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Offline RedAlertTourist

Hello people

Really I needed a multiple choice question/poll with this thread.

There is a saying that there are those girls you fuck- and those you have kids with.
Its no secret that with longer term girlfriends there seems to be a drop off in sexual activity (familiarity breeds contempt maybe?), due to boredom, routine, one or the other partner not desiring their partners new look (Man gets beer gut, woman cuts hair short and puts on weights, having kids, erectile dysfunction, female dryness etc), relationship arguments, incompatability issues or general complacency and lack of excitment or spark in said relationship.

I am currently single myself (more out of choice though  :blush:) and have never really "desired" a girlfriend based on observations of other people.
Sure I enjoy hanging out with pretty ladies at social gatherings in clubs and do envy guys who attractive girlfriends BUT I am not in the mood for everything else that goes with it.

If anything I enjoy "rock star" sex and the thrill of Escorts too much- as well as having choice not many average guys get (or are aware of) when it comes to being picky with a womans statistics such as age, face, hair colour, dress size, height, beauty, ethnicity or getting a woman to act out a fetish/fantasy willingly and professionally (school girl outifts, latex, thigh high PVC Boots, lingerie).

Back on point. If I were to have a girlfriend of 1 year or more (not exactly long term 1 year but enough for the "6 month fizzle" to die down) how often do you have sex with your partners.

Also for the brave. Do you use Escorts to fill the void in a limp sex life with said girlfriend
« Last Edit: June 15, 2011, 07:35:21 pm by RedAlertTourist »

Offline Matium

You need to add more options:

2 times a year

1 time a year

0 time a year

will all get many votes.

There are a lot of marriages where the husband and wife are more like brother and sister and sleeping together is exactly that - sleeping together.

Offline RedAlertTourist

You need to add more options:

2 times a year

1 time a year

0 time a year

will all get many votes.

There are a lot of marriages where the husband and wife are more like brother and sister and sleeping together is exactly that - sleeping together.

Done.

I've heard that common complaint "we're more like brother and sister", "I consider ourselves to be just friends".

Sexless marriages- or even boyfriend/girlfriend relationships are very commonplace. Thats why I could never enter one- once my needs aren't being met why bother?

Well i think you are fully showing that not only are you not in a relationship you are showing you havent had the experience of being in a good one ever .

Its not the same as visiting wg's or indeed fuckbuddies .
Its a shame if you have not had the experience of a long term relationship  or  marriage and i feel sorry for you .

Dont get me wrong i have one and a fuckbuddy off and on and visit some girls on here ,but if i could only have one i would still be married  ;)

Tony Montana

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Maybe once or twice a month if that.

Since my second child was born, quite a few years ago now, we rarely have 'proper' sex.  It's more like mutual masturbation and done to quickly satisfy an urgent need, rather than any other reason.

Offline RedAlertTourist

Well i think you are fully showing that not only are you not in a relationship you are showing you havent had the experience of being in a good one ever .

I don't deny that- at all.

Unless you know my personal circumstances you'll know that I have never "loved and lost" like a lot of guys- so therefore I have no idea of what its like to be in a relationship.

Thats not tragic as I have had many girls practically begging me for a relationship in the past, I have had passionate kisses before during and after Nightclub visits, I've had one night stands etc BUT never a girlfriend out of choice and other reasons.

Its not the same as visiting wg's or indeed fuckbuddies .
Its a shame if you have not had the experience of a long term relationship  or  marriage and i feel sorry for you .

Why oh why- would a guy want to visit an Escort in that case?

More to the point- why choose hot young, statistically desriable women Escorts versus (say) women int heir 30's and 40's?

In fact why visit Escorts AT ALL if you are happy with such long term relationships

A relationship is much more than a passionate kiss and sex
but if youve never experienced it you wont miss it eh ...

Offline enzio

Once a quarter is not up there which is the one I would choose in the past year.  However, for the 3 years prior I think we did it once.

