Firstly, as sad as this all is, and I feel sorry for the guy, but.....what the fuck was he thinking? Does anyone really send over $200K to another person in a 3rd world country to buy an apartment, without at least checking the market value or sold prices of similar apartments in the locality? Surely, after all these trips over there, he must have looked at some estate agent windows, or equivalent, and got a fair idea of how much an apartment costs in that city?
Secondly, years ago I had a tenant who stopped paying me rent. He was a lovely English chappie, and one day he rang me and apologised and explained that his Russian wife of a few years had left him. She had waited till she got permanent residency in the UK, and then told him that their marriage had been a sham all along, and she had a Russian bf back home all this time, who she was now going to bring over. He was heart-broken, and moved out of my property.
Women, love, lust, dreams, loneliness......a dangerous combination.