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CoreyG

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Hello,

I would appreciate any help you can give me.

I have no experience with women and also I am uncomfortable with my body.

Since I am horrendous at romantic advances. Escorts have always had an allure. Specifically the illusionary relationship where I wouldn't have to worry if they like me, for it would be a transaction.

Naturally I have many questions but I will make this concise.

1. Would it be weird if all I ended up doing was talking to the woman. (Like I said this is all new and I would be very nervous)
2. Are these issues odd or unusual. (It doesn't matter to me but the woman might find it weird).

That's all for now. Thanks in advance.

Regards,
CoreyG

Offline gorge

If you worried - don't be - I can't think of any WGs who wouldn't mind earning their money just for chatting - no it's not weird - just look at the other posts on here to see what weird is!

Also most wgs are very accomodating of unexperienced punters - just make sure your cock is clean and you don't smell. Pick a girl in her late twenties/ thirties.

Offline Jimmyredcab



Naturally I have many questions but I will make this concise.

1. Would it be weird if all I ended up doing was talking to the woman.

Not weird but certainly a complete waste of money, the girl will not complain though, they love getting money for nothing.   :hi:

vorian

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No and no as long as you pay.

Offline NIK

Op is either a troll or an ideal client for most prossies.
Paying them to talk indeed!   :unknown: :wacko:

Offline CBPaul

No to both but be careful who you choose.

Going for a more 'experienced' prossie will increase your chances of being put at ease and doing more than just talking. Opting for a sexy looking young EE prossie will probably end in disaster. Of course you can always put links here and get plenty of advise.

Don't worry about your body, it is the £ that count. I took 18 months off from punting during which time I packed up smoking and put on too much weight. When I restarted I felt a little self conscious about the extra tub and wondered if I should book the type of prossie I tended to before. No surprises, it made bugger all difference. 5 minutes in and she was riding me senseless. 

Offline daveev

I guess we all have out different likes, maybe he just wants there company for a chat and a cuddle, and as for a waste of money, if he has millions £150 wont mean anything to him, it only seems a waste when we don't have a lot,

cockneybstrd

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If the OP is for real and he really cant speak to women. I would suggest he sorts out this problem first.

However I would also suggest he has look for AW and looks for a pro$$ie that offers social meetings at a reduced rate. It will probably give him a ego boost he might learn how to chat to women and feel more comfortable in his own skin.


vorian

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OP what area are you looking at punting in.

Offline CBPaul

If the OP is for real and he really cant speak to women. I would suggest he sorts out this problem first.

However I would also suggest he has look for AW and looks for a pro$$ie that offers social meetings at a reduced rate. It will probably give him a ego boost he might learn how to chat to women and feel more comfortable in his own skin.

Alternatively, and contradictory to my earlier post, he could go for a fresh EE girl. She won't be able to converse so no problems with getting tongue tied. Plus, it doesn't leave a lot else to do in the hour. I quite like this approach sometimes, if they can't speak English then they have one less way of wasting time  :D

Offline Daffodil

Op is either a troll or an ideal client for most prossies.
Paying them to talk indeed!   :unknown: :wacko:

I'd pay most of them to shut up  :D

dilettante

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I think there comes a point when romantic horny daydreaming gives way to cold-light-of-day practical nerves - I was very like you for my first punt, not knowing how to react etc, but I was determined to go through with it, and whenever I find myself wavering now I remind myself of that.  Why have you decided to do this, do you doubt the courage of your convictions,  why etc ...

cockneybstrd

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Well the OP has been on line since his posting. If he was for real I would imagine he would have commented on the responses.


Offline NIK

Well the OP has been on line since his posting. If he was for real I would imagine he would have commented on the responses.

Remember he's shy!  :rolleyes:

vorian

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Well the OP has been on line since his posting. If he was for real I would imagine he would have commented on the responses.

Yep, just another one of those one post wonders.  Well maybe some lurkers picked up on the advice,  so.........

Offline tantric talents

Remember he's shy!  :rolleyes:

Or just left his machine logged in and buggered off out?

cockneybstrd

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Yep, just another one of those one post wonders.  Well maybe some lurkers picked up on the advice,  so.........

Well I was going to offer him the bespoke UK Punting 'Man Up' service.


Offline Matium

Hello,

I would appreciate any help you can give me.

I have no experience with women and also I am uncomfortable with my body.

Since I am horrendous at romantic advances. Escorts have always had an allure. Specifically the illusionary relationship where I wouldn't have to worry if they like me, for it would be a transaction.

