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Author Topic: My realization and retirement from punting  (Read 7818 times)

FFS ! Is it just me or could this possibly be a female pulling a fast one and laughing her clit off at the fluffiness of the replies?
Why oh why would anyone post that lot on this site ?

Anyhoo,"then suddenly something bad happened" I'm all fuckin ears !?!

Jay

I don't think so, Jay; he contributed to a thread that tcm and I were on earlier this week.  Having re-read his post on there and, since I read your post above, looked at his other posts, I think he's genuine.

Offline Gav Lee

The OP says he wants more than "sex and cheap thrills with unknown women".  That's a pretty good definition of punting IMO and at 27 it's fair enough for him to think its time to think of a relationship instead of punting (or, as had been pointed out, he could always come back to punting later).

I like the comparison between dating sites and AW profiles!  Makes sense.

Offline Bootleg

Although I am in my 40's and shackled many I hear plenty of feedback from younger colleagues about Internet dating and it seems to be becoming the main way for people to meet up. The people who seem to have the most success are those that use the fitness singles site as I guess they at least have one thing in common with the girls they meet.

When I was in my 20's I was not great at dating. I had a couple of long term relationships but found it difficult to talk to women I really fancied. After I starting punting I found myself being more relaxed and so more successful which led in time to a long term relationship.

I started punting again after a long period of abstinence and thoroughly enjoy it. I would miss being in a relationship if I ever split up with the Mrs though.

My advice would be to punt occasionally and maybe go to parlours rather than to indies if there are any near you. I find the act of going to a parlour and knowing that the girl is see is going to be f**king some other punter 15 minutes after I leave stops any EAS developing which often can occur if you see an indie who offers a convincing GFE.


My advice would be to punt occasionally and maybe go to parlours rather than to indies if there are any near you. I find the act of going to a parlour and knowing that the girl is see is going to be f**king some other punter 15 minutes after I leave stops any EAS developing which often can occur if you see an indie who offers a convincing GFE.

Some time ago, I saw a WG [Ludwig knows who I mean ;)] who told me that, although she'd had an AW Profile, she'd let it lapse and had gone back to working in Parlours.  Her reason for doing so was that the working environment in Parlours is less conducive to clients developing EAS for her, which she didn't want, than when she was "Indie" and rented a flat.

Offline dilettante

As I've said before, I only punt as I've given up hope of any more LTRs. 

But a guy of your age - looking to meet the love of his life - finds her - going great - she gets pregnant - ousted in favour of the kid, whoops, there goes the NEXT dream, follows several decades of mundane submission ... Not saying this is bad, just shows the typical mindset of a young man like yourself.

Offline Ben4454

For me punting used to be just a way for me to lose the urge so to speak. I knew from the beginning the punt was going to be fluffier than usual as I wanted to try something 'different' like I usually did on every single punt. 5 hours booked and for the first two hours I wanted to simulate a date and we just talked.. everything was going great - then it got a bit more involved than I got lazy and we cuddled and I felt the atmosphere change. We were drinking a bit too..... kissing quite a lot and holding her I had 30 minutes left and didn't cum and I enjoyed the intimacy more..

I guess this thread is just for guys like me who do want a girlfriend deep underneath and used punting as a crutch to suppress some of those feelings. The worst thing is falling for a escort because you're going to find your bank balance diminish as fast as your self worth.

I will still post here as I really enjoy the forum but I won't be an active punter in the community.

« Last Edit: June 05, 2014, 09:03:44 PM by Ben4454 »
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Offline Jay-Jay

"I will still post here as I really enjoy the forum but I won't be an active punter in the community."

And so you should Ben......and apologies for the cynical attitude but I'd rather ask Mother Theresa about advice on relationships than any of us...and I include myself.....because paying for sex should just be for one reason,to relieve the urge to spaff in what you find attractive,in the way you want,for the time it takes and.........most importantly....walk away afterwards.....First rule of punting.
The reason a lot of posters on here can't stand working girls being referred to as anything other than "prossie" is because they never maintained that perspective when paying for sex.

Jay
 

Online hendrix

You're a human being :) good luck!

Online PumpAction

£700 and you didn't blow your beans?

I'm heartbroken for you.

Offline LL

You've become disillusioned, my friend.
That's why I always take the blue pill before a punt, so I stay inside the Matrix.

Offline LL

I guess this thread is just for guys like me who do want a girlfriend deep underneath and used punting as a crutch to suppress some of those feelings.
I think that many punters are getting more than sex out of punting. The lonely find companionship. The vain top-up their ego.


Everyone to their own.

I think after the initial wave of euphoria,  the punting novelty wears thin. However, after a break, you remember the better ones and this can re-ignite your interests again.

The OP is 27.  I first punted at 45 and it works well for me, for now. As some have said, the GFE is one of culprits of EAS. The PSE is the more detached version, however, when a good WG combines both it can blow you away.  :hi:

Offline Paul31

One of my favourite things I do with my regular wg is cuddle. I love just laying there with her arms wrapped round me and me stroking her back. A great feeling indeed

Offline ulander

By all means give up punting for true love.  But I'll bet a pound to a packet of peanuts that you'll be punting again sooner or later.  Sex and cheap thrills with unknown women - what could be more fun?!  Trouble is, the thrills are seldom cheap.

Offline socks

I went EAS on a lovely girl without meaning to and without doing any of that GFE stuff. While I'm much older than OP the situation sounds very similar. For me it was just one or two unexpected moments that subconciously and then consciously made me realise how much I wanted some relationship intimacy in my life. It took a few weeks for me to properly get it all back in perspective but now I'm back to seeing punts as what they are, fucking great sex with whatever pervy twists I want (when you get the right woman) and relationships as something completely separate.

