the stairs only". Her text read exactly "... it's the stairs on your right" Nothing more and nothing less.
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I did not want to keep writing on this thread as advised by respected senior member (Name Not Found) but let me make it clear. She did not even said "use the stairs only". Her text read exactly "... it's the stairs on your right" Nothing more and nothing less.
You're missing the point. Most people wouldn't start two threads on it and then shout racist. I've had girls let me down, stuck a red card in and left it at that.

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I may be wrong reaching to the conclusion for which I apologised twice in the same thread but you think I failed to follow her instructions by using the lift when her message only said  "it's the stairs on your right". She did not say USE THE STAIRS ONLY or DO NOT USE THE LIFT?

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I may be wrong reaching to the conclusion for which I apologised twice in the same thread but you think I failed to follow her instructions by using the lift when her message only said  "it's the stairs on your right". She did not say USE THE STAIRS ONLY or DO NOT USE THE LIFT?

So why didn’t you just put up a review rather than make a drama out of it all?
Instead you send creepy messages begging to see her again.. then when you know she won’t you decide to come on here and continue your obsession with her.  :unknown:

Offline PunterNumber69

I may be wrong reaching to the conclusion for which I apologised twice in the same thread but you think I failed to follow her instructions by using the lift when her message only said  "it's the stairs on your right". She did not say USE THE STAIRS ONLY or DO NOT USE THE LIFT?
You live and learn. No point going on about it. Just don't jump to conclusions.

Move on.

Offline OGS20

I may be wrong reaching to the conclusion for which I apologised twice in the same thread but you think I failed to follow her instructions by using the lift when her message only said  "it's the stairs on your right". She did not say USE THE STAIRS ONLY or DO NOT USE THE LIFT?

The stair thing was a combination of you misunderstanding the intent, the text leaving room for interpretation and you not making it simple for yourself by just following the instructions. You came on here moaning about racism and apologised for it, and rightly so. Now let the thread die and do better next time and eventually it will all be forgotten. There's nothing left to discuss apart from maybe your older thread which is a bit weird and makes you come across as an entitled arsehole. So feel free to address why some poor comms lead you to start a thread about "serious attitude problems" but I don't think it will go well for you.
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The stair thing was a combination of you misunderstanding the intent, the text leaving room for interpretation and you not making it simple for yourself by just following the instructions. You came on here moaning about racism and apologised for it, and rightly so. Now let the thread die and do better next time and eventually it will all be forgotten. There's nothing left to discuss apart from maybe your older thread which is a bit weird and makes you come across as an entitled arsehole. So feel free to address why some poor comms lead you to start a thread about "serious attitude problems" but I don't think it will go well for you.

What's that old saying about the pot and kettle?  :rolleyes:

Offline seeker

I've seen lillywhite years ago ,
She definitely didn't have a problem seeing me
Or providing a decent service
Only saw her once , nice girl
But not my cup of tea.
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Offline OGS20

What's that old saying about the pot and kettle?  :rolleyes:

Shouldn't you be spamming the review board by touting a girl *ahem* sorry warning other punters I mean.
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Shouldn't you be spamming the review board by touting a girl *ahem* sorry warning other punters I mean.

Is that the best you can do?  :lol:

You'd have to be pretty fucking thick to think I was touting, but then again.

I suppose I should reply with something like, shouldn't you be stalking some poor tart *ahem* sorry, trying to arrange a booking?  :bomb:

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I suppose I should reply with something like, shouldn't you be stalking some poor tart *ahem* sorry, trying to arrange a booking?  :bomb:

Never been accused of stalking but don't let that get in the way of a shitty comeback. It's about time you stopped worrying about that, we're all 'pals' now. Let bygones be bygones. Have a good weekend you big shagger you  :dancegirl:
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Never been accused of stalking but don't let that get in the way of a shitty comeback. It's about time you stopped worrying about that, we're all 'pals' now. Let bygones be bygones. Have a good weekend you big shagger you  :dancegirl:

You do worry me.