Naturally I have many questions but I will make this concise.

1. Would it be weird if all I ended up doing was talking to the woman. (Like I said this is all new and I would be very nervous)
2. Are these issues odd or unusual. (It doesn't matter to me but the woman might find it weird).

That's all for now. Thanks in advance.

Regards,
CoreyG

You'll have to tell us what part of the country you're in for recommendations.

As you're a newbie, it'd be best for you to start off with half hour punts which shouldn't cost you more than £80.

Don't pay to talk to a prostitute. If you're completely inexperienced, watch Lukey, External Link/Members Only, he films his encounters with real prostitutes.

It'll give you some ideas.

Above all, it's your money, you're in charge so relax.

Rochdull lad

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Don't pay to talk to a prostitute. If you're completely inexperienced, watch Lukey, External Link/Members Only, he films his encounters with real prostitutes.

It'll give you some ideas.

Above all, it's your money, you're in charge so relax.

If the OP ever logs on again and checks that link, Matium, I should think that even he will quickly get the idea of what WGs are there for! ;)

Offline tantric talents

You'll have to tell us what part of the country you're in for recommendations.

As you're a newbie, it'd be best for you to start off with half hour punts which shouldn't cost you more than £80.

Don't pay to talk to a prostitute. If you're completely inexperienced, watch Lukey, External Link/Members Only, he films his encounters with real prostitutes.

It'll give you some ideas.

Above all, it's your money, you're in charge so relax.

What a great money spinner. Bet Lukey is making more from the site than the WG's are!

Candy Squirts looks hot. Anyone seen her? Can't seem to reverse image a useful link

External Link/Members Only

External Link/Members Only

CoreyG

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Hello.

Thanks everyone for the overwhelming response I am very grateful for the welcome I have received into this community. And sorry I was at work so I couldn't respond sooner.

I appreciate this was unusual. I can have a conversation with women but beyond that... it's problematic.

I live close to Watford so any surrounding areas (up to 15-20 miles out) I would consider travelling to.

Should I use Adultwork. I am concerned none of the women will trust a new member.

Thanks
CoreyG

CoreyG

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Big thanks to Matium and cockneybstrd.

vorian

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I would suggest using AW but most importantly in conjunction with UKP.  That will help you find a good WG to ease you in.

If you want recommendations,  the best thing to do is give detailed information about what you are after,  budget, looks,  kinks. No point being coy,  if you find a AW prossie you are interested in post the link and ask for opinions.

Best you can do in the long term is read old threads on UKP,  pretty much everything has been covered at some point.

Offline Dani

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Whoever you choose to see by all means tell her you are nervous and inexperienced (may of us are quite used to this and have ways to make you relax) but under no circumstances say as you are nervous you are happy to sit and talk as some not very professional women would make sure this is all you do and no one needs to pay just to sit and talk to someone.
A good prossie will set you at ease  and then just start gently kissing you as it is quite hard to still be nervous when someone is kissing you

As has been said before don't book longer than 30 minutes for your first booking as you don't know how you will feel about it or whether you will enjoy the girl and if you do enjoy yourself you can always book longer next time if needed.

Offline ForrestGump

I'm sorry if I'm repeating anything here: As discussion is a key part of your meeting with a girl make sure you choose one whose native language is English. I say that because, in case you aren't already aware, there are loads of Eastern European girls working all over the UK and their command of English is not always that great.  ;)

cockneybstrd

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Well Corey G

If your in Watford then your 20 minutes away by train to the best city (or the worst city depending on your perspective) to pursue whores in the world.

What kind of birds do you fancy in the real world. How much money are you up for spunking so to speak

Then we can all have a few suggestions for you


Offline Jimmyredcab

I guess we all have out different likes, maybe he just wants there company for a chat and a cuddle, and as for a waste of money, if he has millions £150 wont mean anything to him, it only seems a waste when we don't have a lot,

If he has millions I doubt he would resort to pro$$ies, the gold diggers would soon find him.  :hi:

Offline threechilliman

(may of us are quite used to this and have ways to make you relax)

I've found that having a WG suck my cock usually makes me relax, and pretty, damn quickly too....

tcm

James999

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Hello,

I would appreciate any help you can give me.

I have no experience with women and also I am uncomfortable with my body.

Since I am horrendous at romantic advances. Escorts have always had an allure. Specifically the illusionary relationship where I wouldn't have to worry if they like me, for it would be a transaction.