Give it time OP, in my world view until you meet someone that you want to give up punting for, you're still mixing punting with dating in your mind. Go fuck some really porno babe who'll do all the stuff you love, but who as a person is really not your cup of tea! You'll be fine  :rolleyes:

Quite right Socks.
Whilst they are filthy and moan they are great fun. Especially when they WANT to. But when its over and the grating whiney voice says thank you (for your money) it's good to get the f**k out.
 :D
PP

Offline dave123

I don't think you're strange at all. A relationship and sex with a prossie have absolutely nothing in common. I treat prossie s with respect and sometimes you can have a good conversation but only like a conversation I would have with a taxi driver. In fact that's a good way to think of prossies as they get you to destination satisfaction (sometimes). It has absolutely NOTHING to do with love. At 27 and single  there should be alot of free pussy with and without a relationship. 

Offline socks

I don't think you're strange at all. A relationship and sex with a prossie have absolutely nothing in common. I treat prossie s with respect and sometimes you can have a good conversation but only like a conversation I would have with a taxi driver. In fact that's a good way to think of prossies as they get you to destination satisfaction (sometimes). It has absolutely NOTHING to do with love. At 27 and single  there should be alot of free pussy with and without a relationship.
+1. That's exactly the mindset you need to punt. And using the taxi driver example, you should no more base feelings of affection on a WG's ability to fuck you fantastically, than you should on the taxi driver's ability to get you home safe, sound and comfortably.

Everyone to their own.

I think after the initial wave of euphoria,  the punting novelty wears thin. However, after a break, you remember the better ones and this can re-ignite your interests again.

The OP is 27.  I first punted at 45 and it works well for me, for now. As some have said, the GFE is one of culprits of EAS. The PSE is the more detached version, however, when a good WG combines both it can blow you away.  :hi:

I'm 68 and began punting 10 years ago so I can't help wondering if this thread indicates that punting is an older man's game?

I appreciate the replies wholeheartedly. I agree with the replies in that online dating is a timewaste. I think i might get into single events. I thought I had a hardened heart before the night but i realised now I was into it for the companionship - dangerous road to be on. Although now unlike my teens - My search for love is from a position of strength rather than insecurity.


Hi Ben

try getting involved in an activity where singles hangout like Rock climbing, Dancing (Salsa, Kizomba etc) you would be surprised the amount of ladies you will meet.

Good luck mate :)

Roland D Hay

I'm 68 and began punting 10 years ago so I can't help wondering if this thread indicates that punting is an older man's game?

I don't think so RL, that's rather like saying fucking is an older mans game. I just think we are better able to contextualise punting for what it is as we get older.

Offline potato

I though that the majority of punters were in their 40's 50's and older - that's the time of life where most of us are in a steady relationship of some sorts and we punt to fill the void of no sex or little sex at home.  One of the dangers with punting when you don't have a partner is the greater risk of becoming attached or acting fluffier with the unattainable.  That can be very hazardous to the health of your Bank account.  As has been suggested, I would play the field a bit at your age and find that ideal partner. There is plenty of time later on in life to start up the hobby again when the sex in the relationship dwindles, as you both get older...  Fucking a girl in her twenties when you are in your 40's and 50's is much more fun anyway!   If you feel the urge short term then limit your bookings to an hour or even half hour so that you can concentrate on what you are there for -  and that's getting your rocks off and then fucking off without a care in the world!

I'm sure there are lots of clever girl's out there that like longer bookings for the reasons you have outlined on your 5 hour stint -  they get an easy time with a few hours chat and cuddling up close fluffy style - rather than being fucked senselessly by 5 guys at an hour each for almost the same money. Bet she would love to see you again! 

I like longer bookings 6 or 7 hrs is my norm with my regular girl. You may think I am a hypocrite but I know the score. The difference is that I pay her for the sex time and not the total time we are together. There is no fluffiness as such, we enjoy each others company and the sex is great. There is no way that I would change my life for her, I like it the way it is.

Offline akauya

I'm 68 and began punting 10 years ago so I can't help wondering if this thread indicates that punting is an older man's game?

With all dues respect RL, I beg to differ. I started punting in my late teens and have never forgotten that prossies are prossies and if I ever wanted a meaningful and loving relationshit I would look for it with civvies. What did happen is that once I was "in love" (it happens) my punting stopped, no matter how vanilla the sex was it was the loving relationshit that mattered.

 :hi:

With all dues respect RL, I beg to differ. I started punting in my late teens and have never forgotten that prossies are prossies and if I ever wanted a meaningful and loving relationshit I would look for it with civvies. What did happen is that once I was "in love" (it happens) my punting stopped, no matter how vanilla the sex was it was the loving relationshit that mattered.

 :hi:

You lucky lad, akauya!  I was so screwed up in my teens & 20s by my disability and my Catholic upbringing that I'd never have thought of looking for a prostitute to pop my cherry.  It wasn't as easy to find one in those days.

I guess my earlier post was conditioned by my experiences [or lack of them. :( ]  On reflection, I think Roland was right when he wrote:
I just think we are better able to contextualise punting for what it is as we get older.

Offline Adele Bella

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With all dues respect RL, I beg to differ. I started punting in my late teens and have never forgotten that prossies are prossies and if I ever wanted a meaningful and loving relationshit I would look for it with civvies. What did happen is that once I was "in love" (it happens) my punting stopped, no matter how vanilla the sex was it was the loving relationshit that mattered.

 :hi:

So what happens if you find yourself falling for someone on "civvy street" and then you find out that she is/was in fact a prossie? How would you handle that situation?


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