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Offline Banquo

What a shit show. OP has unfounded allegations about a SP who has refuted the allegations and been open and honest in the past.

Mods? or is it just me?
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Offline mills_and_bhuna

I think if someone tells you to use the stairs there's a reason she's told you to use the stairs.
Otherwise she would have told you to use the lift.
Just as well she sent you packing or she would have had to put an 'out of order ' sign over her chocolate starfish.
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Just as well she sent you packing or she would have had to put an 'out of order ' sign over her chocolate starfish.

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Anyone bringing an empty bbq box to an incall is worth the watching  :lol:

Offline J_H

I am not obsessive at all. As a matter of fact she cancelled my pre-arranged 4pm booking (scheduled a week before) on that day and then told me to come to her place. I actually told her I'd leave it for another day but she said she does not like disappointing others. I felt really embarrassed for this whole situation. Yes she said its the stairs on the right but she did not tell me NOT TO USE THE LIFT. She should not blame me for not follwoing the instructions when she did not warn me not to use the lift.

Moreover if she thought she was in danger she should not have opened her flat door. She actually opened the door and spoke to me for few seconds. She was in black lingerie and was clearly ready to proceed with the booking. Fuck knows what was in her mind...
Still trying to work out why punters need more 'discretion' than WGs - that speaks volumes in itself.

She wouldn't need to tell you not to use the lift, if it had a code you wouldn't normally be able to use it anyway. Hence signpost to the stairs.

Any normal person that is, and that really is the crux of the matter.

Offline Lesdoit

She is right and I am not in the wrong either. It was the bloody lift that caused all this.

I, again, aoplogise to the SP for jumping to the conclusion.

Blaming a mechanical access device for his inability to follow a basic instruction. That's a new one.
In past moons when I actually punted incalls it was standard practice to use the stairs rather than the lift. Nothing worse than getting stuck in a lift with nosey neighbours with that fishy smell on your fingers and that post orgasm grin on your mush.
Besides. I remember her pic from the Daily Outrage at a party. I don't think the op missed out on much.

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Anyone bringing an empty bbq box to an incall is worth the watching  :lol:

That did make me chuckle.

Offline Name Not Found

I don't think the op missed out on much.

Her feedback says otherwise. I think I'd pay more attention to that than to someone who hadn't actually seen her.

Offline J_H

. I remember her pic from the Daily Outrage at a party. I don't think the op missed out on much.
You seem to have 'missed' plenty - going on  2 & 1/2 two years and not a single review.

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Blaming a mechanical access device for his inability to follow a basic instruction. That's a new one.
In past moons when I actually punted incalls it was standard practice to use the stairs rather than the lift. Nothing worse than getting stuck in a lift with nosey neighbours with that fishy smell on your fingers and that post orgasm grin on your mush.
Besides. I remember her pic from the Daily Outrage at a party. I don't think the op missed out on much.

Lesdoit
Member for almost 2.5 years
Not 1 review,
Says it all really.

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Could the conclusion to this thread please be-

"Lilywhitexx, not the best looking but luckily not a racist" because I really hate people to think I would ever discriminate against anyone for their race or anything else outside of their control.
« Last Edit: July 31, 2021, 01:56:54 pm by Lilywhite »

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Could the conclusion to this thread please be-

"Lilywhitexx, not the best looking but luckily not a racist" because I really hate people to think I would ever discriminate against anyone for their race or anything else outside of their control.

Nobody with a brain thinks you're a racist. 


Way too many morons eager to throw that tag around, these days.  Everyone of them far too fucking stupid to grasp what racism actually is.

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Besides. I remember her pic from the Daily Outrage at a party. I don't think the op missed out on much.
So we've established your memory is good.
Do you think you could remember to write a review next time you punt

Offline Samg1984

What did I miss? :O



Foe what it's worth, not had any issues with race or colour whenever I've contacted a wg or masseur


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Luckily, never been rejected or experinced something like that ever before.
These things are sent to try us. I'm still pissed off because a girl went off to get fucked by some black guys after I'd been helpful to her.