If the guys on here are unhappy with there relationship at home why do they stay ????

 Dont give it the money or kids bit if its that bad and being single with working girls and fuck buddies is better just leave ....

Remember

ONE LIFE JUST LIVE IT

Mooney

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once a month and that is not always the case. The wife said she wanted to be a nun when she was a child and she fucking lives the life of one  without the habit!!!!!!!
 :dash:

Offline Matium

If the guys on here are unhappy with there relationship at home why do they stay ????

There's more to a marriage than sex. A lot of people stay together because of the children or because they are afraid of being alone. A lot of men truly love their wives and would never contemplate leaving.

Offline Matium

The two guys who voted that they have sex with their wives 7 times a week are just complete fantasists!

If you're getting so much sex from your own wife, why would you ever go and see a prostitute?

It just doesn't make sense.

:)

It actually says how often do you sleep with them not how often you have sex............

Offline GlasgowGirl

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I agree with WaW - I think it's a shame RLD that you have never loved. But as long as you are really happy with that.

Circumstances change, priorities change, people change - therefore relationships change. A long-term relationship is supposed to include compromise. There are many ways to fix any problems with sex in a relationship rather than just leave. And there is more to marriage than sex. OBVIOUSLY.   

dr_techno

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Hi

Me (45) and my wife (fit) (50) treat sex the same as everything else in our organised life.

So we have sex on wednesday and friday at 7pm and sunday morning when we wake up :-)

Its like going to the gym, you dont want to go but when you make the effort its enjoyable when you are there !

Then I may see one of my young girls (19-23yrs) once a month.  THE ICING ON THE CAKE!!!!

Simples...... :D

Mooney

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There's more to a marriage than sex. A lot of people stay together because of the children or because they are afraid of being alone. A lot of men truly love their wives and would never contemplate leaving.
well the kids are the only reason for me

Offline Matium

Hi

Me (45) and my wife (fit) (50) treat sex the same as everything else in our organised life.

So we have sex on wednesday and friday at 7pm and sunday morning when we wake up :-)

Its like going to the gym, you dont want to go but when you make the effort its enjoyable when you are there !

Then I may see one of my young girls (19-23yrs) once a month.  THE ICING ON THE CAKE!!!!

Simples...... :D

Your wife knows you see prostitutes?

Does she see young men?

Mooney

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If the guys on here are unhappy with there relationship at home why do they stay ????

 Dont give it the money or kids bit if its that bad and being single with working girls and fuck buddies is better just leave ....

Remember

ONE LIFE JUST LIVE IT
I have seen kids all screwed up when there dads f....d off, so I wont abandon my  kids.
Coming from a broken home I can assure anyone one that from a personal point of view having a empty seat where your dad sat is a real pisser. Most women i know deny there separated partner their rights to see their kids and poison them against him.
So just leaving is not always an option for some of us

dr_techno

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Your wife knows you see prostitutes?

Does she see young men?


No she does not know.

Its secret icing !!!  lol.


Offline Matium

Most women i know deny there separated partner their rights to see their kids and poison them against him.
So just leaving is not always an option for some of us

That is true.

Women are absolutely vicious in a divorce and will fill their children's head with hatred for their ex.


Offline mike11

One should not mix sex and long term relationship.  No matter how gorgeous a woman is, sex becomes boring after a while.  I am just bad as any long term partner I have had when it comes to sex.  The only difference is that in early days looks were very important in choosing a partner but that changed.  It think if you like your partner it is important to keep her happy specially if she, unlike you, does not punt.  That is if you love her.  So I go out of my way to show that I am sexually interested in her.  I also complain if we don't have sex for too long to let her know I desire her.  In reality I am not that bothered.  Monogamy just does not work these days.  I would however prefer that my partner is monogamous as I think it would be difficult for women to separate sex and feelings the way a man can.   I can always have sex and walk away no matter how appealing I find a woman/WG.


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