Nice to see I wasn’t the only one who had issues and as I saw her some time after she started I’d guess this is her normal routine. She did all that you experienced and more but no sob story as tbh I wasn’t hearing any of it. She was constantly trying to get out of giving a proper service and drinking throughout.
I wish now I had been more vocal and expressed my dissatisfaction as that may have made her more attentive but overall she’s not one worth seeing.