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we're all 'pals' now. Let bygones be bygones.
I think you're very much mistaken there "pal" :bomb:

Offline OGS20

I think you're very much mistaken there "pal" :bomb:

30 hours! Not like you at all. You're a roaster, but you're a consistent roaster, and nobody can take that from you.
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30 hrs! Not like you at all. You're a roaster, but you're a consistent roaster, and nobody can take that from you.
Here's me thinking it was more aswell...  :sarcastic:

At least I'm not a bullshitting, backtracking, lying roaster...  ;)
Since day one you have been that... Accusing fellow members of being in cahoots with WGs and filming other punters... All bullshit... I might have had my disagreements with members on here (par for the course) but generally they are in the main legit, unlike you, and I've always been honest and forthcoming...

Bullshitting malicious trolls are always easy to spot though...  ;)


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These things are sent to try us. I'm still pissed off because a girl went off to get fucked by some black guys after I'd been helpful to her.

Lolled.  :lol:

Offline OGS20

Here's me thinking it was more aswell...  :sarcastic:

At least I'm not a bullshitting, backtracking, lying roaster...  ;)
Since day one you have been that... Accusing fellow members of being in cahoots with WGs and filming other punters... All bullshit... I might have had my disagreements with members on here (par for the course) but generally they are in the main legit, unlike you, and I've always been honest and forthcoming...

Bullshitting malicious trolls are always easy to spot though...  ;)

I never tire of hearing you tell this old story, it's grown arms and legs since the last time you told it. One would think such a highly esteemed "FORUM HELPER" such as yourself would be able to make a case for a banning had this been true, and indeed you've been on your knees begging for my dismissal before! I must conclude then, that the mods, much like me, think that you're a right dobber. BUT, a consistent dobber! A reliable dobber. Our dobber.
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I never tire of hearing you tell this old story, it's grown arms and legs since the last time you told it. One would think such a highly esteemed "FORUM HELPER" such as yourself would be able to make a case for a banning had this been true, and indeed you've been on your knees begging for my dismissal before! I must conclude then, that the mods, much like me, think that you're a right dobber. BUT, a consistent dobber! A reliable dobber. Our dobber.
A bit like your constant stories "grow arms and legs"... Its just unfortunate the mods maybe don't know the way you operate over the years -be controversial/malicious , take a break, be controversial/malicious , take a break - rinse and repeat...

I see your nasty streak for what it is, and you've previously done a cross-over elsewhere, relating to a thread on here...

You're right I have reported you previously for the malicious troll that you most definitely are... Changing username as much as your SIM cards ( by your own admission) doesn't hide that... If anyone has any sense, they'll realise when you've been quoted on here previously it shows up...  :)

Of all the wrong 'uns' /returners I've encountered on here over the years, you are the most obvious one, its not even up for debate IMO... Anyone can take from that what they will... The "sympathy card" doesn't work with me :rolleyes:








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I never tire of hearing you tell this old story, it's grown arms and legs since the last time you told it. One would think such a highly esteemed "FORUM HELPER" such as yourself would be able to make a case for a banning had this been true, and indeed you've been on your knees begging for my dismissal before! I must conclude then, that the mods, much like me, think that you're a right dobber. BUT, a consistent dobber! A reliable dobber. Our dobber.

 Excellent  :lol:


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These things are sent to try us. I'm still pissed off because a girl went off to get fucked by some black guys after I'd been helpful to her.


Well with a username like yours, well deserved, obviously  ;). People have been pushed into a canal for less  :rolleyes:  :D

Offline AngelV

Luckily, never been rejected or experinced something like that ever before.

I dunno why you can't just take it on the chin and admit you fucked up instead of coming here baiting racism. Nobody is interested, more so since you've explained how much of a clown you are over and over on this thread 

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