Naturally I have many questions but I will make this concise.

1. Would it be weird if all I ended up doing was talking to the woman. (Like I said this is all new and I would be very nervous)
2. Are these issues odd or unusual. (It doesn't matter to me but the woman might find it weird).

That's all for now. Thanks in advance.

Regards,
CoreyG

Ring the Samaritains, it will be cheaper and they will be more sympathetic  :hi:

Offline Jimmyredcab

Ring the Samaritains, it will be cheaper and they will be more sympathetic  :hi:

+1.    :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

pleasure

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Ring the Samaritains, it will be cheaper and they will be more sympathetic  :hi:

-1. Last time I rang the Samaritans and asked them to talk dirty to me, the bastards hung up.

CoreyG

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That's handy cockney!

I would consider spending up to £200/hour, Is that reasonable? Of course less if preferable since it may not be my last visit.

I am open to any suggestions but I typically like slim, blonde or black hair. And honestly I do like big boobs.

Thanks for using your time to help me, your advice is invaluable.
CoreyG

Rochdull lad

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-1. Last time I rang the Samaritans and asked them to talk dirty to me, the bastards hung up.

You obviously weren't talking about your feelings, pleasure! ;)

Rochdull lad

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That's handy cockney!

I would consider spending up to £200/hour, Is that reasonable? Of course less if preferable since it may not be my last visit.

I am open to any suggestions but I typically like slim, blonde or black hair. And honestly I do like big boobs.

Thanks for using your time to help me, your advice is invaluable.
CoreyG

What about the age group, Corey: Younger?  Older?

Remember what gorge advised earlier on in this thread; you might be better starting with a WG a bit more experienced [late 20s/ early-mid 30s] than you might originally have thought of going for.  And that's because they will have had experience of nervous newbies.

jcdmj12

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If OP wants to pay to talk to a woman, may I suggest a therapist?  They are actually trained to talk to you in a way that will help you along, and are considerably cheaper.

If, after all that talking, you still want a shag, by all means book a WG.


jcdmj12

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Op is either a troll or an ideal client for most prossies.
Paying them to talk indeed!   :unknown: :wacko:

I pay precisely so I don't have to talk to them, beyond the 10 minutes or so between-rounds pillow talk, which is just about tolerable.  Being able to just leave when I'm bored is something I cherish dearly about seeing WGs. For some reason girls on civvie street get offended when you do it.  And they never find my reassurance of "I like you, honestly I do, it's just that I like silence more right now" to be very comforting for some reason.  :unknown:

« Last Edit: June 02, 2014, 10:18:25 pm by jcdmj12 »

Offline Bigus Dickus


Don't pay to talk to a prostitute. If you're completely inexperienced, watch Lukey, External Link/Members Only, he films his encounters with real prostitutes.
It'll give you some ideas.

It's given me some ideas too, like I am in the wrong fucking job and how many of them are going on my hot list!
 :wackogirl:

CoreyG

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Rochdull lad I do not mind what age however I agree with the twenties/thirties recommendation.

I know it's daft to just want to talk but I may not have the courage to go further initially. But I feel visiting these women will boost my confidence.

CoreyG

CoreyG

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Also will they trust a new member on Adultwork?
Any tips?

Thanks everyone.
CoreyG

vorian

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Also will they trust a new member on Adultwork?
Any tips?

Thanks everyone.
CoreyG

Some will, some won't again all depends on the girl. As you are understandably quite vague, have a look at the SE and London review section and see if anyone interests you. Berkshire is also well serviced with good prossies.

Offline CBPaul

Also will they trust a new member on Adultwork?
Any tips?

Thanks everyone.
CoreyG

AW is your best option IMHO, especially if starting out. One or two might not take a booking from a newbie but the vast majority won't care.

For Christ's sake though, go for one with some experience and don't be afraid to admit you're new to it all. She'll soon figure that out anyway.

CoreyG

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I'll get searching vorian. Which is preferable incall or outcall?

vorian

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I'll get searching vorian. Which is preferable incall or outcall?

Imo incall is best, unless you feel you would be more comfortable in your own home.

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That's handy cockney!

I would consider spending up to £200/hour, Is that reasonable? Of course less if preferable since it may not be my last visit.

I am open to any suggestions but I typically like slim, blonde or black hair. And honestly I do like big boobs.

Thanks for using your time to help me, your advice is invaluable.
CoreyG
£200 an hour just to talk, the prossie will laugh all the way to the bank. I pay them not to talk.